How to be confident around hot girls who are of the background you've had a lot of bad experiences with?

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-06-29T15:13:30+00:00

Same way you get over attractive girls you gotta desensitize yourself. In your case you just have to learn to flip a switch in your head when you're around Latina looking women.

For example there was a period where I wouldnt mess with Asian girls cause of an ex. It did a similar thing as you and I got through it by reminding myself this girl isnt her and to get over myself. I'd basically mentally punch myself when the resentment naturally bubbled up. Then I was good to go.

Over time you will develop your mental muscles and catch yourself when you're starting to feel like your swagger is draining. Then you just mentally punch yourself and recover.

It will take time because you have to actually practice it and yes lose out on girls.

So_Forlorn · 2020-06-29T16:00:59+00:00

Hmm. I wonder if porn has something to do with this. If it does, I would advise not to watch it anymore or at least not porn that has these specific types of women in it. Porn kills your confidence. It makes these women of particular interest into sexual objects rather than regular people and it seems to be more of a subconscious problem rather than a deliberate one.

2020-06-30T00:28:19+00:00

You sound like you are walking on egg shells even on the reddit thread. Grow a pair

Title	How to be confident around hot girls who are of the background you've had a lot of bad experiences with?
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Date	June 29, 2020 1:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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