Hey everyone,

We have all experienced relative clinginess in all our relationships that we have had. This is true whether it is a girlfriend or even a friend that we have in our lives. Pulling back and giving space to an individual in your life, is one of the best ways to bring them in closer.

"Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder"

If you have ever been on any side of a relationship, you know that the times spent together can be amazing. You are beginning to dive into who the person is and learn a lot about their past and the qualities that made you drawn to them in the first place. Though hanging out with that person for too long can actually make you begin to see their faults too. These faults are exacerbated causing one to eventually grow a level of content towards that person. We as humans are quick to focus on someones faults more than their actual great qualities. We need to quickly learned some two qualities to allow us to be more successful in our seductive journey.

1 . Learn To Be Alone

Being alone is one of the most important traits, that we can translate into our lives immediately. When developing this skill, you will be able to detach from the person that you are holding on to effortlessly. It will allow you to come back into a space of your own and operate at your very best without anything holding you back. One must love themselves first to enjoy their own company. This comes slowly with time and more practice

2. Know When To Pullback

The pullback method has to be used strategically in order to get the full effect. This comes down to planning when you will be doing this. I find that when I have hung around a person too much, we begin to run out of things to talk about. This causes our minds to wonder. When minds wonder, they usually jump to ideas filled with anxiety. This can make the other person around you uneasy. The best way to push through these feelings of uneasiness is to calm yourself, and start to notice these behaviors. You from there begin to plan the pullback. After hanging out with the person, do not text them as you begin to take your time alone. If they text you respond to them explaining your potential absence due to certain circumstances. Now you have leverage as well as the needed space for the relationship to grow. Muscle does not grow when you are working out. It only grows when you're recovering away from the gym.

I have a video formatting everything here and more!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ew3wslz0yE8