Interested in women. Scared of women. Don't know what I want.

GrandMasterB19 · 2020-07-13T02:20:30+00:00

Okay man, I'm going to be real with you here because there's a lot to take in and I'm passionte about helping people overcome these issues. So the first thing is that you need to work on your self-esteem, self-confidence, self-image, inner critic, and your social skills, whatever that means for you. This isn't a weekend retreat, it's a journey.

Next, you need to learn more about women and women's behavior and interact with them more often to get more comfortable around them. This is a difficult skill to learn and you will have your work cut out for you, especially during these times. For starters, stop watching porn or any material that explicitly sexualizes women. We need to get your sexuality human to human focused rather than human to screen focused.

Which leads to my next point, you're probably really uncomfortable with your body, your masculinity, and your sexuality as a man. This is a really common issue these days as men are becoming increasingly more sexually repressed. There's a lot of negativity going around these days and it seeps in.

The one thing that I want you to know is that this isn't your fault. You were raised in a society that failed you just like nearly every other man here. Nobody taught you how to be a man and it's eating away at you inside. If you had the love and guidence you needed as a boy, most of this stuff you would have learned intuitively and instinctively. We are all on our own journeys. Good luck with your path and feel free to hit me up if you have any questions.

MMFOOD_ · 2020-07-13T01:53:28+00:00

exposure is the only way. start doing cold approaches , and just talking to any strangers in public you see. Start lifting and dressing nice and taking care of yourself and confidence will go up. you just need to put yourself in these situations until it doesn’t bother you anymore

quinnmcd · 2020-07-13T03:46:50+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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Title	Interested in women. Scared of women. Don't know what I want.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	July 13, 2020 1:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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