I’m somewhat new here, but not new to game. As I read the main page, I see a myriad of posts that are all pretty similar in the realm of “this chick said or did xxxx, what do I say/do?”

I want to introduce the newcomers that may have many questions like this to a new concept.

The power of silence.

As boys, we were always taught that ignoring or not responding to somebody is rude, couple that with the pedestal most guys place women on, and it’s no wonder they’re quick to respond to every comment she texts or says to you.

If a woman says something to you, and it’s enough to actually make you think “what do I say to this?”...don’t say anything. At least not immediately, if at all.

Don’t believe me? Try it.

Here’s why it works: when a woman is extremely interested in you, she’s going to make it extremely easy. I’m talking no resistance to dates, escalation, sex whatever. She’s a yes girl.

When she’s so-so on her attraction, she wants to test you. Almost in a “can you handle me” type of way (read: shit testing for more). Don’t get me wrong, when these tests happen, the best response is a witty, well placed one. The second best response however, is nothing.

Say nothing and watch how she will back pedal. How she will become easier to work with. How she will start making things easier for you, easier for you to game her.

The silence introduces a foreign concept into her mind: the idea of a man that isn’t supplicating. This is hot to them. I’d wager 80-90% of men will respond to everything a woman says with either agreement, apology, or a lame joke, even if what she said makes the mans blood boil. Don’t be like those guys.