How do I sext?

Scrollerer · 2020-07-19T04:53:06+00:00

I had the same question myself a couple of months ago and found out about literotica. I read a couple of stories and I let my imagination work from there. The results are awesome!

Spacemage · 2020-07-19T06:31:59+00:00

Firstly, do it, own it and be confident. Don't make it into a joke if she doesn't dig it.

Start out playful, drop an occasional direct and explicit message, see what that nets, and go from there.

"what's up, sexy?"

"lol nothing, you?"

"oh just hanging out. Thinking about you, how great you are, what I'd do if you were here, wondering what you're up to. Typical stuff!"

"what WOULD you do, huh?"

This point is where you would decide how to proceed. Since he suggested it, you have the okay from her to be sexual about it. Or you could tease her a bit, and be cutesy at first. If you do that, you need to make sure she's into this approach and escalate appropriately. If you get an "awww" - it's not the sexting you want to be doing.

If you get her prodding you with questions and egging you on to keep going, that's when you turn it up. Don't go over board right from the jump, but escalate much more. "well you wouldn't be wearing that cute skirt you wore the day, or if you were it'd be hiked up."

You want to make her fill in some of the details. Give her the template, and let her do the heavy lifting bc she ultimately knows what she wants you to say - but you have to know what she wants to think about. In that last paragraph that leaves it open for her to create an expectation. Maybe she wants you to talk about her pussy, or maybe she wants you to tease her more. That's on her. She might even want you to start describing what you'd do to her.

If you're at that point, you're role playing - cyber sex is what it's called. You give her a play by play about what parts of her body your focusing on, and what you're going to be doing to them. Also a good way to swap some explicit pics between the two of you. If that happens, use those as sexting points - she shows you a picture of her butt with clothes on, talk about taking them off and what you'll do once they're off.

It's definitely something you need to practice to get good at. Practice with her. Don't take it to serious, have fun with it. Also discuss it with her so you both know what you want out of it.

Do it randomly with her. Try being direct occasionally, "I want to fuck you right now so bad" or "I could really go for a piece of you, what's on the menu?" Slip it in while you're talking about nonsense; she sends you a picture of something that doesn't really matter "wow that's looks good! Not as good as your ass looks, especially when there's no clothes on it, but a different kind of good. Where'd you find that?"

There's no science to it, it's just a matter of doing it, owning it, and being confident about it.

keyson5 · 2020-07-19T04:15:19+00:00

I’m great on that.

The brain is the only sexual organ. Therefore, the key is to stimulate it. And you do it by portraying images that let imagination flow.

So go simple, and say detailed as if you were a novel writer what you would do to her, from the moment you cross your path to the end. You can enforce the images with graphic images, but that takes away the fun, many times.

2020-07-19T07:03:49+00:00

Dont, this is guaranteed cringe for future you

Title	How do I sext?
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Date	July 19, 2020 4:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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