Guys, NEED HELP! Hot Tinder girl only night in town wants to see me - no idea what to do!

EmperorIngB · 2020-07-25T13:46:03+00:00

OK I'm not in Chicago and I wouldn't exactly call myself a pimp, but first things first: this hot tinder girl WANTS to hang out with you. She invited you over the dozens of other guys she could have. She doesn't think you are a chode, so there's no reason you should think it. You shouldn't think it anyway, but we are all at different points so fair enough.

It's OK here, because you can be honest with us and we're here to help, but try to not think this way while you are out with this girl. If being unworthy is in the back of your mind it will infiltrate all of your behaviours while you are with her and she'll pick up on that.

As far as not inviting anyone, there's a pandemic, you can always say you invited people but they are too scared of getting sick to go out. This depends on the context, I imagine she is, but is she cool with you inviting people?

Go out and have fun with them. Talk to them like you want to be their friend. Make the night as fun as you can in whatever way suits your personality most.

You have one night and this is way too much for you to learn quickly but just do what you can to relax and try to have fun with them. Make time to talk to this girl you're interested in one on one but do not force it and talk to her exclusively throughout the night.

She invited you to be an addition to the group, so put forth who you are, in all your magnificence!

quinnmcd · 2020-07-25T16:47:22+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

Title	Guys, NEED HELP! Hot Tinder girl only night in town wants to see me - no idea what to do!
Author	liquidswordz89
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	July 25, 2020 1:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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