I apologize in advance for the length of my post.

I had been messaging back and forth with a woman on an online dating site, and we set up a date to go for dinner. She winds up telling me that since parking is so crazy around her house, we should just forget about dinner and have a glass of wine at her place, and watch a movie.

I get to her house - she had not been exaggerating about the parking, it took me 15 minutes to find a spot a 10 minute walk away - and she is hanging out in her living room with a female friend, drinking wine. Between the two of them, they had drunk nearly an entire bottle, after I had a class, they asked me if I wanted to walk to the store then to buy another since they were out.

We opened this bottle and after another round, her friend said that she was going to go home, as she had to work early in the morning. Me and the girl remain behind, after talking and sharing more wine she offered to let me stay tonight, but gave the typical disclaimer of "we are not going to have sex tonight".

So we get undressed down to our underwear, she won't take off her tank top and panties. everytime I try to escalate things physically, she would either push me away gently or back up a little bit, and again say we're not going to have sex tonight. Wash, rinse, repeat. In my experience, when a woman says that line, they say it once, maybe twice but later receptive to physical advances. This one kept saying it repeatedly, and confusing the hell out of me since I had never encountered this before. I went to the restroom, came out fully nude in all my erection raging glory, and again tried to escalate with kissing and what not, but no. I got tired of this after about 2 hours and went to sleep.

She drove me to my car in the morning and we parted ways.later that evening, she texted me and asked, did we have sex last night? My spidey sense started tingling, and I said no, we hadn't (in hindsight I may have messed up by saying this, but I mentioned that she had been pretty drunk, as had I, & I wasn't one to take advantage of a woman when she had been drinking).

If we had in fact had sex, my answer would have been the same, as we know what tends to happen when sex is had and the woman is tipsy or drunk. So then she starts giving me the spiel about how I'm a really nice guy and everything, but she's not over her ex, blah blah, I wish you good luck. I still don't know what to make of any of this.