My entire life, I was the small kid. Luckily I was friends with the "cool kids" so i never got bullied. 5'3 and 100 lbs until junior year of high school, i now understand how i didnt get girls. Senior year i was over 6' but still weighed 120lbs so that was almost just as bad. Until a few months ago, i was 6'2 and very skinny. I started hitting the gym and i am finally muscular but i still have my small guy mindset. How can i make my mind perception catch up to who i actually am now?