Hey Seddit!

As the title says, I need to relearn how to close again.

Backstory: I'm at 26 yo male who got out of a very long term relationship around a year ago (I feel like I still treat girls in this mindset sometimes).

The Problem: I've gotten a lot better at kissing girls. This department I'm not having too much of a problem in. But I can't seem to completely close the deal. Im getting a lot of rejection, I think maybe they want to take it slow and I'll see them again and it never ends up happening.

I even have them in bed sometimes and I'll get something like: "I don't want to sleep with you tonight." Etc.

What's the best way to overcome this hurdle?