Can I learn how to be a social animal and seduce girls?

hunterpua · 2020-06-20T19:16:38+00:00

BUT I am SHY AF when I comes to talking to girls. I already tried Cold approach but every time I pussy out and feel very bad about myself afterwards.

For now.

I started meeting girls around your age and I was way worse. I pussied out for a year before I finally got my shit together and now 10 years later I have a girlfriend I adore and when I'm single I'm always seeing multiple women without having to lie to any of them about that fact.

You know what my early years taught me?

They taught me that a lot of the reason why I was so nervous was because I was so scared of proving myself wrong.

You see, I also had a high opinion of myself.

I thought I was the type of guy that girls would feel lucky to be talking to.

So when it came time to test that theory I was horrified because I realized that there was a very real possibility that I was just delusional and that I wasn't actually as appealing as I thought I was.

This shows me that you could be thinking the same way:

I think I automatically attract some girls when I go out. - I have a pretty confident walk and I am kinda confident with the boys in school

My advice to you - understand that your current opinion of yourself, at this time when you've barely dated, is basically as valid as trying to predict what the weather will be like next week.

And go into interactions assuming that you don't know how attractive you are...because you don't.

2020-06-20T18:51:52+00:00

Hey man it seems you’re alright good body average grades you’re in high school you’re 17!!! These things take time man eventually you’re gonna have to go past the anxiety and start talking to girls. Forget the small goal think about the end. Think about if you stsrt now by 18 you’ll be good by 20 you’ll be pimp af and you have your whole twenties to bed multiple women if that’s what you want or find a girl. Just do it bro you’re young but times goes by fast so do what you want to do

quinnmcd · 2020-06-20T18:58:08+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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Title	Can I learn how to be a social animal and seduce girls?
Author	living_freedome
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	June 20, 2020 6:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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