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| 1 | How does TRP handle the check?I don't normally pay on a first date. Then again I detest meal dates. "I'm more of a go do something active kinda guy" Usually this is not an issue, if a server asks I'll smirk and say something referring to how independent she is. If she asks I'll say "I'm not sure about you yet." Occasionally if she's really added a lot of uncommon, unique fun to the night, i'll grab the meal if she trades a few drinks afterwards. (usually less expensive, I'm not into lush girls and I sip Johnny most of the ti… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Value Management: TheRedStoic Weekly #2I don't use it. I have in the past chosen to pay for someone for PR, but never expecting something in return. The moment I give any value away for free there just isn't a guarentee of return. If it works for you great, but I'd take a hard look at whether these people are bottom feeders, as you put it, or whether you're allowing your feelings to give you the illusion of control instead of actual control. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/16 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Value Management: TheRedStoic Weekly #2I'd say yes. In general I spend about 20% of my time spending value I've built up, "opportunity cost included" and about 80% building more. Though I must admit, the majority of my satisfaction comes from my work, I have built my life to be that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Value Management: TheRedStoic Weekly #2"as long as your intent isn't to make yourself feel good" Is the key point for me. The issue I have isn't one with stoicism, but one of practicality in application. I'm really glad you've read Seneca "haven't met many outside my education who have actually" Thank you for your contribution! I'm flattered you took the time! Additionally, I'd be happy to go into detail on what I feel is a core problem here, the definitions of a virtue or virtuous life, "which is largely contested as being recursive… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Value Management: TheRedStoic Weekly #2No, that's actually in an upcoming lesson, how to know a good habit. You can skip to it in the listed pdf if you'd like! Thank you. Edit: I chose not to give specific topics because I simply don't live the readers life. I have no guaranteed way of knowing what is it isn't effective value by action, I can however give some input if I had enough context. Maybe that helps more. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Value Management: TheRedStoic Weekly #2The former, though the latter is certainly not out of consideration. As long as you're not a coffee shop philosopher stating the usual "to be stoic is to be emotionless" crap. Selfish charity is right in line with stoicism. It is not disallowing charity, it is only a reminder to be objective in its measurement. Do not allow your preconceptions or feelings to play into your measurement of charity. Be efficient and effective in it. Thanks for the comment. Very oddly specific considering the breadt… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Value Management: TheRedStoic Weekly #2TheRedStoic Weekly #1: Know Yourself: http://archive.is/dFupR TheRedStoic PDF: https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8ldlRFTlFkdE56R2M | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | If you're not AMOG of every group, you're doing well.Fair judgment. Best of luck to you. As far as business, I know mine does better each quarter. Thanks for your input though. Maybe you'll better understand my perspective if you read the weekly posts. I doubt you will, but I'm always happy to hear dissent. It's healthy. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.This us the state of trp. I look forward to the upcoming (likely) exodus. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 09:54 PM |
| -2 | NJ Dads May No Longer Be Able to Be in the Delivery Room to Witness Their Child's Birth.I agree. I'm sterile, but I was witness to a birth. I can't fuck a girl with a csect scar anymore because of the absolute disgust and aversion. Ok that's a lie, I can and have, but it's a "would" in desperation, not a "want" Don't be in the room. Be where you should, rewarding yourself if you're certain, which you very rarely should be, or avoiding something very disgusting. Then again, that glass is biologically broken. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 09:26 PM |
| 9 | If you're not AMOG of every group, you're doing well.The stoic pdf, free, no login required. Check it out. https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8lR2F4SlR2S1hrd3M/view?usp=sharing | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.No clue. I think its a good rule. It's worked for me with most of my girls over a decade. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 05:11 PM |
| -4 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.Yeah. My girl commented on a business meeting I went to, how most of the pics are with women. And i quote metalageddon: what's rule number 1? Her you decide on you I decide my involvement. I'm sorry metal it just makes me feel jealous. That's a good girl. Get back in line. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Know yourself: theredstoic lesson 1I have yes, read the book too, one of my favorites. Remember that's what makes it great, it's a warning using extremes to explain what's wrong with am ideology of total state control. However in my experience at the least, even blatant idiots can be taught to think in 3rd order. As I said before, not worth the time. I'm certainly not disagreeing with heuristics, however I don't like dealing in exclusive dichotomies. It's a personal quirk. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | A theory on why women say they want the Nice GuyMuch simpler, they say it because it's true. They want a nice guy, because everyone loves a personal Butler. He'll do everything for you and you can fire him at will. Even better with nice guys, they pay to serve YOU instead of the other way around. The key point is that a nice guy isn't the only thing they want. They also want a caveman and excitement. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Assume Formlessnesshttps://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8lR2F4SlR2S1hrd3M/view?usp=sharing That's a guide book on the precise thing. Been writing and releasing it for several months now. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Know yourself: theredstoic lesson 11st order and 2nd order withstanding as standard, almost required for functioning in this world. 3rd order thought is not reserved for more intelligent people. I stand by that. Anyone can be conditioned to think in third order. It's a placement of values, "x is wrong" vs "why is it that x is wrong". People "stupid ones" question things they're not comfortable with in the 3rd order daily. You can do it, you can modify them. However you probably shouldn't waste the time unless you're an accomplish… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Know yourself: theredstoic lesson 1Added about five lessons, updated the order of operations to make the table of contents more "at a glance" usable as a checklist of reference. The intention being "where am I on relation to exeunt omnes" More assignments, simpler more focused assignments that attack things in a bottom up strategy. Better formatting. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Eye contact is your most versatile weapon."Your gaze burns." One of the complements I will remember forever. I fully support your point. People are scared and askew, men and women alike. Men are raised manginas, women are losing happiness decade by decade statistically. Posturing has replaced truth thanks to the lady 20 years of social justice /feminist narrative. It is better to keep your head down in supplication than to be yourself. Do not join them. Do not reduce yourself. Remain stoic, unbowed, unchained, unbroken. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 08:21 PM |
| 2 | What was the first instance you saw RP in action and just didn't know it at the time?Probably my uncle. EX marine, Vietnam. When I was a kid I'd stay with him during summers while my parents went on cruises and safari. (if they didn't take me with them) He'd bring home these hot girls. (meet Kacey, meet Jenna, meet Brittany) etc. Twice, maybe 3x a week. He'd leave me in the shop to entertain myself for about 4 hours and come back with a girl. We'd all play monopoly or something, I'd go to sleep and well, listen to the wall thud. Around 19, he started letting me into his world. H… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Feminists hate themselves.This goes hand in hand with women's statistically decreasing overall happiness, and the sharp decline in overall happiness prevalent in 1st world women after 30. There's no rational force curbing their self destructive tendencies anymore, and they're paying for it in men's blood, cash, and their own prospects and happiness. Poetry in motion. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | 60 DoD Week 3: HygieneMuch appreciated. I'll order it tonight. Edit. Ordered it now. On sale from Amazon if anyone else is curious. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/16 06:06 PM |
| 12 | Know yourself: theredstoic lesson 1https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8lR2F4SlR2S1hrd3M/view?usp=sharing Free, no login or accounts required. Contents 1) Know Yourself, Why TRP? 4 2) Value Management 6 3) Monk Mode for You 9 4) Vetting Women 12 5) Internalizing Agency 15 6) Stoicism and TRP 18 7) Scarcity, Silent or Vibrate Only 20 8) Forget Morality (or not) 22 9a) Breaking the Ice 26 9b) Freezing a Relationship 28 10) Be Polite, Not Nice. 31 11) Exeunt Omnes 33 12) What’s A Good Habit? 35 13) Mastering Change: Knowing T… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | So how do you deal with a girlfriend who's hot and then cold?Don't notice her temperature at all. Do you. You decide on you, she can decide her level of involvement. If that level is not sufficient, looks like you're shopping again! Treat yourself to something busty. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 01:21 PM |
| 2 | 60 DoD Week 3: HygieneGreat post, a few notes taken. Out of curiosity, skin cleansing, any further advice there? I'm black so even though I'm not seeing a single wrinkle, and based on my genetics I probably won't be getting any, I do have a pore issue, (b heads, W heads). I shower twice a day, three x on lift days, keep very clean and am daily complimented on my dress, posture, body, appearance in general. (and my hair, I have the most fucking amazing hair.) If I could get my skin right I'd feel like two million buck… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/16 01:16 PM |
| 2 | FR - "I accidentally slept with a guy"Funny to see that hampster spin isn't it? Good one op. Made me chuckle. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 04:16 PM |
| 3 | How do I set actionable goals in dance and martial arts?https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8lR2F4SlR2S1hrd3M/view?usp=sharing I recommend the swot analysis, goal setting, habit forming segments. As far as measurement, for things that don't have hard lined tiers of progression, make your own. Constantly practice and spar, can I beat what percentage of guys in this room 9/10x. For dancing it's a little rougher, but you may want to ask yourself how many mistakes are made per session or something of the like. As long as you keep pushing yourself … | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 01:05 PM |
| 1 | I stuck my dick in crazy. What do I do now? [long post]Yeaaah. This girl gave a previous guy everything and when she asked for exclusivity he "likely correctly" decided she didn't measure up. She's hyper focused on that, not having the balls to do anything to him, if he's even accessible, you just became primary candidate for her to fight her ghosts. That's serious level crazy. Be very careful and when you see any red flags like that in the future, meld into the darkness or cut off sharp before anything sexual happens. Here's a few warnings I've pic… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | 5 Guaranteed Steps to Completely Demolish Approach AnxietyI like your list. Formatting is rough, but good. Lessons learned should have bullet points of the list. Additionally I'd like to point out, in my redstoicpdf, I make it clear the how is much more important than the why. How do you kill approach anxiety? You approach. There's no need "I feel" to codify an order of operations. Simply approach new people of any type nonstop whenever you're out. You should be introducing yourself a dozen times a day, casually, in line, at the bar, recruiting help fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 12:39 PM |
| 13 | Roosh's giant meetup event may have been cancelled, but alternatives ARE availableAh, you didn't do your due diligence. The references circling in the last few days to roosh saying rape should be legal on private property, are referring to a swiftian style article he wrote mimicking a modest proposal. Anyone who remembers an inkling of middle school English would be able to catch the blatant comparison. Of course, it was taken completely out of context, "and I fear maybe not intentionally", the same as referencing eating babies could be used to seemingly damn Swift. It's good… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Sugar Daddy situation... Yes or no?I believe an established man should try it once. But I also believe most established men don't have to adopt that role in order to get the same quality sex. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Why We FightYou saved me a post, excellent response. It seems op knows of your work so I'll be checking your history in interest. Thanks for clarifying that. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 09:39 PM |
| 6 | The Roosh meetups are also happening in the States, and people are VERY aware of themMarketing. That's it. Involving the rape thing. "repost" Ah, you didn't do your due diligence. The references circling in the last few days to roosh saying rape should be legal on private property, are referring to a swiftian style article he wrote mimicking a modest proposal. Anyone who remembers an inkling of middle school English would be able to catch the blatant comparison. Of course, it was taken completely out of context, "and I fear maybe not intentionally", the same as referencing eatin… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 11:07 AM |
| 8 | Roosh and his "meetup" PR stunt now driving German media apeshitAh, you didn't do your due diligence. The references circling in the last few days to roosh saying rape should be legal on private property, are referring to a swiftian style article he wrote mimicking a modest proposal. Anyone who remembers an inkling of middle school English would be able to catch the blatant comparison. Of course, it was taken completely out of context, "and I fear maybe not intentionally", the same as referencing eating babies could be used to seemingly damn Swift. It's good… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | A MRA/MGTOW/Redpill meetup is being advertised as meetup to legalize rape in my country lolAh. Repost, should answer it for you. Apparently a lot of people won't do their own research, "or need someone else to do it for them" Ah, you didn't do your due diligence. The references circling in the last few days to roosh saying rape should be legal on private property, are referring to a swiftian style article he wrote mimicking a modest proposal. Anyone who remembers an inkling of middle school English would be able to catch the blatant comparison. Of course, it was taken completely out o… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 12:41 AM |
| 5 | Advice to a 15 Year Old Me: Step 1A. Stop Talking.Master story telling by keeping a journal and reading a lot. Something awesome happens? Write it in a journal in third person. You'll become insanely good and quickly, especially if you read a lot. From: someone whose business involves writing and editing 300pgs weekly. (recently down to about 100, interns ftw) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Ideological Blindness and Rapefuges CrisisNo, I think you're confusing beliefs and ideology. Ideologies can be cognitively chosen, beliefs are likely necessarily inclusive with a call to action, and are much harder to change. This is not to say they're mutually exclusive, it is easy to think of examples which are both, "religion", however they are separate properties which may apply to the same single instance, they are not necessarily identical. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 12:31 AM |
| 3 | The Ass Slap as a Shit/Comfort Test Destroyer.Towel flick is a risk, gotta have excellent proprioception and precision. Don't want to damage /distance the goods. I'm partial to the comfort test response, "the hug, grab, and drum", very effective. I'm surprised you missed the standard side by side. Notable though really only as a response to uncertainty in which of the aforementioned is most appropriate a response. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Roosh V stirring the potAh, you didn't do your due diligence. The references circling in the last few days to roosh saying rape should be legal on private property, are referring to a swiftian style article he wrote mimicking a modest proposal. Anyone who remembers an inkling of middle school English would be able to catch the blatant comparison. Of course, it was taken completely out of context, "and I fear maybe not intentionally", the same as referencing eating babies could be used to seemingly damn Swift. It's good… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Best answer to "What are your intentions?"The only answer I have, "seeing what you have to offer" | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 02:58 PM |
| 3 | How do you construct your goals?This a question of analysis! One of my strengths. Repost: here's the full document, https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM For those of you who have yet to fully understand yourself before embarking on this journey, a resource. Here’s a recommended list to fulfill before embracing the remainder of this document. the self swot Do a self-Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats analysis. Be brutal. For those of you who don't know what a strengths, weaknesses, opportunit… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with disrespect from girlfriend in front of friends?She shit tests because either 1,she doesn't trust your ability (your failure to lead strongly and consistently) or 2, she knows your boundaries are only suggestions. (Your failure to act on penalizing). Fix both of those and she'll straighten up. Every public shit test ever is an invitation for you to show you can be unshakeable, unbound, and remain unbroken. Mentally thank her, but do yourself the service of acting on it. It sounds like a lot of work but it really isn't if you simply live by yo… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Can you still be a gentleman, but be a part of trp?This is really a question of "can I be polite and not nice" I feel. Know the difference and don't conflate the two. Repost, here's the full document, https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM SUMMARY A long time coming with a short lesson on how to be polite and not nice, how to avoid conflating them, and why polite should be the status quo, not something of effort. Remember, niceness is a character trait, politeness is behavior type interaction. THE PROBLEM A lot of guys ove… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:41 PM |
| 2 | I have no problem hitting the gym often but am pretty shit at diets...Firstly, this is a willpower problem, not a diet problem. The diet issue you're having is an effect of low willpower or poor habit forming. You really have to power through it for a month and see tangible results to get that reinforcement you need to rebuild your habit. I heavily recommend replacing your triggers with more healthy active ones, maybe checking out ace productivity podcast for additional information. Quick tips to build more willpower? make doing the right thing the easy thing. get… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:38 PM |
| 3 | What changes have you made to your life that make you the most happy?You're a really thoughtful guy. Nice perspective. My parents raised me red, I still speak to them 3x a week because they have so much to teach me. I'll certainly pass my thanks. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:31 PM |
| 2 | What changes have you made to your life that make you the most happy?Nice list. A few on there I certainly do, which I didn't even consider, but probably because I was raised that way. Not really an achievement of mine if it was conditioned when I was younger I guess. I really love the reading to and from work, I drive so I podcast. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | What changes have you made to your life that make you the most happy?buying less in number, higher in quality running a self swot monthly to set my goals scheduling my free time, and treating it as top priority limiting social media strictly to business. starting my own business. banning discussion of money socially. meditation lifting 5x a week instead of 3 getting back into casual sports. removing "should" from my vocabulary. I will, I will not, or I am considering it. giving up running. finding out I'm sterile discovering podcasts (I was late to the game, so m… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 01:32 PM |
| 28 | New levels of hypocrisy and double standards in TwoXThere is no conversation of wifely duties, because they no longer exist. How can people comment on something they haven't conceived of? Get married, claim birth control, child trap male by cuck, walk away with at the least, government aid, child support, alimony, repeat. There are no wifely duties. They no longer exist in America. (as long as the woman isn't a gratuitously obvious case against feminism, then she's thrown under the bus, then into the grinder). It doesn't happen because it statist… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Holy fuck, TRP/MRA mentioned in a marvel comic.Free marketing. That's another few hundred who search us and think "wait, maybe there's something of value here..." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Biggest Laugh I've Had In A WhileStandard 1 hour time killer. I see it all the time, guy +girl, she wants someone to keep up the noise while she eats, they go home separately, she goes off to the real man who just got off work/out of the club /whatever is now free for a fuck. Betas are like airplanes, single serving personality and you don't want to be on one for too long, unless it's between destinations. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Study: Couples reported a a greater decline in relationship quality over the first four years of their marriage when the wife was a narcissist (interestingly the same result was not found when the husband was a narcissist).Pretty much all humans are on the spectrum of solipsism, dogmatism, and narcissism. Women are given more opportunities to call further into that spectrum. The vast majority of people are not far enough on that spectrum to have daily inconvenience or drop in their daily life. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Political Science classrooms are not safe for political discussion, OR I should have kept my mouth shut.There are only 2 course topics I've been in at college which were safe for discussion. Upper/graduate level philosophy (analytic not continental), and economics. Everything else I've taken, and in many cases rightfully so (medicine, law, etc) is indoctrination into what the prevailing perspectives are, how to go about doing x and why. Think as you like, but speak as others, or not at all. Sadly enough, college is certainly not the place for dissent, unless it's dissent backed by the establishmen… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 06:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Abundance after LTR’s – exists for older guys too.This is excellent advice, thank you. I feel the same, it doesn't matter how smart she is, how educated she is, I can't fuck an iq. As a matter of fact I don't mention schooling most of the time, just that I'm an entrepreneur. Though you've got me thinking more, within the next decade or two mayhap I shouldn't mention anything beyond my degrees. Leave it at that. I'm still pulling mostly collegiate Tail though, when single mothers begin approaching I'll be thinking of your input. Much appreciated… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Punching BagHuh. Aside from my pals and I trading drinks, I don't think I've done that. Occasionally as a peace offering. Nice fr. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Attention Idiots: The Red Pill is NOT About Self-Improvement. It's Not ABOUT Anything.Agreed. Reposting and tldr: trp is just a praxeology, not a philosophy. SUMMARY As a student of ethics (what is right and wrong) and metaethics (how do we know what is right and wrong) and the red pill (a praxeology for male actualization) I outline the two primary camps of moral judgements, that they are true/false, or they are not true/false. Presuming either to be the case, I explain trps association (as a praxeology) with either view of moral judgements, hopefully putting the morality debate… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 08:09 PM |
| 3 | 1 year later, the Pill has side effectsOn the TV thing. I agree a bit, but maybe it's just me; I've actually found watching things to become almost purely limited to movies with company, however no matter how blue, it's all comedy to me. Maybe it's just my mindset, but I've believed the glass was broken the whole time, I just find myself chuckling at it constantly. I also will use it as a checklist, just keeping up to date on what's being done wrong by the protagonist male. What mistakes are made that he's seemingly not even aware of… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/16 08:05 PM |
| 48 | At a bar, best response to "Buy me a drink."buy me a drink! amused: cool we can swap! I'm top shelf only. flip the script: how about you buy me one? stoic: maybe after I know you. destroy: you're not worth the five. black Knight: so I'm just an atm? That's insulting. I'm triggered. qualify: why are you worth one?/what makes you awesome enough to deserve one? commander: I like x, i'll get a table while you get first round. Mastery: aren't you presumptuous? scarcity: Sorry, already juggling 3. Just a few examples I've used. A hard no is a g… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl informed about her HPV after sexOh sorry, that's a reference to (already red). My primary cohort is one that was rather traditional in the smp, raised red pill (without terms). We're all three of us close friends aware of the official praxeology and improving because of it since about a year ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Total abundance mentality. Dominick Cruz the new bantam weight (135) champion of the UFC.It's due to the abundance supplied by social proof, overriding beta tendencies and traits. If you're alpha enough in social proof, you can be a beta and still slay day to day. Your positioning does it for you. The moment you apply commitment to the formula however, you lose that mystery, and if you can't respond with red dread, you fall. I've not been in mma, though I do participate in a few martial arts for the last decade, I've seen it happen to. It's funny how being good while appearing bad e… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl informed about her HPV after sexOne of my decade long (red) friends was banging a plate with hpv for two solid years. To this day (four years since she broke) he's had no issues. I wouldn't worry. Statistical likelihood of being a contact for infection is insanely low as a male. That being said, continue your due diligence and act within whatever ethos you prescribe to based on the results. Good luck and best wishes OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Down Sigma Way: Being an Alternative AlphaI'm Sigma. I recharge alone. That's it, that's the only difference between alpha and Sigma. How you recharge your batteries. Alpha find people, Sigma escape them. They both have the same alpha traits otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Sex is one of the hardest things to accomplish these days for young men.Gotcha. That's a general rule, but everything is tied to perception. For example, I'm 5'11,but frequently ,actually more often than not, gauged as 6'. If your posture is right, if your social proof backs you, if people like you, you'll be fine. To be clear, the are general standards, they fall apart when you hit specific cases. That's why we have heuristics and praxeology, that's what general rules are for. There will always be exceptions, my point is to be aware of the fact that most aren't act… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Sex is one of the hardest things to accomplish these days for young men.Of course not. Deviations are not flat percentage. Also I stated that as a generality. No need to be nitpicking, but focus on what makes you feel good man! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 12:05 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Monthly with Rollo & Nikointention Very informal. Gotcha. Very vague as well, no mission statement at all. Aside from monthly release and a potential vision (not solidified). Nothing to depend on aside from tune in maybe next month I know your current market will check in, what about conversion? You're spending your time, you may as well bump your encapsulation as much as possible right? (I'm being presumptive, that might not be your goal). it's not a difficult concept Correct. Well explained, you could've covered a few… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Thought only my wife could break my heart.I hate to say it, but your wife has done something similar in the past. Guaranteed. Women are social. They need their support. Removing that is like removing a mans ability to introspect. Just imagine that. Imagine being unable to ruminate properly. She's going nuclear to be able to think clearly. I don't know what to tell you, except to hang in there, and get your wife's full support. It will help in myriad ways. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Guy is worried about going on a date with a ''trans woman''(MTF, no operation) and reddit encourages him to do so. Would you do it too?Sounds like splitting the proverbial hair to me, to what end? It's unnecessary. Do you like other people's dicks? Cool. Your Gay. No biggie. Do you like pussy? Cool, your normative. No biggie. Leave it at that and don't contribute to the spliced segments of feminist (foolish) universal emotional tamponry. Hell, one of my friends is an in process Trans comedian. He (she to be) hates the sub sectoring of this crap. You like x or y. Dicks or cunts. The rest is icing on the cake. He's a comedian tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 08:39 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Monthly with Rollo & NikoSubscribed. May send you a pm. Listening to 1st episode now. Edit - sent both of you pm's and posted review. I hope you read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Sex is one of the hardest things to accomplish these days for young men.I understand where you're coming from, lots of friends have said this same thing to me. Some things to keep in mind: the richer the city, the more the minimum blind shifts the more populated the city the more the minimum blind shifts being an 8 is (usually) unrealistic if you're not 6ft. As a matter of fact if you're an 8, you're being approached. I'd stake my name on it. you're 5'10 and lift, good, I'm 5'11@190 x 16%,how big are you for your height? If you're under 160 you're not noticeably big… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | The Drink TestClassic captain /1st mate dynamic. If you want to make a girl frustrated, give her a vague and open implication, then chastise her for not fulfilling. Ex: every once in a while, I'll cook for a plate, and purposely place condiments on her matte. At some point of eating I'll make an obviously dissatisfied look and hold out my hand. You know she's yours if she hands you the salt or pepper, without even asking. This is the mark of a woman who has placed your desires, knowing what you want, so far a… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 01:46 PM |
| 6 | On dating single fathersIt's harsh. But true. kids are a constant reminder that you're not there fresh. You will never come 1st. Resources go to the children, then you, then family, then the s.o. Don't advertise it unless you're looking for an ltr or more. (don't do that either imo). Good luck man. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Why I’ll never go below a HB5 again, and neither should you (FR)Don't go below 2 under your level. Ever. Why? Because if it was a job, "and make no mistake, the smp is still based on trade, goods for services", you wouldn't accept a position for 2 pay grades under what you can get by the end of the week. Now I understand if you're trying to ltr or something, yeah drop by 1 or 2 points to maintain an easier playing field, but other than that, no reason. Ever. Don't under cut yourself. I'm between 7/8. I fuck 8s. Occasionally, a 6 "if I'm stealing her or cucki… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 06:24 PM |
| 7 | "You look like a typical one!" Shit test?6' @164? Damn you need to work. I'm 5'11@190 x 16% (just finishing a bulk though) You don't look big. Hit 190 and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 06:11 PM |
| 4 | How do you teach a girl to give better head?step 1, desire Do your best to be attractive. Don't be unattractive. step 2, enthusiasm This comes from step one, adding in priming her with comfort for a job well done or step in the right direction. Reward her for asking questions /experimentation. This has resulted for me at least, often in girls taking it upon themselves to watch instructionals. Xvideos has a ton of them. step 3, feedback Any sexual thing you do with a girl must be tailored to your preferences. You teach through push and pul… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Changing your sheets can cause dread (LTR Advice)Huh. My girl works 3 or 4 10hr days a week, and I just realized after I do this she goes into sexual overdrive. Coincidental maybe. Maybe not. Interesting observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:12 PM |
| 0 | AskWomen user hooks up with a hot, mysterious man - who turns out to be a criminal gangster. Who's surprised?Small lies that push many towards the greater truth are not reprehensible. Regardless of how "true" the story was, it's a permissible one. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Where You Are In Life Is Exactly Where You Want To BeNah I don't presume that. I presume only that everyone is given opportunities at some point, and that they are only useful if prepared for. Regardless of what your inborn traits and location are. Just because idiocy / genetic lottery can take many potential opportunities out of an individuals equation, doesn't mean they'll have none presented which "with preparation" they could utilize. I must explain my premises thoroughly, thanks for catching that. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Where You Are In Life Is Exactly Where You Want To BeI'd say luck =preparation + opportunity. Opportunities come by all the time, whether you're prepared to leverage it is on you. This is why persevering individuals place much less stake on "luck". The opportunities only a master can utilize go unnoticed by most. Open any job search section of the newspaper and look at the listings. Most of them you can't do. That's not luck, that's the fact that you're not field specifically prepared to utilize those opportunities. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Monthly Thread Idea - RedPill by any other name.Many of these posts you're referring to already make their way to trp as evidence that the trp praxeology is starting to become more wide a movement and acceptance. I Like the idea, but I really feel at most a flair for it would be sufficient, and at the least, nothing at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.Good on you, first off. I'm glad this worked out for you well. (read your building up post) "posts? Only read one" I cannot recommend ynab enough. The cost paid for itself within 1 month, after that it's been a miracle investment. Sitting down and physically reconciling instead of using a not customized algorithm (such as mint or bill guard) does wonders for you. When you see 5 receipts for take out at the end of the week you really shudder and think "what the hell am I doing?" (not only for exp… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/16 08:05 PM |
| 2 | On the popularity of cuckold pornHave you considered that yes, you have the right numbers, but no, you haven't proven the lens of intent through which the videos are viewed? Not in any meaningful way. I and one of my friends enjoy stealing girls. It's a turn on in a big way. Shit. I'm willing to steal a 6 instead of bang an 8. Two whole levels in attractiveness is made up for that rush. Now that's clearly an issue with my ego, yes, and I'm sure many would love to conflate and extrapolate that isolated information out of context… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | FR - Turned 21, first night at a barMastery pianist at 16 almost a prodigy, quit through college and just getting back into it now that I have my own place and can afford/have space and temperature control for a grand. Don't ever skimp. I was at best with gershwin, rhapsody in blue, and now I can barely pull off Joplin or debussy. I'm getting it back, but think of all the missed options, it gets the panties soaked faster than a clothed shower in high humidity. Don't ever take a break. I don't regret it, but if you can spare the ti… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | NEVER GIVE WOMEN ULTIMATUMSUltimatums are fine. Boy who cried wolf is not. Drawing a line you'll walk on instantly works. Demands work. Bitching and empty threats do not. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 09:51 PM |
| 1 | 2 years unplugged.. I'm so damn tired.Headsup, what you listed isn't attractive. It's amazing provider info, you'd probably wreck beyond the wall single moms. If any of these things are what you to show or allude to, you're a provider. Instantly. Be creative, funny, engaging, demanding, emotional things. Your qualifications need not apply until you're looking to nest (if ever). And watch that intelligence thing. The people who are usually really intelligent in my own experience never need to voice it. It's evident in their actions a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Time to fill up the calendar. Has anyone made a list of suggested possible activities men can do outside of home? Let's do one here!in order of best male to female ratio in my experience only (not completely accurate but hey, do what you will with it, this is the last 2 years of my escapades) Dancing lessons (mumba rumba salsa), dancing (Waltz or adv), Clubs (dancing), sororitslut parties, clubs (venue) Tennis, swimming (shore), yoga, swimming (closed), biking, rock climbing, book clubs, AA or NA mentoring, hiking (day), hiking (camping most often taken) hiking (trailer most often fatties), world building (rpg, pnp, avoiding… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 0 | How to get laid like a rockstarI have serious trouble believing this. I'm an 8. (when dressed in business days). I could believe an 80% number close, I myself have that. I get numbers so quickly I usually throw them out or forget them. But f close? If I do end up banging the girl, there's 4 or 5 who I didn't. However, if you drop that constant 8s to constant 5s, I could believe you. Conversions that high only come from playing down, the smp definitely works that way. Hell, with enough confidence I'd say any not fat male in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Black Women Lack FemininityBlack male here. Aside from my current girl I have never even plated a black chick. I've fucked them, but this one is the first I allowed to progress up the ranks. In general, hood culture has even less value placed on virginity, decision making, and submission to men than average non black American culture. Add in the circumstances of economic and often legally self destructive practices saturating lower class "read poorer" demographics, then add in about 1/3 the individuals of that culture foc… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 05:42 PM |
| 3 | I had my Professional Profile doxed by SJWs; words of caution to my fellow Red Pillers.I agree, though I'd like to make it clear (in support of you) that publicly unavailable does not equal publicly unobtainable. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Illimitable Men in 2016 - Where I'm At & Where We're GoingNot to upset a master, (and make no mistake, considering average individuals you would qualify at the least, as an adept and a dedicated, practiced, skilled one at that!), you certainly will benefit from it. So easy! So effective! Please continue releasing legitimate, quality content! I look forward to your next post! Also shameless self bump; https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM If you have any feedback, please let me know! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Year in Review, 9 months of TRPI recommend the 2nd language be higher priority. Panties drop when you speak multiple languages fluently. At the least, it's an illusion of being well traveled and intelligent. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Illimitable Men in 2016 - Where I'm At & Where We're GoingPro tip, no matter how excellent a writer one becomes, the age old trick of reading your release backwards catches the vast majority of errors. Heavily recommended. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Quitting: marijuana and pornographyhttps://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Read the segment on trigger replacement and apply. You're cutting the trait, but not replacing the triggers for the trait with something more productive and fulfilling. Essentially, you're applying your limited resource of sheer exhausting willpower, instead of building something replenishing to do instead. You need a hobby you love in order to fill that time, something you enjoy that pushes yourself enough that you find yourself sche… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 12:09 PM |
| 1 | 35 / Too Late to Start Self Improvement?It's never too late to improve yourself. Ever. At obesity, if you could manage to be active for just a few weeks your going to start seeing a result train that is massive. https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Get started. Do the lessons. Contact gaylubeoil for some council after you've killed everything on the sidebar and the top 50 posts of all time in trp. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Number One Limiting Belief When It Comes To Meeting And Attracting Women.You're right. Women love being approached almost as much as they love humble bragging about how inconvenient it is to be approached so often, or bitching about not getting enough attention from the guys they think they deserve. Key lesson in all this, it's never her fault you age very well or she's not good enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 01:29 PM |
| 1 | My successful boyfriend and his "rules", should I accept this?I'm going to fucking say it. The majority of advice given here is excellent, applicable, and fair. However you should provide proof that you exhausted rpw first. You shouldn't be here unless it is empirically your last option. Down vote on principles, however strength to your believable dedication to the truth. If you're male, Please down vote me and make it known. (You don't actually specify) | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Women are con artistsWhat's in it for him? If he accepts and lives RP, applying a philosophy of life to the RP praxeology, he has much to gain. Women throwing themselves at you, the pick of the litter, the ability to maintain an ltr through strategy, having a good or great partner to raise your genome, many things. But only if he can live it. Without living it there is nothing more than at the worst, failure, and at the best, falsehood. There is much to potentially be gained. Only for those willing to bleed for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Lack of discipline obliterated my past monthLong time in response but your advice just saved my arse. Thank you again. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Black male, 20, low SMV, nervous to date, advice neededhttps://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:35 PM |
| 4 | [LTR] How do I get her to be more sexually aggressive outside the bedroom? (We already have a good relationship, want to make it better)If she's resisting, you're not high enough smv. If she were afraid of you going elsewhere to sooth your needs, it wouldn't be a question. That is a long term issue. Are you washer board abs yet? Are you at 15%bf or lower? Do you have social proof? It may take 6 months of hard work to move that forward. This is long game (ltr) not instant gratification. If she's definitively playful, take my advice and use that as her fantasy cue. Being dominated is attractive to her, (likely), if she's not suppl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/15 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Tales from The WallHere's more of that attitude: https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Google drive link for The Red Stoic?I did. Very new, I only found trp a few months ago. (already raised red). Yeah it's a humble brag, but I'm helping you so what? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Corpse FeedersI think so, not certain. Even for me, men being hurt fades to the background so I didn't follow up on that. (another condition I need to modify). Shit. Do as I say, not as I do https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 07:09 PM |
| 12 | Is anyone planning to challenge the California "Yes means Yes" law on grounds of constitutionality?As a straight male? Fuck no. I'll donate to Milo Yiannopoulos and Karen Straughn, they're much better equipped to avoid the potential life destruction that the hatemachine would unleash. Just keep acting RP, if you're a straight male, keep your lips shut. Actions beat words. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 12:42 PM |
| 7 | [LTR] How do I get her to be more sexually aggressive outside the bedroom? (We already have a good relationship, want to make it better)Okay, im cohabitating as well. For text game, an example from Christmas, we spent it with our own families, apart. Here's the stuff that worked for me. "hey head to the bathroom and grab me a sexy pic. I'm feeling the need" "yeah, I'll talk to you tomorrow, if i wake up to a nice short video of you. You know what I like" "3 days 3 pics, let's even it up!" Now to be clear, this girl is largely the same as yours by description. Social anxiety disorder, quiet, devoted, I took her virginity and bega… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/15 12:35 PM |
| 1 | What is behind the drop in numbers of TRP subscribers during these past several days?I'm sorry, I'm connected to a few suppliers confidently, contingently, but nothing I would presume to push to another looking. A Google search will satisfy your curiosities. In other means, here's what I'm doing to help, as an example. https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM That's the tangential but applicable type of content I'm speaking of, (though still created that's the smp (first) and Self actualization (close second)) I also personally recommend and appraise gaylube… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 12:04 AM |
| -5 | You've heard this before: textbook example of late 30s TwoX Wall torpedo. Shocker: she's single! Deconstructing her text for 12 instances of rationalizationOh Jesus, people like you are why when I'm browsing I have 9gag open as my last window. Now I've got a lively green and a lovely blue clamoring to see what 9gag post set off the stoic. I should leave anyway, it's going to be a long day. Thanks man. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 11:14 AM |
| 1 | What is behind the drop in numbers of TRP subscribers during these past several days?Trp has been out for years, many of the initial pill swallowers are leaving, they just don't need it anymore. In addition reddit is removing dead accounts, quality has dropped, and trp is certainly no longer the only place to find excellent male advice. All of these are together give the numerical appearance of people leaving trp. Just my humble opinion. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 11:08 AM |
| 4 | [FR] TRP on easy mode Pt. 2To the not seeing exes thing, I believe that's cemented in the newly swallowing failing to understand progression after a little smv boost. A week ago, I'm not certain if it was omlala or maybe Rollo, can't remember the person, mentioned guys get started, have success, and run back to the ex to dump everything at their feet proclaiming look how alpha I am waiting for their confirmation. They fall off the wagon so to speak. In the case you've described, I see no issue at all, and I even recommend… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Ten years in and suddenly she realized that a stoic husband is great to haveThanks man. Doing the best (little) I can. Just want to help (other men suffering specifically). Happy holidays! Oh as a favor, if the pdf helps, please spread the word! (ONLY if it helps) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/12/15 07:53 PM |
| 10 | Remember this when you go out. Don't ever give a hot woman power just because she is hot.You're a blue pill idiot if you believe that there is an objective scale or hierarchy when it comes to attraction. Sure why not, I love freedom of speech and opinion. There is only would never bang, would bang when really drunk on a dry spell, and would love to bang all the time. So... Wouldn't, would, want? Like I wrote? Anything that you try to hamster as an "objective scale" is really just your own insecurities where you actually give a fuck about how others perceive who you're attracted to. … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Ten years in and suddenly she realized that a stoic husband is great to haveYou are in the right frame, on the right track. Go deeper. And congratulations on your success. https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/12/15 07:13 PM |
| 2 | How to approach guy for possible friendship?That's not a problem. That's setting a measurement stick, which is respect worthy. You should never interact with someone unless you are thinking (you may be worth something). Ever. Do not be ashamed of wanting things, do not be ashamed of having standards. They are driven traits to have, use them. You should be proud of knowing what you want. it's polarizing and attractive BTW, did you read the whole lesson? This should've been answered within. If it wasn't please let me know, I'll need to clar… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | A Red Pill New YearAh, the age old determinism vs indeterminate debate. Objectively regardless of determinism being true or false it is in one's best interest to try as hard as you can, since it maximizes both outcomes. If determinism, trying as hard as you can will only be capped, not lessened. If indeterminate, trying as hard as you can raise output. From that perspective you win or stay still, instead of stay still or fall back. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 12:16 PM |
| 2 | How to approach guy for possible friendship?https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Scroll to the ice breaking session. It's specifically focused as the precursor to sexual intention, but it works the same for both men and women. Here's an excerpt. summary You walk up to a new person, maybe you're introduced, you shake hands, Hi! My name is metalaggeddon, what's yours? How are you doing? Ensue awkward silence. If you have this problem you need to understand icebreakers. Here's a quick experience based lesson. body Ic… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 11:42 AM |
| 14 | Remember this when you go out. Don't ever give a hot woman power just because she is hot.The hb scale is a reasonable objective way to communicate between many people with different biases. It's an (in general). Keep in mind when we use the h1 to 10 scale, it's largely on how close is she to the generally agreed upon physical prerequisite. (a 6 isn't overweight, a 7 is slim or at least active, an 8 has the form, a 9 has the diet, form, youth, and curves, a 10 is practically nonexistant). However a 5 is a butterface, a 4 is dumpy, a 3 is overweight, a 2 is dumpy, ugly, overweight and… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What is this called? Is there an official TRP name for this female delusion?It's rather simple, though you've made a progressive realization OP. Glad you're swallowing the pill smoothly. Not everyone makes the foundational connections so quickly, many choose to ignore them. You've missed the larger picture though, if women's main goal is commitment, every other woman gaining more commitment at any time is a threat. This commitment doesn't have to be your money, marriage, etc, at first impressions it's simply attention and time. Watching that resource be spent on anythin… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Tinder has fucked my confidenceThe day before, of, and after a gift centric holiday is a bad market day. Girls have already locked down their gift betas, they'll get back on the carousel in force after the week of crappy sex (if any) | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some practical ways to reduce tendencies to be risk averse and become more decisive? How have you personally progressed in these areas?Oh already done that. It's free for all. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Women getting physically close to me when talking to them? Does it mean anything? Or what about if they break the touch barrier?Myriad men on this subreddit will tell you how handsy women are to a swole body. There's a colloquial term for it, swolested Add in social proof and alpha traits abundant, and (many) women are dying to touch you. However, the social imperative dictates that they can't initiate contact intentionally the first time. So they give you leads and hints. Crushing your personal space beneath their hot breath, licking lips, and open posture with dilated eyes is an invite that will become frequent. If you… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 11:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you cum on a girl's face?Do that shit. Plug one, pump the other. Amazing feeling. Textured plugs work great for you out here who have enough width to feel it. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 11:03 PM |
| 25 | Male stripper gives insights into his lifestyle.Animals is the perfect word. Seeing that spectacle for them is an overload of social proof. If they don't grab those genes right now they probably never will. Thus the hypergamy continues. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Corpse FeedersI think you're the first to name it. There was a thread a month or two ago about the girl who pressured her boyfriend into suicide then commenced a pity party. I'll try to find a link. This is actually standard affair in all but severe alpha widows. (imho) No link, edit, her name is Michelle Carter, charged with involuntary manslaughter. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Google drive link for The Red Stoic?When my new experiences have nothing to add to the community in any meaningful way, or when I grow bored with testing my writing. Maybe if I somehow turn blue. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Google drive link for The Red Stoic?Ah sorry guys, 2nd Ed was strictly for my editors. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Google drive link for The Red Stoic?https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM 4thed beginning of February. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 12:22 PM |
| 1 | How to Argue?A lot of my personal growth comes through imagining arguments in my head. Like I would state an opinion, and imagine someone I know's counterpoint, and go from there. However I don't really feel I have the proper information to do this correctly. Which leads to me either A.) Providing opinions, I can't always back up properly. or B.) Not stating my Contrarian opinion, which in some situations has it's own tactical applications. Lots of men do this, women too though to a lesser degree (generally)… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | I bet that your idea of revenge is fantastical. It won't be like you thought it would. Just keep walking...From my parents (red and old school) Those who live in the past are ghosts, those who live in the present are gamblers, those who live in the future are dreamers. Those who learn from the past, respect the future, and act in the present are gods. Love what you've written it's a lesson not often discussed. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Part of why you give a fuck, and how to stop that nonsense.I love this post. For those who are interested in learning to know themselves, here's a step by step from a practicing stoic. This post is essentially the end goal, the mindset an individual must achieve. The How, as stated above, is a personal journey no one person or other can help you with beyond basic direction. https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 06:05 PM |
| -1 | What's a better starter program, Stronglifts 5x5 or P90X?Don't use p90x. Especially if you're paying for it. Used it for 6 months with slower results than simply hiit and ppl on a twice a week split. (customized schedule of m/t/w rest Thursday f/sat rest Sunday. Whatever your goals are there's a better way. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What if your best friend had sex with your girlfriend shit test?That level of disrespect means next. Period. Let alone the fact that women's hypotheticals are glimpses of their intentions. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | "Are you fucking other women?"-----Shit Test!It's not being an ass. It's playing a winning game for both sides. If you truly care about both of your happiness yours must come first. That's just the way the system runs, it's not cruel to think of both of you. It is only unfortunate that her perspective is forever closeted and rooted in solipsism. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Plate asked me how I got my muscles..Already done at the behest of another submission. Copy paste, hard link here (I suggest you check this thread out lots of great contributors respond) https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3va94z/the_shit_test_buster_game_round_1/ Question 1: ”Are you a player?” I like to have fun. Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” And they love it. Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” You can cheer me up later. Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Hah. Enou… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm Milo Yiannopoulos, AMAMilo, late to the party, to be clear, I appreciate your media clout, but don't know much about you aside from the posts answered thus far and a few interview videos. The one I've appreciated most this far is you with Stephen crowder. You seemed to take more thought and be more willing to unveil yourself to him. For this reason I can't say the usual (thanks for your awesome) or the like. I do very much appreciate the Lantern you hang on male space issues. I do have an honest question I hope you r… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | The AWALT MisconceptionI really appreciate the concise nature of this post. It's a dangerous topic to tread as the increasing dogmatic noob gains posters flood the thread, (usually without actual comprehension of the praxeology within). That being said, the way you're presenting this is difficult to disagree with. Hopefully the people who need it most will listen, unfortunately, they'd rather live in dunning kreuger land I'm afraid. Keep it up, as usual, great refresher. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | "Girls like natural alphas and not trained ones" - I don't think there is any guy who is a "natural" - do you?Not really. (Alpha) is a set of Traits on a spectrum, not (amog) a social position in relation to a cohort. For this reason a natural alpha and trained alpha only have the difference of history. Especially to a new interaction who doesn't know your history. If you take a natural alpha whose been building social proof and rocking it from day one, and a beta completely reformed to alpha, place them both at 35 yrs old, you likely could never tell the difference without examining history. Really the… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I want to be more naturally extroverted.I'm a mastery level pianist, and a tech head, so I type fast as I think. About 450 wpm Mmmmm Dat dexterity | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 01:38 AM |
| 12 | "The Silhouette Constant"TLDR Rule number one of any type of relationship. You can beat a person, but you can't beat a ghost. Idealized concepts are forever. In fighting them you only add to their ammunition. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Textbook example of blue-pill Facebook post, gets praised by hundreds of women.Hey there ever present Gotham Knight! To everyone here, black knighting is only for the pros, true idgaf required, feels need not apply. Novices who can't be truly stoic are at best irrelevant and at worse destroying their own smv. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I want to, but...Why? Catharsis. You need to give yourself that satisfaction. (for whatever reason. I'm not about to go into a psychological break down over a hundred word post from someone I do not know let alone know well) Retrain yourself to enjoy the satisfaction that catharsis goes both ways. A woman knows it as closure. Regardless of how you do it, you give emotional ammunition. Stay silent. Revel in the fact that likely, this rewards her less than it rewards you. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Plate asked me how I got my muscles..Always be natural. A few weeks ago a guy who had the unfortunate fetish of being a sub was posting here. He asked in essence the same thing. My response was, you should always be training out self compromising traits, but if you're a sub, do it as an alpha. She's here to dominate you and if she's failing, get aggressive about it. You need x, you want x, you expect x, you GET x. No substitutions, exchanges, excuses, or refunds. If you do blue up, own it and amplify it to a joke. You should always… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over the shame of sleeping with a girl who thinks sleeping with me will lead to a relationship?You don't have to be up front. Only say that when they ask. (do say it then though) A simple (we're not compatible that way) works for me 80% of the time. Additionally it seems you have a moral quandary. Don't. You're only applying a praxeology, (toolbox) not a philosophy (love of wisdom or theory of applying wisdom), and certainly not a moral code (descriptivist or expressivist judgements or feelings). I can post a description if you're needing it for that. This is a you issue, a contextual one… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 03:28 PM |
| 1 | What to do after break upThis is a good place to start your journey. https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM An excerpt for breaking up: (repost) SUMMARY Ice making, the opposite of ice breaking. There come many times when you need to halt relations, often without burning a bridge. This post is the other side of the coin to my ice breaking post on forming connections. Within I explain strategy to effectively break connections with any person. Especially women. The goal of course is simple. 'We don'… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my girlfriend is too critical and controlling. What do I do?Don't tell her shit. Leave her. If you can't (or more accurately, you won't) leave her, establish some self respect and act as you please, invite her to join, and if she says no, ignore accordingly. The number one rule of every girl I've had is something I say to each one when they start to make demands. I decide on me. You decide your level of involvement. TLDR you are the only one who controls your agency. Don't give it away at any cost. EDIT: sharing a previous lesson which may help you Summa… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 03:10 PM |
| 0 | The combination of dread and hamster is amazing"don't worry. I'll get to you when I'm free." Or "yeah, everyone has a life to attend to. Next time you can make it up to me." | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 03:06 PM |
| 127 | Textbook example of blue-pill Facebook post, gets praised by hundreds of women.From experience, the quickest way to shut down an entitled bitch is to respond to any of her demands with "yeah, what do you offer in return?" Warning, if you're not high enough smv, this will unleash the dragon in response. Edit: (unleash a rage mode) instead of getting good results. Thank you u/xxmindtrickxx, clarified for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 03:02 PM |
| 64 | Plate asked me how I got my muscles..Flip: how'd you get that ass Mastery: I take care of myself Stoic: practice practice practice. Amused: I eat everything I can't fuck Shutdown: I put down the fucking fork and spend 20 hours a week in the gym. Dismissal: I have self respect. Active: my hobbies have this effect on me. Ignore/redirect: doesn't matter, what does matter is that you love what you see. Concise: I stay fit. Just a few suggestions. You did fine OP, don't second guess yourself. Remember, when in doubt, be natural, don't b… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 02:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Beta white knight set on fireDon't worry. He's got backup coming to book them too. Nice FR post. Enjoyable and concise, solid lessons. Specifically I'd like to add that appealing to popularity is even more effective when you maintain high social proof. There are plenty of times where I need say nothing, as others in the group will dog pile someone for any negativity pushed at me. (it's also a great way to deal with negative women, having 3 other girls jump to blast a bitch is beautiful). The most noted exceptions seem to be… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 12:58 PM |
| 2 | The long gameHit the married red pill for details on each of the following: this is a repost to a guy who had just entered a cohabitation, so it may not fully apply to you. Also read nmmg asap. repost here on out Okay, you did it. So I won't say anything you clearly know. I've been living with my gf for 2 years. notable differences No distance means you must respond with dread. Familiarity breeds contempt, dread evens it out. Get used to comfort tests increasing and being mixed with shit tests. Have people o… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 12:40 PM |
| 3 | What is the TRP opinion on shoe lifts for things other than dating?You can give it a shot, but first I'd check yourself, as presentation adds perceived height. I'm 5'11, and frequently judged as 6 or 6'1. I've seen this in quite a few alpha men who are my height, to maybe as low as 5'9. Do you stand straight, good posture, take up space, make eye contact, head up, voice at resonance, dressed well? How's your social proof? (a mental reference image of few hotties on your arm adds an inch) additionally the correct (a full) hair style can add a few inches. Do you … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Best places/activities to meet single women?in order of best male to female ratio in my experience only Dancing lessons (mumba rumba salsa), dancing (Waltz or adv), Clubs (dancing), sororitslut parties, clubs (venue) Tennis, swimming (shore), yoga, swimming (closed), biking, rock climbing, book clubs, AA or NA mentoring, hiking (day), hiking (camping most often taken) hiking (trailer most often fatties), world building (rpg, pnp, avoiding personalities), lifting (equal to hiking day but the good ones aren't looking for approach), comedy c… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | It's easy to be angryFrom a practicing and accredited philosopher, raised red and stoic, you're attacking this from the wrong angle. You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redirect your energy. If you are ever angry, it is simply proof of your failure in … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Just sign up by creating a burner email and emailing theredstoic at gmail. Com | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 02:12 AM |
| 3 | A brief examination of morality, justice, legality, and codesNot bad. Easily summarized. law codified regulation. morality expressivist (moral judgements are not true or false) or descriptivist (moral judgments are objectively true or false) either way, they're ostensibly primary motivators for the average person. justice give to each one what is deserved. fairness equal opportunity and distribution in accordance with prudence. And most importantly, a praxeology (trp) Essentially a toolbox (layman's description), unrelated to and not implying the above 4.… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Final Warning: Keep Your Damn Morals To YourselfJust had to repeat this to a poor novice a few days ago. Tldr, don't worry about morality, worry about setting your own hard lines of conduct. The red pull IS NOT MORAL NOR A PHILOSOPHY SUMMARY As a student of ethics (what is right and wrong) and metaethics (how do we know what is right and wrong) and the red pill (a praxeology for male actualization) I outline the two primary camps of moral judgements, that they are true/false, or they are not true/false. Presuming either to be the case, I expl… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 01:54 AM |
| 5 | What's your strategy when a hot chick ID's herself as a feminist? Attempt to deprogram? Pump & dump? Or let go and avoid chicks like them?Don't pay attention to a word she says. Pay attention to her actions. Iois hot and inbound? Escalate. Cold and hostile? Move on. Don't over think this bro. Else you'll find yourself explaining physics to a house cat. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Paradigm shiftDo not let anger control you. Would you rage at a porcupine or hedgehog for pricking you? No? Sounds ludicrous doesn't it. You're only angry at yourself. You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redirect your energy. If you are ever ang… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Had a huge fight with a girlfriend. I cried.On the slim chance it worked out you must have failed a lot of comfort tests previously and she was about to self destruct, so severe weakness balanced it. Any other context and you fucked up royally. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Told a girl I loved her, how do I regain frame?Repeat after me. I love every girl who gives me what I want She's not special. You can love without being self destructive. Love is not compatibility. Love does not make disrespect, lack of appreciation, usage, manipulation, lack of enthusiastic sex, or anything else ok. Nor does it mean you won't broom her. Besides, that was drunk you. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Best way to handle a break up to avoid dramahttps://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Skip to the ice making section. Believe me, been there, freeze it properly. "we're just not compatible" is all you need to say. Do not be tempted to explain, interrogate, be vindictive, or accuse. Don't give her (hamster) ammunition. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 01:26 AM |
| 8 | Update on cheating girlfriendRestraining order. Immediately. You have to pull the trigger first, (à lot of experience with borderline disorder). The very moment you have proof of self harm or threats, restraining order. Just, trust me. From the text if she is borderline, she's about about to go nuclear. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 01:23 AM |
| 2 | I want to be more naturally extroverted.Yes. It is. I write about 300 pages weekly, if you include editing I'm around 500. I wrote this document as 30 mins a day for 4 weeks during monk mode. If you have any more questions let me know. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 01:27 AM |
| 3 | I want to be more naturally extroverted.Yes sir. Over my yearly monk month. (actually covered in the content). I'm curious why you're curious, that's a very specific question. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Had hair transplant surgery last week: a weak cop out?No weaker than a breast enhancement, a purchase of clothes that mold your body for you, or an angles photo. Don't worry about it. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/15 11:59 PM |
| 1 | So.. Never?Go read MRP. Both TRP and MRP are just praxeologies, don't be dogmatic. Do what works for you. I spin even with my 5yr ltr. MRP is definitely hard mode, but even though I want different bodies, my emotional and time investment all goes to me, work, family, ltr, in that order. Do what you love, and let it kill you. You'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/15 11:54 PM |
| 10 | I want to be more naturally extroverted.You can't become a natural extrovert, though you can do one better. You can become a skilled extrovert who is also capable of being a skilled introvert. The way you become skilled is practice. Some tips; Schedule going out every week, once alone, once in a group. Join external clubs that are based on group activities. (book binding is not a group activity. Rock climbing can be. Basketball or sports definitely is.) Approach every day. Talk to everyone. Always. Keep a journal, seriously. Log what … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/15 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Hah. Sorry it took so long. It's actually anything but selfless, I'm sure you'll read the section about selfish charity. I have my motives. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Women are as shitty as you let them beDamn. You're already spreading the theory. Thank you, I really appreciate it. You must have a disposition for objective thinking. Also, you're friended. Any time you need philosophical help or stoic help from someone raised red just pm me. No questions asked, above quality of content of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of People's stupid bullshit?If that's the case, here : https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Maybe you'll enjoy it! | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Man is convicted of statutory rape because the girl lied about her age. It is the quote of the judges that really astounds meYou're completely correct, (checked it), and I'm sorry. Only law course I've taken is ethics of law, I'm not familiar with codification in that respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Women's Hamsters Speed Out Of The Gate Like Race Horses When Article Suggests Men Lie On Their Dating Profiles.The empress is naked, and it's our fault. we allow this to continue, they preen for us | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | The mental diet and you. (and PDF update incoming)Check out Timothy Moser, master of memory podcast. It'll set you straight. Just do his lessons one at a time. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 02:59 PM |
| 3 | What are some practical ways to reduce tendencies to be risk averse and become more decisive? How have you personally progressed in these areas?Oh. I write and release it as a way of collecting my thoughts. (on what has worked for me over the years) and to help others who may be like minded in functions. Also to improve my own life by reviewing responses and comments. Always gotta try something new right? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:31 PM |
| 3 | I know just the girl for you!I agree, chess, go, and crossword puzzles. (no cheating). Personally I also recommend a random wiki article per day. If you enjoy the topic grab a book on it and crush it. Really anything that involves critical thinking and pattern recognition on an ever increasing scale of difficulty is healthy. The benefits to vocabulary, fluid conversation, and presentation are immeasurable. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Short FR on Wife watching me Calm her Friend downthere is nothing wrong with appreciating the good in your life, just don't sleep at the wheel This is an excellent quote. May I take that? I'm taking that. Creds are due. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 12:00 PM |
| 2 | What are some practical ways to reduce tendencies to be risk averse and become more decisive? How have you personally progressed in these areas?Separate. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with female orbitersA repost from my pdf: theredstoic https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Hopefully it'll help with your vetting and freezing issue. (make no mistake, how you respond to her is vetting and a freezing problem for a connector girl) Summary: metalaggeddons hierarchy of hoes This post is theory meeting field report, for trouble vetting relations, from plate to date to ltr. All information is pulled from over a decade of success in the market (with some pretty fucking stupid mis… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Libido problems at 19?That loss is due to replacing your habits and triggers. People with a skill at habit making and breaking tend to recover faster, but if you remove the cause, there will be no (dependable) effect. Simple causal theory. If he didn't quickly replace his triggers, he's not going to move quickly. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill life making faithfulness a challengeIf dread is obvious, get your wife to do your fantasies about other women. Dress her like they were, get her role playing. She'll be happy and feel appreciated and you'll get your rocks off. However, if it's not about variety of fantasy and it's about boredom. Figure out what you really want and start preparing for divorce or openness of the relationship. (You only) If you have no moral qualms, just cheat and don't be stupid about it. (burner phone, real phone battery is pulled, legitimate alibi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "When was the last time you had sex?"is morning when it's light out or is morning after midnight? Sit there with a very dumb inquisitive look on your face. Do not pursue with details. Benefits: deniable, polarizing, flirtatious Penalties: she may try to follow up, and you have to deliver it right. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I only want to have sex in LTR or marriage, is there something wrong with that? Is that against RP values?That's not helpful. Onitis is something you have not had, can not have, or have learned from. Skipping it isn't a real solution. That's comperable to saying (skip your addiction). Nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:03 AM |
| 2 | What are some practical ways to reduce tendencies to be risk averse and become more decisive? How have you personally progressed in these areas?I would recommend working on building new triggers, and reducing old ones. Aside from that an all around acceptance of your agency creates a need and desire to act. (clinical limitations withstanding) Secondly you should schedule interactions that are outside your comfort zone, but related (tangentially) to things you enjoy. Thirdly, you need abundance and to kill the fear of rejection or failure. That follows from the last two points, plus some healthy meditation. https://drive.google.com/open?… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 11:58 PM |
| 11 | I talk and think like a bitch. I have an inferiority complex, and when I bring it to the surface I go full anti-social. I want to learn how to deal with this.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Read it, it's free. Direct download link. In addition, something for you specific to your issues. (repost and part of theredstoic pdf linked above.) Tldr you get better by doing. Summary: lesson 4 The ignoring of agency and self awareness is a trend getting worse in trp. Instead of experimenting and getting out there, testing on new people, taking risks, learning personally, people are using this sub as just another crutch. They're mi… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are as shitty as you let them beSo essentially, there is a barrier of entry to the market, physique, social proof, social power. Betas don't realize it because it isn't verbally discussed. They focus on what is done after the barrier is meet, because it's visible. Alphas only think of it as a necessary part of life maintenance (rewarding to pursue often times). Nice post op! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 11:52 PM |
| 2 | How to Define Your MoralityNo problem. Glad I could help. Keep working on your own measurement system, and most often I'd recommend not discussing it unless you're in a truly open debate with someone who acts reasonably with comprehension of the topic. Saves a lot of headache. A general quick test for this is whether the person you're speaking to can argue both sides of the subject convincingly, and only shows deference to empirical measurements, not personal biases. Good luck! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you say the L-Word to non-LTR girls? (Particularly while having sex)Never. It might get a quick rush from her in some cases, especially if she's already trying to lock you. Most often I've only seen it dry them panties up long term. Love = a fulfilled concept to a woman. (contextual and situational) Love = respect, support, and desire to a man. (concrete standards of action or duty). Thusly there is a communications breakdown. A man saying I love you is saying I respect, support, and desire you, but the woman hears now I will give you what you want, Checkmate. S… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 12:21 PM |
| 2 | How to Define Your MoralityFor you op, an incomplete lesson from a decades long stoic, meta ethics Phil major (going masters and already accredited) and raised red individual. Tldr, don't worry about morality, worry about setting your own hard lines of conduct. This is thick, hope you read it. SUMMARY As a student of ethics (what is right and wrong) and metaethics (how do we know what is right and wrong) and the red pill (a praxeology for male sexual actualization) I outline the two primary camps of moral judgements, that… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Life After 30: How to Be an Old GuyI'd say not exactly. I can answer a question (what did you do last week) with something like (I went to Vegas with x) and not be bragging. If I were a previous braggart, it would expectantly be chalked to that, if I don't, it's just vicarious living framing the conversation for the poor guy. (no negative reactions). I got your point though. Be careful of speaking to often and too quickly about yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Life After 30: How to Be an Old GuyWhich raises how attracted they are to you, and how much your married friends depend on you for vicarious experiences. Tldr, builds social value contingently. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The realization that I'm still beta despite my radical self-improvement.https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Theredstoic.pdf I'm not saying it'll fix your issues. I am saying you show fortitude in your improvements and work ethic. So now you need to take the next step. Specifically begin with vetting types of women, move to the hierarchy of hoes, then get out there. You can find a girl that will bring you something worthwhile, but it's much harder than easy pussy. (which any red man can find quickly) You want to be loved for you? Go speak to… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Cycles and TechnologyI feel like sex robots will only restore the playing fields. Plenty of women opt out by way of vibrator. Men just haven't been given adequate visual simulation to catch up (pocket pussies do nothing visually for a visually based gender). It'll level the field,which I support entirely. However it'll take social and legal change to reign in hypergamy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Its only free speech if it agrees with my feelingsHe's saying that those who can, act. Those who can't, talk. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 06:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The way that I handled an argument with my LTR made her want to fuck meI do that commonly. It turns into a joke then a fuck. There aren't really steps, but grab her while showing AA or AM, then bare datass and slap away. If using the former start soft and move to hard as she responds and amps up, if using the latter go straight for the kill. (red, not bruised) unless she likes it bruised. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 04:58 PM |
| 0 | The Potential Evil of Self-EsteemYou are not worth a full response. Anyone who actually does study semantics, analytic theory, linguistics, rhetoric, or logic could laugh at how much you exemplify Dunning Kruger. Good luck. I really do hope for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 11:49 PM |
| 4 | Any threads that have list of commonly used abbreviations?It should be on the trp sidebar mate. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 08:05 PM |
| 8 | Mastering Change 1/4: TriggersI understand completely. (actually own a traditional gaming company so I'm far too familiar with resource scarcity engine mechanics) Good comparison to make, nice analogy to draw. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Mastering Change 1/4: TriggersI've already read it. In thanks for your contribution, here's one of my favorites : Ace Productivity by Timothy Moser, (podcast). Great for the bite sized daily homework for us self improvement fiends. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Mastering Change 1/4: TriggersI really appreciate how insightful this comment is. Permission to add it as a testimony in the next pdf update? (no names, user name only) Edit, just noticed your username... I'm not stalking you... Very nice. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Mastering Change 1/4: TriggersAh just copy pasted from the document. When i get home I'll edit it, thanks. Yeah, it's my work. Just a compilation of all my posts on trp. Edit: fixed, thanks for the headsup! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Do not take feedback from everyone even if they're your family.Your families job is to nurture and protect you while simultaneously preparing you for adult life. As far as I've seen, most families do one well and the other poorly, a minority do neither or both well. (the extremes). This is why I always recommend to only ask advice from someone who has already provably completed your end goal. Not from anyone else. (or is much further along towards it). Protection is still the parents and families job, no matter how old you are, if you die your parents will … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 05:23 PM |
| 28 | Mastering Change 1/4: Triggerstheredstoic pdf: 3.0, no google account, sign in, or confirmation required, completely free for all, forever. https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Contents 1) Know Yourself, Why TRP? 4 2) Value Management 6 3) Monk Mode for You 9 4) Vetting Women 12 5) Internalizing Agency 15 6) Stoicism and TRP 18 7) Scarcity, Silent or Vibrate Only 20 8) Forget Morality (or not) 22 9a) Breaking the Ice 26 9b) Freezing a Relationship 28 10) Be Polite, Not Nice. 31 11) Exeunt Omnes 33 12… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 04:39 PM |
| 3 | The Potential Evil of Self-EsteemYou... I mean... OK. You really like to hear yourself speak.This post is saturated with incorrect reasoning, mistake of casual and correlative links, and most frustratingly, an obfuscating misuse of language and terminology. Hope a mod comes along to prune shortly. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Beta up when you like a girl?That's rather presumptuous... Maybe his 6 girls were all very heavily vetted, hb9 and up. Maybe his 6 girls were the only 6 worth fucking in his town. Maybe he only goes for 4'6 c cup cheerleaders with a beauty mark above the right I said fucking right, not left eye. See where you're coming from, but not really useful. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 11:53 AM |
| 2 | X-Post - r/RedPillFatherhood: Fathers and SonsMRP already openly embraces ltr individuals. They're quite happy to help fresh cohabitation relations or more avoid some of the pitfalls many don't even know exist. I don't necessarily believe trp is becoming a cesspool, I do believe we as a community should be much more happy to report crap content en masse | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/15 11:42 AM |
| 1 | On Russian WomenGood post, haven't had any Russian women, but now I'm better prepared. Also, reddit is fun, allows link flair on mobile. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Learn west coast swing and game easily followsWest coast twice a week here. You're better learning mumba, rumba, Salsa, better coverage, works better with more beats, you still lead, quicker learning curve to being sufficient. You'll never beat wcs in Footwork unless you take a martial art though. That's fair. Waltz and swing are adv (imho) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Don't try to manipulate your wifeYou shouldn't be pretending. Accept the fact that there's a chance you missed something obvious. Socrates was well aware that he had thought through many of the arguments presented to him, but his unmitigated insatiable love of wisdom always forced him to be questioning of himself more than others. You mimic the method, until you live it. Good on you though, (analytic philosopher here, soon to be instructor) I really enjoyed your post. No problems there just wanted to give you a different perspe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | There IS a Such Thing as Chemistry: Make it Work For YouI see someone else has heard of the major histocompatibility complex (mhc) and it's receptors. It's being worked on all the time, the theory is solid. You should do more research and expand the post! You've barely scratched the surface and provided no proof! (I'm not doubting it or disagreeing) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Applying The Red Pill: An AnalysisAs a student (soon to be instructor) of ethics (what is right and wrong) and metaethics (how do we know what is right and wrong) and the red pill (a praxeology for male actualization) I will outline the two primary camps of moral judgements, that they are true/false, or they are not true/false. Presuming either to be the case, I explain trps association (as a praxeology) with either view of moral judgements, hopefully putting the morality debate to rest, because TRP is not a philosophy, there ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety lowers your social status.Ataraxia. Look it up. That's the goal here, how you achieve it almost certainly involves exposure and extremity. To understand the pain of being beaten nearly to death by a group of guys, being divorce raped into poverty plus never seeing your daughter, being shot at and picking up bits of your friends for I. D., can lead to it. So can mindful meditation, so can constant preparation, so can excessive addiction to self improvement, as can narcissism. There are so many ways to hit that "chill" sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Setting up a date the right way.Nice system. I'm sure it works well for you. I usually do about the same, but I prefer to call to set logistics prior to the date. It's faster. I still only text post date though, it's good to have written confirmation that you didn't force her. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | "The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1"Thanks for pointing that out. Completely spot on. A take away from your comment, an individual has to find what works for themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 04:56 PM |
| 7 | "The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1"Eh. I was and still am skeptical about this entire practice. The words you say are important, sure, but who you are, your social proof, and how you say it is infinitely more so. But an endorsed thinks it's worth while apparently so, why not? It'll be done my way regardless, maybe it'll help someone. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 12:01 AM |
| 43 | "The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1"Question 1: ”Are you a player?” I like to have fun. Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” And they love it. Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” You can cheer me up later. Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Hah. Enough to know what I want. You? Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Everyone in the club. (concerned look) Why? Your vision going? Intermediate Question 6: ”Are you gay?” Only for a quality post op. Question 7: ”Wow. Your friend Chad … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How do I meet friends who will push me?Go out and meet people. Actively. Schedule it weekly. You MUST go out and speak to everyone. Also, vet the people you meet between (I should) and (I will and here's how) types. People who make excuses period will not push you in any meaningful way. They are either planning it and doing it, or they're not going to do it. (generalization but a good heuristic) in order of best male to female ratio in my experience only Dancing lessons (mumba rumba salsa), dancing (Waltz or adv), Clubs (dancing), so… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:28 PM |
| 25 | Asked a girl to hang out, she told me she "has standards". How do I get over feeling shitty about this lmao?Block, forget, move on. For the future, laugh in their face, stand up, and leave. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Be a social dynamo so she doesn't have to beDefinitely not. I have a life long friend, call him T. He is brilliant, tough, driven, wealthy, classical Jewish family and background, 27, just got married to an hb9. The first decade I knew him he couldn't speak. Awful stutter. Bad enough that he couldn't introduce himself 90% of the time. He gave up practicing medicine for speech therapy, ended up mastering in it, then went back to medicine to finish up. Now he's teaching speech therapy and doing conventions and conferences for excellent pay,… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Even Female siblings can/will try and ruin youShit; about the girls jumping into your car on a corner. I've run into this thrice since moving to the city, now doors are always locked, even when moving. I thought I was alone in that weirdness. First time I thought I was being jacked! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Pissed off Father Puts Whore In Her PlaceNo. I think he's not gay, but I'm guessing at least one of his kids is a daughter. If he has any alpha in him at all, he wouldn't want her influenced any more than unavoidable watching a slut get away with that. Listen closely to that voice, is that disgust? No, that's actually righteous rage + fear. Rage at what she could do to his kids just by being there, fear that it may be too late. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | They Will Try to Stop YouI don't get that. It's the one thing I don't experience. Probably due to where live, but everyone, family included has been positive about lifting. I've been doing it on and off a long time so I guess it's just an accepted part of my life? I've seen it, but I don't receive it. I fully understand the crab barrel though. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 12:47 PM |
| 5 | Best way to handle a long time friend that sometimes disrespects you in public?From a red stoic, Let him bark, the moment he bites then you react. Being able to sidestep him is more important than being able to physically dominate him. The best and fastest thing you can do is excuse yourself next time you're planning to go out. "look man, you're alright alone, but you know you don't have to prove anything to me or others. I'm not feeling chilling with you until you can treat me with the respect I treat you." No need to say anything further or get into a debate. Just act on… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to cuddlingJust pushed her down on it while I slapped her ass. I didn't ask, don't do that. She proceeded a minute then quit, which is very unlike her then the above happened. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 11:43 AM |
| 0 | Feminist scream for equality for can't even put in the workCogent, not valid bro. But I'm glad you're quite skilled at being objective. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to cuddlingI wouldn't normally recommend this, but you should use the drunk test. Does she really get aggressive about only cuddling when she's drunk? Or does she want some dick? If it's the former, you've failed (most likely) and let your boundaries slipped. Less likely she's just one of those girls. If it's the latter WHY DONT YOU TAKE MORE CONTROL. hell, just yesterday my girl wanted to cuddle while she's on the rag, I expected a bj in return. Nope. She acted in a way I didn't like so nothing. Left to l… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 08:00 PM |
| 1 | You can choose to become Chad this secondAnd with that, my ego has been boosted. You can't even imagine how many "niggas" this Dominican has beaten out. You're certainly not stealing any Chad's girl. You may pick up his refuse though. Come on man have some pride, you make us all look bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | After confiding in my best friend the details of a shitty break up for the last couple weeks, he messages her on facebook. How do I handle this?Move on Or if you must, do it from an anonymous email. Freshly created from a not often use client. And you're right. That is the bitch move. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Oh shit, a post about aesthetics!Exactly what I'm experiencing. Coming off a cut, Dominican. Hiit 2x a week, plus I walk everywhere within 2 miles, doing ppl customized @3600 cal. Half my diet is soylent. Lost 16lb since I started cut September without losing reps or Max. Feel happy with it. Still only at 14% but look like a crazy beast at 5'11. You know what's up. Right now just trying to decide whether to do another 3 months cut or get back to bulking. I know Xmas will make cutting harder, my family is big on the traditional … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 07:28 PM |
| 9 | invited girl who was super interested with friends. friend fucks her insteadYou have no-one to blame but yourself. Don't blame your "Friend" Blame yourself for not providing enough proof to make him look the fool. Keep going out with him. Use him as practice. 10 girls down the line if you really focus, he should end up looking like an idiot in comparison to you. Amused mastery to his negs, the sooner the better. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 07:13 PM |
| 22 | Feminist scream for equality for can't even put in the workGood point. The counter would be if the scripts were flipped and men were banding together to invade a women dominated group, do you think for even a moment they couldn't supply males willing to do a test such as this just to prove ability? I find it hard to believe. When a group of men want something, they get it. Inconvenience be damned. Think about it, even on a personal level, if you have to do free work to market yourself before catching bigger contracts,do you have a second thought? I didn… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Feminist scream for equality for can't even put in the workAppreciated. This is incredibly legit, to the point that I sent it along to my meta ethics professor. Hopefully we'll have a chat about it before finals. I'd guild you but it wouldn't mean anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 07:05 PM |
| 14 | Feminist scream for equality for can't even put in the workYou made my day. Not because of some fantasy of revenge porn, but because I truly believe in equal rights. The right to hit someone who hit you. Fuck taking a beating. It royally sucks. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 06:40 PM |
| 2 | The mental diet and you. (and PDF update incoming)Actually I should have mentioned, I'll be adding a changelog, which should help you immensely. I wouldn't recommend printing the PDF, I run on monthly updates so it's likely to change quickly. I plan to keep it in a general order of operations. (step by step). The end goal is to have a measurable step program where you can quickly see where you're at by scanning the table of contents and simply start there with lessons and assignments. I really appreciate your enjoyment of the material! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How Lies Are StructuredStudy a lot of semantics. Once you internalize (actually believe) the difference between sense and reference has a serious contradictory relationship, you can lie easily because no-one really says anything of meaning. Ever. They're easily the best 'liars' I've met, as pretty much anything but a judgement (proposition) or an axiom, (irreducible necessary concept) cannot be true. Just sufficient for communication. Sometimes. Often not. The problem usually arises when you consciously attempt to fab… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 01:41 PM |
| 3 | "I won't get an abortion if he's rich"Look. An ethics professor would likely (depending on whether he is cognitivist or expressivist) not care about the trivially true implications of accepting bjs for grades. Even more so if he truly believes moral judgements are only seemingly propositions, or if they're actually propositions, and allows that to trickle to a skeptical or nihilistic standpoint. Meta ethics student here. Actually any meta theory in analytic philosophy is probably something I've spent a long time on. ... I'd read tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The mental diet and you. (and PDF update incoming)Thank you, I'd love to include others excellent posts, getting the permission is too annoying though so I'll do what I can until people step forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 01:01 AM |
| 10 | The mental diet and you. (and PDF update incoming)The Red Stoic pdf no Google or email account necessary You can also email theredstoic at gmail dot com in order to sign up for updated editions, or submit content you'd like added. I've already found a copy editor willing to update it bit by bit, and I'd very much like to expand the meta theory of TRP with more useful, assignment based content. This is and will continue to be freely available. I'm also happy to work with any endorsed or vets to create better content at a faster rate for the deni… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Indian guy: How to increase my SMV ? Is it ever going to happen irrespective of what I do ? Need a planAlways. Try. Everything. It doesn't have to be first person, but at least watch someone doing it to learn. Glad you're on board. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Starting Self Analysis: (also, PDF release!)And you should schedule SWOT once a month. Enough time to see changes on gains (the slowest factor I've personally considered). It may be more frequent for a new lifter, not implying you may be, just making that clear. Glad you found it helpful. Next update 1st of December. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 07:55 PM |
| 2 | California girls demand to join the Boy Scouts ("Our group sucks, let's take over yours!")It really does depend on the troop and parents involved, and how the scout master sells it, but yes. Damned straight. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 07:26 PM |
| 10 | California girls demand to join the Boy Scouts ("Our group sucks, let's take over yours!")On this, I'm an Eagle Scout, and after 18 I was a leader in venture crew. (you mentioned it, imagine a coed bsa but the actual leaders are the troop, they design their own duties and plan their own events with an approved leader vying for funding and privileges on their behalf) The girls who joined venture crew were of two types. Unicorn like- (young, in shape, classical skills), or worthless leeches (standard). The near unicorns were ideal to bang, they could cook, clean, dress, were deferentia… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 07:18 PM |
| 8 | Found a quick way to shut down a shit-testerLiterally called flipping the script. (make her qualify instead of you) Well put though. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | A fear that by the time you get there, it's going to be too late and you'll miss out on all of the fun experiences.I posit this is largely a result of too much social media, and media in general. Maybe it isn't a problem for you, but remember social media is a million mile a minuite comparison feed of people's ideal selves, not who they actually are. You don't post about the darkest hours, you boast about the lightest. You also can't afford to be paralyzed by fear while working on yourself. There isn't a now to miss if you fill your time with actions, you'll be too busy living to regret not doing so. Also se… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/15 01:19 PM |
| 2 | On LeadershipTrue words. the manager cracks the whip the leader pulls the load first Classic tell vs show. Always show. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/15 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Want a different perspective on the possibility of LTR cheating given two recent events.No one can tell you for certain. However some basic advice: you need to continue meditating, work on your confidence. more abundance, it's only your turn, you should never worry about her cheating on you, it'll just result in actions that make you more of a target to be cheated on. any major change in tech guarding or transparency is grounds for reducing to plate status in my book. trust your gut. It is there for a reason. If ur feels off, it is. personally, a girl fingering her phone then cutti… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 01:07 PM |
| 1 | The Three Types of StrengthI sort of consider soul emotional, since I don't particularly believe in a soul. As far as 2hrs,that should be about the total per day for working out all 3 together. (as a clarification). You should start lifting at around 40 minutes to defy catabolism. Read for an hour. Meditate for the rest (or as much as possible). That example is only if you're new to lifting. If you're advanced, you may need 2hrs a day, 5 a week. Professionals maybe more, (I wouldn't know, haven't ever been professional). … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Workout routine for my body type? (Pic)What are you doing? Deadlift, squat, ohp, bench. Get to compounds and stop with the calisthenics. Move to sl5x5 then to ppl (modify it or ditch it as needed) | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 11:37 PM |
| 26 | The Three Types of StrengthAdding, Mind, body and soul are definitely the three strength types. How to train them however is largely based on the person. Here's a suggestion. You train your body with lifting and combat. (Duh) You train the mind with education and critical thinking. You train the soul with meditation. Spend a total of 2 hours a day on these and you'll experience a massive change in your perspective and ability in life. This seems to be common sense, yet I posted it because common sense is not at all common… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Tips for leading a happy life.You don't really need a resource as long as you consider the fact that, 1) no one cares about anything but what they believe you can do for them, and 2) the glass is always broken From there it's accurate value management. Link for reference (free no login needed) https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Eric S Raymond, Open Source community giant, prominent Linux Kernel maintainer and a man of tremendous stature, sticks his neck out to warn about SJW/Feminist "Honeytraps".Great (obvious after the fact) stuff isn't it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Tips for leading a happy life.You don't really need a resource as long as you consider the fact that, 1) no one cares about anything but what they believe you can do for them, and 2) the glass is always broken From there it's accurate value management. Link for reference (free no login needed) https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing Edit, reposted for OP notification. Down vote as needed please. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Any advice/good books on how to give your life purpose or find your true inner motivators?https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing Read and do the lessons. Shameless self bump, but i know STEP systems and i know rp. At least give it a shot before turning it down. Summary, instructions on knowing yourself, then building on ideals, following through ten lessons on how to log and practice improvement ending with a guide on how to build on how the system worked for you to become independent as your own goal setter and moderator. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 09:32 PM |
| 9 | Eric S Raymond, Open Source community giant, prominent Linux Kernel maintainer and a man of tremendous stature, sticks his neck out to warn about SJW/Feminist "Honeytraps".I would like to add, front line management in general is dying, leadership positions of course will always be in demand. Reason being they're largely just procedural enforcers. Not leaders. Especially tqm positions. (total quality management) look up Deming for a reference. An excellent field to be in if you have the skill. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Every guy is thirsty so how do we cope the most effectively at making us seem less thirsty?Yeah. And because of that abundance I'm quickly beginning to prefer that which is now scarce, (alone time) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Every guy is thirsty so how do we cope the most effectively at making us seem less thirsty?I'm less and less likely to want to interact with people, though I am better and better at doing so. I always was an excellent networker/salesman/player, but it's definitely climbing since things became official. I suppose what I said was misleading, it's not that I don't interact, I do that constantly, I don't seek interaction often. People/things just come to me or require time. As a direct result, I've come to love the power of scheduling and even more, silence. If I had to posit an underlyin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Even wives of ECs get comfy and withhold sexDread only goes so far. You know your way around the field perfectly so far as I can tell, but boredom still destroys everything. Monotony is the murder of progression. I'm sure you're already aware of this, i ran into it about a month ago with my live in girl. Took her rock climbing with a plate and that reset everything. Have you considered that? I say this especially because even though it's been 5 years I'm still fucking other girls too however that repetition does create stagnation. You got… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 08:06 PM |
| 1 | FR: Using Improved Verbal Skills in the WildCool. Be sure to continue posting frs when this type of interaction goes down. They'd be nice to read. Especially if it goes south and how you deal with that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | FR: Using Improved Verbal Skills in the WildNice. She (the bitch) won't change. But the model you displayed will resonate with everyone present at the time. Be honest, even when your voice shakes, demand what your standards are. Btw, enjoy the crazy sex from the wife. Im betting it's coming. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Why is it considered good to be "culturally tolerant"?first of all, the phrase doesn't even make sense. If somebody's culture was a net benefit to society, you wouldn't have to "tolerate" it - it would be embraced. You only tolerate things that everybody thinks is annoying, but not annoying enough to warrant expending energy to deal with it. Not so. You tolerate things you dislike or are averse to. Whether that thing is utilitarianly good is irrelevant. For example, many tolerate people who have different religion than their own, regardless of any … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The Story of Gary and the worst human on the planethe told me almost immediately he was in love with her And then my heart dropped, I groaned, and the remainder reminded me to pay a visit to my off plate Wednesday. (gotta keep my ltr on her toes). Shoot man, he could've just resumed the old swing. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Every guy is thirsty so how do we cope the most effectively at making us seem less thirsty?You sound like my advisor/mentor. He owns a very large Mac related website and several other things, he rarely does anything with anyone. (He does however, go out and do lots of things) just alone or by proxy. Soft spoken in everything but supplying advice, seems happy as Hell. Pretty sure he's mgtow, or he might not be, regardless, he can do anything he wants, and chooses very little interaction. As my business grows I'm finding the same, becoming less and less interactive. That's a bad thing i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 12:09 PM |
| 1 | H. Clinton is a moronStill watch that movie mm occasionally, great example I agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 11:43 AM |
| 5 | Women are 3/4 of Muslim converts in the west because they want a Muslim man & are "re-embracing... rigid gender demarcation", at an increasing rateAnd the pendulum swings back. Not unexpected, sooner than predicted, but definitely a nice thing to know. Thanks OP. could use a pickup from yesterdays global issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 08:09 PM |
| 7 | What are some guy activities (not sports) to do with male friends that are life enriching/productive and not the typical 'bar activities' like drinking, watching sports, bowling, darts, pool, poker, etc.Repost warning, from a while ago. In your case, consider this from male bonding standpoint, anything higher in the list is probably lower considered a male space. Then again, you can make male spaces easily so keep an open mind. in order of best male to female ratio in my experience only over the past two years Dancing lessons (mumba rumba salsa), dancing (Waltz or adv), Clubs (dancing), sororitslut parties, clubs (venue) Tennis, swimming (shore), yoga, swimming (closed), biking, rock climbing, … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Read all the theory... no clue how to apply.You apply things by fucking doing them. I specialize in this, the ignoring of agency, here, let me link you. https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing You've read the theory? Now go practice it. A short summary . 1) know your goal. 2) make sure your goal is manageable. (i want 10 fucks first week) is not, (i want 5 cold approaches a day for a week, even expecting to be turned down is) 3) record progress. 4) modify and tailor your strategy 5) up the goals and r… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 06:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A texting analysisYou may have been in my silent but vibrate only thread, then again, most of you approved and up already fully understood it beforehand. Regardless, you're right. op, listen to this guy. Silent, vibrate for emergency calls. Get the itch off your back. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/11/15 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Being "blackout" drunkBlacking out is literally losing consciousness. It is not a myth. It's different from just situational memory loss. I was at one point drunk enough to have rolling blackouts, "drop to the floor, up in ten, active for five, drop to the floor again". Never ever since. Fuck that noise. Not to mention what I probably did to my liver. As for metaphysical implications, none worse than lockes psychological continuity theory. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Too much alpha?This is normal. They love the preselected, and hate the competition afterward. Comfort test. Give her a big manly hug, pat her on the head, and say "well remind me why i want you" Then fuck her. She doesn't need to believe you will put up with her bull or skip on her, she just needs to feel it right now. You don't need to make promises, provide intentions, nothing, just curb her momentary reminder with distraction or redirection mixed with a positive (sexual) experience. Remember, she bonds, how… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:49 PM |
| 1 | NYFD and Doirin-HolderSame problem I have with military requirements. My closest friend is a 68 whiskey, combat medic, his biggest complaint is that not a single girl could drag a full sized male in gear out of a tank or manhole. Fuck. That. There must be objective minimum requirements in place for any physically demanding job, especially when it involves life and injury. Dammit. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Victoria Secret Models: The IDEAL female physique being tall, thin and YOUNG. No BBWS allowed!The right genetics, diet, and workout routine. Lots of girls could be hot, but they miss the last two. This is how you find the rare true milf at 50 whose still bombshell. They have the genetics, but they keep up the diet and routine to stick it in place. Most genetically hot women (8s no makeup, 7s with, or higher) still manage to cave in their bodies by 40yrs. Max. They let go of their discipline. Squeezing out some parasites doesn't help either. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | The tables have turned. DC police are looking for 2 women who sexually harassed a man.Yeah. I distinctly remember several years back, this girl whipped out hers to me, in front of her boyfriend. He was so shocked and hurt he disappeared, but my response was a meh. I couldn't help it. So she tried punching me in the balls. Tits still hanging out, looking back, pretty funny, if it wasn't battery. I remember thinking "this is fucked" as it happened, but even then i was half chuckling as i was curled over. Backstory, id known this girl in highschool, drugs and a thousand cocks had he… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Things like hypergamy and women not dating down continue to be picked up by mainstream newspapers (Telegraph)That is nice to see. Really women live and succeed by being 1st order in thought only, while men succeed by being 2nd order. Objectivity is key. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 11:46 AM |
| 2 | [Mod] Make the community worth a fuck by not acting like a cunt.Thank you for this. I've pushed it several times and voiced it, I continue to trust the mod decisions here. Hopefully we'll see active enforcement follow in step quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Moving in with LTR and any suggesting from some veterans would be great.No problem. Mrp should be your new weekly stop. It applies to you entirely now. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Moving in with LTR and any suggesting from some veterans would be great.Okay, you did it. So I won't say anything you clearly know. I've been living with my gf for 2 years. notable differences No distance means you must respond with dread. Familiarity breeds contempt, dread evens it out. Get used to comfort tests increasing and being mixed with shit tests. Have people over consistently to aid in social proof. Girls and guys alike. Join clubs that get you out of the house. Now. Never do a feminine chore, unless you're teaching her how to do it properly. once only. ev… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 12:46 PM |
| 1 | New GF still texts her ex boyfriend and hangs out with himShe's being disrespectful. How so? She's putting effort into another man she's known sexualy. Next. Soft if you wanna. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 12:27 PM |
| 2 | How to best draw a line in the sand without looking needy.Ah good. Just seemed vague to me. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How to best draw a line in the sand without looking needy.woman in her thirties, planning for the future. I went black Knight from there. You need to accept that she's still hypergamy biased. That will never change, it's a biological inclination. Additionally, you've already fallen back to speaking, not showing. (not physically, thank God, but you're fantasizing. Not good.) A cold case of giving up power and treating the first mate as a captain. You've also failed to run dread in an ltr. You always must run dread in an ltr. Boredom and complacency is a… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How to best draw a line in the sand without looking needy.You presume women in their thirties don't still act on fundamental hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Expanding frame, entrepreneurship (pdf update plug too)Good point. I use acronyms for the same mistake many make - my day to day dialect is not the norm. I'll be fixing that right now. Thankyou. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Expanding frame, entrepreneurship (pdf update plug too)https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing No login, personal information, or other things needed. Just take it and read. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you personally cold approach during the day?Just adding, (most of my game is day game) don't ask questions does not mean don't be inquisitive. You can be inquisitive without being questioning. Ex: (you look like you want to say something) is inquisitive but a statement. Ex: (what did you want to say) is inquisitive and questioning. Know the difference. to op follow the guys advice, he knows day game obviously, but don't conflate inquisition /interrogation with questioning. They're more different on levels of semantics, and the illusion or… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Hairloss treatment: yes or no?Time to buzz. Don't kill your drive or begin depending on an external sunk cost when you can lift and go buzz, looking every bit as good. If you're still worried about looking older, don't. Unless you've already ruined your skin you can go no facial hair to cut a few years to compensate. Plus good game and good body will balance the scales. Remember you're not going to look worse, you'll look different. Any new girl you approach has no measurement of what you look like with hair. It'll be a part… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Girl gives strong signals she wants to cheat with me but starts crying after she gets her orgasm?No no, you did fine, don't blame yourself for game failure. As long as you got off and didn't end up an emotional tampon or hurt, that's it. That's where the game ends. Point set and match. What you do from here is up to you of course, i avoid the crying types. Buzz kills. You often can't tell until after the fact though. You know how you can't negotiate attraction? The same way you can't negotiate reality / wake up calls. She's woken up to her actual failures, and nothing you can or should do c… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many women bisexual or bi curious nowadays?It's just a marketing partnership. Consumers want hot three ways with girls who are lesbians that love only your Cock. So girls work together to capture those consumers. That's about as simple as it can get. Women are natural social marketers at their core. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | You can't make this stuff up. AWALTHeck no. I'm not letting my girl chill with my girls. We'll have to have two thanksgivings. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/15 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to the shit test: "I feel like I love you more than you love me"?"probably, but as long as you keep making my life better that includes you." | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What type of women do redpillers like?Is she physically fit? (athletic) Does she have b cups or more not lopsided? Does she avoid talking drama? Is she dtf? Is she clean? Does she speak well? Is her face cute and innocent at a glance? (rarely is a girl innocent, and they won't be when you're done with them) still, wide eyed youth in general. Then she's a 7. Improve on any of those and you can start climbing ranks. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Everyone on here talks about game?You want to know game? Go out and approach more. Log the results, try new things, read any resource for ideas. Repeat. You'll find your strategy for the game far faster than attempting a dogmatic emulation of others. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | I have nothing to do except lift for 10 weeks, how do I fill my time?in order of best male to female ratio in my experience only over the past two years Dancing lessons (mumba rumba salsa), dancing (Waltz or adv), Clubs (dancing), sororitslut parties, clubs (venue) Tennis, swimming (shore), yoga, swimming (closed), biking, rock climbing, book clubs, AA or NA mentoring, hiking (day), hiking (camping most often taken) hiking (trailer most often fatties), world building (rpg, pnp, avoiding personalities), lifting (equal to hiking day but the good ones aren't looking… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Is learning to pass shit tests a form of insecurity?Every shit test ever is "are you actually the value you display" Any approach to it is a reaction. It's circumstantial and contextual whether amused mastery, fogging, confirmation, negation, flipping the script, or ignoring are appropriate. You need to test it out to figure that out. No one can tell you, just try multiple responses (including no response as a response) and learn. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What does that mean?We are familiar with things we desire. (we think about them often). The same with fears. Wouldn't think on it much. Just respond vaguely and skeptically, with a feeling of aloofness. (really?... How would I know you?) Or laugh it off. (i get that alot). | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to have submissive aspects of one's personality or is it in my best interest to kill that?Do what you love and own it. You want to be submissive? Do it. And correct her where she fails. Let her know it won't be tolerated. This isn't a joke to you, this is what she is valuable for, your life, your satisfaction. She wants your time? Be submissive in that time, but be demanding when she's spending it crappy. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Plate asking me to take her out to brunch"brunch? Sure I'd love to be treated. That's always fun." Depending on response set a goal for her. (oh you meant i treat you? How're you going to treat me?) I do blowjobs for breakfast. (then again i love cooking) going out had better be met with something amazing beforehand i swear. Here's a game i play with my current. (You show me how much you want x. I'll let you know if it's enough.) You may have to have pretty high smv to pull it, but try. The worst that can happen is to find one of the o… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How to deliberately practice writing?From someone who (half) uses trp to improve his writing non manual style content. read. Every day. Kill a book a week. Verbiage is necessary for writing well. Choose content close to what you want to write. write and review. Keep a log, listen to comments, ask for critiques not praise. (those who really want to praise you will do it anyway) you should be posting something weekly to your demographic and reviewing through the week. find a master. Anyone more capable than you in your writing demogr… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Former friend/rm damaging my reputation by spreading lies about meIgnore him. You know that person you hang with who is always undercutting others? How annoying and transparent that is? that's him Confront him if you experience it in first person real time, otherwise, ignore it. He's digging his own social grave. (and if he's not, those people swayed aren't worth your time anyway). | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Losing erection right at the moment of penetrationHave you considered that there's a gut feeling shutting you down? I've never had ED. however there have been a few times i lost interest right at penetration. Maybe a handful in my life. The body could be hot, i could've been working on this one for a whole two weeks, then it happened and bam, no more. Each of the times it's happened is been my mind warning me of something. I'm certain of that. Try a different girl and see if there's a different reaction. Just a different perspective, probably i… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Lost frame due to an unusual event that threw me off.Yes. I pay it no mind. Did he actually manage to spit on her? No? No escalation. Give her a big move hug and continue on your day. Her perceptions may not at all match reality. She may have just wanted to see you riled for whatever rush. If he had spit on her, you're in a losing game by necessity, depending on how much you value this plate. Nothing =no security. Attacking =possible battery charge with losing in front of her, and getting beaten. It is in the nature of a plate to be disposed of, a… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How did YOU find The Red PillThrough a girl who would swear up and down that i was lying about (not) reading trp. (when we were drinking) Until she figured out i didn't have or know how to use reddit. I should reconnect, great bjs. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:20 PM |
| 5 | You can't make this stuff up. AWALTModeling is more about body parts than the whole. You'll have 5 shoot for the clothes and shop the segments together, (legs and ass, then torso, tits, then face, maybe change the eye color and perfect that natural tan) You can model anything. (modeling) is just live presentation of a product. You want hot girls? Go find (probably not fuck) an international escort who has to sell her entire body plus acting skills to make her annual living. Even those are separate by kinks, (daughter, sister, mot… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Stop trying to save everyone.The end game won't work in such a way. Remember, supply and demand. You have some great points, but I'd rethink it maybe this way: Alpha men increase, less appeasement of women in general. To become hitched at all, women must increase their value, (become more desired, based on the demands of a higher percent of more demanding men) Women increase their value and desirability by these alpha traits measurements. The average woman becomes worth dating instead of plating, attractiveness overall incr… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women have no respect for male emotionThere's nothing wrong with male shit testing. We just call it vetting. As a matter of fact, the praxeology of trp is about a third learning how to vet properly. Using spr to vet though, probably not the best idea. (imho) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Patrick Kane will not face rape charges.We (people) work of maybe every day. It's how the human mind is wired, (heuristics). Law does not (isn't intended to) work off maybe, i think the point op had is that due to the way society and people are structured, maybe is potentially still a public dagger. I get what you're saying though. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 03:08 AM |
| 0 | 44% of American adults will suffer from obesity by 2030"The cornered mouse attacks the cat, even knowing it cannot hope to survive" "the cat is wise to the mouses game, the rodent seeks death to avoid the pain." This comes to mind specifically when black Knighting or playing the social ass. Especially fatties and feminists. The thing to make sure though, is to understand that you are not the cat, the cat is your social proof and standing. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 02:48 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Physical SMV CapstoneCut until january, at least 10lb per month. (without losing on reps and maxes) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 09:08 PM |
| 4 | What you say is NOT what she hearsAh, here's the issue op. You said it. That's instant fuel. Words are not the language of women, feelings are. You should have gotten home, given her a pained expression and gone to lay down. Try to talk less and definitely don't argue. You do or don't put up with her crap, you never negotiate with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Evaluating her Partner Count; Actions speak Louder than WordsAs a black guy who refuses to date black girls, and never uses dating apps, my dick may as well be white washed. different is attractive. Going against norms is adventurous. Upsetting parents is delinquent Continue to play and win brother. My point is, all girls are easy for the right guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 02:20 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Dated a feminist. She just drove a knife through my heart. Lessons enforced.The biggest failure here is not one you mentioned. She didn't derail you, you did. She didn't force you to do anything blue, you volunteered it. She didn't make you sacrifice, you did. I'm guessing you already have internalized this, but the language we use is telling. She cannot be to blame, no woman can derail you, you did. Glad to see you're back though. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to hobbyI quit martial arts and began dancing lessons. (swing, mumba rumba Salsa, and waltz) Taught a friend how to change oil, finished the red stoic pdf (fucking finally) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/15 02:07 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Physical SMV CapstoneMetalaggeddon will partake on this challenge. Cut cycle started recently. 201 even. Sunday the 1st: 1750cal, rest day, still did 30 minute run for meditation.note, clean food Monday the 2nd: 2234 cal, shoulders and back, chest. Swing class 90 mins active. note clean food Tuesday the 3rd: 2449cal, arms and core, 30 minute run. Did extra back, didn't feel right from yesterday . note, clean food Wednesday the 4th: 2867 cal, rest day. 1hr run. note dirty food, Jimmy Johns Italian sub plus 2 shots jw… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Girl feels guilty about cheating on fiance, he shows up in thread and forgives her.I agree entirely. You analyze only what is empirically evidenced. Nothing more. (Your own experiences, things you've experienced first person going down, theories and concepts) Not a random person on the Internet of trolls. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.Perfect post. Additionally I would add that you should always err in the side of caution and drink more water. Never less. Driving 2 cups of water before a meal (or with it) will make you feel more full faster, but you're adding someone most Americans sorely need, (more hydration) and tangentially improving portion control. Addendum: my cheat is a beer a night. One. Solitary. Micro brew. It may be essentially 1200 extra calories a week, but I would rather use something pre measured by my fitness… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/15 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Confronted by my family for being isolatedIt's indeed something. Use this more as a social trial than a connector. If he's socially awkward he'll likely not supply any good connections. Either way, you're making a healthy step. Next weekend, make the following step bigger. Rinse and repeat, in a year you won't even recognize how your current life was so satisfying. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Where are you on your fitness/strength/physique journey thus far?Hell yeah it is. Also difficult to find practitioners where I am. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Incomplete AssumptionsYour dad reminds me of mine, and more so my grandfather. Good on you for making the move. This is the same thing I was taught when I was younger. 1) a good boss is always busy 2) a good boss wants to be efficient and effective. 3) If you're thinking of asking a question that makes you more efficient and effective, always ask it. Always. Now I'm a boss. I agree entirely with what your dad said. I'll break my back to ensure I don't lose the good affiliates I have (to a hard line I've never had to … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 01:36 AM |
| 1 | The Fermi ParadoxThe question is not and never will be "is an ltr worth it". This is a vague meaningless question, the proof for that being, without background information and context, either answer is permissible depending on the person asking. Nice try though OP | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 01:22 AM |
| 1 | The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfactionIf it's the right kind of moral dogma yes, however it's easy to imagine a moral dogma that does not necessitate any kind of savagery in response to circumstances of any type. Pure dogmatic pacifism would be an example. Or (do no harm) type moral codes. I see your point, not disagreeing with that intention, just restructuring the phrasing to make it more airtight. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | The Windfalls of Pussy.Logic as it applies to a hedonist philosophy. Many other philosophies would refuse such help on a self sufficient basis, and also be logical. Logic only applies to the argument being used after all. I have to agree though, if I were a hedonist, id never think twice about milking my surroundings. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a mentorGo contact u/gaylubeoil for a Skype session. Good guy, very skilled, he'll fit you in eventually | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 05:07 AM |
| 2 | I need help. Please read this.Small successes build morale. Read this, https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing Do the lessons. If it doesn't help you, then seek professional help further. I wish i could say more, hang in there man. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Where are you on your fitness/strength/physique journey thus far?Started cut two months ago, (august 1st) nat but with myostat complex (genetic benefit) 15lb lost, reps have dropped, mostly from fatigue, maxes staying the same. 5'11 200lb down from 215 to 20 (water weight) 16%. Low on energy but want to abuse calorie deficit, I always eat less in the cold so I want to move with what is natural for me. Aside from that, HIIT is good and no long term effects from a severe rhabdo stint a year ago (cks at 200000 for a day). Learned to work out smarter (listen to y… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 04:55 AM |
| 22 | Starting Self Analysis: (also, PDF release!)The Red Stoic pdf no Google or email account necessary You can also email theredstoic at gmail dot com in order to sign up for updated editions, or submit content you'd like added. I've already found a copy editor willing to update it bit by bit, and I'd very much like to expand the meta theory of TRP with more useful, assignment based content. This is and will continue to be freely available. I'm also happy to work with any endorsed or vets to create better content at a faster rate for the deni… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)Thanks, I'll be posting it with one of the included lessons shortly. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Women's Hamsters Speed Out Of The Gate Like Race Horses When Article Suggests Men Lie On Their Dating Profiles.Meh. It's life. Take any 95/100 women, rate them, strip them, rate them again. Probably just lost a point or more. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism and harsh realitieshttps://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Ice breakinghttps://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Ice breakinghttps://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6YJEPGSOZ8laWJLeHVtNFpEcjQ/view?usp=sharing | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Through a Red Pill Lense (AKA: don't be big fucking taco)If you're rp and going to a Halloween party, you should really be showing yourself off. Go as a high profile well dressed spy professional type, or a superhero to show off the body. Better if you can swing both. Come across as always, as classy and primal. Or don't. Whatever. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Women's Hamsters Speed Out Of The Gate Like Race Horses When Article Suggests Men Lie On Their Dating Profiles.Didn't even think of that. Probably am 6 even with shoes. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Indian guy: How to increase my SMV ? Is it ever going to happen irrespective of what I do ? Need a planHah. Someone willing to try anything is less legit instead of more. Nice job. Btw, I own a tg company as my primary, so I was at both of those events to keep up marketing. Not only as a product owner but also as an equity owner for the venues. Pro tip, girls with social anxiety are easy lays, do with that what you will. (common to both types of venue) Fair enough, your experiences and biases are yours. No hard feelings. No hostility. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Indian guy: How to increase my SMV ? Is it ever going to happen irrespective of what I do ? Need a planin order of best male to female ratio in my experience only Dancing lessons (mumba rumba salsa), dancing (Waltz or adv), Clubs (dancing), sororitslut parties, clubs (venue) Tennis, swimming (shore), yoga, swimming (closed), biking, rock climbing, book clubs, AA or NA mentoring, hiking (day), hiking (camping most often taken) hiking (trailer most often fatties), world building (rpg, pnp, avoiding personalities), lifting (equal to hiking day but the good ones aren't looking for approach), comedy c… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Indian guy: How to increase my SMV ? Is it ever going to happen irrespective of what I do ? Need a planSimple answer, would you choose you as you are, or you muscle bound? That's the sale. It's always a better option. Even more, it's something you can control very cheaply that directly affects 2 levels of smv. (more depending on how severely you're afflicted with weakness, the common male disease.) As for what you're looking for and your potential activities, do what you love and do it 100 percent. No compromise. I cannot possibly give more advice than that since you haven't supplied the precurso… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Meeting People 101I operate in the abuse of vagueness and specifics. It's a love hate tragedy. Glad you understand though. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 11:43 PM |
| 42 | Women's Hamsters Speed Out Of The Gate Like Race Horses When Article Suggests Men Lie On Their Dating Profiles.You've forgotten the biggest thing, clothing. Women's clothing is built to hold certain forms, push up bras, loose tops with tight mid sections that force in the gut, tight pants that hold the ass in perk. Layering so you can choose body segmented clothing in up to 7 areas instead of just the male 3 (head, chest, legs). Women's clothing is built to accentuate, let's be serious here, it wouldn't sell any other way. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 11:41 PM |
| 15 | Women's Hamsters Speed Out Of The Gate Like Race Horses When Article Suggests Men Lie On Their Dating Profiles.That's 1st person bias. 6' seems like 6'2 in a crowd of 5'10,even more so to a woman at 5'4 who's already attracted. (we focus on qualities we love and inflate them) I'm 5'11 nude and frequently, FREQUENTLY mistaken for 6'1. It's pre-selection and desire at work. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Ask Whisper: The Fear and Shame LoopDammit whisper, yet again i have to agree with you. You're right, there is a clear difference and I did not notice it, I played the bitch and only considered what I would have focus on. You're good. Hope to see you posting more often it's been a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Confronted by my family for being isolatedThey're not exclusive. Do both at the same time. Always remember, even if you're not gaming, you are participating in the game. Now get out there within a week, and come back in 2 months with an illuminating field report. I'll hold you to it. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | What to do after success?You have the basics covered, now elevate. Expand your business until you're strictly top manager, dissociate yourself from the nitty gritty, give yourself more time. Spend that time on the bucket list (which should be ever increasing). Good job OP, keep going and do not become complacent. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Red pill me on the stereotype of hair stylistsIt's an aesthetic art, and they must succeed by tuning into and marketing aesthetics. They make a living judging looks and reinforcing vanity. Do you expect their own personality to be different from their 40hr a week indoctrination? They're no better than a perfume sales person. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm Making My Girlfriend Get An Abortion Next Weekend!Lol. You have me cracking up over here. (biologically sterile), but never had to deal with this. But that's exactly how it would go down. Nice op. Warning. Don't celebrate until it's done. You're counting your chickens before their hatching has been cancelled. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Whats an alpha way to ask if theres a party somewhere?Ask. A function that took my night just disappeared an hour ago. First thing I did was ready the emergency costume and make calls. There are 4 house parties going on just in walking distance, over 10 if I drive. More if I go to venues. Fucking ask. hey, what's going down tonight. Need a new scene to enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:33 PM |
| 4 | 26M feeling too old to go to a halloween partyYou don't feel like going. So don't fucking go. You feel like you're missing out on something. So deal with it. Or go. Everything in your post is a very sorry excuse for a failure in either accountability, or willingness to take risk. The simplest answer? Go. And leave if you're not enjoying yourself. Grab some goodwill clothes and dress as a hobo. Problem solved. ... Fuck. How do you survive day to day? | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Failed dosage?You should have just walked out. Excused yourself to her parents. If she tried to make a scene be honest and polite, adults don't slap each other for no reason. I've no interest in being disrespected this way. Politely thank her family for having you over and leave. Social shaming works. I personally wouldn't look back, too many women out there to tolerate that. If you still feel guilty or perturbed, flip the script. What would her parents have done if you slapped her when talking on the phone? … | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Confronted by my family for being isolatedIt sounds like you're honestly comfortable with your life. Most times. Getting out isn't for everyone, that being said, the longer you go without training up social skills the harder it is to break in If you're concerned with being productive, as you mentioned, then take note, social capacity is a muscle that must be trained as hard as any other. 21 and a Virgin is worrisome. Things with girls aren't going poorly, because they're not going at all. Time to schedule rock climbing. Join a group, or… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Demeanour changeYou're doing well OP. being hard to read is good, being hard to understand is not. Both statements from your boss are positive things, keep it up. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Meeting People 101New guy: yeah I'm starting up a business You validating: that's really cool, bet a lot of people want that. Or man I want to start a business, just never have the time. Cool man. You contributing value: wow, have you considered doing x this way? It may be more appealing to customers, I know I would be more inclined to buy it. Or I've been wanting to start a business, do you have any advice on how you got an llc? I was thinking online but x site is pretty costly | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 09:00 PM |
| 3 | HTNGAF when the guy my ex cheated with shows up at Halloween partyEh. It's her fault cheating took place, not his. The buck stops with the person in the social contract of fidelity. If you can really internalize that, and be cool, go. If not, go anyways and learn to get over it. Make sure you have something legit to do elsewhere as an escape method. If you can't do that without likely damaging your rep, go to a different party. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Do some plates just get bored of you and drop you?Don't bother, she's just a plate. That may be a hint you're definitely not ready for the ltr jump, nor have you completely cured oneitis tendencies with abundance. I wouldn't worry about it though, seems like you just want tips. My tip is, write it down and keep spinning. Keep it secure, like Evernote journal locked, whenever a plate ends just jot down the why, you'll recognize what's good and bad for you quickly and vet girls to match you better. Keep spinning, don't waste time gluing together … | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 02:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond to cutesy texts?"cute". Not "that's cute" or "you're cute" just, "cute". That is all. Don't push it. Let her hamster spin. She'll either catch on that words mean nothing and her actions mean everything, or she'll end up disqualifying herself. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Exchanging sexual favoursNever give without guaranteed reception. It's called selfish charity. You only make another person (her) content or happy if she's already done that for you. Recently. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How do you take the pussy off the pedestal when you've never had any?There are three major ways, I'm going to list them from best to worst... live it : as in get yourself some experience, where, escorts, fatty, whatever. It'll change your perspective and you won't have to lie, (lying is not wrong, many are just bad at it) fake it: agree and amplify, flip the qualifiers, pua tactics, whatever you need to, fake it and own it. You could also redirect the conversation (building mystery if done properly). be blunt and honest to a fault: yes I'm a Virgin. Haven't met t… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 03:12 AM |
| 3 | War on Feminism: Part 1Firstly: if you revamp this post to vet the app and get enough ec approval, I'd be happy to anonymously throw resources at it. (two coders, one ios background one both android and ios) plus some financing for equity. Secondly, this has already been discussed myriad times, really it's dating carfax. It'll likely fail unless you've found a way to breach personal privacy actions and legal responses based on our current societies love of women and their sexual privacy (victimization). Thirdly, monet… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Ask Whisper: The Fear and Shame LoopI read this, I agree with it, but I really think it comes down to action. How do you do something? You fucking do it. If you're weak, do you ask for help for months? No, you get to the gym. If your savings are low do you complain or ask for financial advice? Sure, but not over the course of months, you start saving. Similarly, if you're afraid of rejection what do you do? You go out and plan on being rejected, build thick skin and idgaf mentality, before you know it you're not failing every time… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Is anyone else sick of 'average girls'?I don't know about that. Chad is just a concept, but he doesn't have to be a pure alpha, (criminal, probably incarcerated). Plenty of Chads have surged up from nothing or little, and most of the alpha individuals I know have worked themselves with a passion. Hey, they may have taken a job at daddy's company, but they still put in 60 hrs a week and don't quit. I think the need to dissociate from raw self destructive alphas may be conflating your measurements. Then again, I'm just a dude in a foru… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Do Not Try to Engage Woman in a Logical ArgumentThanks, I do completely agree with you though, that being said. Thanks for the good post! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 02:15 AM |
| 50 | Do Not Try to Engage Woman in a Logical ArgumentCommunication is still key bro. The problem is you're running two different languages. Trp teaches you how to communicate with women, it's by action, not words. Your actions are all the communication you need. I get what you mean though, just pointing that out. Verbal rational discussion is not on the table, may as well explain physics to a house cat. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Obesity is an underrated driver of today's SMP dynamicsYeah, this isn't exactly good reasoning. overweight can be only 1 or 2 percent, you probably wouldn't even notice. The average slim girl still has a paunch, no visible abs. They still get fucked regularly with plenty of offers. actually fat chicks also, still get fucked. the bar is lower throughout, thirsty men have lowered standards in response, so now every girl is entitled and has an over inflated sense of how desirable she is. (there's no balanced deviation anymore) the smp is based on cohor… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 01:39 PM |
| 6 | You are defenseless against a sexual harassment accusation.Good job getting out of there. Never room with a woman, ever. Hell in my experience you can't even build a clean pad to come home to. Women are dirty as pigs. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Derek Jeter (41) with his 25 y/o model female: Hollywood/Sports Players confirm TRP despite pretending to be FEMINISTYou can believe something and not function according to belief. This is most evident in dissociative disorders, you can belive in morality and be apathetic towards it in favor of (functionality). This is not to be contested, it is logical, function trumps beliefs, almost every time. Nothing new actually, it's quite evident for someone who can be objective examining their own practices day to day versus their intentions. Now drawing a casual relationship (as you seem to be doing) is another thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Don't just practice abundance mentality - become the king.Fortitude (confidence and bravery) must be measured with prudence (appropriateness) justice (to give what is due) and temperance (restraint). Any virtue without the others is only vice amplified. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Trailer for "The Red Pill" MRA documentary posted on /rvideos. TRP misconceptions abound.Shit. So our honest approach is worse than fabrication based pua tactics? Really? I'm not surprised this is crap. However, in light of a recent post, I will still throw money at it. Any pr drives advertisement. We won't disappear. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)I guess some bullet points. you don't need to lie if you're already desired, no need to sell yourself to a buyer, they're already a buyer. if you're not putting forth enough value, you need to improve yourself first, you can't make demands effectively if you're not on the upper hand. (lift, read, practice public speaking, day game ugly girls to learn how to not give a fuck being direct and telling the truth) if you're still feeling the need to lie about yourself or your lifestyle, there's probab… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 11:10 PM |
| 0 | About to call off the wedding in 2 weeks.It's been over for a while. Just leave. do not get married in America do not compromise yourself for anything. do not insult your brothers with a question you already know the answer to. (hopefully) Good luck, a near miss is better than a near hit. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 03:12 AM |
| 5 | #NoNothingNovember 2015 ChallengeWhat about those of us who run a business, or businesses from home? I'm thinking maybe I could only do work at the office, but my work Is my hobby. Then again maybe it shouldn't be. I may have answered this for myself... Still looking for tips if anyone has some. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)Fair judgement, though just a judgement. Opening with a high level of politeness followed by dirty implications works wonders. (confusion creates curiosity). Won't work for everyone, just chose an example which worked for me, and supported my theory. Above all, context is the most important thing. I can't demonstrate it over text, but I've picked up girls with "so are we doing this at my place or yours" all the way to the above and everything in-between. Be aware of setting. Use what works. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 04:24 PM |
| 3 | The Average Woman Can Not Exist Outside Without Their Cell PhoneMales live in the real world by necessity. Yes, game theory applies, but life is not a game you can easily restart by (lying about n count) or modify (appealing to a game master = appealing to big daddy government) Men start with tic tac toe, upgrade to chess, and end with GO, women start with checkers and upgrade to chess, then bitch about how complicated it is. My point is you could write a metaphor for it, but the problem is for (many) men we escape reality by having fun with advanced complex… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | "When you face yourself, you discover yourself"Hey bro, nice post, however a long time lurker should try to follow format rules. It'd be a shame if reasonable content were removed due to something as simple as format. summary body lessons learned Thanks though, enjoyed the read. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Two Wives and BDSM: My friendship with a Rat BastardWanted to add, this is more commonplace than you may realize. Myself during University, lived in my own apartment, 2 bedroom, 1.5 bath. I rented to a grad girl, who was a plate. I had 3 plates at the time, but 1 of them lived there and the other) another may as well have lived at my place. They knew each other, they knew I was the leader, they liked each other (and of course competed), but it was a good year. S we'll call the first, the renter, cooked a few times a week, even made certain to hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Even your family will try to convince you not to become redpillI've done this for years. It either goes to a friend's party as a donation or to work for the employees. Tell them the truth, I can't, it'll effect my diet. I have to watch my health. Usually having one slice of cake is fine, once a week. If you're getting immersed in daily food gifts however at some point you need to shut that down. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 03:15 PM |
| 6 | The Average Woman Can Not Exist Outside Without Their Cell PhoneOf course they are. The social groups are zones, the minutes spent are experience points, the comments are achievements, the likes are your ranking modifier, the overall friends are your global ranking. Your Guilds and clans are her friends and enemy groups, some of them hate each other but they all need to be balanced. Cosmetics are gear and item level. Physical looks are stats. End game dungeons are locking a guy down, entry and mid game pvp is based on feeding and baiting (orbiters and alphas… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)Woah I actually want to take a moment and help you out here! Your personal assessment of people who are nice and polite and your where they come from is illogical. No... No it isn't. I'd be happy to pm you why and explain, but I won't write out formulae here. If you believe niceness is a inbuilt trait, possibly innate, then it doesn't make sense to think they are using it to get something. Inbuilt Traits are used to to achieve a function all the time. Not All Inbuilt Traits were original. A mart… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Some tips for those starting outSorry, water should be your primary drink. Don't know how (never) got in there. Stupid mistake. Corrected now. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Some tips for those starting outFree weights, know your form, start light and build every session. watch a form video every day. Sl5x5 then PPL, my fitness pal (app) for calorie tracking, Evernote for weekly pics (private but you need to see the effects for another boost and reminder) cheap food scale, use it. as mentioned elsewhere here, 1 month you'll notice, 3 months for family, 6 for smp get rid of sugar. water as primary drink. If cutting drink some before eating to false fill yourself if necessary. Worked for myself and … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)I'd say that you should work on separating peoples courtesy from friendship. If someone is polite to me the last thing I think is this is a potential friend, I just noticed they're polite. They certainly aren't trying to get something from me without outright saying so. Niceness makes me very wary, when people are giving me random things for no feasible reason, I think subterfuge or implied owance- neither of which I'm interested in. Which wraps me to your first point, i believe politeness to be… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)Interesting perspective, if you believe social codes = moral Judgements. I'm skeptical of that since it's recursively invalid, but I appreciate your style. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)Actually this is very specific. Sorry if that was not transparent. I thought I'd been very precise about the difference between politeness and niceness. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the value (if any) in listening to understand a woman's point of view?While she's talking, her body is speaking. It's the only thing of value. What she does is everything, what she says is largely irrelevant. Sidebar, set some goals, crush them for a month, monk mode, then come back and see if you have accepted the path to a happy life. Welcome. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 11:17 AM |
| 1 | FwB broke up with boyfriend. Time to be beta or not?Yup. Be civil, be short, respond with logistics, nothing more. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:52 PM |
| 7 | Sarcastically got the "you're such a gentleman shit test" and how to deal with shit tests from girls you're not interested in?It's brutal for me. I have synesthesia. (Sound to vision color). Bad voices literally mess up my sight. (Think the most sickly yellow you can, then make it a filter on your entire line of sight). But she knows game theory. Also amazing tits, (like, deal with the devil level tits). | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:51 PM |
| 5 | I've come to the conclusion that the only place to find a girl worth marrying is at church. Am I wrong?Very wrong. There are none. I don't mean to say there are no girls worth marrying because of the girl, there are no girls worth marrying because of the legal system in place. (In the u.s.) However you can find a good mate if you vet very carefully and are constantly on top of your shit. Ask yourself, would I stay with me for 22 years plus if I was being thrown several options a day? Be honest with yourself, for the overwhelming majority of people, no is the only true answer. As for where you fin… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:44 PM |
| 0 | Questions on Monk modeOkay, here it goes. You don't go into monk mode and hope to stay happy. You're retraining your conditioning to be happy regardless. It's not as though monk mode is to be tolerated it isn't supposed to be easy or fun at the start, especially if you really need it. It will suck at the start, but small successes power you through. TLDR, if monk mode doesn't hurt when you start it, you probably don't need it. If it does, you need it all the more. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:37 PM |
| 3 | FwB broke up with boyfriend. Time to be beta or not?Oneitis. There are plenty more, better girls within a few miles of you that aren't indecisive. Go with them. This one will follow if she feels the Tingle's, not if you make it clear you're there as a security blanket. Also, go reread the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:33 PM |
| 18 | Sarcastically got the "you're such a gentleman shit test" and how to deal with shit tests from girls you're not interested in?Ignore, or if you can't, then agree and amplify. Recently happened to me, this girl, call her J was over with some Bros, she's part of a testing group I run. Hb8, voice is a 3, "fingernails on a blackboard". Not interested in her, but she's into me. Now I need her skill set at this time, so I'm happy to have her around, but she asks me to get her a soda from the mini fridge, two feet from her. (I'm across the room). My response, "wow are you okay? What happened to your legs?" She faltered, laugh… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:29 PM |
| 22 | Man is convicted of statutory rape because the girl lied about her age. It is the quote of the judges that really astounds meYou don't even have to go that far. What if they charged the minor with entrapment? Or charged the parents in her place? The exact same words SHOULD be legitimate against the fourteen year old. Especially in light of the mother's perspective. Disgusting is what it is, I agree with you, (and OP). Protect yourself, men are very much alone in the legal world. ... FUCK FEMINISTS | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Neofemininityrewritten A take-down of Kevin Powell's CNN article: http://therationalmale.com/2015/10/23/neofemininity/ Tail Chasing We as men are constantly questioning what is manhood, manliness? Due to feminism this question is pushed to the forefront regularly, but the answers are still ambiguous to some. The answer to what is manhood is often defined by feminists, or feminine men, summarized as, "whatever serves women the best*. This we can agree is a pressing issue. Feminisms definition of manhood is ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Plates Want Instant Commitment.They go nuclear when I don't offer it back .Thoughts?Gotcha. I have a specific alpha friend with this issue. He's the only one in our little red triad. We got together a few months ago and managed to iron out why. It's not the girl. wait for it It's you. For whatever reason, you're attracted to or vetting women who are the type to ramp up on feeling needed and security. My friend specifically, "we'll call him Zen," noticed a few underlying traits which every plate he has share. history of neediness. low n count "attachment still working really wel… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 07:14 PM |
| 11 | Dailymail article confirms the wall: Women over 40 who have become "celibate" because no man will commit to them: Of course its men's fault as the conclusion!I love this. Off the top of my head I know four single women over 60 still getting banged every week. Usually by the same guy. Why? BECAUSE THEY KEPT TO THE GYM. They mastered techniques that most girls never have to, the deep throat, the a2m, the spontaneous bj, the "classy slut" garb, cooking, cleaning, one even knows home repair rather well (plumming and HVAC). This is the hyper example of a lack of agency and additionally, total entitlements. Shoot. I'd pay a hundred on a dinner just to fuck… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Be Careful of the Content you Text Women"We're just not compatible" Then walk. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Social Experiment: I tried to confirm to myself that women look for money and success.Very true. I experience this in split every week. Monday, Wednesday, Friday I'm usually doing business, dressed well, tailored, pressed, no nice watch because I hate all jewelry. I'm probably approached five to six times each day. People respect me, good treatment. Tuesday, Thursday I'm on campus, classes are 3 hours a pop, at least one of the days I'm dressed for the gym for them. Sweats and a tee. I may act the same, at least very closely, but it's one to none in approaches and iois. I recogni… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Woman Don't Give A Fuck About A Sensitive Man.I wish I had taken that lesson. After my friend died I decided never to quit, because everything will eventually leave/break. May as well enjoy the ride. Looking back, your perspective would have be really great for 19yr old me. Also. I'm sorry for the pain of that loss. It's immense, and I hope you're well. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 04:18 PM |
| 1 | “The RP Guide to Defeating the Enemy: Initiation”Yeah but for the reasons mentioned below you should be cautious, body mechanics and micro only works in sets of signs, not a single one. Additionally they need to be read properly, which is immensely rare. Not many people have internalized enough of them to make it reflexive, passive, and accurate. I do agree though, dilation is probably worth 2 points instead of 1 when considering a set to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Ice breakingI'd think that's more tonal. you're from x. Is different from, you're from x? Is vastly different from where are you from? Statements (grammatically) can be questions (contextually and tonally). I agree though, better to form a question as an investigative statement. Then again I may be overtly conscious of this since I absolutely adore the philosophy of language. (Non verbal or grammatical) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)Thank you for your insight. Completely right on all accounts insofar as a comparison to my experience. I especially agree with the end long term gain, eventually, if you vet well in the first place, you will end up with an excellent, powerful, low drama social circle. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 04:50 PM |
| 3 | chick from my class randomly added me on facebook, what would be the best approach hereIt's just social proof or mining until you see iois or she contacts you. Once/if she does, game, logistics, treat as normal. Until then don't fret on it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)Short answer, yes. I use this approach to breaking up the same way for everyone regardless of time. Whether it's 3yrs or 3 weeks. The logistics often change because of shared items getting back to their owners hands. The words and message do not change at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)I only partially understand what you're saying, but I think that it comes down to being civil. Act as you would to a well dressed male stranger whose asking for directions. Nothing more. Continue on with your day. Don't waste time feeding her. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)Not really. I've actually been in plenty of ltrs, they all end the same. She wakes up, I'm packed, hey, we aren't really working out, just not that compatible, had fun though By the time I'm home they're usually removed from everything. First time I'll admit, hurts a lot to do, but it becomes easier and trust me, there's less pain for everyone involved. You don't let her hamster hurt her, and you don't hurt yourself with reminders. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)Yeah that should be fine. Just don't say anything else or attempt to explain yourself. I find it just exacerbates excuses. Once you codify something it can be picked apart as ammunition. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)I can't say. Now that I think of it I don't think I've ever wanted to be friends with a girl if she wasn't business tied, or I wasn't fucking or vetting her. Male friends have always been better, more fun, more well, everything. "Shit if I could swing that way they'd probably be a better bj too." As far as where to break up, I'd suggest her place. Yours if you're certain she won't just sit in the entry way sobbing awkwardly. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)Well, you could do what I've written above... Fade into the back ground. Just a suggestion. I think I pretty much gave you the tools, you just need the fortitude to actually do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)You may not have read it thoroughly, but you've supported everything I've said. I wish you had, you are probably capable of supplying more than reiteration. You don't need this post brother. Another thing covered in it... though thank you for the feedback! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)Thank you very much. I've spent a long time trying to improve my writing, and I have trp to thank for the last few months of dramatic improvement in clarity, composition and conciseness. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 04:16 PM |
| 9 | Ice making, (freezing a relation)Part of it yes. Definitely on many cases. However sometimes that can be more damaging than good. Usually for the lesser obvious relationship freezes you need, such as a prospective business affiliate. I'd also like to mention "too much drama" doesn't exist to a hamster. It's all confirmation as long as she's the center of it. In general though you're completely right. Radio silence does work. when tempered with politeness. Not niceness, but politeness. Thanks for the first comment, glad it was a… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to not feel mentally wrecked (anxiety, dread, depression) after swallowing TRP? Specifically about self-improvement?I heavily recommend you contact gaylubeoil on Skype. He's an excellent and very clear resource. Now I'm going to comment on something in your post that's under my specially. goals one of the first things you mention is feeling overwhelmed about being a top 5% alpha with xyz required traits. Stop this. No one goes from zero to hero in a few months. Ever. There will always be another thing to focus on. You do not rebuild yourself even in a year. You need Small provable, measurable successes. You s… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 04:08 PM |
| 1 | what is a good reason to not drink alcohol?I can agree with that actually. Only speaking from my personal experience. To be fair a moderate amount certainly doesn't hinder me either. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 03:19 PM |
| 3 | what is a good reason to not drink alcohol?Don't do what you don't want to. think of the extra calories. think of the extra cost. think of being the only sober one playing the game. Makes things like shooting fish in a barrel. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Question for MODs, ECs and other guys on top of their shit: why do you help us?I am no big deal here at all, but I do help a good number of people. I'm here because there's always someone better to learn from, and it's a good way to gather my thoughts, codify my systems, and most importantly, practice writing. I write full time for two of my brands, but it's largely engine style manuals. If I can appeal to several hundred people here and share some value, I'm paid back by refining my writing style without hiring copy editors or more classes. Plus, I like this internet frat… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Question for MODs, ECs and other guys on top of their shit: why do you help us?PDF anthologies plus a patreon. You'd be surprised how many people here would donate to episodic releases. Community based content as well, take suggestions about topics to write on and do shout outs to them, covering specifically what they've currently been struggling with. (I'm sure you already do this to a point). Nice simple way to start. You deserve it. If you're good at something never do it for free. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 01:26 PM |
| 4 | What were girls like before they could get constant validation from social mediaEnd of high school for me was 06. It may have been just at my school, but we were slow to adopt even MySpace then move to Facebook. Smart phones were not uncommon, but people still didn't exactly understand how to really utilize a mini computer in your hands. Girls were just as slutty. For the right guy(s). However there weren't really as many orbiters. When you have to spend minutes out of your day, in person, with someone you're not attracted to, that's cutting into your flaunt time with the g… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Front page of NY Times today - Sex Ed Lesson: "Yes Means Yes," but It’s TrickyFake name, burner cell. Roll like you normally do. No one comes to your place. No social media information, (address, phone, etc). No personal info on common locations, just keep it easy and vague. You can save yourself a lot of trouble by following those general guides, though it's more important for those with poor vetting processes. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What if a girl doesn't like anal?It's really a question of yourself. Regardless of the reason she has, what is yours? If you need anal for any reason, how important is it to you? Important enough to move on? That's the only real question. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 01:00 AM |
| 3 | What are some of your worst shit tests?"You don't really love me" It's so basic and unimaginative. Such a blatant cry for an excuse or attention that I simply walk out. Over the years it's happened plenty of times, I started by pressing past it, but at this point, fuck it. I know she doesn't need to be in love to have fun. She just needs ME to love her. Fucked up thing is, as far as I understand love, I love almost every girl I've banged. THAT'S WHY I'M REALISTIC WITH THEM. WE'RE NOT COMPATIBLE LONG TERM. Poor fools. You really do ha… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 12:48 AM |
| 1 | The core of the Red Pill is value: A detailed analysis. Welcome to Red Pill math class.You've attempt to quantify value, and have not succeeded. Value is simple. It's the price you can ask for the things people want from you. Regardless of how much you can output, selling salt in a salt field is not valuable. Value is a difficult thing to understand, "quantitatively" but easy to grasp affectively. If 9s don't want you but 6s do, you have the value of a something greater than six, and less than nine. This is affective instead of descriptive, because I must repeat, what you can outp… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Ice breakingRphomework... I like your thinking. That's mine now. I'll be adding homework to the PDF lessons in bite sizes, and future posts will always include a weekly assignment. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Local Bar ONSAmazing fr, I'm going to be taking a lot of compositional lessons from this. I like how you seamlessly integrate the lessons into the demonstrative practices. I think I'll be doing the same. (I only write meta and theory, bad at FRS). Thank you for the read, I usually only play wing for others, never really have wanted or needed one for myself, but you've made me rethink this. As a matter of fact tomorrow is Friday, may as well ring up one of my crew and have fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 10:52 PM |
| 1 | The Professor's Married Red Pill Basic ClassOut of curiosity, have you checked in with Terrance pop? He may have some useful tips. Loving the curriculum BTW, I'd suggest a vetting process lesson in there somewhere. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/15 10:46 PM |
| 23 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.Of course it does. Education directly relates to curiosity and critical thinking. Many educated men have problems trp can solve, we're more likely to seek it out, be objective, and give it a chance! ... Yay for the community... Or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Feminist hypocrisy in action (in college class)Many times a social science is required for the major. By far, if you can swallow your pride and act as the group expects you, you can get 3 to 6 credits doing absolutely nothing, and be fucking every girl in your isle. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 12:21 AM |
| 2 | GF keeps telling me I can become a ''house husband'' if I wish to. What goes through her head?It's not just the red pill, it's people in general. Most people know very little about critical thinking. Even fewer specialize in a specific field of analysis. It's simply unintentional mistake conflating what you like to think with random studies that usually aren't relevant if you fully understood them. No biggie, it's normal. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Ice breakingNot anger. I hope maybe something could be learned from this hasty generalization. Thanks though, it does come off very rage based. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Ice breakingSUMMARY well that's just common sense, people don't have enough common sense, much of the red pill is just common sense and why using any of these phrases, or any phrase using common sense as a qualifier, is not alpha, is ignoring agency, and reeks of ignorance or a lack of ingenuity. what is it "Hey metalaggeddon, you're a philosopher, why do you care about trp. Basically it just says women are women and men should focus on themselves right? Common sense!" Me: shut your mouth you ignorant fool.… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Ice breakingJust pm me, I'll be sending it out end of month. It includes my 8 core rp lessons. Can be rather meta as I'm a philosopher. (Analytic, meta ethics and semantics, practicing stoic). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Mandatory "Not Anymore" Survey for College-- Required to Complete before RegisteringStart your own business. Tightly control your social circle. Tough but worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 11:55 AM |
| 17 | My older Sister is cheating on her BB fiancéEh. Don't involve yourself. If you absolutely must, get hard evidence and send it to him anonymously on a burner email from a library computer. (This is what I'd personally do if it was a close bro) | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Serious question. Are we all here because we are or were betas?I came here accidentally, and stayed for terminology. Wrote 8 lessons, helped a lot of people, have largely moved on with my life. Still check in every day or two to help another few people, brush up on current culture, that's about it. Never needed trp as a framework, always had it. I'm sure there are plenty of others like that here. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 10:54 AM |
| 2 | [Rant] "Enjoying the decline" Is impossible as you see "all the corpses" Especially those of your friends.You're approaching helping him the right way, passively and by living the example. You can still enjoy the decline. Seeing is not affecting is not feeling (necessarily). It is different for someone who seems to have your level of empathy, but it's still a matter of putting things in their place. an excerpt from my breakdown of stoicism The glass is always broken. This is something to internalize, it is the case of objective reality. Everything you interact with, (in a tangible sense) women, love… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Not Applying Anything?How do you go change? you fucking go go out. Turn off your phone. Anywhere. Just go. Set a timer for 3 hours. Take fifty bucks. don't get drunk, get chatty. Converse with everyone. Take mental notes. Approach, approach approach. your goal is to get turned down a dozen times in that three hours. Cut conversations off early if you must. It's better to leave early than late. come home. Write an fr. Don't post it until you've repeated five times. Then post the improvements in that fr over those 5 ti… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Exheunt Omnes, metal's last lessonThe reference is not meant for you specifically, it helps the people who already recognize me find new content, without having to message them or update them that the latest is released. Thank you though. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Exheunt Omnes, metal's last lessonGood. Continue to. Don't forget to get out the door and practice, you'll do just fine. I support the perpetual quest for knowledge, new info and perspectives. I simply try not to become entrenched in that which I've solidified, not to say that I don't reconsider things, to the contrary. However if I can sink a free throw 99 percent of the time, I'd rather work on layups. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Exheunt Omnes, metal's last lessonThank you. I've come a long way since my first lesson. Thanks directly to the community and a few specific contributors. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Michelle Obama is advising girls to pursue education regardless of how cute is the boyI agree entirely but for one point. Breeding (non genetic) is just conditioning. It can be bought, it can be done post childhood. That's why there are dancing schools, etiquette schools and speech schools. (And more) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 06:39 PM |
| 2 | If you're Dark Triad, don't unveil it.Forget about being dark triad and who knows it. Most of the individuals higher on the spectrum don't realize they're higher on that spectrum, that's why they are. Not that they'd care much if they found out. Sociopathy and psychopathy are similar. Principled sociopaths for example, are quite aware societal expectations and standards, and often fixate on the principals they have, for whatever reason, chosen to define themselves by. Psychopaths only have the principal of self fulfillment, often wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say 'there are no good men left'TLDR They only mean that they aren't getting what they want, so it must be the world's fault. That is all. That's really just the primary form of the hamster. I am responsible for nothing, me not getting what I want is not a reflection on me in any way | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Men now graduate college far less than women. But who's to blame?My girlfriend had her degree long before I. I left college halfway through and started a business. Now she manages a sandwich shop while I can do whatever the hell I want while I finish my schooling. I'd also like to point out, agency, you are responsible for finishing college, if it's the right choice for you. Even for a male there are plenty of systems of support in place to make it a realistic possibility for the majority. Many, I understand, in the minority are simply Sol. That's life. I'm o… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Dress how you want to be treatedI can't upvote this enough. It makes a massive difference in how comfortable you feel, which directly effects how comfortably you act. It's also something done so uncommonly that it is an easy way to add points to your desire, and screams "I'm worth the extra mile, at the very least, to Me" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Dress how you want to be treatedHowever it's better to be an ugly mofo with good style than an ugly mofo with none. It is still an improvement. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Entrepreneurship questions.Entrepreneur here. A lot of the same basis to what you've described. skills Firstly, you are correct, just having a skill is not enough. Entrepreneurial success also requires many of the side skills many don't consider - can you build an effective work culture? - can you sell yourself to investors and advisors - is your social network conducive to the industry you're planning to enter? - have you run the five forces model on your idea? resources do you have the cash or time to start this endeavo… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 01:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I'll hold onto that for youYnab is the absolute shit. Love it to death, been using it for years now. Good on you. To anyone else who sees this, the reason why is sitting form and physically going over purchases ingrains the things you're buying much more starkly than auto allocation. Heavily recommended. To OP, good job. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/15 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Examples of a "Sigma" maleLate to the party, did a rather well accepted description of this a while ago. Probably too late but may as well. Seemed to help a good number of people. I'm a Sigma. By others definition. I'm often mistaken for alpha. Though I'm not certain they're mutually exclusive, nor that the labels are worth knowing, just have a different perspective with overlapping skills. In my day to day life, I own a business, am a serial entrepreneur, and am rather isolated, "mentally ". What I mean by that is even … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 10:56 PM |
| 1 | The player "squinty eyes and concerned" lookHappy to help man. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The player "squinty eyes and concerned" lookSkepticism. The squinty, assessment micro expression mixed with the high testosterone or masculine based bushy eyebrows shows that you're already judging, and have a genetically good standard to judge by. Add in a healthy red mentality and you've got a winner. Edit. It's not concern, it's a value judgement. You're skeptical, assessing what is in front of you, setting the stage for you being the catch so to speak. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 06:36 PM |
| 2 | [META] "Wall of text equals next"The number of posts I've seen go into detail that actually answer themselves is ludicrous. It could be five paragraphs boiling down to: respect is waining, red flag, cancelling constantly, red flag, won't pay anymore, red flag, and then "what do I do guys?". They already know and need an objective perspective to make it transparent, through the veil of convenience and closeness they're perceiving. No problem with that. That's part of why the manosphere exists, objective help, when we need it. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 06:35 PM |
| 14 | Some RP Truths I had to remind myself after dating a HB8+expect her to never pay What? No. Simply no What am I? A personal vibrator with ATM attachment? No way. What's mine is earned, what she gets is a gift, if she's earned a gift she'll get it, on my standards. Seems like your judgements are based on a hot girl being reintroduced to the carousel. They get stir crazy and addicted to the new experience. Good chance is if you continue showing beta tendencies you won't be part of her carousel much longer. Just my 2c. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Actually adding the last lesson to it, then another round of editing. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 03:10 PM |
| 1 | My sister of 22 seems mad that I'm dating girls younger than her. Why could that be?You are physically representing and reminding her of her limited golden years. before they're even over Massively rocking the feels boat, expected response. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Are stoicism and charisma opposites?No they are not. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3io1mw/metalaggeddons_lesson_5_stoicism_meets_value_how/ Full explanation. TLDR Stoicism is a philosophy of life, charisma is a skill or talent for interaction and control of others. One can be stoic and charismatic. One can be charismatic and not a stoic. They are not conflated. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Need advice to get out of the anger phase or how to attain inner peaceFirst, your anger is internal, not external. Previous explanation I posted: excerpt on anger 5) Impotent rage, translation (I'm angry at something, but don't realize that something is me.) You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redire… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Never let a woman disrespect you because you upheld the rules.Relationships and improving yourself I may add. Remove the input that can lead to bad actions, makes your life so much easier. Especially with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 11:09 AM |
| 15 | Will and Jada-Pinkett Smith -- the one of the best examples of a redpill marriage in Hollywood.I believe it. Kid is worth several tens of millions, and still hasn't had a scandal. That screams troll to me. He also pulled the reigns back with respect for his father after Will explained it accurately and succinctly, saying something like I did stupid shit when I was a kid, now with social media it's just advertised. Don't think much about the kid, don't think little of him either. He's just a kid raised in Hollywood, his idiotic mistakes are completely public, and his trolling is market awa… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 06:51 PM |
| 3 | How to let go of People's stupid bullshit?Yeah I'm certain you're not really angry at her. Impotent rage, translation (I'm angry at something, but don't realize that something is me.) You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redirect your energy. If you are ever angry, it is si… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs in Daily Life and Achieving Self-ActualizationI agree. Your life may be objectively better, but your overall contentment will eventually reset, making "affording dinner and a movie" equal to now "affording a 3 day vacation", then later " affording a summer cruise". As things objectively improve, it takes more to satisfy that rush. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How often do you think guys lie about getting pussy or fucking some girl?Among my close friends, never. It's bitten two of them in the ass hard enough that we all learned from it. I'm positive that regaling conquests when drinking, a 5 may become a 7 may become be a 9 may become a 10; a great body, b cup is probably double c's, c's become double d's, etc, embellishing for the sake of the moment. The actual deed however, no. Lying about it can result in some very bad circumstances. Even if you're careful. It's better to say nothing at all. As a matter of fact, the int… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually enjoy talking to women?Yes, when I need some entertainment. If I need advice or theory, or essentially anything productive, I speak to men. Except my mom. She's rp as hell and provides very red advice. (Oddly enough she acts the opposite with my brother) Anything outside of referencing her finely tuned slut alarm or fashion advice is completely directed to my dad though. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Stuck in an elevator. Hb7. Frame. Confidence. Mockery. Petting. 45 minutes from stranger to tonsil hockey.I'd rather delete anything which is being misunderstood. A better way of describing is apparently necessary. Don't worry, I'll be reposting it in a more theory based writing, something I'm much better at. Thanks for your input! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 10:54 AM |
| -3 | Stuck in an elevator. Hb7. Frame. Confidence. Mockery. Petting. 45 minutes from stranger to tonsil hockey.All good, I believe such an uncommon/odd experience is worth sharing! Additionally I expected this to be negative within ten minutes, not certain how to write a good fr. I'm rather certain many of my experiences would seem unreasonable/unlikely to people. Fine with me! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in an elevator. Hb7. Frame. Confidence. Mockery. Petting. 45 minutes from stranger to tonsil hockey.Also in my other posts. 5'11 black male, Dominican, 190 down from 205 two months ago. Pretty face, nice body, lifting long tone (only got serious about it in the last year), serial entrepreneur with his first two international contracts just signed, wealthy adoptive family, raised red as fuck (entire family). Triple major, never had an issue with a girl, slide between alpha and sigma based on how much I'm focusing on business, heavy levels of social proof and awareness "hence the fact that I don… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Turn Off Your TV!Wow! You had access to video games before you were 13? No seriously I didn't. It couldn't suck because I didn't know differently. Instead my dad taught me hardware working on the computer lab he taught at (Apple 2gs and think pads) when he had to babysit me when I was out of school. Frogger and tetris were so addictive. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 09:42 PM |
| -2 | Stuck in an elevator. Hb7. Frame. Confidence. Mockery. Petting. 45 minutes from stranger to tonsil hockey.Cool. Check my submitted history. A lot of people have found my system effective. To summarize, stoic (practicing, accredited analytic philosopher) plus business raised in a very red family. Doesn't have much to do with this, (aside from the method allowing the making) but it's there if you want it. And of course making out with a girl is no big deal. This is a practice at my first FR. I haven't done these, except for this once. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 09:40 PM |
| 1 | is she a flake or genuine?More power to this expansion OP listen to a guy who knows what he's talking about. He certainly does. "Matches my experience, though to be humble bragging, I was the Chad" | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 08:39 PM |
| 2 | is she a flake or genuine?if they don't go out, she wants to go out with me You're second priority. Downgrade to logistics and no contact until she attempts to set something up with you. Failure to make that meeting, repeat and ignore. Your time is very valuable and limited, regardless of the intentions she has. I next girls who have legitimately busy lives happily, not cruelly, but because I know there are girls just as good who are available whenever I want my rocks off. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers, what are your thoughts on long distance relationships?An ldr is limited to long distance plate, at the most. They are silly when you think about it. Essentially telling yourself there isn't even anyone equal who is present and available. The ultimate admission of your own incapability and inadequacy. However from a woman's perspective, ldr can be fine. She gets her attention, probably some hand outs, and can fuck Chad whenever she wants without any intrusion. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 05:51 PM |
| 3 | The Importance of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs in Daily Life and Achieving Self-ActualizationIn general people are trapped or limited by the level which cannot be satisfied. Keep in mind people such as ascetics way back in history showed just how little is necessary to actively move up from biological to safety to esteem. The biggest gripe I have with Maslow "not his self actualization theories" but his hierarchy, is that the top three segments often, though not in majority, do not occur in that specific order. Nor does the system account for base line happiness, where the human mind ad… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Hitting the wall seems to affect white American women in a different kind of way.I got this from a fat feminazi orbiter in the club a week ago. She had joined her attractive girl friend whom I was drinking with. Your girlfriend is how old? That's just creepy blah blah, Her attractive friend shut her right up, and fast. I seem to remember someone here bragging about David a few months ago Apparently David was 32, feminazi was no more than 23. Mentally probably 14. Many women are stupid. I moved to another bar within half an hour. Not even worth the annoyance of that conversat… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Turn Off Your TV!TV was never a large part of my life, reading replaced it. I would also caution against too much reading it is better than television in myriad ways, but used as an escape for fantastical reasons, it is equally as dangerous, in some cases more so. Read, but read quality. Watch but watch quality. (No commercials, stick to streaming) For the love of God, don't give children media, let them go get skinned up outside building forts or actively playing, you're going to thank yourself. I thank my pare… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep conversations from falling flat?You don't have to keep them from falling flat. Two rules that save so many men from making their own lives harder. Leave on a high note. Pregnant pause is more valuable than you can imagine. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/15 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Did anti depressants helped you?From years watching two close friends battle depression, I have to recommend small successes first. Try to fix it without meds. If a few months pass and you're having provable small successes yet not feeling any better, go try meds. I firmly believe and have seen in myriad depressed individuals that success is the best cure. Set a small goal, crush it, set another, crush it, up the ante, crush that. You need to win to want to play. If that doesn't work, seek help, you may be one of the few who h… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/15 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Girls that only "get going" after lots of alcohol. Otherwise, they're very shy. But when they get drunk, they go whore-crazy. Red flag?Never date a lush, or someone who uses relies on a substance to function as they truly desire to. This includes 'officially prescribed' pharmaceuticals, such as anti depressive meds, and self medication through alcohol, cigarettes, weed, etc. Note there is nothing inherently wrong with so called "weekenders", however if removing the substance at any point causes a loss of ability to function, you should go elsewhere. It's not worth the effort. Some may claim this is too broad, well yes, it's a g… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Big Lessons 1 Year InFor you; repost summary Perceived Scarcity. It gets panties wet, and is one of the easiest to add to your arsenal. One of the easiest ways to maintain Scarcity is directly related to management of your time. (How you do that is up to you), but one thing you can do to make your life easier, is keep the mobile on silent or vibrate. You help yourself exude outcome independence and the perception of being busy by maintaining silent and vibrate only. Don't ever set your phone to ring when out to make… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/15 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Guardian reader: "I can’t trust my wife, as she won’t tell me her sexual past". Paper's response.If you do not provably take her virginity, she's got a count higher than you think. If you do take her virginity, bjs still transmit STDs. And it says very little about her slut potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Guardian reader: "I can’t trust my wife, as she won’t tell me her sexual past". Paper's response.I answer rather honestly, "I only count ltrs." Never had issues with that, maybe because most women can identify. Then again I have a lot of social proof. Any friend could count off several, they all know it's more, none of them know how many. To be honest neither do I. Not in the least vague way. I can't even really estimate by average per month. Some months I don't want people. Others I can go through a handful a week. Who knows? It's a woman's prerogative to be chaste. It's a man's prerogativ… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Sobrietycut stimuli If you're not out entertaining, no alcohol in the house. change motive If you have to drink, give it a different motive. I started a beer log via Evernote, shared it to my friends, we all take two pics, all diet information, cost, calories, flavor, ideal temperature, of the beers we drink. The motive is no longer to drink, it's to find the best drinks. (Helps with removing the pressure to just have another round) limit availability In your profession this is difficult, stick to only … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 11:51 AM |
| 3 | False Rape allegations. Please help.Normally involving (potential) crime I always say no contact. In this case, ask get via recordable media, text, email, anything, get proof of her admitting it didn't happen. Save it. Keep it digitally secured and backed up. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 11:38 AM |
| 2 | How do I live with woman who want to fuck me?Definitely stick with the rule, don't shit where you eat. In casual conversion (it's only a matter of time before they find ways to bring up your preferences) always repeat, "I prefer not to mess around with people I live with or rent to. It just ends badly." Make it very clear this is not negotiable, without targeting them specifically. Use only I and me statements. Provide a graceful exit. You should be fine. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Are women who verbally sploosh about Hollywood hunks a lost cause? Virtual alpha widows?Fantastical desires are different from fantastical expectations. Wanting to fuck bradpitt? Desire. Every boyfriend must have a black card, six pack, baritone, 6'4, love her unconditionally, travel, be dangerous yet supportive and safe, etc. Expectation. All girls would be virtual alpha widows if there wasn't that difference. Ignore girls with the latter, the ones with the former are options. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 03:30 PM |
| 1 | What's your approach style?Be available, (present), open stance and open demeanor with open body language. Be aware of iois Eye fuck, notice all eye contract and preening Joke and kid with lots of contact Screen her qualifiers and say no or yes Escalate or dissociate You'll notice I don't actually approach physically often. Mostly just screen options. If there is a girl I'm really wanting, I've gone to the point of following her off the bus and telling her to message me at x time. I very rarely get that outwardly aggressi… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 03:25 PM |
| 1 | My plate is asking for permission... need adviceI don't know, it depends on context. Is she already your servant? A true follower? I've had girls ask permission to get a hair cut, to run to 711, etc. Simple shit. I'd say if she's at that point she's given in entirely to your direction, and actually wants your management on absolutely everything. Cool. More likely, she's asking permission to go on a ride. (Emotional validation or cuck) be cautious and ready to walk. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 03:20 PM |
| 5 | The hardest thing for a woman to see is your back as you walk awaySetting hard boundaries and expectations and not moving them even an inch mimics abundance mentality. Even if you aren't currently spinning multiple plates, methodical uncompromising standards of self respect will do a huge amount of the work for you. Tldr, your time and effort are precious, let everyone know this through action | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/15 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Stoicism and harsh realitiesI think "on denoting" by Russell, and "sense and reference" by frege are very important bases for any analytic philosopher. It'll help worlds in understanding how we discuss philosophy, and higher order logic, including possible world and predicate logic. For ethics read anything and everything you can get from hume, Kant, Locke, etc. Socrates and Plato for argument and metaphor comprehension, also a little about what is morality (good evil) Nietzsche and Descartes for what we are, what is reali… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | When To ApologizeI don't apologize. However I do change. Instead of "I'm sorry" I will say "here's how I'm changing x" and then I'll fucking do it. The only exemption is extreme emotional circumstances such as death or severe damage to a family or friends. That's lip service, however you being present portrays the message clearly. Act. Don't speak. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill's thoughts on religion?Regardless of what belief you chose, be wary of how dogmatic you are. The more dogmatic the more is taken from your life. Go ahead and believe what you want to, but the law is exchange is still valid. If something takes more from you than it gives, drop it or cut back until it's equivalent at the least. Giving also should be viewed as a right now, not a future tense. Plan for the future, but live in the present regards. Most religions solve problems they create themselves, and ask for much more … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism and harsh realitiesI don't understand why virtue would be less important now than back then? I did not speak of the importance of anything. It seems like a core concept to their philosophy. As in that leading a virtuous life is their method. May be. Somewhere one may have said that you practice being virtuous in order to be stoic. I don't remember that at all. I feel you're likely conflating what they said is to be done, and what the benefits of doing it were. They're different things. Regardless. I'm not going to… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism and harsh realitiesThat's more of a time frame overlap, when virtue and the "right life" were a big concern. You will notice that as a claimed reason for pretty much any philosophy of life. Nothing particularly special about that, what is special are their methods. I see where you're coming from, but it's much like saying x sport is about practice! And winning! Well yeah... Aren't they all? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Stoicism and harsh realitiesOut of context, sure. Say what you will. You do yourself a disservice ultimately. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Stoicism and harsh realitiesYou're both right, but wrong. Stoicism is not about what you said either. Check my history and read the stoicism post. A post on actual stoicism does not get read much nor is it for the daily drivel trp is becoming. Stoicism at it's base is acceptance, acceptance of reality for what it actually is. Excerpt The glass is always broken. This is something to internalize, it is the case of objective reality. Everything you interact with, (in a tangible sense) women, love, men, relationships, business… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 01:29 AM |
| 2 | As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competitionExactly. Procreation is a side effect of the urge men have to fuck. Yes the urge to pass on genetics is there, but it's nothing compared to the staples of survival. Biology couldn't make genes addictive, but it's easy to make the act which leads to genes being passed on highly addictive. Tldr the imperative is to fuck, the effect is procreation. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | A (long time) red philosopher: viewing the red pillI understand what you mean now, how obtuse of me! Sorry. I think "on denoting" by Russell, and "sense and reference" by frege are very important bases for any analytic philosopher. It'll help worlds in understanding how we discuss philosophy, and higher order logic, including possible world and predicate logic. For ethics read anything and everything you can get from hume, Kant, Locke, etc. Socrates and Plato for argument and metaphor comprehension, also a little about what is morality (good evi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 06:00 PM |
| 2 | University Athletics AdviceTake the bjj. Double hit, it's attractive (combative) great way to get your hands on any women there, a great start to self defense, and provides a dedicated network to maintain your willpower and long term reward outlook. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 12:15 AM |
| 2 | So when is a woman considered to be vapid?A woman is vapid while she's alive. It ends when she's dead. (Exceptions for being in a coma) No seriously what is this question? It serves no purpose. What's your goal? Troll? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Plating an escort?Just ask. Volunteer your own if you want. If a girl in that profession says no, she's a no go anyway. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Metal's lesson 6, silent or vibrate onlyExcellent advice, going to add it to the ending if you don't mind. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Metal's lesson 6, silent or vibrate onlyYou already have a working system. I'm glad for you. As stated above, how you chose to do this is your own decision. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Metal's lesson 6, silent or vibrate onlySerious to you, to me, to many men, but not the least bit serious to many women Remember, a woman only wants emotional responses. She cares very rarely about what you say. If on the off chance she does, it's likely only because it directly affects her perspective of herself. You cannot be frustrated by this. It is the nature of the beast. I'd have it no other way. You are only frustrated at yourself for misjudging her interests, and putting fourth effort without return. We all do that. Do not be… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 03:55 PM |
| 0 | A (long time) red philosopher: viewing the red pillIn not certain morality was invented. That's an interesting camp to chose. To say the least that is incredibly controversial, to say the most would require a meta ethics course. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 03:50 PM |
| 9 | Plating an escort?I did this for a summer. (Plated an escort) My advice and warnings: damaged goods This is just the nature of the beast. I spent that summer "medicating" her and a few of her escort friends with cock. Every one of them, abuse, pathological manipulators, mentally messed up. money I don't know what level of escort you're dating, mine was international, her friends were the same. She was pulling easily 150k a year and worked in contracts, managed by a third party. She took summers off, essentially d… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 12:48 PM |
| 8 | Why money does make you happyAt 120k, I'd personally suggest investing 15% and putting 5% in a nest egg for yourself. Small emergencies are better taken from the nest in my opinion, and having money spread to different locations is always a reasonable practice. Just my 2 cents, could be completely wrong, has served me very well though I'm quite the minimalist. (My enjoyment cones purely from doing, not having) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Vanderbilt Women's Center to Lecture Men on 'Healthy Masculinities'Crap. You've finally convinced me. I think I'll drop the other 2 majors and stick with what I've got, focus more time on my businesses and save that last 2 semesters of cash. After reading the stuff you linked me to and your posts, I feel it's really a waste of time to have 3 degrees. (None of which are stem field) instead of 1 masters. Which I can easily do in a year and a half on the side. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Metal's lesson 6, silent or vibrate onlyFucking beta weaklings with no agency or propriety, let alone presence of mind. Thank you for your support. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | ANGERImpotent rage, translation (I'm angry at something, but don't realize that something is me.) You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redirect your energy. If you are ever angry, it is simply proof of your failure in some way. That's wh… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Any short stories writer out here?I own a tg company. Right now we're at 3 brands. Fantasy, diesel punk fantasy, and world's collide. We're doing very well, I began the company alone, doing engine, lore, marketing, paid two commissions for art and coding. I do not talk about my business with any plate. Unless if and only if they are a plate from a venue (already tg) If you want to build the business community, do that. If you want orbiters of your own, do that. I heavily recommend keeping them separate. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Metal's lesson 6, silent or vibrate onlyI knew there would be people who couldn't learn from this, but I'm glad you posted to support. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 07:53 PM |
| 9 | Metal's lesson 6, silent or vibrate onlyThanks to my grandad (may he rest in peace) and my dad (may he live in success). | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 07:52 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is insecure for no reason.My boyfriend and I have a really healthy relationship and I do not want to break up.. however, I feel like he overthinks everything. He is 44, I'm 22.. every time I go to class he always makes some comment about "I'm not going to have to go there and beat anyone's ass right?" Or today when I talked about an ex he asked me if I still have feelings for him.. (I love both of my exes but realize that I can do a lot better for myself and that we just are not good matches. So maybe his suspicions were… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | One of those long facebook paragraphsWhy are you still responding to her request? Ignore everything she says and do what you would have anyway. Would you have posted a happy birthday anyways? Do that. No? Ignore. You gain nothing from this interaction. You're eating time and shitting stress. Quit it. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Small tech school or university? Having doubts about my choice.the degree is just a piece of paper I sat in at my uncles retirement party. (from an Ivy league) he taught some kind of advanced biology, I think bio informatics? I was about seven, maybe 8, and I remember his speech so clearly. I'm glad to go. This has turned from education into indoctrination. A degree only stands for putting up with 4 years of bullshit. A masters, six, a doctorate, 8 to 10. They have nothing to do with learning, only to do with tolerance and money What's funny is i didn't und… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Fear of rage, long time beta struggling with intense rageImpotent rage, translation (I'm angry at something, but don't realize that something is me.) You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redirect your energy. If you are ever angry, it is simply proof of your failure in some way. That's wh… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Women can't fucking stand quietPassively build silence as something attractive. It's not an instant fix, but a long term approach. (a month or more) Every chance you get casually mention that you prefer quiet people, that quiet people tend to be more attractive, that action is louder than words. And give your interest accordingly. If you want changes, act for them, over time it will work. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Family contacted cheating exBeyond that, take the text, block the number, then block on all social media, then delete all messages. Never look back. If she gets the alpha tingles believe me she'll cum to you in a few months. Not that it'll matter. She's an ex. She's expended with. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you think coming from a home where your parents have always stayed together ruins you more for early life with unrealistic expectations?I don't think so, personally. I come from a healthy family, very red, heck, my parents 50yr anniversary was last month. (that's 50 years married, they're quite the older couple, very late kids). Finding trp was just a confirmation, putting words to things I had already understood from watching my parents in action, and tidbits of advice I was immersed in throughout the years. If anything trp has made no discernable difference in my strategy, for better or worse, but has increased my ability to u… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Quick back and forthNice job bro, you've got this in the bag. Cut out the emoticons. That's bitch shit, (unless you're mocking their use). | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Be stoic or have a blast?This is the third time today. I'm a little annoyed, something should be added to the sidebar about this. In the meantime: you are confusing apathy with stoicism. Stoicism is about accepting the reality of things. Not about apathy. A true apathetic can't even have goals bro (even to be apathetic or abolish preference) . It's recursively invalid. The glass is always broken. This is something to internalize, it is the case of objective reality. Everything you interact with, (in a tangible sense) wo… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 10:03 PM |
| 2 | You All Need to Read Nietzsche. Now.Yeah. It's cool. Most people who haven't actually been accredited with formal philosophical study don't know shit about the actuality of anything non continental. Frege, nietzche and Socrates come to mind immediately as examples. (nietzches sister for example, a founder of nueva germania and nazi supporter, or frege, renowned pedophile) Also, most people are unaware that his syphiletic insanity tainted the latter 30% of his writings so badly they are avoided and scoffed at by any (almost all) ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Whats the point of living in a Red Pill world?I would say the one thing that helps me determine if something is worth pursuing is whether it makes me happy. It pretty much is the meaning of life: to be happy. So the question becomes what if you couldn't be happy. Sure. That's the basic argument against hedonism. I've been following the red pill off and on for some time, and it really makes me wonder if you could truly be happy adopting this sort of mindset? A "dark truth" behind the red pill ideology is that there is no such thing as love, … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 08:53 PM |
| 3 | You All Need to Read Nietzsche. Now.Thank you for understanding nietzche. This post was with good intention, yet drivel. I still appreciate it, the breath of fresh air is nice though. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 08:41 PM |
| 5 | You All Need to Read Nietzsche. Now.Hitlers adoption and perversion of it was due to nietzches sister stealing and utilizing his concepts. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Always lose frame because of anger. How do I avoid this?Stoicism. And not the bullshit Spewed all over trp about stoicism, but actual practicing stoicism. It's not about building "Teflon skin" or anything. It's about acceptance that things are broken, if they aren't yet, they will be. It's okay, that's actually great. The glass is always broken. This is something to internalize, it is the case of objective reality. Everything you interact with, (in a tangible sense) women, love, men, relationships, business, your lawn mower, your wife's vibrator, the… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 07:42 PM |
| 0 | The feelings I associate with love have changed for me, is this normal?Of course it's normal. You already answered your question. You're looking at it as a game now. A game can be won. A game has rules and strategy. A game involves composition and Self advancement. You are shifting love of the opponent (the girl) to love of a good match. Good on you! Progress will feel different, it's nothing to be worried about, you're healthy. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Coming out of anger and depression phase...struggling to changehttps://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3efzaz/why_you_need_a_yearly_monk_and_how_to_start/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3hlu9o/agency_you_have_it_stop_ignoring_it/ Stop being a bitch. You do things by fucking doing things. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 07:28 PM |
| 3 | What part of red pill strategy is not discussed enough? Is it powertalk or is it some other category?Shameless self bump. You have been warned. I've actually thought the same thing for months, so I began to address it. First by reading complaints on top posts about theory, then specifically writing what was missing in those posts using real world experience. Read it, or don't. (idgaf) https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3efzaz/why_you_need_a_yearly_monk_and_how_to_start/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3f5k4z/vetting_different_levels_of_women_a_consolidation/ https://www.r… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What has had the biggest contribution to improving your SMV?Experience. Like anything 10000 hours to mastery. Approach every day. Socialize every chance. Improve every thing you can. Do things. Learn from them. Discard what fails and improve what works. Build the experience. Aside from prodigies, experience trumps all. (and a prodigy building experience becomes legend.) | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 07:20 PM |
| 17 | IMPORTANT NOTICE: You will DIE and it could happen TODAYThe glass is always broken. This is something to internalize, it is the case of objective reality. Everything you interact with, (in a tangible sense) women, love, men, relationships, business, your lawn mower, your wife's vibrator, they are all broken. Maybe not now, but soon. Things are imperfect. People are imperfect. They will fail, they will skip up, they will eventually provide you a sorry experience. They are not ideal. The world is that way, things end. Accept that. You will die, you wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 07:11 PM |
| 2 | RealityCraft: The Geekiest Self Improvement Tracking ToolIt's now called habitica, I use it as well. Though I'm designing an RP and mgtow version of it that (hopefully) will integrate with my fitness pal and progressive. Here's to men being men. Use whatever tools work, throw the rest the fuck away. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | There is this "friend" I have that for his Facebook profile picture he has the picture of his wife.Never seen that. It certainly makes me gag. Also very curious about their reasoning. If you're really that great together, shouldn't you both be incredibly proud of what you individually bring to the table? Isn't that the beauty of the almost unattainable happy long term coupling? Two different cogs forming a machine? Eh. Makes me sick and a little annoyed. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What girls should you never game?If a girl makes your guts go no, then leave her the fuck alone. It's really that simple. Any general rules are just that, generalities. Now there are some hard scientifically backed warning signs, such as histrionic, bipolar, and borderline disorders. Schizophrenia as well. Anorexia and bulimia too,obesity as well. These are Traits which are easily recognizable. But any others? Trust your gut. There's 3.5 billion vaginas, you'll be fine, happier, and keep things simpler by keeping strict boundar… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Any good reads on how to become less dependent of approval from others?Master something. Once you've achieved indisputably higher mastery in a field than the vast majority of the people you associate with, complements skyrocket, and also mean little to nothing. For example, if you speak to any accomplished artist, musician, etc, one of the most common things you'll hear is that they hate compliments. Most people are so ignorant of the respective field that their complements are almost insulting, as they overlook or are completely unaware of failures which infuriate… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I text her?It works all the time. I literally cannot even estimate the number of times I've picked up a girl by saying "text me tonight and we'll set something up." or getting a number and texting "hey, going to x, see you there at 9? Wear something fun!" Spontaneity and demanding attitude are complete and absolute turn ons for the majority of women. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 06:26 PM |
| 4 | A reminder: Never lose sight of how lucky you areUntil there's a way to drip feed objectivity and sondor, there will always be more need. Humans have a base line happiness move the quality of life up, happiness increases then adapts, settling back to the base line. Contentment is different, as you can be content and unhappy, or happy and discontent. I think content is the real issue. Too much of it has created stagnation. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Bane of the Beta: EscapismMaybe. I think that it's not likely though. If 80% of men did withdraw that would change the available cohort which women saw day to day. Instead of desiring 20 out of 100 men, they'd desire the top 4 out of 20. Or the top 1 out of 5. The cycle continues. Until a woman is down to 2 or 3 male options for interaction, they will undoubtedly ignore the majority of their cohort. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.600k? Many ways to make that. The difference is active or passive. Active? The right connections plus /or a decade of specific training plus a few years of high level vetting. Passive? Inherritance. Severe corporate lawsuit. Prodigy. Serial investor or entrepreneur. Possibly lucky single investment (Google in 99 level, Apple before the iPhone. Etc.) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Black male, 20, low SMV, nervous to date, advice neededFrom a black male to a black male. Stop playing victim. You continue acting like a bitch, life will treat you like one. 1) you're unattractive. Do you lift? Are your big 3, squat, deadlift, bench, 50% more than your weight? No? Go to the college gym. No excuses. After you do sl5x5 for three months, get a more advanced routine. Start to really get big. 2) do you approach every day? No? Then approach every day. 3) white /Asian girls don't like black guys? Bullshit. I've been spinning and in ltrs f… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 12:36 AM |
| 7 | Seekers of Truth1) the red pill is not a philosophy. It is a praxeology. It is a toolbox built to most efficiently apply to a set of empirical circumstances. It is a gun, not implying a motive for use. It is not, and cannot be a philosophy. 2) a philosophy is a love of wisdom, but so much more. (analytic Phil major going masters). It uses theory to explain why things are the way they are, then logic and reason to assess arguments, reducible to a few axioms such as non contradiction. The red pill rarely does a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Why is r/MarriedRedPill not part of the TRP network? Is it not a reliable resource?If anything is free, you are the product. If anyone sells you the truth, they're a liar. At least in part. True Samaritans do not exist. Selfish charity is a press release. Too many men do not know these rules. They are law. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Gentlemen of The Red Pill, how did you find your mission?I found my mission by looking at myself as a child, and then looking at my current hobbies, and comparing them to the world I live in. As a child, I hated other children, I played outside, specifically building forts and destroying property, then rebuilding it again always with the goal of making better. I took from that drive that something, nature or nurture, drove me to improve things when I had the absolute least external obligations in my life. I looked at my hobbies, I played video games, … | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Mooc'sIf you don't already know it, take some cores: Accounting Micro and macro econ Game theory add some practical knowledge Western civilisation Eastern civilization Coding Marketing Leadership Personal selling Public speaking then go for the fun | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Serious question - How many guys on here that are not white have actually done quite well in the game? [no race whining allowed]5'11, black male, major U. S. city, rich district outside of college. 200lb at 16%, look great, never had any problems. 3-4 plates at a time outside of ltrs. Never been dumped, always the dumper. Lucky to have a panty soaking voice, very identifiable hair, excellent wardrobe, definitely known as a "connector" guy. 95% white girls, the kind guys get nervous around. I'm a solid 8, higher to the right girl, plate 8s and up, ltr 7s and 8s. Raised by a very red family. (if that changes anything) with… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 11:53 AM |
| 11 | The two layers of saying sorry; why an apology may not mean what you think it does.I respond to "I'm sorry" with "that's nice". After a pause "what is your plan to change?" If there isn't one I know exactly where they stand, behind the door I left them at. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Wealth and PowerLolwut? Color me intrigued. If you don't mind explaining? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 01:07 AM |
| 0 | Woman makes guy wait 3 months for sex, while fucking Chad on the side.I know the exact opposite. Two Chads who are both total pussies, and a Brian who is a coastal manager for a large business. (another who I lost track of, also a Brian, millionaire at 36,self made, whipped up the girls nonstop) I recommend keeping Chad and adding Bobby blue pill, or maybe beta bill. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Ditto to the above then. No problem man. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Do you have something you read every morning to further yourself? Share it here. Learn from others.The greatest form of control is when you think you’re free when you’re being fundamentally manipulated and dictated to. One form of dictatorship is being in a prison cell and you can see the bars and touch them. The other one is sitting in a prison cell but you can’t see the bars but you think you’re free. And my own, "everyone has a life to attend to." | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Post Shaming Male Sexuality Makes It To The Front Page. Hamsters Go Wild!Lower than a grape. A grape wouldn't and can't call another grape a raisin. Apathy and no opinion is better than a defiantly incorrect opinion. (imho lol) I agree though. I have been the victim of that before. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 4 | The "girls are dumb" negVery nice job op. Especially with the extended texting, normally wouldn't be recommended, but I think you danced it well. (You also made it quite clear that this was far out of the norm so good for setting yourself up to be paid attention to in this specific circumstance). I'd have to add that you could still work on concise wording, but obviously you did well and its working. Out of curiosity, why was this necessary with the new plate / vetting for ltr girl? I have a hunch you don't wear the ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 11:42 AM |
| 13 | LTR having coed sleepoversIgnoring whether she did or didn't do anything with him, this is grounds for a breakup. She disrespected you. Plain and simple. Both with not keeping her word, "women only sleepover" and by sleeping with a guy who isn't you. She showed poor, dangerous judgement as a standard for the future. Next time she may be drunk. She may be next to a Chad. You don't know, regardless, crossing that boundary is proof of poor judgement on physical boundaries, inevitably making cheating more likely in the futur… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 11:28 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if you came across your old oneitis?This happened last time I went home. Ran into my first ever ltr, and learned first hand how I react. story Went to get car inspected, new brakes, new shocks, come back, girl checking me out seems familiar. Pay, about to leave, need my keys, she doesn't hand them to me, "you don't remember me at all do you metalaggeddon?" - insert hurt look. Nope. You seem familiar. Enlighten me. "it's me? Xkittyx? Almost engaged?" Hah. I knew you'd take after your dad. How's the new boy? proceeds with absolutely… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/15 11:00 PM |
| 3 | The main psychological difference between Chad and a beta is NOT self esteem, but ambition and initiative.Nice post OP. A healthy reminder. TLDR Chad is just like you in many ways. The two ways that are different are that he takes immediate action when he wants something, and that he views the world as something he controls with his interactions. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Sure, no problem. You're added. I'm glad i could help. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Eh. To you maybe. Full respect implied. (not joking) Analytics is where it's at for me. Praxeology meeting philosophy interests me much more than a more theory inclined perspective. Not to say I don't enjoy it, I got into philosophy because of Descartes and nietzche to be fair. I'm more of a frege, kripky, kinda guy tbh. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What does TRP mean to you?HERE'S MY VIEW: TRP is a subconscious framework that adheres to sexual psychology. AWALT applies, but it does not mean all women are whores and sluts. It means they have their own unique sexual strategy to mate. Trp is not inherently subconscious. It is a system. A system utilized by both those aware and unaware of the names of the tools in its toolbox. (trp alpha and natural alpha) TRP is about your personal success, not about "What do I say to this girl's text??" Yes, I've been there, and I've… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/15 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Thanks. You should check my other lessons, some (as this one) are more dense, so they're not likely to be upped past 40s maybe 60s max, however those posts are universally what I feel are most important. I've had a quite a few people ask for a pdf of a full steps oriented path, i'll add you to the list (presuming interest) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.It is written. Since you point out out specifically I'll message it to you if you'd like. I prefer not to post more than once per two weeks on trp. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Awww you noble bitch! I bet you're all up in relativistic business... I'll still take it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Breaking Up is Easy to Dothis is over is fine. and I don't need to explain it is not. You've just delivered a justification which has no concrete evidence only a feeling. You should attempt to remove the possibility of debate asap. Don't leave yourself open with a strictly debatable personal judgement. The difference being, we're not compatible plays both fields, and can't be debated,simply because if you are compatible this break up wouldn't be happening. While I don't need to explain this while in your frame yes, good… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.You... I like you hah. If you have anything to add just let me know. Love speaking to people who know the dialect. (please don't be one of those continental guys) I jest! or do I | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 11:10 PM |
| 28 | Breaking Up is Easy to DoI'd rather go with "we're just not compatible". Regardless of why, it's always true, and there's nothing more to say. No matter what they attempt to justify it can't be argued that "we're just not compatible" since it's both a feeling and a logical truth. Nicely enough, the trick is the fact that compatibility is a heavily weighed word when it comes to emotions, "that lifestyle just isn't compatible with me, that taste isn't compatible with me, etc" any reason that you feel strongly with or apat… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.I was actually about to hit archive in my notes folder, but I thought of what you and several others said, and went wtf why not. Glad it helped a few. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever had to deal with a person with BPD? How was it like?A summary? 1) everything emotional on a scale of 1-10 for an average human, is on a scale of 11-20 for bpd affected. 2) manipulation is not intentional or malicious, but an act of desperation in order to cope with the rawness of the world as they feel it. 3) there is nothing dependable except how not dependable they are. 4) a saint would sooner sin than be a solid partner for one. It. Is. Fucking. Difficult. Props to the person who can handle riding a roller coaster 16 hours a day, where your se… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 11:39 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Guide to Advanced (Natty) Fitness6 or an 8 with timer is your best bet. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 11:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm different when not with friendsSame system I recommend to others. Works really well as long as you follow through. Get out there and do it OP! | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity & CivilizationI agree, though one point, true egalitarian sensibilities do not imply or mean everyone is strong. It means everyone is provided equal opportunity to be strong. What you do with it, what your talents are, of course, these make a difference. Also (strong) kinda works here, though it doesn't really in actual dissection. Strength comes in many forms, and comparing apples to oranges or basing this on a blanket concept doesn't seem reasonable. Human nature too. Over a decade of philosophy and I'm sti… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Question on girls being late for the dateI always say be early wear x. If a girl is late I give about 15 mins, then pick up to plan 2. Always have a plan 2. Remember, you're not going out to meet her, you're going out to have fun, do you, she's welcome to join. So go to plan 2, at the very least find a close by bar and Game a bit, strike up a conversation. If she appears and is asking where you are tell her time is short and you want to have fun, where you are, you'll wait a while if she feels up for it. Note, in my experience when I s… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Good infield footage?The best infield footage is to find alpha friends and watch them work. Then practice, fail, ask for pointers. It beats any video, and if one of them can mentor you, it's better than trp in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/15 12:00 PM |
| 1 | I recently read post a r/sex and it was about a guy's gf/fiance, she told him that her ex's dick filled her up more because he was bigger. what would be the correct action in this situation?I see one option, leave her. There are multiple ways to respond before you leave her though. Flip the script-"oooh, I know a great kegel routine to help you with that." Amused Mastery-"sweet, small size = no need for astroglide! " Dissociate-"missed that, I'm late and need to hit the gym (and never return)" Outcome independence-"hey, long as you keep my needs we're good here." Explosion- "disrespect me again and you can leave. (quietly go back to working, do not entertain.) Lots of crap you can … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/15 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Bill Burr BRILLIANTLY Exposes Just How Little Women Do/Seem to Care for Men in Relationships Today [Brand New Joke]Or. I had one of my orbiters do my apartment in ultramodern. Made suggestions, came shopping with me, after everything was moved in, fucked her on every stick of that apartment. I think the only override I needed to issue was on the sound system, she suggested looks and I wanted excellent range. That and cooking equipment. She felt useful, my apartment is a perfect pad, I got good sex. She got what she wanted, I got what I wanted, no idea what she's doing now but everyone is happy. Women will do… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/15 11:36 AM |
| 1 | "sigma" male?Flattered but not at all me. I think. Maybe. Actually yeah. I suppose in some ways. Color me a deeper shade of appreciative. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Being raised by women screwed me up mentally, constantly emasculated all my life, and now extremely depressed. what to do? (Long read, please help brahs)It is not your duty to care for them. It is your duty to improve yourself in a way they can be proud of. Get the hell out of there and make something of yourself. Now. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Does it kill attraction when a girl sees you playing piano?Shit. Ex pianist here, supposedly mastery level, fuck no. Definitely not a down, use it. I got so much key based pussy it was ludicrous. Keep playing, abuse your creativity, compose things on the spot for the random girl you see hanging out that you like. If she approaches you play her your best, don't look at the keys even out of habit (I know you don't have to) just crush and hold conversation. Instant panty dropper. If you can't sing or improvise, take lessons for the former and do stand-up c… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Women with bad punctualityWould they be adverse to solid plans with Brad Pitt? No? Then you're not setting boundaries hard enough, or they don't want you enough. Either way it's a question of what you tolerate. I've ditched girls for less, and I've also accepted legitimacy like job issues or caring for sick family. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 11:55 PM |
| 6 | "sigma" male?I'm a Sigma. By others definition. I'm often mistaken for alpha. Though I'm not certain they're mutually exclusive, nor that the labels are worth knowing, just have a different perspective with overlapping skills. In my day to day life, I own a business, am a serial entrepreneur, and am rather isolated, "mentally ". What I mean by that is even though I go out for many of my hobbies, I'm not interested in socializing with anyone beyond keeping up appearances, or getting something. Alpha individua… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 11:37 PM |
| 1 | 6 Short Questions about WomenNever noticed this myself, until now. Shit even plates I dropped, it's not uncommon for the short hair /multicolored dew to appear within a week. I thought they were just reinventing themselves. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Body countDoes she party? Does she get black out drunk? Does she do drugs? Does she chill with men while doing any of these things? Does she chill with men while doing any of these things while in a relationship? Does she have a history of (sketchy) rape claims? If she does one, or none, good girl. Two or three, average girl, four or more, she's not ltr material. Be careful plating. All of them, she's not even plateable Ignore what she says, women lie to communicate. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Did I make a mistake telling her I was seeing another girl?I probably would have given her one shot to get in line, the moment she brought up the other girl may not exist. "that's cute, you don't have to feel threatened, I'm still here aren't I?"-insert complementary ass slap or grope, move in for the kiss and hug. Deny her before she gets the wheel spinning and move that torque to the bed. If she still insists just leave. "insecurity is just a turn off for me, let me know if that changes, see you around." - gone. If you wanted an ltr, which I wouldn't … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Choosing your frame.There aren't really aren't "frame" styles, as far as I can tell. Frame is something that comes from knowing what you do and don't want, what is and is not acceptable, and enforcing that. Saying no, saying something isn't acceptable or that it won't be tolerated, but also pushing for what you want and being demanding in what you deserve, these are frame. So as you see, many different personalities, "funny guy, serious guy, quiet guy, life of the party" they can all hold frame as long as they know… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl slaps boy in class multiple times, calls him a bitch, boy hits back. Lets see how fast the hampsters can spinDefinitely, every man should practice self defense along with lifting. One of the best phases of my life was between hs and 2nd yr uni, for a solid 5 years my friends and I were all taking different combat styles and our bimonthly bonfires were full contact sparring sessions. I have a military friend, 6'6 280lb, at the time i was 5'10 190. (now 5'11 205 and 14%) I only ever won 3 matches against him. 90 extra lb of weight is no fucking joke, getting hit was clearly out of the question the first … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 11:42 AM |
| 1 | As a woman who is fully supportive of TRP, but still trying to understand some of the complexities, I have a specific situational question that I'd like some input and analysis on.You're probably a troll... However I'm bored. None taken, and you may be right. I'm arrogantly assuming that aside from this issue, I'm a good catch. Good catches don't cheat. Cut that out. You are a crappy person from that day forward. I'm not super hung up on feelings and shit, and I understand that as a possibility. Of course you aren't, yet. You had fun with no real repercussions. (ejection, social ostracism) Maybe I can't even really respect my SO unless he kicks me to the curb. Very likely… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | "I become friends with all the pretty girls so that if I think a guy is hot I badmouth him and they don't take him." [LONG]You're right. I suppose a Sigma is essentially a gamma positive who frequently takes care of his sexual needs, (not completely mgtow). Makes sense thanks for pointing that out. "I swing between alpha positive and Sigma, or I suppose gamma positive, depending on how heavy business is." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 03:32 PM |
| 17 | Tales from The WallShoot, ten year reunion from 06 is coming up, I've seen some of the others from then around town, some in Facebook. Caved in ashtrays. I am still "daily" mistaken for being 20-23, probably mostly genetics. However I also take care of myself as any real man would. I have to agree with you OP, and you abdada, the spinners that started early were mostly between 4s and 6s, the hottest were bouncing boyfriends, maybe 2 a year, the smartest weren't even getting fucked until college. But even now the m… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 03:24 PM |
| 7 | LTR commitment issuesShe's doing you a favor without realizing it. For whatever reason, her intentions will help you maintain your alpha status. If you're not providing for her and she's happy with being your fuck toy, only casual chilling occasionally, you're being told in actions to stay alpha. Stay scarce and desirable. Note I said being told in actions. Maybe she's cheating? Maybe she's getting antsy, maybe she's figured out that being seperate while together is actually quite rewarding? Could be any number of r… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 03:14 PM |
| 0 | From theory to actionFirst, u/redpillfision is right. Practice. Second, glad you're here, we're happy to help. I'd check in with u/GayLubeOil for some council. Third, you must have misunderstood agency. Read here. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3hlu9o/agency_you_have_it_stop_ignoring_it/ Fourth you may want to start with a monk, read here https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3efzaz/why_you_need_a_yearly_monk_and_how_to_start/ Fifth, join a gym, 3x a week minimum. Get your diet in control, myfitn… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 12:53 PM |
| -1 | "Watching sports is a waste of time" - /u/abdada.Spend your time how you want to. I saw that thread and your exchange with abdada, I have to agree with his point, which I think you missed. Placing passion into anything which you have no stake in is a mistake. Sports are like drinks, an excuse to chill, but if you spend hours a week drinking you're losing. There is no long term benefit from the sport, the benefit is actually from the bonding done with the others there. There is certainly a benefit to playing a sport. Staying in shape is quantit… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 12:32 PM |
| 7 | "I become friends with all the pretty girls so that if I think a guy is hot I badmouth him and they don't take him." [LONG]Good post, that chart is great, though I chuckled when I noticed they didn't even attempt Sigma. I agree with everything you've said, just adding that men should not take this kind of behavior personally, women even do it to each other. A girl who steps above of her social ladder gets destroyed even more than men in my experience. (imagine a 4 aggressively pursuing an 8). | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How direct do you need to be with dating?Say "hey I'm doing x, at y time, z day, come on out, what time should I expect you?" For example, my standard is to use a new location. "I'm hitting mcgradies at 9 Friday, you should be there, let's have a good time. Need a ride or you good? " If she says she's busy, " cool. Well I hit the (local spot) most Tuesdays, (Name a special to prove it), usually just cool with (bartender or management) but you can hit me up then." Then walk away. Get your hug first if it seems appropriate. Do not ask pe… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Just a vent post and a question.You miss the matrix? Who doesn't miss the most comfortable times of their lives. Think about it, you thought you were the just stand up guy, your morals and values are easily fed, your justifications were backed and reinforced by millions of people posting, whispering in your ear, parenting you. It felt great. You were a victim, the WORLD was wrong, you weren't at fault! You were perfect. Now you know the world simply is, and you fail. Every. Day. Yes you're getting stronger, but the people who … | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Great fear over a girl who seems strange.Dude. If she's interrupting you in sex with feels that aren't about your body or moves, she's got baggage in ways a thrower couldn't believe. (throwers are baggage handlers at airports). Next next next soft next, play friendly for a fortnight and get the hell out. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Too intimidating?I had this problem! Fixed it during my monk mode. Here's what I did as an example 1) goal, every conversation I had, inject 1 relevant joke. 2) goal, once a day approach someone with the express goal of making them give an honest laugh (wrinkle the corners of their eyes) 3) sandwich method, nice thing, critical thing, nice thing. 4) when someone began giving closed and protective body language, mirror it for a moment, then move to neutral. It means they're afraid or intimidated beyond use, that … | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 10:58 PM |
| 1 | OI & AffectionThere's an awful lot of talking in this thread, and not acting. She turns you down soft? Push again. She turns you down hard? Go do something else. Don't be jimmied. You don't even need to speak with her. The actions are the message. Disappear or dissociate. Afterwards the next morning, she wants cuddles? Initiate. She turns you down? Disappear. Rinse and repeat. This of course will only work positively if your value is above hers, and she's dreading that. If she knows you can get someone else r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/08/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Lack of discipline obliterated my past monthI shall Google that. Thankyou. However I feel this difference may be industry. My best employees are starkly visible, we run flat (except myself as ultimate gatekeeper), so everyone is expected to give input on anything even tangentially related. (if they have something to say). The content we've created has spoken for itself as a result. Then again, moving into 2016 fast approaching, we'll be dealing with more money than I had predicted by exponents. It may, no, it's very much impossible to mai… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Lack of discipline obliterated my past monthI usually respect the things said by endorsed individuals. This I must disagree with. I own a business, and am a serial entrepreneur. The best employees I've ever had are innovative, hungry, almost famished for growth, thinkers. Sure the script monkey can do the job, but that guy who is constantly saying it can be better is always more lucrative in the long run. That's just my opinion. I could be very wrong, and likely the two industries I specialize in are very different from either of yours. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Mental Lifting: Challenge your mindGood job op, but I disagree. This formulaic approach is not pertinent to trp as a praxeology. I stick by what I wrote a while ago. Read the wiki of the day every day, if you find it interesting, check out a book on it and crush it. Rinse repeat. You should not force yourself to do things which do not improve your own values or apply to your life. Now I'm not disagreeing with the content, I love philosophy "analytic major" I also love economics, business, etc. However there are many who do not ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Wizard contemplating not rejecting influx of female attention, could use some advice."I'm flattered, however due to private matters I'm not currently on the market" | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Agency you have it, stop ignoring it!That is brutal. Some personal advice from experience. Before it progresses, sit down and interview him. Ask him all the things you never knew, ask to be told a story he never shared with you, a life lesson he never verbalized, a crazy once in a lifetime experience. Record it. Keep it as a memory, from the him he wants you to remember, instead of the shell he fears you'll regret. With full condolences, good luck op. Remember how he was and how he lived. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Agency you have it, stop ignoring it!I already did. Stop looking for my permission and fucking do what you need to. You keep acting a bitch, someone is gonna fuck you like one. Lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 02:46 AM |
| 4 | What is the closest pill to pussy?A nice quote, notice how he says MAN? Implying a rational being with self controlled and regulated agency? You have a long way to go before hiding behind platitudes. You need successes. Small ones. If lifting isn't doing it for you lift harder. Also, educate yourself every day. Wikipedia article per day plus kill a book per week. He'll, just a chapter per day. Meet up. Use it (the site/app) go alone. Hold one conversation. Leave if you must. You need exposure. If it's within finances, find the m… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Too high standards?Your standards aren't too high. The value you offer is far too low. Harsh, but you'd better accept it. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Is it more beta to do nothing, or to call a girl on her bullshit?https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3hlu9o/agency_you_have_it_stop_ignoring_it/ Just stop making excuses and read it. Then do it. Then come back in 3 months a changing man,with an FR destroying your current self. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Fox News spews.... knowledge about the St. Pauls Prep School rape casePlenty. Issue is, only phones with extended battery packs can handle it. You're better off installing transcript backups and a call recorder, also a manual recorder on a desktop or at least audio security in a few rooms, if not cams. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Crazy girl that fucks but cancels all the timeThen hard next her. When she asks why a simple response (my time is valuable). You stop being someone's plate by doing that exactly, QUIT BEING THEIR PLATE | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 11:32 PM |
| 9 | Extreme approach anxiety? (Daygame)Well, short answer yes. Long answer, what are you afraid of? Rejection? Bet you've dealt with that before, being rejected by a friend, a job interview, your parents when you wanted that car, etc. No big deal. I'd be inclined to say, don't set a hard number goal. And don't go out with friends unless it's a competition. (whoever flirts the most wins). Just approach every day. Every chance you can. Everyone, men can be friends, game women. Even getting rejected by a male for friendship thickens you… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Agency you have it, stop ignoring it!I hate to break it to you, but it probably will be cancelled, though it may be listed in r/philosophy. "not using RP terms or directly correlating to relationships". The majority of philosophy I've seen on trp makes me feel so frustrated. Often with the best intentions, but nothing more than coffee shop extended platitudes, really feel good drivel barely understood. On top of that, I feel at the moment there are better ways to identify segments of the praxeology (function based toolbox) of the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How old were you guys when you found TRP? where are you now?Found trp about 6 months ago, first post a few months ago. Late 20s, raised very very red, even the women in our family are crazy red. Difference between then and now? Little to nothing, except I found a safe outlet to share and gather perspectives. Think of it as catharsis. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why Don't HS Girls Care About Muscle?Shit bro.... I'm 5'11, 200lb at 15% right now. I've never roided in my life. That sounds really extreme at 17, unless your an athlete or have really low natural T. Regardless, look around you. If you're still not the top 20% across the board in your circle, it's probably not your body. It is likely that you're not approaching, have little to add to a conversation, maybe you're not good enough at game yet. Realize you may be good at these in comparison to a class under you, but you're dealing onl… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 11:33 AM |
| 1 | I've got resting bitch face...Stern is fine. The majority of the time my face, at rest, is very statuesque. I express myself mostly in microexpressions I can't control. Not at all the type to use my entire face to respond to things. (half smiles instead of grins. A smirk instead of laughter. A slight lip droop instead of a frown.) Resting bitch face makes the smile sweeter, the laugh brighter, and the anger more brutal. It actually works very well for me, maybe it's not your face? Remember 55% of communication is body langua… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How long did it take you to read all of the core texts?This is excellent, simple, effective. Op, small successes create drive. Read pook, go apply something for a day. When you see how effective it is, record it, you'll want more. Read more, go apply, rinse repeat. It becomes an addiction to improvement. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Attract Versus LikeThis entire post is spot on, but really its a simple tldr. "the law that you can't negotiate attraction goes both ways. It's not consciously turned on, OR shut off." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Loosing my friendsThey're not comfortable being constantly reminded of their insufficiency. It's that simple. It's rough op, but you'll find better. Just get out there! | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Agency you have it, stop ignoring it!You're doing it right, I would up vote you a hundred times if I could. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Break Her into Four Personas.I'm glad you posted this. I do not ever deal with or see the first two. Every girl is an enthusiastic slut when you're the right fit for her. Don't even consider the first two, presume she wants your Dick and is willing to work for it. Then proceed until you've got it or are a hard no. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Case Study: Christopher TitusI watched Christopher Titus way back, even only the first two were released. I definitely sympathized with the guy, he's a natural alpha, but raised and conditioned hard, self destructive beta. And it showed even then. I remember cringing at the end of his set about the brilliant abusive girl he married, just thinking "wtf man. Do you love pain?" I haven't watched the third, but it speaks to the same conditioning. I will watch it to remind myself of why I am who I am, why I do what I do, why I l… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Agency you have it, stop ignoring it!Thank you and also u/TheAureate for saying that. It's definitely my biggest peeve. Maybe this should be a rant not theory. Also I've read that post from whisper, excellent content. Edit: now it's a rant not a theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Trigger Warnings on College Campuses-Essential ReadingThis is lethal in its truth. This last summer I was in an accelerator program (entrepreneurs) that met once a week. 8 girls, 3 guys. Plus myself. Very exclusive. The first day, one girl openly asks me what I'm doing after the program. All the girls wanted to know more about my business. Thank you lifting and social competence. The second week two more tried to corner me in down time. By the end of the first month dresses had gotten shorter, becoming skirts, pushing the limits of "business casual… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 03:35 PM |
| 0 | 20-year-old "sugar baby" charges men $500 a date, sees as "empowering"Not odd at all. Girls do this all the time, it's just extreme beta orbiter use. I plated an international escort several years ago. Big time. She had pictures of herself in massive condos, expensive cars, one at a dinner where over her shoulder at the next table was Arnold Schwarzenegger. Big money crowd mostly for politicians. She had thousands in a safe in her house, in cash. Brilliant girl, got her law degree, paid for by her escort money, did it in about 3 years. Fucking. Brilliant. Also on … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Cheating website "Ashley Madison" dumps released - prepare for an influx of new usersEh. I posted a while ago that I'd be interested in this, but if you read the article, 90% of the women on the site are fake, generated ghosts, "done by alm themselves". Now that I know that, it'll probably be hours before a new # targeting men as the culprits is generated and that number gets thrown around as a call to action. Women don't need this. They just need 2 hours and an alibi. If that. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 11:31 AM |
| 3 | I (beta male, 30) got told that I was subhuman trash from my 33 yo GF for not wanting to marry her after 8 months of datingIt's biological. Born that way. Didn't officially find out until late 17/18. Sometimes the gun is a Beretta, sometimes it's only a nerf. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 11:25 AM |
| 29 | Affirmative Action is Good... Except when it isn'tI said this earlier today, I'll say it again. "feminism is just white supremacy. Replace Aryan with women and everyone else with men." Egalitarian sensibilities are a okay in my book. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | I have grown bitter. This pill is eating me alive - how to go back to enjoy...anything?Have you read my value post? Check my submitted history and read it. Of course everyone wants something from you, that's the primary motivator for human interaction. Accept it. What's really frustrating you is that they want the things you think little of. Look, if you want people to be friends with you, then you have to provide what attracts people. Attraction cannot be negotiated. For example, if you want girls to pay attention, give them something to be attentive to. Get ripped, study, learn … | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Wow. That's really insightful. I appreciate the input! I think a good idea from now on would be to avoid metaphors. You see, I write a lot for my company, at least I used to, (we have a writing team now) mostly anthologies and mechanics, so I'm used to explaining something using multiple metaphors, and for people looking for reference material on a Fantasy landscape. I've always had an editor/copy editor to work side by side with me, but I don't use business resources for personal posts of cours… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is a one-way open marriage unethical?Simply put? No. Nothing is unethical so long as informed consent is legitimately applied between two full agents. If someone is only a partial agent, coerced, or lacking totally informed willing consent, then it may be unethical. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 01:08 PM |
| 17 | I (beta male, 30) got told that I was subhuman trash from my 33 yo GF for not wanting to marry her after 8 months of datingI have to agree. I'm sterile naturally, and although people continually show me "sympathy" if they find out, they don't know what I've seen. Too many men I've known, I've watched get emotionally, financially, socially fucked by pregnancy scares or actual pregnancies. I've never. Had. To. Deal. With. That. Instant lie/manipulation detector. "I think I might be pregnant " Well, I think you should read these papers on your way out of my life. " I'm actually pregnant" (has never happened) but Damn t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 01:04 PM |
| 14 | Bad behavior: what to do?In these cases I usually say "everyone has a life to attend to. I definitely had fun." I rarely bother telling them what I did, and would consider it a next until she hits me up again. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 01:14 PM |
| 1 | I've made a lot of positive changes thanks to TRP, but it's not yet paying dividends and I'm feeling discouragedHave you considered doing freelance and resume bono work on the side to build a bigger portfolio? It's great to be able to walk in and show myriad proofs of product to an employer. Aside from that I have to wish you the best of luck, that's a tough situation to be in. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 01:11 PM |
| 3 | I need to stop getting upset about anything that’s remotely liberal/feministCategorize it black and white and give it back to them neutrally. Lower you say you agree with "it's bad to rape women". Just reinforce it and amplify, "well it's evil to rape anyone" and smile at them like they're idiots parroting "red is red!" like it's some crazy illuminating discovery they're proud of. You are definitely hitting anger phase pretty hard but repositioning yourself can definitely help take some of the rage off. You don't really agree with current feminism, you agree with egalit… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.No idea. You still haven't really given me a specific question. Do you mean what is it you don't comprehend? Why don't you comprehend it? Why do others comprehend it? I suppose I could say the tldr is the most simple way of putting it, and it has been edited several times since your post, maybe scan it again? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 10:48 AM |
| 1 | What is your average plate's lifespan?5.5 yrs. Next would be 3, couldn't stand the others past 1. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Does dating and having sex not excite anyone here?Shit I'm in my late 20s and I seem to be exactly the same as when I was 16. More picky, but also better at getting what I want when I want it. Get your t levels checked, work out erry other day, run on days off. On the other side, if you're happy, ignore it. But still do the latter. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What is your average plate's lifespan?3 to 6 months, I usually drop before the 7 month line, or I have decided to ltr the girl for a while. (I'm actually really good at ltrs, never had the majority of problems posted here about them) | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Conflict at work, got fucked by power play?Listen man. There's a time and place for everything, in your job you have to bend over occasionally, if you're not the guy signing the checks. I know, been on both ends, dozen jobs being the bitch, currently am the boss. If this happens you have only two goals, let the boss know explicitly someone else isn't pulling their weight, with proof, and that you can't make up work for an empty employee. Then do their work once or twice. Each time making it clear you'll not be able to continue doing that… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Could my good friend be a Chad offspring who needs TRP?He's Catholic? You're not a fisher of men. Get it? Augh that was awful. I should be ashamed. Seriously though do not go looking to convert people. They'll come to you if you simply live it and they want part of your success. The only person I ever converted was my brother, the rest came to me (asking me to write texts/chat to girls they wanted, asking advice, asking how I do things). Eventually mention a book (of pook), add deniability by saying it's a little odd, and say you'd love to help but … | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 01:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Failure and Feeling terrible.Not seeing a question. Read when I say no I feel guilty, (mostly for ltrs but could help you) and stop feeling guilty. You did her and you a favor. She now knows some men won't be orbited. You saved yourself from being orbited. Everyone improves, the world keeps spinning. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 01:48 PM |
| 1 | My brother wants to move cities to live with his gf... what to do?You'll have to let him go to (the) school (of hard knocks). You can lead a man to water but can't force him to drink. Be there for him when it ends in flames. My brother was the same, the only thing that changed him was catastrophic heartbreak and brutality. Now he's red as hell. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.I agree, though I covered that in lesson 2, vetting levels of women. Though I should say, this changed based on what your hobbies costs are and hers. The older and more established you get, the more likely you'll have to cover her to enjoy yourself. Strictly on your own terms of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Ask me a question. I'm certain learning to explain more universally will help me out, and maybe I'll even help you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyI agree entirely with entrepreneurship. I'm one "turning serial" and let me tell you, being at the top of the chain instead of the bottom is much better, even with the increased work load. However, most people in my experience, even other entrepreneurs, can't make the cut. It's brutal out there, and you have to be better than the rest in a renewable scalable way. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Uhm... Yeah I guess I can do that. Anyone can access them by searching their names or checking my submitted content. They're the only things in it. Don't have access to my computer today but late tonight or tomorrow I can do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Lol. Just help me improve my system and I'll do what I can to share. Seriously though what a compliment! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Yeah I have problems seeing the world as a purely transactional when things like altruism exist and a majority of friendships are built on proximity and likeness in interests rather than "trading" values. Value is not only physical. The emotional satisfaction of having a social circle, gaining confirmation, and feeling "wanted" are massively important to many people, and they're willing to pay a high price. For example look at the tendencies of battered women or men in relationships. There are c… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.I make excellent money. I don't tell people how much. It's never been an issue. Chances are, if you're breaking the 200k mark, people know. There are too many signs, no need to actively advertise. I guarentee people are quite aware you're in a different tier. They're probably aware you're several tiers up. Especially women. Tell them if you like, just expect it to pile on more gold diggers. That's up to you. In my experience it is much easier to vet girls when they don't know precisely or even c… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Oh, check that again, they are not mutually exclusive. Your job, is probably external, your career is likely internal, but both can be both. That's up to your circumstance. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.What is the relationship between your definition of value (which I agree with) and power? And, what do you think will be an adequate definition of power? Power is the ability to influence the world around you. People included. Value is a reference to that which gives you potential and sometimes actual power, internal (passive) and external (active), but it's no guarentee. Leveraging that potential is still on the individual. Does Game Theory concepts somehow blend in your argumentation? Not that… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Thank you, let me do a better summary. I'll get on that. I really appreciate the feedback. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.I'd agree. Sort of. Trp tells us we can be more, if we were already more people wouldn't be here learning and struggling to be more in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Edited it out. I'll continue editing it to be more concise. Thank you! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 11:14 AM |
| 24 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Fair. However there will always be those who do choose it, if i were to do something dangerous I'd prefer an attempt at safety rather than none. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 11:13 AM |
| 14 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Of course he did. I'm certain it's been done better by many people. I'm just doing what I can. Every post I'll improve. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Stoicismu/Cruel_Man already gave you links. As a philosophy major and practitioner of stoicism I'm going to give you some practices. Anything That happens to you you should categorize. It's either something you can change, or something you can't. If you can't, stop stressing. If you can, then decide if its worth the effort, but realize it's in your control and stop stressing. The biggest issue are things which you have partial control over. When that happens you need to reframe the situation into someth… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/15 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How to not be a devils advocate?Challenge yourself. Don't use canned responses. Think, actually think, about ways this could be beneficial, then explicate them. "I'm thinking about starting a business in housing industry" You as of now : (great! That's awesome!) You the way you should be (you know that's great, you should also make a deal with a food chain to supply orders there while people wait. I hate staying there bored and hungry.) Expand. Provide value. Yes, most people just want to hear themselves talk and be validated,… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Some Basic Progression Questions after getting the numberSkip the girls who play hard to get. It's not worth the effort. When a girl really likes a guy she won't hide it. She just plays betas and orbiters with hard to get. She might even fuck one if Chad dumps her too fast, but it's not where you want to be. The brad Pitt rule is strong in you. Always a good standard for vetting and screening. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Serial monogamists vs. carousel riders?No relationship under a year and a half is serious to me. At all. (just a perspective). They can involve serious shit, have serious ramifications, teach serious lessons, but they're not inherently serious. The first 6 to 12months is beautiful, the next half the initial rush falls and you face the hard facts of compatibility, habitual standards, and economics. If you break up then, fine, anything less I laugh at. Any girl who claims to have been in serial monogamous relationships would have a sta… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 11:47 PM |
| 3 | How to not be a devils advocate?Tips? Simply stop doing it. Go out every day and seek to enter five conversations where you are ONLY positive. Rinse, log, repeat. I personally don't feel you need to change your internal perspective this is a social network navigation issue I think. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Any sober Alphas out there?This is specifically valuable information if you're in business. Cocktail parties and men's clubs are the best networking and resource finding locations. There is always a barrier (read, glass of alcohol) being held between the investor and seeker. Find something that looks like alcohol and sip that instead. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 11:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR/Married red pillers...why?If we cohabitate. They sign as a sub lease under me. My dad recommended that to me the first time, been doing it ever since. Makes things easier if the girl starts to feel entitled to your place in any way. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 11:38 PM |
| 1 | FR Holding Frame, filmed plate without permission.You're right. I've never done it without permission but, then again I don't believe I've ever asked at all. Usually it's (Damn that's good, hand me my phone I love a Kodak moment). Only had maybe a few complaints where it happened anyway once I brushed them up. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 11:18 PM |
| -1 | LTR/Married red pillers...why?I like having a maid/cook I can fuck at will, any way I want to. I also like having guaranteed hobby partner, makes things easier. She can also do chores I don't have time for or don't want to do. She acts as a superb secretary. This is how all my ltrs go, until I'm bored, then they're gone. Marriage? Never. Don't like kids. Can't have kids. Too selfish for sacrifice. But ltrs are alright as long as you're never questioned and never appear weak. (I've never had an issue with either.) Just food f… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 11:12 PM |
| 2 | How difficult is it to become part of the %20?I don't think that would work. A general consensus (average, above average, below average) can be done, but you need a blind study to eliminate the biases of personal flavor preference. Many a 7 is a 9, many a 5 is a 3, at least to individuals. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Are they any women that aren't completely broken out there?Op, I did a post directly relating to this a while ago, find it or search it (it's called "vetting levels of women) It seems to me you have a vetting issue. Be sure to read the advice from the endorsed there it's apparently very helpful. Ah, since this is asktrp here https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3f5k4z/vetting_different_levels_of_women_a_consolidation/ | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.Sorry, been doing a lot of deals recently in prep to go international! (self boast completed) In response, that's a really good point. I'll remove it. I definitely enjoy a girl that pushes me to improve, regardless of her motives, but note that I do that anyway, it's just nice to have some reinforcement, but not necessary. I'll pull that one, then finish value management. Plan on posting it early tomorrow. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 11:42 PM |
| 2 | What is the expected SMV of a black female?First off, I'm a black male. I won't go into the details here, though there's always my post history. You want two things that are by nature, opposing and rarely found together. You want a person who focuses on intellectual or pseudo intellectual pursuits in a culture where the girl is (won) or a (prize) by standard archetype. A culture widely known for being less than skilled in mobility. I'm not talking out of my ass here, I am a heavy pc gamer, at least I used to be, and my business is a tg c… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys post pics/links of your scale of women?Nah. You don't need it. All of trp rating can be summarized for each individual guy in three levels. Internal (your view) there are those you won't, those you would, and those you want. External (social proof view) there are those you are mocked for, those you are expected to have, and those you are envied for. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls like taller men?There's a lot of good reasons here op, but the big question I think is really why do you need to know the why? I'm not belittling your question, I like it when people ask why, but what you're really here for is for the praxeology of trp. The fact is, being tall is better. So how do you deal with it? Not why is it better, just how do we approach that reality? By improving everything we can. That's the application. Do you really need to know why a wrench is made with a certain steel grade? No, not… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | How to recruit prospects while in an LTRI think you're going about this the wrong way. For example, I don't think in an ltr you recruit prospects, as long as you're constantly improving yourself, prospects volunteer and you choose to accept them. As far as your friends circle being primarily hooked up, maybe it's time to take some alone time and go stag to events. Build a new friends circle. Dread ensues. You don't even have to separate your ltr from the new circle, as long as it's founded on singles. This can and will backfire if you… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Is having sex in college even worth it anymore?That's brutal. Try screwing girls who aren't from the college, but the surrounding area, never use your real name, use cash at bars and such, don't bring them back to your place. Keep cash for Uber or something. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Doing pretty good for myself, my girl is happy, but I'm not happy with my friendsYou are the company you keep. You didn't give many reasons for not enjoying your present company, so I'll presume the default. You're better than them now. It's true and hard. If you're the best in the room, wrong fucking room. You need to get out there and build a new network. The worst you can do is isolate yourself and presume that your current network is a standard. You already know you used to be shit, why presume the shit associated with you is the best you can find? Find some alpha guys, … | /r/askTRP | 11/08/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | MiserableWomen are not psychopaths, they simply have a different method of operating. Women act crazy because they don't have to develope agency or accountability, and then are lacking in leadership. Your mother specifically, is fucking nuts, or has been driven desperate by supreme beta failure to lead. And i must say, even the perfect woman "if such a thing could exist" can be a total psychopathic bitch given the right circumstances. Especially with a Lack of leadership. Do not hate either of them, thou… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/15 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend won't give me head when I go down on her all the time...the longer you stay the more unhappy you get. Then why stay. Work on yourself, next, rinse, repeat, improve. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | GF is uncomfortable when I visit her while she's away because she's inconviniencing meWhat you have here is my type of girl. If she is consistently bothered by "bothering" you. That's a great sign. She is fully aware that you're the catch and she is not. Just don't miss the comfort tests. Sounds like you got lucky. Keep it that way and do not slip. As far as her apologizing, ignore it or be snarky. "oooh i know you'll make it up to me" or "How about you remind me why I do this?" the easiest is to shut the fuck up and hug her tight "because this IS a double test, comfort and shit,… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you determine if you are a likeable person?Do you have one friend whose close enough to be brutal? Ask them.we don't know you. If you don't then do this, (may damage your rep) do something incredibly stupid and don't justify it. If the group loves you they'll make excuses. If they don't, they'll mock you. Dangerous way to try, but I feel you're just starting out so you'll be ditching your social group within a year if you keep up with trp. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 09:25 PM |
| 7 | Any advice for incoming college freshmenTime management. You need it for the following. Three social groups. There should be the groups built from class, the groups built from connector types (professors, teacher assistants, etc) and your party group. Minor groups should be built from clubs. Join clubs. Just do it. Use meet up, go out every time you can to a new location. Try. Everything. (You can afford.) Join /visit startup communities, help them out, great networking, fun parties, and the kids starting businesses in college often w… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.Haha. Marketing and sales. We know how it goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Don't be a Sam - Use your knoledge to profit.This actually does make complete sense. It's simply marketing. Look up "the paradox of choice" or "over choice marketing" in Google to read into it. Essentially, too many options paralyzes the brain because we're constantly looking for the best option that fits us most. When there are far too many choices we often make the wrong one, especially since compare and contrast becomes too muddled between say, 100 options and 10 options. I own a company that specializes in entertainment, and our produc… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Getting in shape guidance: keto for cutting?Add in squats and compound lifts too. I did keto with a lifting friend for about a year, it was nice, but I found little difference in performance and weight loss. You want to lose weight burn more calories than you intake, it's really that simple. Try to focus on either carbs or fat for energy, instead of both equally. (think diesel or gas, you don't do both) Aside from that, my fitness pal, a good food scale, and daily running /swimming /biking are great ways to slim. Keto really isn't difficu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/15 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Nobody wants to hear your life story, the truth about a rough past and unfavorable circumstances in life.I think you're right, in general. Believe me I fully live my life under the pretense that the world will fuck you, doesn't care about you, and wants to eat you. However, I really truly do love people. Individuals. Every one person can teach you something, many of the best life lessons I've learned came from listening to stories, stories about living in a mansion then being homeless, being a heroin addict then becoming a clean straight ceo, going to Vietnam, watching your friends die in front of … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you feel like your strong prescence invites challenges from other guys?Yup. Wish I had something to contribute beyond what you've already said. That's the truth right there. Follow this op. Source, martial training, bouncer for a few years. Though mostly for kicks. Also smaller, at 200lb 5'11 ripped. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there a wall for men?Not the same way there isn't. My grandad died at 90,banging 30 year Olds. Not a single one got a cent. Why? He was still cutting down and splitting trees on his property until 80 something. He still walked to get groceries, he took a world cruise every year, he is from a family of mad money, he was alpha as holy fuck. My dad is the same though married, my mom taught me a third of my rp upbringing and she's more brutal than my grandad was. I'm following their footsteps. "the world is mine. It jus… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 05:04 PM |
| 2 | True or False: "The sluttier/more disloyal the girl, the better at sex she is."I disagree. Enthusiasm is everything. If she wants to please you badly enough she's going to do anything you want, and love it. There are plenty of sluts who starfish, and I've trained my share of virgins to be personal whores. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Communication: Understanding the GlitchDo you specifically mean unconditional love? I'd agree with that. However "real" is two things. Real is what feels real as far as the average individuals application, and the other "real" which I think you mean as "logically true". It is real that people are killed over love, and that they felt this love strongly enough to act. It doesn't matter if love is true. "it's not", though emotional states certainly are. Maybe. Possibly. Nice thought though. I appreciate it. Hope I understood a bit more … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 01:21 PM |
| 1 | female SMV and judgmental traitI don't think so. No matter how high her smv is, or how much of a leader, scan trp and read the proof day to day. High power women will bow to a superior man. I agree, use her social circle as a reference for the type of person she is, but as long as you're conclusively better, always improving, you lead. Doesn't matter if she was a college lion or a housecat. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Communication: Understanding the GlitchDon't be silly. Love is very real. There are multiple types. And they are all conditional. Even a mother's love for a son is conditional. Trp educates us on those conditions so we can act accordingly and effectively, instead of blundering around ever hurt and confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 01:07 PM |
| 3 | "When Steve Jobs' ex-girlfriend asked him to pay $25 million for his "dishonorable behavior"To be fair, they couldn't have provided me value had they even known. I never had trouble getting or dropping girls. They already did everything they could. The situation just gave them an excuse to feel like they didn't do their best, (offset responsibility) when I was acutely aware (hence why I left) that their best simply wasn't good enough for me. Just finding out after the fact let their hamsters spin to make it my fault that they're insufficient. Try not to be upset at it. That's why they'… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 01:01 PM |
| 8 | "When Steve Jobs' ex-girlfriend asked him to pay $25 million for his "dishonorable behavior"however... What goes through a woman's head when she sees a wealthy ex My family is very well off, and now I am too, thanks to my business exploding a few months ago, and a few years earlier hitting steady growth (m.o.m. 35%) and some very smart saving habits. Once I get the trust I'll be a 1% person. I had the exact same curiosity a few years ago, and my best friend volunteered for some research (for a few beers and help moving) He spoke to my most recent ex at the time, when it had come out ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 12:08 PM |
| 2 | "The Cuckold and The Slut"You don't find enlightened alphas in a philosophy club. Not in my experience. Source: philosophy is one of my majors, analytic, not the continental stuff. You find the philosophy alphas chatting over quiet drinks at a regular location. If you want to find them, find alphas and ask about philosophy friends, don't find "philosophers" and hope for alphas to be there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 11:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Even the chubby ones feel entitledThat is playing as I'm reading this, thanks for pointing it out, just think I had a Kodak moment. Also, to OP, black male, look great, high smv even in the corporate business sector. Fat white chicks think they deserve high smv black men, that's so common it's really a joke. The only way to break it is to raise your smv further. (to the point where you're a severe social outlier). The number of times a fat white girl tried to chat me up pre-college was every other day, at least. We're still view… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 12:03 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Cosmo catcalling video of men reacting to their girlfriends getting catcalled?Disregard this. They'll never show you the video of the guy with actual smooth game and value at the club they're grinding on during the girls night out. That guy whose value is so apparent they're the one catcalling him. (through iois, touching his flat chiseled chest, rubbing his back, grinding on him etc) You're a street caller because you can't kill it with an intimate circumstance, or you can't cash the check your mouth has written. Alpha men do not need to do that. Girls do that to them. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Fresh in the rabbit holeThis is disgusting, but I'm shameless. First, kill the sidebar. Second, Check my history and read the submitted (why you need a yearly monk). Also read when I say no I feel guilty. Third, do a self swot analysis. Search it in Google. Be brutally honest with yourself. Fourth, choose your improvement areas, I recommend 4 key points addressed daily with a log. Your swot plus the readings will decide what they're on. Fifth, enjoy the improvement, live in the decline, profit. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: 1 Day; 3 GirlsGood on you mate. To the "gentle caveman" I do the same with girls that are top plates, "think vetted enough that I may allow them to progress", I think of it more life a caveman cleaning his club. There are many like it but this one is mine kind of mentality. Priming her is like cleaning my car, it's mine, I'm pleased with it, it better be shiny for me. Love the fr, hopefully you'll do more but heavier into the meta /adv theory spectrum. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 01:40 AM |
| 2 | LTRs and gift givingIn all of my experience, the biggest thing you can ever give a woman is your time. This presumes of course that you've covered your shit and time is already the most scarce thing you can offer her. Whatever you do, do it together, and actually be present the whole time. Actually focus on being there in the moment. You don't need to focus on her, just being there is plenty. Source: I pretty much never buy gifts for girls, me being around for a whole afternoon is enough of a prize to make them go … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Refusing to go a smokeThis isn't about should I smoke or not. This is really about compromising yourself. You're actually asking "should I sacrifice who I am in order to get a leg up on pussy?" Fuck no. Never compromise yourself in a situation. No way. Compromising is fine, but compromising yourself at a chance of something is not. That's simply self destructive and weak. Now I'm not a delusional guy, who believes that you should just "be you" regardless, that only works if you are someone who has a lifestyle and per… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 01:09 AM |
| 3 | [VIDEO] When a feminist/SJW takes their internet logic into the real world.Thanks for the laugh op. You made my morning brighter. If you find out how this ended let me know, I don't mind some justice porn in the morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.My current nerd girl? I chased her off a bus, demanded her number and told her to be dressed to impress that Friday. No joke. You'll recognize the signs, they have lives and chores just like yours, look for the timid ones, always slightly awkward or in their own little world, keep an eye out for gamer clothing, not what's currently popular, but small name things, Nintendo girls are great, so are MMO girls. Skip the ones wearing gamer gurl shit, that's an attention feeder catering to a niche. Go … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 12:46 PM |
| 6 | Had my first experience of 'close to wall' desperation, its not pretty.Work on your responses and reactions op. At 19 I was fired from my job because I continually turned down the assistant manager. (30 something, ex military, actually rather attractive, single mom though). I was raised with very strict rules for relationships, one being you never shit where you eat. She wasn't even on my radar. Not to mention at 19 I was cycling through 18 through 21yr Olds wicked fast. They stopped by where I worked pretty commonly, and she saw that. She wanted it, and I constant… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 12:05 PM |
| 57 | Why do successful black guys marry white girls?Black male here. Aside from my current girl I have never even plated a black chick. I've fucked them, but this one is the first I allowed to progress up the ranks. In general, hood culture has even less value placed on virginity, decision making, and submission to men than average non black American culture. Add in the circumstances of economic and often legally self destructive practices saturating lower class "read poorer" demographics, then add in about 1/3 the individuals of that culture foc… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Vaults, cats, and booksHey you know that rephrase just made me a lot more supportive of your perspective. Nice op. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | "The Red Pill" Equivalent of Gummy Bear VitaminsFirst, we are not fishers of men. Second, you'll do it anyway, so if he's mathematically inclined, show him to Terrance pop at redonkulus. He may help. Short bite sized mathematical breakdowns of the effects of feminism and the sexual market. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Vaults, cats, and booksThis is... Interesting. I can't disagree, but I can provide another perspective. Three days ago I left a summer acceleration program for my business. It was cocktail and demo night, give your pitch, traction, to around a hundred serial investors, get money. Impressing them IS necessary, to impress yourself. I succeeded beyond what I had ever imagined, and I feel better than ever, but I had to cater to their needs, at least place my values into their lense, in order for that to happen. I agree, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend problemsShe isn't your girlfriend anymore. Long distance I've only seen work in a situation where both have been together a long time before the distance, the male is a few tiers above the girl, the male is good enough to slam dunk every comfort test which is very difficult without being able to use physical comfort, you have to get wordy "and wordy is feminine", and the girl is introverted as hell,"doesn't like going out at all without him." And even then they're rare to succeed. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 12:41 AM |
| 3 | I'm deathly afraid of drowning.Swimming lessons. No age is too late. Do it now. You learned how to stop drop and roll and I'm guessing you use grills, matches, lighters pretty normally. Well treat water with the same respect. Protect yourself. Go get the lessons, if you're that embarrassed, hire private lessons. You'll thank yourself. If there's psychological trauma linked, then get a psych too. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 12:35 AM |
| 2 | GF has a secondary Instagram accountDo your gut instincts overwhelmingly serve you well in other aspects of life? Yes? Then just soft next, "no hard evidence" No? Then let it slide for now, make your decision as more warnings pop up, "if they do" | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | I watched five minutes of "Trainwreck" so you don't have to.Haven't found a recent female comedian I appreciate aside from tig notaro. Actually can't remember one I appreciated enough to choose to watch. I'm sure there were a few I tolerated at some point. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 12:18 AM |
| 3 | [FR] My experience as a man with depression & anxietyDear God. Swimming exactly. Myself and one of my business partners both encountered depression during 10th to 12th yr. We started swimming (swim team for him, daily two miles for me), corrected it within 1 summer. He ended up getting hired as a swim coach, possibly being promoted to GM of acac within a few weeks, I went shore front and have been doing natural fit and lifting ever since. It's been about a decade and we both still laugh at how easy it was to break the chain of victimization, (he h… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.You can do it too, and use it to help build your passive market attraction. Don't look at it in a bad light, it simply is, and that's awesome, because you can be one of those 12 per year with nsa. But you can do it weekly and only get more cred! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.I'll add that, since you're endorsed and probably dwarf my experience. However, I don't actually find that true enough to be a general rule in my experience, (just the fatties one) I've picked up too many 7s maybe 8s surrounded by fatties because even though they're attractive, something else had lowered them in the pecking order enough that they couldn't rule the cheer leading squad. You're right though. Added. Thank you! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Iron Sharpens IronJust go find alphas to hang out with. They likely know nothing of trp, but they make great friends and resources of learning. Watch their actions, have a good time. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Hmm. I suppose I can reword it. I chose efficiency in spite of fun every time, i was losing the "fun" part of me which was important for maintaining that social enthusiastic attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.Vetting is pretty easy until you hit friends with benefits. You can find a lot of this stuff out in casual conversation. Usually the Vetting game is going both ways at some point, and there's often signals it's beginning. Look up qualifiers in pua, read the sidebar material,also check out redonkulas, you can find the episodes on YouTube, he actually has pretty decent lists of translations between what is said and what is meant. I'd say the best thing you can do to gain information is maintain a … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Yes. As a matter of fact one of my upcoming posts will explain that very well. For now let's just say the following. 1: everything had an economic cost to it based on time I could spend on business vs anything else. 2: total cost in the best I could figure as far as dollars decided everything from social interactions to consolidating going out for groceries and goods. 3: this resulted in a mechanical outlook on everything, even when I scheduled having fun, or going out, or just chilling casually… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Natural & reliable male contraceptive methods for when going condomless with your LTRGet a vasectomy,freeze some sperm for the future. If you're too young to get a doctor to do it, only ltr girls who have implant birth control they can prove. (paperwork with dates), at the very least make sure she's using a nuvaring, make a mental note of the date of expiration and put an alarm in your calendar. If she isn't mentioning a checkup around that time bring it up. There are so many more convenient ways to address this I swear. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.I agree with you. No need for a formula, but it seemed interesting. It's not as though I go through the formula when I am vetting, though I do presume at least 12 a year since active. Shit if a guy can do that you KNOW women do. It's simply how well it's hidden. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.Allow me to explain. This is actually a formula my friend gave me. I think he even posted it somewhere on trp a while ago. Girl A=hb5, presume A gets 3 serious offers a day, (hit on) and likes to get laid at the very least, once per month. This means girl A is turning down 89 active offers per month AND only choosing 1 dick to ride. That's insane to think about, and I find, not unrealistic. I also have yet to meet the girl who only wants to get fucked good once per month. If she's a 6, add an of… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 06:08 PM |
| 6 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.I'll go over formatting for the next one. Noted heavily. Thank you for the additional green lights. I'll add them with enough up votes! As per usual. Edit: noticed you're a vanguard. Adding the 2nd and 4th immediately. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.It's cool bro, consider me unphased. No rustled jimmies. I am more concerned about the submission missing content important for proper decryption. Hah. To getting kidded up, maybe I should add in that i'm genetically sterile. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.Oh don't worry man. I can't remove your comment nor would I want to. I meant removing what I said about being in cohabitation. Also take the edit as clarification, poor attempt I'm guessing but I like to try to clarify for posts like yours, usually others will be helped by it. Thanks for the response, but thank you MORE for explaining yourself. That's the kinda stuff that's useful to me. Also just responded to another comment with some info about my situation. Cohabitation is an experiment I'm n… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 02:25 PM |
| 14 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.Certainly. I did so in a recent comment. I've dated "not just plated" many nerd girls. They're often quite malleable and happy to have a Chad like guy in their life so much that they'll follow suit obediently. It also is nice that almost all their emotional validation comes from digital (read harmless) social circles. My current girl (hb7) is a slim mulatto girl, hot as fuck, nice tna, but raised in a gaming family. I'm her first. I plated her for a year then went for the ltr. During that first … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 02:19 PM |
| 10 | Vetting different levels of women, a consolidation.I won't remove that. Thanks for your opinion I suppose. Though it is rather short sighted. "i used to be a fitness instructor for 10 years, but now I don't lift actively anymore, just give advice." "I used to be a lawyer, now I just council friends from time to time " You draw from that, "So you don't know shit about fuck." You're cute. Please attempt to add something of value next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Your attitude is who you are. Everything else, you are just borrowing.Not at all. I liked your first paragraph. Write things like that. The rest is not at all useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"I heavily recommend learning 2 languages fluently and a third well enough for directions. This is badly understated in trp, but immensely valuable. Knowing different languages increases smv directly from my experience. 1) more open options 2) the illusion of being cultured and experienced It's not something most on trp every discuss or think about,but I heavily advocates knowing at least 2 or 3. I myself know French and English as first languages and Japanese, Latin, learning some Spanish and It… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"That's awesome to hear. I seemingly helped one person, done. Thread closed. (I'm joking) or am I serious. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Satisfying my womanRead the sex God method, and remember above all, the most effective way to satisfy a woman is to make her crave you to the point of insanity. In other words, to work on yourself and be leagues above her value. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I snoop my GF's facebook?Nah. Don't bother. If you're bothered by it that much just break up with her, work on your smv, have higher passive dread and value next time. It could be girl talk, "which many men would find brutal" or she could be running a kickstarter for a professional football league in her panties, what do you care? If something reeks of smoke, don't look for the fire, just leave. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/15 02:16 PM |
| 2 | On shit and comfort tests, and the interaction between themHey, that's awesome up hear. I'm glad for you! Keep crushing. I know I'll try! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/15 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Your attitude is who you are. Everything else, you are just borrowing.You're not going to last forever. Even if you lift more than the liftiest guy on TRP, your body is going to deteriorate over time. That advice is ringing through your ears on this subreddit because the easiest way to find happiness is to feel good about yourself. If you feel good when you look in the mirror, all you're doing is checking yourself out. Fine. No problem there. You believe you're growing as a person because you are literally growing out your body. It's physical progress that everyon… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 10:50 PM |
| 8 | Seeing Nice Guys Frustrates Me [Vent]How to put this... You live in a world without salt. "pussy". The people selling salt in abundance are looking for water. "tingles and or genetics" You recognize the people with something to trade get all the salt. But you have spent your life mining coal. The opportunity cost of switching Enterprises is too great, "read as too hard" for you to switch. Though you're fully aware water is in demand. It's not that you're incapable, it's that you're unwilling to take the risk. Besides, most every si… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | People who naturally lead any group conversation/discussion, how do you do it?Let's be harsh for a moment then move to metaphor. You want to test if you're an alpha and have the natural proclivity for room control? Say something stupid, see if people jump on board. Or at the worst, simply assume you're joking. If they do, you're the room control. If they don't, work on yourself by: 1) Public speaking, if you can't take a class, go to the nearest stand up comedy club and begin writing a set. Fail a dozen times, learn how to control a room. I cannot recommend this enough. 2… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend got a sappy "apology" letter from an ex. How to react?I've had this happen with my current ltr. My exact response "that's sweet he's such a nice guy."I laughed, and pushed her to her knees. When she was done I added "but I'm glad you know what you really need." Confirm her, this is half shit test half comfort. She wants to test your reaction to another guys desire but also wants affirmation that she made the right choice. Confirm that he's attracted" NOT THAT SHE'S SPECIAL " then remind her indirectly of why she needs you instead. Also, watch her l… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Plate/possible LTR asked me to join her on vacation.Yeah, posture, voice, financial, music, the big 4 complements that always feel good but are worth little. (at this point) I also get the backhanded "you speak so well". But i'm black and usually date white chick's so, meh to be expected. To OP, do it. She's a novice and you'll be able to enjoy it. Have fun, learn, experience it, and keep her a plate but definitely reward her with validation. At your age if you haven't had experience with an ltr, you may want to try it out, "just to see how quick… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Thanks man. Since you gave me the initial breakdown with some excellent links to back it, I feel obligated to say, I REALLY APPRECIATE that you've taken the time to help me out. Consider it ignored. "i already read through it lol, and had decided while interesting, it's not feasible unless you have a myostat complex" Also thanks for the other complement. I've already recieved three topic requests, is there anything you would like? "not that they'll be any good to anyone, but I'm happy to try" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 09:14 PM |
| 2 | On shit and comfort tests, and the interaction between themGood on you man. If these 11 to 15 year olds really were doing that, depending on the time of night, I can almost guarentee there is not an active father figure or family structure supporting them. Do the BBQ, then use them, while adding structure to their life. I'm sure you have chores that need to be done, 15 year olds are happy to get out of the fucking house and make video game money raking a yard and tarping leaves. Win win. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Rewarding FailureYeah. It didn't pay in dividends, it cost in compound interest. I get what your saying though, draw your lines in the sand "mentally" and then immidiately address any infractions. You don't have to be caustic or an ass about it. I learned this the hard way once over an employee /friend who failed two consecutive deadlines. Trying to be polite about it didn't work, and failing another would've meant giving up a venue slot. I called him, and politely asked him to open and read out our company cult… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | "Standing up to me?"Simplify it even further and add the classic "why?" Hamstering is based on feels and illusion, not justifiable argument. The "why" question can put so many of these tests to a stop really quickly. You need to stop working out you look good the way you are. "why?" Are you standing up to me because I don't like that. "why?" That's not how you load a dish washer, now I have to fix it. " why?" Let them make their own beds, mock playfully and accordingly. Rinse, repeat | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/15 08:35 PM |
| 12 | Promiscuity and Why Men Are Repulsed by Women With High Partner CountsI agree. I've dated "not just plated" many nerd girls. They're often quite malleable and happy to have a Chad like guy in their life so much that they'll follow suit obediently. It also is nice that almost all their emotional validation comes from digital (read harmless) social circles. My current girl (hb7) is a slim mulatto girl, hot as fuck, nice tna, but raised in a gaming family. I'm her first. I plated her for a year then went for the ltr. During that first year though I got her trained re… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 09:51 PM |
| 9 | Promiscuity and Why Men Are Repulsed by Women With High Partner CountsI just make a joke of it. "well son, would you like this fresh new coke all to yourself? Or would you like this coke that has had a dozen penises in it? " Paraphrase from -the Cleveland show. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Followed TRP, first time anyone has ever complimented me on the woman I'm with."you rattlin change" I don't know if you are aware of that term, it means you've been noticed having multiple girls guys want on your arm. First time I heard that I was high for the next two weeks straight. Felt amazing. The difference between a 7 and a 9 is all in the validation. "and it seems 7s are usually more enthusiastic in the bedroom, probably just me though" Good on you op! Now go get another! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Women whining about graduating college.I'd disagree entirely. This is my second stint at college, and even though the social network is pretty much built for you, along with many great opportunities, having a job with great cash and the freedom to take trips anywhere and everywhere on my own dime was much more enjoyable in the 2 year break I took. Then again, I'm back in college, 1 year left, and I am only 27. I probably don't know shit about fuck. To be fair my parents said the same, that college is what you make of it, but full blo… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Just Google Sigma male Traits. From what I was told, I had become noticeably less alpha and more mechanical in my motives. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get this?If a girl makes eye contact longer than it takes for you to know her eye color, talk to her. Not 100% correct, then again nothing is in the game. It's my general rule, and works well for me. I suggest trying it out. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Use the links to find an article you can understand, or if the article of the day is too long, get through as much as you can. The more you educate yourself the smaller the chance an article will pop up which you're entirely clueless about. "it'll still happen often of course, just less so" I really only do this to find new topics that I want to check my next week's book on. I suppose you could use it as your primary source of info though I wouldn't recommend it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Reddit's hate for TRPI did this after hearing about trp from a post in r/startup,several months ago. Definitely saved my ass, as my other account is my business account. If your account is already contaminated, create one for everything else and scrap it. Too little too late. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/15 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Eating healthy options made simpleMy fitness pal plus a good scale and thorough logging = absolute awareness of what's going into your body. I heavily recommend it. Many do. It's personally one of the only apps I am willing to pay yearly for. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 06:43 PM |
| 5 | On Male StrengthWake early, crush early, plan early, and you run your day. Just on time is too late, then the day runs you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Fair enough, so it may seem. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Nah. To me that's silly. Regardless of the "technical" core aspects of monk mode, it's up to the individual to decide which things they should focus on, and what they should deny. If isolation is not one of those things, throw it out. Self improvement is about improving what you're poor at right? Why close yourself off if your weak point is socializing? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Yup. Check u/rpscrote, he corrected me long before this thread got big. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Saving this for after rock climbing. So much info out there! This is why normally I appreciate any fitness advice, but keep doing new things. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Yep one of the first comments here covered that for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Damn, glad i covered my ass saying I don't think my writing has improved, nice catch. It's the former, not the latter. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Hah. Because about 3 months ago I switched to it to get my girl into the gym. I am also really big into trying every system I find one by one. After ppl I'm probably going to try crossfit, after that probably back off weights and go rock climbing weekly again. After that I'm not sure what schedule I'll do, but It'll be new and hopefully fun! I view lifting as something necessary, but by no means fixed in method. I'm always doing natural fit and I make sure to keep the gym high enough priority (3… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Already been corrected, scroll to u/rpscrote, thanks for your input though! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Meh. If you feel the need to attach a higher purpose to self improvement, "which I feel is already in itself the highest reward" go ahead. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Do that shit. Record it every day and submit an FR. That's the kind of quality content trp needs "imho". I'm sick of reading "wow awalt is awalt!" in a hundred flavors every week. No shit we know the basics work that's why the community is growing. Share your experience please! Don't be one of the hundreds on here that say "yeah I should" but probably mean "I won't." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Oh yeah, I saw that. Hence why it's called and built as an example of why one would need it. Not "do this now". A theory with an FR as demonstrative proof. I appreciate the concern, but I feel I've been quite reasonable. If I have misinterpreted a mod will correct me. They know exactly what they're doing I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Wow it's nice to see someone running the career here. I really appreciate the perspective! I (personally) didn't have issues getting in immediately. "house parties chilling one on one, etc" that was after the second night going. However I'm not in a big city, I'm in a college built town on the east coast. So I can't imagine speaking to NYC level stand-up "for living fee". That's really impressive. However I'd recommend even basic stand up to anyone. Go bare yourself to a room of strangers under … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Scroll down to the comment from u/rpscrote, it wasn't even nearly 10lb muscle he set me straight. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"It's a mrp read for guys who prefer ltrs, a warning. "when I say no I feel guilty." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Yes, it definitely does. However I had mentioned I didn't cover the soylent allotment of 80some more per day. I was/am actually around 230.which is still far too low. I appreciate it immensely that you took the time to help a bro out! Thankyou! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Definitely high carb, soylent took me from under 50g a day to over 150. I should've gotten keto chow. Dammit. I'm saving the links for reading. I really appreciate the help. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Step 2 - Taking Charge of Food/NutritionThis. Don't send an email. However, to you should send her a copy of the household budget. A budget is a command, it's a list of regulations that you can change according to necessity. An email comes off as a bit avoidant, as though you don't have the balls to tell her to your face. Send the budget, bypassing any implied option of working together to decide it. It's simply "these are the new rules" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Thanks. I've actually been going through a soylent test over the last month as well, the 150g is in addition to the 80ish soylent gives in a 2000 calorie basis, didn't even think of that because I don't have to measure the packet. Rest assured, once the test is over and I get my money, i'll be doing about 215ish. Even then I'm still certain you're right, it probably limited my gains. Though 15lb in 30 days I'm rather satisfied with at only a 1% body fat increase. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Are they? I checked up on posting policy about a week ago, just to make sure nothing had changed, "and boy had it". I didn't think I missed anything. Speak on that? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 05:24 PM |
| 2 | New to RP, seeking advice on drunken behaviorI dated a lush for a year and a half. When we began dating she only drank once a week, she had been a home drinker nightly but since I was around fucking her every evening she kinda gave that up for the first few months. She didn't have time to swallow alcohol when she was too busy keeping my balls empty. Of course, old habits die hard, eventually as I began to tire of her, she began nightly again. I tolerated it because when she got drunk she got horny and very generous. "literally hour long mu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Thank you. Vanguard and endorsed contributers are essentially the only people from whom I've taken anything on trp. Everything generic, or, entry level I suppose, has been how I've run my entire life, thanks to a very red family and social circle. You guys are what I'd like to be as far as trp is concerned. Edit, this thanks is to you too u/copperfox3c | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 05:05 PM |
| 17 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"I agree entirely. All my lessons are based, loosely or directly, on agency. You can control yourself completely, you cannot control the world. So you should focus everything on bettering yourself so that the world bends to you willingly. I think you'll probably like the value management post. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"That is awesome to hear. Another year and I'll graduate, "triple major" my business should be stable enough to take a year hiatus and leave it in my partners hands. I've been wanting to do something like this and I think I should get it done before 30. Would you be so kind as to pm me the program? I'd love to read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"Added: finished my work for today, so I'm on for questions and tips. "to me or from me" I'll check back sporadically, but I'm not here to debate. Additionally I'll take serious requests for more upcoming topics. Almost anything an endorsed or vet asks is pretty much going to be done. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Psychologists are more likely to see a man as abusive than a woman when considering the same psychologically aggressive behavior.Lol. I hit report so quickly my thumb almost flew off, then I saw his up voted post underneath and took pause. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do they hate us? because if generalizations work then that means they arent the special snowflakes they wish they were.That's definitely not an irrational way to view it... Yeah, I can't argue with that perspective at all. However I can state that with my limited knowlege of you, it seems like a Defeatist way to view the entire situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Why do they hate us? because if generalizations work then that means they arent the special snowflakes they wish they were.I like your style. Surprised someone agreed that quickly or at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 06:13 PM |
| 11 | In light of AWALT, why bother being picky with the character/past behavior of girls and why not judge them purely on an aesthetic and sexual basis?Okay, that was fast. I just used one of my 1 month monk mode posts in another thread. I suppose I should share this one too. (requested by another user a few months ago) I wasn't going to post lesson 3 until I felt it was ready, but here you go. You obviously need it. Summary: This post is aimed at those who have trouble vetting their relations, from plate to date to ltr. Of course, the common conception is that the more invested the more vetting you need to do, and this should give you some of … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 06:10 PM |
| 15 | Mother of 4 stands naked all day in the house, feminists love it. How would they react if a man did it?I think there's a third and very likely option. He sees this his entire childhood, and then sees amateur porn. Maybe has a few experiences in person seeing girls his age partially nude or at the beach. Then realized his mother is fucking crazy and he should tap all dat young pussy before they turn into her. Just pointing out, a rebellious phase goes further than just morality, it can certainly involve avoiding physical characteristics as well. Now I'm not condemning or condoning her actions, she… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Be Wary of the Epiphany Phase WomanThis is the most accurate response here. It has little or nothing to do with the feminist agenda, it has much more to do with a medical oath, and a business protective standpoint. Additionally, I know this very well as I am naturally sterile. I've no need for a vasectomy, but being sterile it was made clear to me if I wanted one I could have one, "at 17 when I found out" of course I didn't get one, too expensive, but they have no problem doing it to someone with the pre existing condition. If it… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 05:47 PM |
| 11 | Why do they hate us? because if generalizations work then that means they arent the special snowflakes they wish they were.RP men will never become an endangered species. As society gets worse, the percentage will shrink, but experience even more success, if society gets better, the percentage will increase, and a new higher standard will emerge to elevate the top 10 percent of desired males. RP men will always exist, as alpha Traits will always be effective. The only way I could see RP men disappearing is with a massive biological overhaul of our species innate desires. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 05:38 PM |
| 2 | How to build discipline and willpower? Or, how to monk mode while in LTR?That's nice. You want to thank me? Post your monk month 4 areas and then how you're going to attack them. I'm sure plenty of smarter more experienced guys here will help you adjust goals to be reasonable. Then fucking do it, and write a FR on it in 31 days. That's the best thanks you can give bro. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How to build discipline and willpower? Or, how to monk mode while in LTR?Oh, thank you, I really appreciate that. I was actually discussing with my ltr whether I needed more work on that. "she is very good at brutal analysis when it comes to social interaction, as I said, rpw" I'm less concerned now. Edit: I think you misunderstood. I already have an issue with intensity, I was considering another month practicing being being less intense. Though I do agree with what you said, it's just not applicable to me at this point. Already a long time follower the path of iron… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 05:08 PM |
| 3 | No friendsThis is all great advice here, listen to it op. I noticed not anyone gave you consistent steps to follow to correct this. 1) say yes to anything new that doesn't damage you, "that you can afford" this is not just for people asking you to do things, local meet ups from Google or meetup.com are great ways to try new things often cheap. You should be searching half an hour a day for public things you haven't done, and go to one, even alone, each week. 2) hit Wikipedia. Use the article of the day. I… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 05:03 PM |
| 2 | TRP and Celibacy?Learning preferences and actually being happy enough to willingly, enthusiastically participate in them are two different things. Compatibility is massively important. I can't stress that enough. If you like anal and she hates it, or vice versa, one of you is going to be giving "duty" service after long enough has passed. Great way to build frustration and resentment, also guilt on both parties. Not at all a good idea. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Working out. KISS, you aren't Arnold5'11 200lb at 18%. Pretty much the same area. Cutting begins September, for now I want to get bigger. Great advice op. Edit, sorry op! Haha 18%,I'm not 18yrs old! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How to build discipline and willpower? Or, how to monk mode while in LTR?Damn. I miscalculated again huh. Guess the intensity needs another few weeks | /r/askTRP | 21/07/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Religious Head Covering - Shit Test?I wasn't talking about just her. Scan it again and replace her with anyone in your life, see if it comes to a different conclusion. As far as how to begin application, this'll make you uncomfortable for a month. But just do you. Be entirely selfish in the way described, and see if those you care about aren't more happy. Just do it. I'd happily place money on the results being positive. Edit: I realized I didn't give a fair or reasonable set of steps to achieve dissociation. My bad. Hopefully the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 08:49 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW: Vasectomy - the pros and consI don't know why, but your comment made me spray soylent everywhere. Fuck your clever gubbins! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 08:45 PM |
| 10 | How to build discipline and willpower? Or, how to monk mode while in LTR?Just did my yearly monk, I was going to actually do a submission, but I think its more helpful here,and I don't want to flood trp with something which I feel is still not acceptable quality. I feel you should monk. Summary: Monk mode over, do this every year for 1 month. Here's how I improved and why you should do it yearly if you're already red. Take into account the following; I'm in cohabitation with an ltr of almost 6 years. I'm dissociative. I own a business, at a young age. I've been lifti… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Religious Head Covering - Shit Test?Yes. Though it's less switching off and more how you choose to focus your energies effectively. I have always cared about my ltrs, that's a primary reason why I allowed that status, and no, I'm not an empath, actually I'm rather dissociative and narcissistic. Almost purely sociopathic. This will be a long one, premises then conclusion in tldr. However when I do care I care a lot. There's a hard limit you have to set though. Let's write an argument shall we? You care about her. Caring about her i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the Ashley Madison hack, "37m cheaters exposed."Thanks, halving it crossed my mind about an hour after the post, though I figured anyone mathematically inclined would've done what you did after noticing the error. Also, homestarrunner is old school cool. I like you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 05:46 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW: Vasectomy - the pros and consThat's not fucked up. I've been sterile since birth, though I've also hated children since long before I found out. I have the documents stating it (shoot blanks legit). I never tell any woman I have, unless I choose to put them in ltr status. (hey, I'm selfish, no point in starting a rigged game then complaining when they find out). Now I've never had a pregnancy scare, unlike almost every friend I have, so maybe that had to do with girls not fucking other guys while with me, doubtful, but not … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Need some help dealing with a coworkerFor 6, I meant vertical movement for YOU specifically. As in, will this beat you out of a promotion? Overall based on what you've said id suggest having that drink with him and, if he's really that respectful of you, engaging him with your directives. Be honest and simply say that it's cool to boss others around but i'll keep bossing you all around. See how he reacts. Presume that your defacto leadership position isn't threatened to begin with. If he's weak enough he'll simply cave, and people w… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/15 01:42 AM |
| 10 | Thoughts on the Ashley Madison hack, "37m cheaters exposed."Yea I think I covered that in the estimate. You're not wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Need some help dealing with a coworkerWorkplace dynamic and office culture between people is difficult. There are a few questions I'd need answered to help further. Is he bossing people around who are beneath you in the actual written hierarchy? Is he bossing people around who are above him in the actual written hierarchy? Can he do this without bossing you around or intruding on your perceived personal power? Do you (or he) lead from experiential legitimacy, or written bureaucratic legitimacy? (or both) Is him taking the lead going… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/15 12:54 AM |
| 27 | Thoughts on the Ashley Madison hack, "37m cheaters exposed."Hmm. I find this interesting and I'd actually very much like to see it leaked. Think about it, 37m, presuming at best one in 5 disconnects or breaks up with an outcry, or at worst 1 in 20, that's between 7.4m and 1.85m newly awoken gents, or if that were applied to the US, between 2% and .5% of the male population. (à metric fuck ton) of people added to the wake up list. I like the potential effects. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 12:47 AM |
| 2 | 4 year LTR. downgrade or next?To add to u/bobbybluepill post, if you cannot say instantly, comfortably, and without any doubt that you can be emotionless about her while she's a plate, pro tip, you can't and don't bother attempting it. She'll be handful enough without adding in creeping history based feels. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/15 12:40 AM |
| 3 | The Rational Male – That was thenmen's sex drive collapses in their 30s No. I have not seen that at all. I've seen tons of men who have become much more picky since they've learned exactly what they won't put up with, I've seen self control skyrocket, but give a 40 year old and a 25 year old a girl who's hot and enthusiastic, low maintenance, I'm pretty sure time would be the only limiting constraint. Then again, I don't have provable stats, thankfully neither did you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Looking for some Red Pill advice.You need to post in asktrp, and if you do post in trp, you must follow the format guidelines. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2015I monked from 6.15 to 7.15 And now that it's over for some reason I just can't get myself back into the gym door. I feel very disappointed in myself, though i'm quite aware it's just a nasty feedback loop. (feel bad, don't go, feel worse, don't go). I'm also acutely aware of how fix it. (just fucking go already). This last month had great gains, I feel I tricked myself into some sort of (this is only for 30 days) mentality. I wake up, it's evening and I look back and go shit, it didn't even cros… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/15 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Strange feeling around 9s & 10sNo. The opposite of monk, more approaching and more pain. This is why after sl5x5 you move to ppl, (for example.) I would really suggest more approaches and more often, exclusively to girls that give you anxiety. I KNOW FULLY WELL that this doesn't work for everyone, everyone learns differently. However I must suggest submersion. If you fail a hundred times and learn 1% of the proper method each time, all of a sudden you start nailing it. Every guy who tries to raise their minimum hb requirement… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/15 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless.Definitely. Even more, you can train a novice 6! Then again if you can find a novice 8 like mine, you've hit gold. That's worth putting your time in (in my opinion) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is infertileYeah. If he has evidence beyond her words. Op, if you don't want kids, she's probably good to keep around. If you do, don't give any indications that this is more than temporary. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/15 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Dropcams saved me from a "domestic abuse" allegation yesterday. Consider camming up, guys.Shit op. Dash cam, house cams, within 3 weeks they'll be installed. Fuck. Just fuck. What even was the plan to switch locks? "oooh if its my keys it's just mine now". JESUS. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | EvE Online: Red Pill evidence?This is the exact reason. I own a tg company. Our flagship brand is a community built and professionally polished rpg. We of course ride on content creators as our bread and butter. We have 6 years of massive data crunching and stats to know who will create and in what way, who converts and who doesn't, who plays and why they stay, why they leave. Women are around 8% of our player base. The major reason? They don't feel unique enough, or that doesn't have character differentiation. Both of these… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Lying and manipulationEver hear of the slippery slope? It's a fallacy but also can be an excellent heuristic when you're cautious about us application. Lie about small things, and the small things become larger. Eventually your mouth is writing checks that your ass can't cash. Manipulation on the other hand, I see nothing wrong with. It's part of human nature as far as I'm concerned. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | 3 weeks in all positive results. I am still learning by trial and error but overall I am doing a lot better.Of course it caused her stress. You know why? Because EVERY TIME YOU ASK FOR SEX you are REMINDING her of something that should be MUTUAL AND NATURAL. You are literally taking something her hamster is already aware of, and spinning away, and hanging a lantern on it. You're doing very well. Continue, and don't ask her how she felt, she'll answer that question based on how often she begins to jump you. Bringing it up is at the least, neutral half truth response, and at the most, giving her hamster… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/15 01:51 AM |
| 2 | TRP and Celibacy?Use trp until she tries to f-close. The moment she does, you've succeeded. Tell her you're not feeling it and leave. She's likely try a second time, but don't lead her on. You don't even have to tell her you're celibate. As a matter of opinion, if she's already feeling you up, trying to give you an hj or bj, telling you what she is going to do to you, you may choose to close there, call it a win. Practice the strategy, but don't follow through with sex. Unfortunately, if you are going to run som… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Guys who dont get that many shit tests, how does MRP help you?Mrp is great for knowing the difference between shit test, comfort test, and just shitty situation. Shit test (testing your value and what she can get away with) Comfort test (making sure you have no intention of leaving) Just shitty situation. (she's actually violently sick, move on.) I don't get shit tests. Or maybe I just have never noticed them because I largely ignore anything that isn't a direct question,and if it is direct, it has to be actionable. (to be fair if I'm concentrating I can p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/15 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Remarkable truths in r/sex from the horse's mouthIt's not just fitting it in, it's about her being in the physical state afterwards for a repeat within 24 hours. Hard to fuck if you've literally torn her, regardless of how much it was enjoyed. I shit you not, there is an incredibly fine line within 1 magnum size between (oh my) and (oh no). Hope she's got a snake jaw because she's still gotta supply. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 12:51 AM |
| 4 | The feeling someone has got the better of youUgh... I hate people like that. However lucky for you they're very easy to deal with. If in a social interaction, adopt an open stance facing away from them. Ignore. Continue your conversation with another. If they push again, adopt an open stance towards them and look them in the eye, say, "speak on that." in an honestly interested tone. Most of the time they have not thought through their negging and will dig their own grave, in which case you can laugh in their face while they flounder. If th… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Not the typical question here, but I need some advice from more experienced alphas than me.If you can find a copy, read the sex God method. I don't know how much time you have before you've (presumably) set a date for this to go down, but it's definitely going to help you. Additionally first time always is awkward for everyone, it's best if you look at it like a video game, as in think "what can I get out of this?" don't worry about her, only about you. She's probably not going to take control, not many women do, you'll have to give orders and hold expectations, enjoy it, she'll follo… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 12:39 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill and interacting with other subredditsI agree. I'm relatively new to reddit (several months), and I joined only for entrepreneur and rpg. I have a primary account which is business info, advice, curiosity, and even marketing (organic), and this one, which I use for trp, already red, etc. I was warned in startup about subs that are publically not accepted, and created this account specifically for the purpose. It's served me well. I get my knowledge fix in this area, without touching business. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 03:10 AM |
| 8 | You'll always be angryI was hoping someone would post this. In my experience the angrier the person, the more their expectations didn't match with reality. Yes, it brings about change, but rarely as effectively as something channeled on an objective calm methodological approach. I like your post op, just can't agree with it. I had no anger when I found RP, none. Then again I was raised very RP, so that probably isn't fair. Then again, again, I rarely feel any anger, even when my personal expectations are met with a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 12:32 AM |
| 4 | Bookmark Our Offsite BackupThe red light. The red giant. White is for Knights. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 12:19 AM |
| 2 | How to address other guy shit test?If she's simply stating it, ignore. If she's asking questions or attempting to get your feedback, tell her casually about the Milf who wants your dick right now. "yeah that's a great idea, I should use x as a sugar momma!" Should shut her up real fucking quick. The other option which has already been mentioned is to use it. "cool. Since he's covering you, you can cover me! I really could use x say it's for your dad/school/whatever" Or if she's really out of line, amplify to the extreme. (not rec… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Too much shit tests?Nah. Getting a lot of shit from a girl comes for two reasons. Her own perceived smv being out of whack, or yours being too low. The former happens all the time, (think a 9 in high-school realizing they're a 6.5 once they hit college and meet REAL attractive women, takes a while to sink in. Same for a 9 in college realizing after 24 the ones who really care for themselves bumped her to a 7 again.) The latter is easier, just work on yourself more. In either case, if shit tests continue for too lon… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Where can I acquire the book "Sex God Method"?I am not one to recommend a p2p network to access the PDF illegally, though if one were to recommend websites which host things such as backups of programs you already own, they'd probably say something like go to a torrent site, "like kat.ph" or that you should digitally backup pdf copies of a book after you do purchase a legitimate copy. Don't do illegal shit. Just saying. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | How can I get LTR to participate more?Tell her what you want. Even better, correct her in a positive way. If she comes up to hug, immediately get her hand on you, or push her down to her knees saying "awe, you're great when you show affection" or "that's good, here's how you do it better". Watch for her taking the initiative, and tell her to do so, "I'm tired from the gym /work /whatever. When i get there you'll have to help me relax. I won't be lifting a finger tonight." Or if you have smacked every comfort test out of the park a s… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?My thoughts on suicide? I have known two individuals, though not well, who committed it. Close enough that it made me take pause. "the man who kills a man, kills a man. The man who kills himself, kills all men"- G.k. Chesterton. I can't personally condemn or condone suicide, there are cases, death from painful terminal disease, death from bleeding out on a battlefield via gut wound, death from starvation alone, sure, that I can't disagree with suicide maybe being a more rational option. However,… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 12:01 PM |
| 0 | How many girls have you slept with?Why? What does this teach anyone? I don't remember the name of every girl I've had, nor do any of the women I've been with remember the name of every dick they've choked on. Numbers are silly. Imagine a natural alpha, who is incredibly picky. He could have no more than 1 girl a year, if he's picky enough, or a beta pua could have a new one a week if he's willing to hit people 3 levels under him. There are too many variables, and more importantly, too many value systems in play. Forget the number… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I am failing to understand why mention of your income or occupation is a giant "no no" in the world of attracting women?Hmm. Did a post involving this quite a while ago. Here's an edited version 1: don't ever discuss money around women. Not how much you make, not what you do, not what you're worth. 2: don't ever offer to pay for anything. She probably just by speaking to you has figured out you're in the upper demographic, maybe from what you wear, maybe the car you drive, massive because you swipe that card a little too casually. 3: no gifts. If she asks drop her. 4: no 'emergency handouts'. Couldn't make rent? … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Rental propertyHead over to r/personal finance op. You'll get little help here. If you do, don't trust it unless their history shows a lot of respect from r/personal finance. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 10:34 PM |
| 8 | A man presents only facts to dispute gender pay gap existence. Wins against feminist.Argument of composition and argument of division. (applying the traits of the whole to the individual and vice versa) thought you may like to know! I agree entirely, however I'd like to see the public option results and weigh in on who was "believed to be" correct. I doubt it would be satisfying. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Strange occurenceYou are in the clear. If you're already a captain, don't worry about shit tests disappearing. Worry about comfort tests disappearing. Shit test disappearing can mean two things, she's sure your maintaining value, or she is completely following suit. Comfort tests disappearing usually means she doesn't think she needs to keep up her game, for whatever reason, "doesn't need you anymore, feels like your smv had dropped to the point you couldn't get something else, you're acting too beta, you've cri… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/15 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What do to with a few minutes to spare?You're dealing with "found time", a great way to address found time is to podcast. Pick up some podcasts that are on the almost daily release schedule and listen to them in bursts. Try things like business, productivity, comedy, history, anything really, just make certain you find the topic compelling and the style is written in a condensed format. Examples : Ace productivity Improv for humans or comedy bang bang History of philosophy podcast Anything from Gimlet media Try those on. They're all … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 01:49 PM |
| 1 | TriumphMarked. I disagree with the diet but I haven't monked in a long time. May as well now. Goodbye reddit. For 30 days at least. See you July 15th. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Being branded with "yellow fever"Hi there OP. I just did a post recently that actually centered on this! I'm also familiar with it as a high smv black guy, I have always been laying redheads and gym Bunny brunettes. "Only recently did I ltr my first black girl" thankfully since I'm black I've evaded a lot of the criticism because "black people can't be racist" oddly can work both ways! I won't link you but a tldr, and source: Source: replyall podcast episode 27- 'the fever " Tldr: girl finds perfect guy, catches perfect guy har… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Women receive 51% of the Royal Birthday Honours from the Queen. Being still not good enough, 'Feminist journalist' describes this as 'massive problem'Of course they don't. Feminism is a solipsistic rhetoric. It is very literally finding ways to set group policies to further individuals. This is one of the reasons feminists rarely can even agree with each other, but must attempt to bandwagon- they are thinking of everything said in relevance to their own feels. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 11:15 AM |
| 2 | How do deal with the "do you trust women" questionJust ignore the comment. Entirely. Stop worrying about it. If you must respond just keep it simply, say something such as "I don't trust anyone until they've earned it" | /r/askTRP | 14/06/15 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with an immature women?I was about to say that. It's a serious comfort test. Op, you mentioned sex is great? While she won't or can't fuck you she's worried if someone else will. "Maybe completely wrong if you'll ride the red wake, and she's happy with that". Give her the comfort test once a month. That's fine. However of course don't compromise yourself. Additionally the entire" is it the PMS thing" is bull. I've dated and screwed more than my fair share, I've never had to deal with "PMS emotions" more than once for … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What are some appropriate reactions to one's gf or wife going on an overnight business trip?Hey op, this is a reality you will always have to deal with. There can be no exclusive relationship that doesn't necessarily imply and solidify the meaning of being unfaithful. Exclusivity by it's nature, creates the idea of unfaithfulness. You signed on for this. However I noticed you said she has a lot of beta orbiters, though she's given no signals that she's actively suspect? "I say actively because once you're exclusive passivity is a granted". I wouldn't worry. It's one night. Simple way t… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 10:11 PM |
| -1 | My first step down the rabbit hole.This. It's easy to become far too used to people giving you your way with almost boo resistance, if any. Pick and choose your battles friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 09:44 PM |
| 2 | What kind of women does your look attract?5'11, built very solid, you may call it a mesomorph look. Always tiny lithe gym bunnies. They're always there, touching, eye contact, laughing. I certainly do not attract the tall stereotypical blond bombshells often, then again maybe I don't know. Everything about myself is geared towards getting the women I get, so those are the ones who notice me? | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 12:36 PM |
| 2 | How to become mentally dominating?Try approaching every single day, with the purpose of being as blunt as possible. Direct, crude, and preferably a little arrogant. You'll get rejected a lot, but you'll be accepted too. Once you've trained yourself to realize the crazy stuff you can get away with, it'll become more and more natural. My brother started trp about five and a half months ago, he was just like you sound. I started taking him out twice a week, once during the day, once at night. All the clubs we'd normally avoid so we… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How to react "correctly" to thisNo bro. Agree and amplify would be "yeah I've been studying it. I think I may replace our family Bible with a print out, mind if I carve it in stone and pray to it over the mantle?" Don't be mentioning Brownie points. Or the classic. "That's not what you need. When I get home, be wearing x, I'll show you what you need. Or the best response everyone has been saying, total and absolute apathetic ignoring. Then again, I don't know you or your wife. I'm likely a total idiot. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 01:41 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill HandbookSpeaking from experience, getting a good editor "find a struggling copy editor student or grad" and a good person for layout, make it print ready by margin, and use print on demand with proceeds going towards further editing and polishing editions. Serious issue is getting the permission from the large pool of writers to release this content, in that case you can at least get the PDF binder print ready. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Nerdy hobbies?I own an RPG company. Never had issues maintaining smv. Then again, moving from hobby to income definitely changed it, I don't play nearly as often as my customers, if at all. Don't talk about it, or if you do, own it like a beast. Laugh in their face when you realize they can't do basic math, or aren't creative enough to write a compelling story, or not imaginative enough to enjoy one. "I love a girl with an active imagination"- " you've never role played? Well tonight I'll show you how." Then … | /r/askTRP | 11/06/15 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How often do you meet females that have a rational philosophical understanding of life/the universe?I've met a few. They're all philosophy majors, and all but one is double majoring in business or something not of the arts. This is not to say a woman whose a philosophy major is able to understand, just that the women I've met who can are philosophy majors. Every once in a while I find an exception, though oddly enough I have also found women persuing philosophy often make fun girls. A lot of tendencies seem to beer wrote rpw. Not that it matters, the down side is they're usually less willing t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Take Calculated Risks In Life And In Romancegood post op, TLDR as follows -take calculated risks, this is good. -not taking any risks is bad. -taking uncalculated risks is bad. I'd have to add -good calculation is where cost of escalation in the endeavor is equivalent or less than what you can afford presuming the risk fails. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 01:26 PM |
| 5 | How to See Power Dynamics and Rise to the Top. *Bonus* How to Get a Friend!Say as little as you can, law of power. Just shut up, only add when you have actual value to add. Also reread laws of power, internalize them. They'll help you socially in an inexplicably massive way. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 10:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Comfort Test due to abundanceThanks for the response! I'm aware though, I fully understand and am skilled at response, my issue is only recognition. I'm incredibly wrapped up in my own things so I automatically discount almost everything that isn't something I want to do. My issue is closer to being so self absorbed I push the things I hear into the bs zone automatically, I just need to be more aware. Thank you for reminding me though. Definitely something I need to work on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/06/15 09:51 PM |
| 2 | First cold-approach. Tell me what I did wrong/right.It wasn't a hard no. Keep that in mind, always escalate until you get a hard no. If you're feeling like that's because you built incorrectly, break, restart rapport, if not, no problem at all, next. During your cold approaches, hell, during any approach you should be constantly escalating. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Comfort Test due to abundanceWow op, then you for this. Last Sunday I think I bombed a comfort test then. I'll have to take a hard look at that. "Been busy so I guess I didn't notice but the last four days, my girl has been in a cold mood." Very unlike her, l definitely know why now. Damn totally missed that one. She probably thinks I'm out banging a certain girl I have no interest in "beyond sharing the same taste in movies" I'll have to watch myself. I appreciate the excellent post and I'll be More aware in the future. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/06/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I came from a childhood spent mostly on video games and pornThat's all I wanted to post. Why isn't this being up voted more? It's the simple truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 01:24 AM |
| 0 | Assuming You Keep Improving Yourself, Does It Really Get Better With Age?I started college at 21, already fit, began lifting with a friend studying to be a dietician and trainer. I had always had options, since I was younger, 15, maybe 16, plenty of them. However letting him use me as his study tool and training Buddy got Mr from being approached several times a week to several a day, over a 3 year period. Now I'm 27, six years later, finishing the last year for my triple major, and let me trek you, it is insanity. The terrible 25 to 30 trek lots of guys go through "… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP ruined music for you?Some music, but you can always listen to music without lyrics. Jazz, classical, etc. I also listen to metal, there's some great stuff out there if you expand your horizons. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 12:02 AM |
| 1 | hiring hot girl vs ugly girl for the workplaceLol. No problem. I tried to help, but not on my free night. Good luck! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 12:21 PM |
| 1 | I am coming to grips with being physically unattractive. Will forget about women altogether and do my own thing. Who else did that here?Yeah op. You're screwed. If you consider being in the top fifteen percent instead of the top ten or five being screwed. Confidence. You can build it. Money, in a stem field, shouldn't be difficult as long as you maintain your goals. Fitness, you can have that. Game. That's learned. Natural looks? Hah. Look at how many ugly bastards have abundance mentality from the things you can do. Get your six pack, your million in savings or investments, your absolute authority (from experience), then come b… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 03:20 AM |
| 1 | The one mistake that killed Blue Pill-me.This is the truth. This is huge for you. Do it. Remember it, reflect on it, but don't immortalize it as justice being served, or even satisfying, remember it as the day you had that I've experience that took it's massive hand and force fed you truth. Your first day knowing what is, instead of what you perceived. Welcome to the red world. There is no going back, remember the pain and rage of inequity and ignorance, let it drive you forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Developing an interesting life, or is this an excuse?You're going to do very well and hopefully will be very happy. Keep working hard. It's sad how rarely I converse with someone like you on trp anymore. Keep crushing. Know your values, solidify them, scrutinize them weekly, keep up the search to be more efficient in satisfying yourself. Constant improvement, constant diligence and vigilance. Above all continue questioning. You'll do fine. I don't normally extend this, but pm me if you have any questions. It's been a pleasure. Now I'm off to enjoy… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Porn is under attackSo what... The age of the massive internet explosion? This matches up perfectly. I'd even argue that 06 to 08 saw another shift, specifically for social acceptability of one night stands and multi partner groups, the advent of the smartphone and "internet in your hand" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Basic Shit Test MnemonicThat would turn it into radvics, not bad for memory. I'd also add "m" for "me first without exception" Mardvics maybe? I don't know. Maybe someone more awake and caring can abuse synonyms and alliteration to get a better one. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Developing an interesting life, or is this an excuse?I can suggest two things, but I can't be certain on either. 1) maybe gaming isn't where you actually draw your value. Maybe the experience and action is one of the easiest routes to find wear you truly enjoy. Maybe it's tactics? (Rts) challenge and success? (Rpg) Socialization? (Mmo) High adrenaline? (Fps) doing what you have already mastered with slight change in mechanics and trope? (All the above) This will be covered in my read, but in addition to that I recently saw a post about a danger (a… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Developing an interesting life, or is this an excuse?I see what you're saying, but I don't find it an oversimplification. I've dated multiple 7s, less 8s, who were addicted to world of Warcraft, battle field, any RTS they could get their hands on, indie strictly, etc. "Depends on the person obviously" I say seven or 8 strictly because they turned heads at bars and in social settings, the 8s didn't even use makeup. You can find them, maybe it's my industry giving me a massive leg up, but, if you love it, if you live it, if you lead it, people come.… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 02:08 AM |
| 4 | hiring hot girl vs ugly girl for the workplaceEmploying over 20 people now probably double that within 2 quarters. Hire. The. Right. Person. All things are never equal. Consider work culture, consider the fact that you'll probably have weak beta men working for you eventually who'll probably get flustered over anything with a vagina, consider the fact that you don't hit who works for you or with you. Consider the fact that the Buck stops with you, profit and revenue are necessary. I don't care what business you're in. (At least massive 100%… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:56 AM |
| 1 | I'm inexperienced. How long to get competent/confident at sex?Depends how often you do it. That's like asking how long it takes to become a master pianist. Easy answer, shorter the more you practice. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Developing an interesting life, or is this an excuse?False dichotomy. You don't gave to "go out and do x" EXCLUSIVE OR "game" Do both. If you're not doing both, you're doing it wrong. Game is a set of perspectives and knowledge you integrate into what you love to do. If it isn't, you're messing up. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 01:43 AM |
| 2 | The Linguistics of PussyThank you op. Semantics is my favorite subject, linguistics a close second. You've boiled down freges issue of sense and reference very succinctly, and you couldn't gave chosen a better label than "woman" to discuss. This is a serious issue rampant in language, and especially trp, even now disagreement about what a "plate " is, what a "10" is, what a "unicorn" embodies, and for God sakes what stoicism is, "though I suspect this is more based on philosophical ignorance most often" constantly obfu… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Half way through 2015, how's your progress?Been rp before I knew what it was, but I like an own your shit weekly so here it goes. Also OP, you should edit to ask everyone to also post what they need to work on most. It's good to remind yourself in a safe atmosphere. Put on 15lb so far this year, 5'10, 200 even now. Need to move to a gym with free weights beyond 50lb. Hopefully kettle bells too. Graduated one degree, a year to go for 2 more. Helped my brother get over guys bp traits. He's naturally got the genetics and is becoming a full … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:31 AM |
| 1 | A conversation with my sonYes. Yes I would have thought differently. No problem here carry on. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to abstain during Ramadan.Don't change anything about what you've been doing. Simply ignore her idea, keep screwing her, don't miss the massive comfort tests that will follow though. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with a bluepill white knight ("friend") constantly destroying my SMV?One of my favorite lines. You sound just like my dad. Though he said "act like a bitch, get smacked like one." He meant that not literally, though sometimes he did... He meant reducing yourself to bitch status encourages people to screw with you without repercussion. Never be visibly or emotionally phased by anything. No rustled jimmies makes for excellent frame. Don't even bother using AA if you're not good at it. No response implies that they can't hurt you, can't get to you, and can't steal y… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 11:17 AM |
| 12 | How does dating in your 30s differ from dating in your 20s?Simply put, you gain power, the market gains baggage. This will continue to increase until you're willingly out of market. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 11:09 AM |
| 1 | A conversation with my sonChristianity has had more influence over the everyday lives of the populace than all governments for nearly two millennia. For most of that time, it has been the Catholic Church in the driver's seat Good. Yes bastion of the spirit of western civilization Easy there Buddy, this is sounding mentally rehearsed and a bit circle jerk. Head back to clear waters... Rot in the Vatican is rot in the bones of Western civilization. Hah ha, oooh no. No. Continue your reading, especially pick up some of the … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 10:39 AM |
| 1 | A conversation with my sonReally? I was a shore front lifeguard for about two years. Correction, the only black shore front lifeguard for about two years. Further correction, the only black person on the shore for about two years who was a good swimmer. (Then again most people aren't good swimmers) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in dry spell...What do?This. The world won't offer to you, only take from you. Go out, expand your network, cold and day approach. Get going. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 11:23 PM |
| 2 | When a woman tells you she used to be crazy, does she want you to act on it?Of all evil I deem you capable: Therefore I want good from you. Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws. Nietzsche. An expansion on this, once you've laid your claws for the world to see, there is no going back. You're always recovering. A crazy is always crazy, just maybe not for you, maybe not right now, once you've proven capable of something, that is within your realm of actions. Not possibility anymore, actions. Don't stick it in c… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 11:18 PM |
| 4 | If you're talking to a hot girl and she gets really nervous, is it a sign of attraction, or am I making her uncomfortable?Every. Single. Girl. You speak to who doesn't reject your company, begin escalation. Kino, amused mastery, innuendo. Just do it. Make it your daily goal to approach and escalate more than the week before. If she gives a hard no. No skin off your back. Why not take the risk? Why not presume the best? You're just having fun, and you've started the path. The worst that will happen is you learn how to improve faster, what not to do. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | I don't like sexYou answered your own question. Prescription? Monk for 3 months. Do not fail. Watch your perspective turn on it's head. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 11:06 PM |
| 0 | Women are naturally RP"Give me the strength to change what I can, the fortitude to accept what I can't, and the wisdom to know which is which." Trp is that wisdom. Mrp is that wisdom for a different goal. Even pua is wisdom for yet another goal. The big thing that ties the first two together is self improvement. The thing that ties all three together is acceptance of the way things actually are. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Reply all podcast, ep27, a story about angry women and an unphased Chad who has "generations of harem's"I completely agree with not lying. That's silly. And I believe I pointed that out, also I agree with some women not being angry at a lack of exclusivity when it's stated. However my comment was simply a comparison of market strategies. A male usually wants good sex. A woman usually wants security and genes. I intended to highlight how both needs were employed using the same strategy, orbiters and handouts for women, plates for men. I find it amusing that such a thing is not discussed nor occurs … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Reply all podcast, ep27, a story about angry women and an unphased Chad who has "generations of harem's"11 years? Not remembering that part. The main girl was 6 months, the ex was 3 years. Guessing he rebuilds every two or so | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Reply all podcast, ep27, a story about angry women and an unphased Chad who has "generations of harem's"Very true. Didn't happen to this Chad, but very likely if your not careful. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Old Timers: Potent RP AdviceHeck yeah OP. the first thing my dad ever said to me when I began getting sexually active was that "you have to be critical son. The world only wants from you, no girl will be any different. It's just tougher to see how much they'll take with their left while their right is getting you off." | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 05:44 PM |
| 4 | As luck would have it, throwing someones property out of a moving vehicle doesn't necessarily involve social repercussions.Damn op. The only way a girl has or would ever just TAKE something I'm using is if its a life and death situation, or it's being offered to her. You could count play wrestling or keep away if you want, but those are just aggressive kino. I read that you lift and are built, so that must be a frame issue. What's yours is unquestionably yours. What's in your area is yours unquestionably as well. Call her on bullshit. Don't make something up, that's silly. Just laugh in her face and hold her account… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 12:18 PM |
| 1 | LIFT vs. don't be a fat guyAlso people can have a predisposition for it, or simply don't know about it and mix alcohol and meds with workout days (my doctor said that's the most common) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/15 09:43 PM |
| 1 | LIFT vs. don't be a fat guyThis is excellent advice. One big thing, doms is fine, KNOW THE FUCKING SYMPTOMS OF RHABDO. Do not joke or play with that shit it took me out of the game for 2 months. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/15 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Financial advice?Put half into your emergency fund, if your job is secure and you know you can find another quickly, put the other half straight towards killing that debt. Every 5 months your paying that off your lost over a grand, which could be making your money grow instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Lifting : The real reason why you should start your TRP journey with lifting.This. Quantifiable gains are a massive boost to esteem. Even better since they support habit forming. Hell even after your first seven days your watching yourself slap on 5lb more here and there, it is a self encouraging habit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 11:37 PM |
| 12 | Food for thought: consequences of sleeping with a taken womanI'd have to agree, there are too many people who blame you instead of the woman. It's not safe. Not to mention there's the ever present rape claim that can be raised to preserve her social status and hold on to her husband. Half the world is female. A wise man does not take unnecessary risk. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Mark Ruffalo: "If you say you're not a feminist you're degrading and insulting women."I have this friend that does quite well with the ladies but is BP beyond Hell. About a month back, I was hanging out with him at university and I was stating how this women's studies class is retarded and hypocritical. His body language got all cold and defensive. Another time we were talking about the kind of chicks we like and when I told him that being a single mother or a raging feminist is a deal-breaker for me, he snapped, "What the Hell is wrong with you?" I finished lifting thirty minute… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 10:17 AM |
| 3 | A man's commitment is worth way more than sex.Hey that's a cool observation. I just realized I saw the same in my previous manager, he was a super Alpha bucks, massive b2b commissions, but married, still every group of women he consorted with pushed him straight into leadership- even though every male employee there knew he wanted self starters and high initiative autonomous employees. They didn't last long either. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 10:03 AM |
| 32 | They'll literally throw themselves at her: FR from my sisters FacebookLargely because the only men that stick in her mind are the ones who are capable of doing the same. She's chasing guys who have options, that's part of what makes them such a catch, so she remembers guys who have options... Forgetting the half men in the orbital. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 09:59 AM |
| 1 | a break in frame leads to bad stuff manPerfect response. Definitely works. In my last ltr I did something similar. "I'll restart this conversion in ten minutes. This time you can play an adult, instead of a shrew. The moment you raise your voice, you'll get a hotel for the night. " Worked perfectly, though I didn't have kids, I don't know how far you can take it. What I do know is you dropped the bomb, Nagasaki is in your kitchen, and you need to display willingness to avoid Hiroshima at all costs." even though you would drop it if p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/15 11:51 PM |
| 36 | A TRP professor is followed on FaceBook by special snowflakes to find something to be offended and get him fired. Does not go as planned as Professor sued school administrators earlier on free speech and won.Please, upvote and share this. I truly feel like too many on asktrp and trp don't realize how dangerous the movement is becoming. And how much doing nothing can still be deadly. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 11:18 PM |
| -2 | [FR] Accidental dread became too muchRespect is different from blame. I never really blame anyone for their actions (deterministic perspective) but I lose respect for many people precisely because of that. They're just being who they are, women included (awalt). Do I have to respect their actions? No. I don't have to respect them at all. No more than I'd respect a cockroach in my house. It's just being itself, just not the self I appreciate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/15 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Prison psychologist has sex with teenage rapist, reportedly in bottom 1% of population by IQYou're correct, yes, definitely misguided. Seeing this I spoke to my old professor and he corrected me as well. I'll be redacting the post! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Why Most Women Can't EngineerThis goes beyond engineering as a field. It's true in many careers! The people who go home to do their job further as a hobby are the ones still with us, the others inevitably leave. No passion creates mediocrity or simply, a lack of dedication means high turnover. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Successful Men Are Warriors.TL/DR Knowledge is power is false. Knowledge is potential power is true. Power comes from the ability and effective application of that knowledge as leverage in the field. Really good point. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 11:48 AM |
| 2 | How to find/schedule time for hobbies?Hey op, definitely understand time management rather well. Background : entrepreneur, 4 years running successful business, had no time management, but focusing as a tqm since i read Deming and have become the go to guy on scheduling and front loading for my social circle. 1) there is no such thing as making time. That's silly. Time is fixed. Something always gives. 2) find what makes you stick. Do you need another dependent on your arrival? Does it have to have a monetary cost attached? Find wha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/05/15 12:51 AM |
| 1 | When a woman describes herself as a free spirit, you should be very wary.Nice op. Haven't dated a 'free spirit' but this was really informative and I'll be keeping my eye out. The only issue I have with this is that this is only one woman. Yes, awalt, but I'm rarely inclined to believe something based off one circumstance, especially when that circumstance was enabled and thus half the fault of the BP tendencies you had at the time. Thank you all the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 12:39 AM |
| 1 | The Politically Incorrect Truth About How Race Effects A Man's SMVThis is completely true. I'm Dominican, and the majority of my friends are white, I have never had an issue 'finding' or 'getting' what I want as far as women go. Ever. The exotic trait certainly helps, and I'm not even exotic in comparison to my Arabic and Lithuanian friends. In fact, I actually have trouble finding a woman of my color, 'grammar and dialect definitely withstanding' in comparison to bedding the hot white chicks most of my life, at will. However I can see it potentially being a n… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 11:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A weekend getaway with strangersThis is brutal truth. Very useful. At community college I learned it by accident, a gay couple constantly flirted and bumped me to others, probably the easiest year of my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Why Short Men And Black Women Are In The Same Boat When It Comes To Online DatingIt doesn't matter how short you are. With status, confidence, a great body, you're on top of her in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 07:06 PM |
| 2 | I feel the constant need for having a LTR, but at the same time it is hard and costly to maintain. What should I do?First, an ltr is not necessarily costly, if you mean monetarily. Most of mine were the same expense as when I was single, but I don't date girls who want handouts, even though I can afford it. Second, you're in love with The idea of love and commitment. That's not healthy. You're looking for a square circle, it's unfair to yourself, and to others. If your go to is an ltr each time you meet or plate, you haven't internalized the fact that an ltr is an equivalent exchange between individuals. You'… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Women all over IG and Facebook are posting this message to warn their future daughters not to be with any man.I'd simplify it. What my grandfather told me, dad too. "never compromise yourself for anything you can get elsewhere, especially free." It's made my life with women extraordinarily simple and satisfying. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 06:53 PM |
| 2 | "You know, I think you might be on to something there."Nice job philosophy bro. You've got my ups. To everyone else, including op, read the ancient greats. It'll help you, plus, it's just good to know them. If you don't have time, at least listen to the history of philosophy podcast. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 09:37 PM |
| 2 | 29, jobless, living at home -- what to do?1) Go to the job fair with a stack of resumes,dress to impress, have a self pitch ready. 2) Network, network, network. 3) treat finding a job the same as job, 20hrs a week or more. If you're doing less, you're fucking up. 4) take any job, any job at all. So long as it brings you net profit, be aware of opportunity costs. 5) pm me. My editor just left, I could use one. (no joke) just for a few hours a month. Pays rate. 6) Post questions to ask trp. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 09:16 PM |
| 5 | I can't help but question the women a lot of you talk aboutYou shouldn't focus on this at all. There are only three real ways men evaluate women. Won't. Would. Want. The shades in between are relative, personal, and ultimately useless unless your money is made by match making. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Find People with TRP Values?My social circle is about 10% long term bros (decade of knowing or more), the rest is composed of half people who I can get something from, 'knowledge, connections, jobs, even just a party link up' and half mentors. People I look up to, aspire to be like in some way. It shifts constantly, almost quarterly, because if you're not adapting, changing, upping the standard, you're stagnant. As to where to find them? I chase people down, cold approach them, anything, if i find them interesting. The nor… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Toxic Female Friend Groups, and AWALT.Sorry op. That's some crappy circumstance. You should have stopped it the moment they were assigning her to you. When you were being told she was for you, you should have laughed and said "really? Yeah that's not happening, I may be horny, I may play, but I'm not CRUEL." Dissociate. Move on, you made out with her and cemented yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Legendary logical destruction of a proud SJW named Heather Marie Scholl by Gavin McInnes!Hmm. I listened to it all. And i'm bored. This would've been much more informative if he wasn't grand standing the entire time. Not that I have an issue with abusing what gets good ratings, but trp isn't about ratings. It's not about grandstanding, it's not about hyper dogmatism, and it certainly doesn't support arguments that are not backed by provable statistical evidence. Especially by an intelligent man who abused fallacies throughout his argument. "even if his end points were correct!" Than… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 08:05 PM |
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Any of trps favorites, listed around here constantly. I'd also suggest podcasts, such as hound tall, improv for humans, professor blast off, and going to see stand up in local clubs, both to watch crowd work and how not to bomb playing a room /group. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 01:55 PM |
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You're doing fine, don't worry so much. All i can recommend is that you draw your lines in the sand internally. *know what you do for any average customer, and be consistent in doing it. *know what you do for regulars and high tips, and be consistent in doing it. *you should act with this consistency regardless of the external, "wall girl trying to display, or leech wanting a free drink" *also, work on amused mastery a bit, read /listen to more comedy, it'll help with snappy one liners that stil… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Beta betrayal is not limited to the SMPNothing more to be said. Think that covers it. Wish there was a problem solved button for circumstances like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Women will do almost anything for an Alpha MaleThe best way to ignore it of course is availability. Have a flooded banquet available and all of a sudden saying no to caviar becomes easier. Right? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How often do you fall down?This. I'm smart. I know I am. I have the testing to prove it. And there's not a single gathering I'm at where someone isn't better educated in something or has higher intelligence in an area than me. Don't be that guy fooling yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Calling a young woman out on her lies...any point?People usually don't volunteer things they believe are evident. They volunteer things that are not. This can be the things they wish were true, want to change, or are afraid of the truth escaping. Learn the ticks and tells you've seen in their lies, apply them next time, call bullshit when your gut is calling bullshit, then with amusement, immediately change the conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:29 AM |
| 3 | [Rant] This is not one filled with rage, but with sadness.Just saying, I hate that. When people claim logic does not apply to girls. Logic is only a modal system that's all. Girls, contrary to popular opinion, are actually very logical. Their premises are often broken and they favor baking disjunctive confusion "between exclusive or inclusive or". But their premises, if accepted, are almost always as logical as a males, routed in their needs and feelings. The issue is not that women aren't logical, it's that men and women disagree on what makes a legit… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Praxeology vs philosophyPhilosophy major here, starting masters in 2 years. I have been red my entire life without even knowing it, until a few months ago when I find both reddit, then mgtow, then already red, then trp. Red pill is information, and inductive theories in how to best use that information. What you choose to ascribe as the primary part of red pill is makes the difference. Is red pill strictly gathering data and forming deductive and inductive reasons for why that information is the case? "presuming the pr… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/15 02:04 AM |
| 1 | The 3 Essential State Control Exercises That Will Improve Every Area Of Your LifeGood point, but I see it all as value management. Someone who has truly taken the time to learn themselves, their goals, where their values are placed, and knows themselves well enough to be completely happy to say no "because it's attacking my goals, which are my values" brings true stoicism. Frame and state are things that arise as a result of truly knowing yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice.Don't go justifying yourself to anyone. Cmon op! | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Does life have a reset button? I want to just end it all and start over from childhood in a well-off RP family with good genes.There are three types of people op. Those who talk, those who do, and those who listen. You've talked and listened but have yet to do. Get out there, daily, and begin application. The rage and pain will fade as you begin to see successes. Don't stay stuck in the what ifs, the why me, the how comes, your only option is to get out there and become the I AM. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Dumped her, but I don't feel goodI don't know everything about what led up to this culmination op, but you really need to internalize that it's not your fault, and the reasons don't matter. (unless you can causally link them to your behavior). Who cares why she went crazy, that happens all the time. Learn from it what you can, internalize the warning signs, keep improving yourself you'll do fine. Of course as you said, obligatory though, do not communicate with her. Those who live in the past are ghosts walking. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 02:14 AM |
| 19 | How to improve and become and excellent conversationalist?Educate yourself. The more you know, the more curious you will become, the more you know the more you have to add to conversion, the more you know the more confident you are in your commentary. Learn. Everything. Every day. Learn. Read. Podcast. Experiential learning. Educate yourself in things you've never dreamed of doing. Pick random topics from Wikipedia and grab books in them. Kill a book a week, make the time. And always treat every interaction like a study session. Ask questions, follow u… | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Buying DrinksI'm happy to buy a round for close friends, family, even wine and dine a business prospect, but I always go tit for tat with prospective girls. Two reasons, if your buying it can be easy to lose track of how much is being drank, stay behind the girl. Also, if you're buying, it's a gift. There's absolutely no reason to expect recoup on investment, it's a closet contract you can't enforce. In general remember the rule of all transactions. If you can't afford and be comfortable with losing the cost… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 01:56 AM |
| 9 | Tips for creating presence with othersA great resource, may I suggest a few pointers which actually I picked up from business and psych. -be the decision maker -don't volunteer personal information or advice unless asked specifically -never be afraid to say no -add value to everyone you meet. Improve their lives or their personal standing and people will gravitate to you. -always maintain a positive attitude and atmosphere. You don't have to be the life of the party, but you should be that guy everyone asks to go. -dress well. Alway… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Machiavellianis - how often do you "think" like that ? And what do you do when discussion of human "female" behavior emerge ?Have you read the sidebar? Have you heard the word? Read the book of pook. Then come back. Also, never give advice unless it's asked for, or necessary to correct a subordinate. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How to start againPerfect form on a diamond push up requires the following: Entire body should look like a straight line Hands placed under your chest Thumbs touch each other or overlap Descend slowly while keeping elbows in Pause for 2 seconds at the bottom Push up while keeping elbows in http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=J0DnG1_S92I Love me some fucking diamonds. Anywhere anytime for any momentary stress or frustration. Also, someone said calisthenics are not sufficient, he's right, unfortunately the must have misse… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Job requires gaming and ruins smv by association.Thank you. That's all I ask. You have my appreciation and respect. So does everyone else here, but that's the answer I was looking for. I suppose I'll have to ditch plates and find a new type of investor. Thankfully the current ones are locked, so I've got time. I think I can stop fretting about this! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Job requires gaming and ruins smv by association.I appreciate the effort in the response, but it makes no sense in context as the girls I fool with don't know how much I make. They don't even know my business is doing well. I've stated this. They're aware that i'm an entrepreneur, but nothing beyond that and the fact that i'm busy. As to the second suggestion, yes rubbing off is a fear, I'd even venture as far to say that the uncertainty of my demographic is rubbing off on me. But i'm not here for a pick me up. Also, this is my free time for t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Job requires gaming and ruins smv by association.There's what you perceive and what works. I hate one of my two partners, I need him to make things function. At least until I can buy him out. Reality conflicts with ideal preference far too often. But thanks for the input. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Job requires gaming and ruins smv by association.My reputation is the guy you call to get a party going, if you can offer him something in return. That simple. I suppose I'm also thrown around as a guy who can recommend people to people. I am not perceived as well off, nor as someone who's a giver. There's a massive chance I'm also known as a an intense, vindictive user. No one has said it to my face though. My job is affecting it because it's lowering my social circle. It sounds silly, but it's true, and infuriating. I don't know what you can… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Confused about social sexual etiquette.Last minute resistance. She either 1)believed you could handle a rough joke Or 2) 'more likely' was giving you a last minute shit test to see if you could follow through. Forget about it, you failed and still got her. The smv is flowing through you, in regards to her at least. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 12:36 AM |
| 5 | A kind of embarrassing questionGet her to suck out the first one, early in the meet. Give her some attention for the recoop then have fun with the staying power | /r/askTRP | 17/05/15 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How to get her alone with friends?Use a day approach, which is great anyway, or let her follow you. "if she's really interested she'll do this anyway given an excuse". After she's followed or during the day approach set something up personal and intimate. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 10:48 PM |
| 2 | 3rd date, she asked where should we meet? I offered to pick her up.Do something for yourself, you earned it. Arcade, movie, miniature golf, anything, but make sure it's something you honestly want to do and is a great memory trigger. Tl/DR front load yourself and be playful! Then fuck her brains out. You've earned it op. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Girls keep asking for smokes, how do I respond?Don't ask them to pay you back, that's pointless. I specifically mean if they offer to buy a smoke off you! Pretty common happenstance to me, I don't know about your city though. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/15 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Girls keep asking for smokes, how do I respond?"what do I get out of this?" Just respond with that and see where it leads. If they offer to buy one, sure, if they start a conversation, practice. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/15 09:55 PM |
| 5 | How to start againget a job start lifting read sidebar learn from TRP gain value dread when hot ... To expand 1)take any job. Anything. Freelance, gardening, chop wood, gas attendant, anything that gets you meeting people outside of your caustic atmosphere. 2)you don't need weights. Do 100s. Do the batman workout. Calisthenics. It's all available in free guides or visit body weight fitness for advice. 3) no suggestions here. Just fucking do it. Daily. Twice. 4) don't just learn, begin to apply. A small goal every… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/15 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Alpha Widow Storythis is my story Fuck man. I stopped dead and reread that. I'm sorry bro I really am. My sympathies. I can't even begin to suggest moves from here. Hang in there, do what you love, try something new from time to time,... I really don't know that's brutal. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 09:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you seperate from being needy and showing interest?Need: it runs you Want: you run it. Quite simply if you're inconveniencing yourself, you've placed the priority at need. If you refuse to, it's at want. Only want, don't need. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 09:26 PM |
| 17 | My friend's 180 degree turn.You should impress upon him to monk up for a quarter as well. After he starts getting the short term results it can be dangerous to relapse, since you'll be getting more than you've experienced and not realize that it's just the beginning. Look out for your bro and let him know not to let the oneitis hit for the first quality that he hangs. He'll thank you later, and you won't have to watch a friend quit climbing the mountain at the first rest stop. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingThat's precisely what I mean. When approaching someone you want to swallow the pill, Hell, when approaching anyone, maintain deniability. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Do you need frame and status to get laid if you are a well groomed and dressed 9/10?Frame: yes. Status: No. Plenty of men in low ranking jobs get laid. It's a cliche for the trophy bride to fuck the pool cleaner while the husband's away. Exactly. Frame, is not relative. It is a hard internal truth. Status however is completely relative. Don't worry about it. Others will perceive your 'status' based on your other factors, applicable power is another thing entirely though, don't confuse them. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 03:18 PM |
| 2 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingThis is really good stuff. Thanks for the post, I'd also add in a section that ties it to an already red truth, deniability. Someone practiced and living red wouldn't make these mistakes even with a male friend, maintain deniability. At least, that's how far I extend it, I'm sure there are other perspectives here! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Why College is not a democracyI like you... However I'm not even getting into mathematical logic, I mean even basic classical logic, think back to 100 level truth tables and modus ponens. Simple ass shit they didn't bother to look up that anyone can understand if they get the meaning of true, false. If one is informed, I don't mind mistakes, especially since I focus in possible world logic and montigovian logic. 'semantics is my game bring on the kripke' So tl/DR limit it to classical, I do not expect everyone to be able to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/15 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Why College is not a democracyThat's true. I'm more frustrated with people who believe they understand it and don't. At all. Sure they try to be reasonable and rational, but they're not and never will be logical. Tl/DR most of the time people complaining others aren't logical, aren't logical. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Terrible at finding things to do in the summer.Do you have Google? Time to field test. Hit up any and every free event in a 20 mile radius and practice. Additionally, if you'll check my history, work on your value management and your zone. These take months to internalize properly (for most) and will seriously help you in the long run. If all else fails, go swimming every day. Great natural fitness and excellent place to meet people. (not a lap pool, go to a club or lake or something) | /r/askTRP | 12/05/15 01:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Glad to be alive and posting.Op. I've had an issue similar to this only the crazy was my ex finances brother. (manic depressive, violent psychopath). Believe me, get the hell out. After reading the comments I know you're planning on avoidance when you know he's present, but I hate to say this from experience, with people like what you've described in the circle, especially your mother in law, it will happen by accident. You'll have to be the bad guy and simply leave. Compete exodus. No questions asked. You handled it like a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Plate annoyed at me for ignoring her.Make one, ONE simple outreach. If she doesn't take, don't bother continuing, but above all don't blame her. You failed to recognize cost to benefit. She required maintenance and you didn't provide, flaking on the date was is something any male would be ashamed of. Not because you acted on a no, but because you broke YOUR WORD. Honestly I feel you've overvalued yourself, or have already made your decision, just by that broken date. look at it from a business standpoint. If an investor (they need … | /r/askTRP | 12/05/15 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Anyone have that one beta friend that brings your group down?My eyes bulged at 'I don't know any of those girls' These people are REAL? Added : my sphincter clenched so hard you cut my reddit time short. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The Lean Wardrobe Model – 90 Days to Achieve Closet MasteryDammit op. I, just this morning, redid my wardrobe. Had I read this I could have saved a good amount of cash. No matter, that's in the past, thank you for improving my future! | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Girl attacks guy, gets a surprise, tries to rationalize why she should get treated differently than anybody else.Thank you for saying this. Just avoid it. If it doesn't involve you, don't involve yourself. If it does involve you, slow them down and gtfo. You never know who's hiding a knife. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I Keep Becoming Skinny-Fat. How To Fix This?1g per pound you weigh is really expensive. I've been doing .5g of protein per pound and I have gotten very big since the first day I started lifting (at 1 year now). More than being expensive, very few peoples bodies can actually process and use more than .55g plb To op, go to /fit and get your iron straight. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/15 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Being Recognized and Repercussions of SuccessTL/DR those who can't, become envious, and caustic. You are 'affected' by the company you keep. Self improvement creates external trial. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Stop saying "sorry" so God damn often.I don't say sorry. Never meaningfully. If i actually am 'sorry' I start the apology as, 'I messed up there, here's how I'll change' Thankfully I don't have to use it often. Reasonable read op. You have my up. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Mothers' Day in an office of women: A living hellThank you for that, I constantly forget why I enjoy him so much. To add to the conversation though, Yes it's infuriating. Use it to your advantage. I set my own hours now, but the jobs I used to have were certainly not being worked the day before, after, or if mothers day. I was too busy taking the only woman who ever truly unconditionally loved me out and about town. Good luck op, try to hang in there and don't be afraid to use some AM on them for your own enjoyment | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Girl who was my best friend and I started dating months ago, just recently broke up and she fucked my "best friend"Don't worry about it , this is a massive shit test. It's happened to me before, once that I know of. Cut them both off entirely, no big deal. No message, no warning, just stop contact, focus on yourself. They'll find you eventually. In my case 'she' the ex, came crawling back within weeks, even offering a Threeway to prove she loved me. I laughed in her face and held up a picture of my new girl. As far as my exiled friend, he came crawling back when my business began to take off, this was years … | /r/askTRP | 09/05/15 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy 101 - Women See Men the Way Men See JobsThis complacency is rarely spoken of on trp, but I find it frequently on mrp. It'd be great for you to take the time and do up a thread on this for many of those swallowing who need another cup of water to help. I would, but I've done my posting here and I'm only interested in commentary. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Women complain chaps today won't settle downThank you op, best read I've had in a while. And not just rage, but legitimate analysis of the systems problems. | /r/MGTOW | 07/05/15 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Get comfortable with awkward situationsThat's not true. Sociopaths, specifically principled sociopaths, are completely capable of making actual real empathetic connections. The difference is that for a sociopath, it takes a massive amount of energy and doesn't come automatically. 'Imagine taking a final you haven't studied for but know the basic information' A principled sociopath especially, depending on the principles they have, may form empathetic bonds faster than a normal person would when faced with a person who exemplifies the… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives SoughtI've been here in the past and am here currently. It honestly sounds to me like you're in a serious state of sunk cost error. Now there are things you can do to retrain her, see classical and operant conditioning, but they can take quite a while and won't feel authentic unless you've done them perfectly. However I found 'trained the historical girl' that the problem with training is that you are always aware that it's not authentic, even when it has turned so. If that feeling is important to you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/15 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Any tips for an LTR with a Virgin?In an ltr with a virgin right now op. Been a few years, here's a pro tip. She's a blank slate in constant predread. Build her confirmation strictly off what you want most. If she starts flaking move on. As sober background, mine is one of those girls that never understood how hot she was, 'social anxiety disorder' she's been programmed well and does everything I need with no necessary reminders, so I've been able to take care of my needs without eating any of my time searching the last few years… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Shit test: "What would you do if I ever cheated on you?"The correct response is no response. Act. If you're out with her, ask where you should drop her off. If you're texting, sorry, busy. 'Then never respond' If you're on the phone, click. If you really believe this is a question born purely out of curiosity, no malevolence or guilt, go catch a unicorn. 'You can't, you're deluded, they're not real' | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Internal value, use selfishness to own your life.Understood fully, though external measurements as I stated above, are menial. Being harsh on yourself yet keeping your successes in mind rings of internal focus. So, awesome! I'll check back once in a while to see if anyone else has comments. Have a business thing today, but at the least I'll check in tonight. | /r/MGTOW | 26/04/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Internal value, use selfishness to own your life.I really need to say thank you for being honest, blunt, and efficient with your response. It's something rare to find on trp. Hopefully the 'un'edit has helped in a meaningful way. In addition, I feel its my responsibility to be acutely aware of my external environment to avoid missing opportunities and threats, without that knowledge regardless of your skill your actions are limited in effectiveness. | /r/MGTOW | 26/04/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Caught girlfriend flirtingWell you certainly don't sit her down for "a talk". Actions > Words. You slowly decrease your investment to a point where you invest the bare minimum needed to keep her as a plate. Edit: Also, don't be afraid to let her go if you can't plate her. Good advice, a bit more meta: You downgrade girls by reducing all effort to a cost effective analysis. If the greatest value they provide is sex, that is the only thing you respond to. 'Don't forget to reward her though'. You're interactions should be b… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 01:22 PM |
| 1 | how to fix excessive/nervous smilingPractice resting Bitch face for a while. No smiling, nothing but flat line. Focus only on that and get out there. Practice on dozens, a hundred conversations. The few times you crack you'll know you have learned two things. 1) what actually moves you 2) how menial most interactions actually are. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to: "If I wasn't attractive would we still have had sex?"Needs confirmation. Answer but bit directly. Just say 'I approached you because I wanted you, if I didn't want something I wouldn't have taken it.' Or go slapstick truth. "Hey, I take what I want" and change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Internal value, use selfishness to own your life....but this is all geared towards gettin da pussy, n'est ce pas? Seriously, dude, if you stick rigidly to your behavioural requirements of women you'll be expending an awful lot of effort in search of that 'unicorn'.. The most generous comment I can make about the OP's points is that if you are absolutely determined to do whatever it takes to trawl through the dross and find a 'good one', you could do worse than follow OP's advice... From my perspective, it just looks like a more sophisticated f… | /r/MGTOW | 26/04/15 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Internal value, use selfishness to own your life.Edit- I'll just repost the original, obviously lost context. This has nothing to do with getting laid. | /r/MGTOW | 26/04/15 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Internal value, use selfishness to own your life.Edit, p2 Second: the no fucks zone This is not to be confused with apathy but honed value management awareness. All over trp and mrp I see this mistake. People confuse stoicism with not giving a fuck, people confuse apathy with not giving a fuck. People confuse pragmatism with being skeptical. People confuse holding frame with actually managing your value. This really needs to stop. Not giving a fuck, from hereon referred to as the zone, is a state of confident, constant, informed, OBJECTIVE val… | /r/MGTOW | 26/04/15 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Trouble defining and maintaining frame?Here you go bro, promise fulfilled https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/330qni/being_in_the_moment_relapse_and_trigger_avoidance/ | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 11:20 AM |
| 8 | The halo effect and the ugliness of attractive women, e.g. ESPN reporter Britt McHenryYou can break anyone. If it's worth the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Finally figured out what I need to figure out...You deserve a post. I'll dedicate lesson 3 to you and another pm, I'll edit with link when it's up. I'll need an hour I think. Hey it's up, heres the basics. You need to understand that objectively, on a worldwide scale, it doesn't matter what you do. You need to accept that you're the only one responsible for you're life improving. If you don't do it, no one will. You need to track your progress. Set your failures as tasks to redact over the next week. Recognize your triggers, use a notebook or… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 01:50 AM |
| 3 | I am sitting in a cafè from 5-7PM dining alone with my earphones in and doing work for my startup and I hear this guy in the next booth whisper to his girlfriend.. "Maybe this guy doesn't have friends.." in a condescending and laughing manner.He's weak. You're there to work. Agree, amplify, ignore. 'Yeah, I don't have many friends, just business to take care of away from talkative peons and really good hearing.' | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How old were you guys when you started working towards being an alpha guy?No problems. Any questions should be pm until I ... Figure out where I want to take this information... However happy to help. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How is swallowing the redpill different from having integrity? Is it more than that?These posts all gave bits and pieces right. They seemed to miss the actual core intention of trp in some way. Integrity is an internal value. Just like physical fitness. It's a part of the whole. Trp is about value. Value management, assessment, and improvement. That's it. It's quite simple. Master your value and learn to broker it correctly. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32h23r/understanding_value_understanding_the_zone_from/ Go learn the basics. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Being called arrogantMost woman I know call me arrogant, even my mother. Most woman I know also agree that I'm a catch, that I'm hard to obtain, and that they're surprised I bothered approaching them. Arrogance is a projected response, you cannot call yourself arrogant, you are judged to be arrogant. Much like beauty. Women see you, they fell intimidated by you, and instead of asking 'how can I make myself worth his time' they reframe you with a label that makes you the problem. Agree with them, and laugh at how bac… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Wooaaaaahhh red flag. I am the Alpha fux and right now shes going to see the beta Bux.It's not a big deal man. Look at it this easy, she's spinning her plate, but doesn't want the responsibility of calling it that. She is doing what people do, keeping their options open. She understands this at least psychologically, maybe not consciously, this is why she's upgraded her performance for you. She knows YOU have internal value that let's you browse the market, so she increased her value to hold you. At the same time she's increased her value she needs to make sure there's another ru… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Trouble defining and maintaining frame?If you're serious about this, read https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32h23r/understanding_value_understanding_the_zone_from/ I'm still taking questions. This is a long term solid answer, you'll probably need to refer to it pretty often for a while, good luck op. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 12:21 PM |
| 3 | How should I handle this?Send her a very short message saying you're not interested, you don't need to justify your disinterest, simply state you're not compatible with her. Suggest she move on, don't apologize for her or you. Just be blunt, polite, and clean about it. Don't discuss it at length since entertaining the idea implies your mind may be changed. If it persists simply block her from social media. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 12:12 PM |
| 2 | how to make a girl taking the birth control pill?Something every man should save for, freeze some kids, get snipped. Only stick yourself in clean from thereon out. As far as forcing her to do anything, that won't happen. You can not 'force' to do it. You can give her reasons, you can give an ultimatum, or you can gtfo and stop wasting your precious time. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 12:07 PM |
| 7 | Alpha females : you're chasing the wrong guy. Look for a Beta man - Telegraph.co.ukLook. Women with alpha traits do exist, an alpha woman, as in, lead woman of the pack of women, can also exist, much as men with alpha traits exist, and an alpha male, male lead of a male pack, also exists. Giving them advice? No. Just as I wouldn't ask an alpha woman for advice, an alpha woman isn't likely to thrive from alpha male advice. There are two different sociological and biological perspectives at work here even if a few, or even many alpha traits are shared. I'd post in rpw. Not here.… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Understanding value, understanding the zone, from an rp raised and bred male.Pay heavy attention to front loading and batching. If you're in a position of authority heavily focus on delegation. Always remember above all to not fear saying no. Good luck! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Understanding value, understanding the zone, from an rp raised and bred male.Thanks. Save it, share it. Already working on lesson 3 by pm request, 'being in the moment' | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Understanding value, understanding the zone, from an rp raised and bred male.You understand perfectly. You'll do fine, just never settle! Also, edited 'foreward' | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How can you discern if you're in the "top 20%"?There are a few ways, none of which should matter to you much, because as long as you're constantly improving, you're in the top curve. Suggestions though: 1: look at your company, is the company you keep in the top 20%? No? They haven't invited you to trade value since you don't have enough yet. 2: look at your finances. Are you debt free or on the way there? If you lose something external is it easy to replace without damaging your internal? 3: market, are you being approached daily? Do you ha… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/15 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Understanding value, understanding the zone, from an rp raised and bred male.You inspired me to condense. Usually I don't do tldr, but thankfully you did, I went back and edited both initial posts, flaired too. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Partial FR - Beware of the breederI have a mild form of genetic defect - the blessing of centuries of North Sea inbreeding. All my kids have it. Also my wife knew I'd have killed her. Hey I've got that. It's a legitimate inconvenience. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 10:17 AM |
| 3 | How does TRP and AF/BB theory eventually culminate into into a successful marriage/long term relationship if there is such a thing?Ignore this post. It's silly. To op, you don't have to 'kill the beta' in an ltr. If you've truly understood goal setting and value management you won't have to do anything to keep your pick with you. In fact the biggest danger is you getting bored with her. Beta isn't a status, it isn't a personality, it's a type of trait. You should use traits to the advantage of your goals depending on the desired outcome. Plate? Bag em and tag em. Ltr? Provide where it's your choice to do so, and only on you… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Understanding value, understanding the zone, from an rp raised and bred male.Thanks for the perspective! Wasn't around when trp began, my family referred to it as 'the language of power' not necessarily emotionless, but I very much appreciate that vote of quality! Any advice for me in turn? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Understanding value, understanding the zone, from an rp raised and bred male.Thanks for the compliment. As this is a practice in thought collection, any pointers? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Going on arranged dates -- or when a lady you met at the bar wants to set you up on a date with her daughterThen you're good and set, and I apologize for my inference missing your intention. Good luck op! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 09:17 PM |
| 12 | Some Personal Advice for the Newer People.This is a solid and worldly post. You have my attention, respect, and appreciation. I'm sure you've helped plenty of new rpers. Saved for reference. Thanks brother! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 09:05 PM |
| 116 | [Dead Serious] Do Kegels.The truth is spoken. Everyone should read this thread. Withholding jizz on command is an ultimately useful skill. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 08:35 PM |
| 18 | Understanding value, understanding the zone, from an rp raised and bred male.Second: the no fucks zone This is not to be confused with apathy but honed value management awareness. All over trp and mrp I see this mistake. People confuse stoicism with not giving a fuck, people confuse apathy with not giving a fuck. People confuse pragmatism with being skeptical. People confuse holding frame with actually managing your value. This really needs to stop. Not giving a fuck, from hereon referred to as the zone, is a state of confident, constant, informed, OBJECTIVE value manage… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 07:11 PM |
| 5 | First FR, trying to improveIgnore her. She wants your confirmation and she's testing out the ass. You should have kicked her out the night before. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 06:40 PM |
| 21 | Moving On From The PastMantra thanks to dear old dad and granddad. 'Those who live in the past are ghosts. Those who live in the future are dreamers. Those who act in the present, plan for the future, and keep the past in it's place are leaders.' Maybe that helps. I think on it every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Lifting routine? What does TRP reccommend?Yes. But I hope you also have natural fitness from other activities built in. I only lift twice a week, but I swim, practice martial arts, and love ultimate Frisbee 'shut up it's awesome' every day I can. I end to being active 5 days of the week. When I was life guarding however, I didn't do natural fitness, I hit the gym five days a week. Actually returning to it that hard gave a brutal bout of rhabdo, hospitalized me for 4 days with ck over 190k. Be careful jumping back in. That's why now I on… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Lifting routine? What does TRP reccommend?Hey op, head to /fit. You'll get better advice from the sidebar, good chance you'll see quite a few trp mates there. That being said, this isn't really an appropriate location for this post, good luck though and get back to your 4 days weekly. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Prenups - A Short GuideSolid advice, 10/10, have done with every ltr I've allowed since I was 18. Never progressed to marriage, probably never will, but I always have that chat the moment I put her in the ltr basket. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Going on arranged dates -- or when a lady you met at the bar wants to set you up on a date with her daughterShe's not worth it. Sorry op, any Woman who sets you up with another woman is thinking only of themselves. Not you, not the other woman. The mom wants you to do x because somehow it settles some perceived problem of her own. She would only do this if she thought it would benefit herself, you and even her daughter are not particularly important in this equation. Regardless, say no. Even if the girl is hot, say no. Don't let her use you for some half baked hamster plan. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 12:16 PM |
| 1 | On AWALT and thingsThere is no unicorn. You may have found a great girl, but a unicorn is a term for that which cannot exist. Just pointing that out op. You probably found a good girl, hell maybe even a great girl. Most of the girls I've allowed into ltrs were like that. Enjoy yourself, but don't delude yourself. Be happy, but be aware. That way statistically when things go south you won't be surprised, but when they defy all odds you can keep congratulating yourself. Seriously though why does everyone seem to con… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 11:59 AM |
| 2 | The fallacy of never hitting a woman.You should go cool off. This entire entry is framed wrong, and sounds very childish. Yes, every man may defend himself against any aggressor, but that's it. See how quickly I said that? That's literally all you had to say. This is already accepted not only by trp but even by most women. You don't sound at all rp, you do sound like you have a chip on your shoulder. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Having a high SMV profession, spinning plates, and avoiding the betabucks life.Didn't make that bit clear sorry. Yes get it, make them take it, charge them for half of it afterwards if you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Describe a Red Pill life once the fifth stage of acceptance has been achieved. Is that amused mastery?No problem. Raised rp before I had a term for it, I don't mind helping out. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Describe a Red Pill life once the fifth stage of acceptance has been achieved. Is that amused mastery?The end state is when internal value dictates everything about you. Gaining and improving it is everything you love about life. 'Internal value being value which acts as your refresher and hook to hang all external values on' examples of internal value are things that can't be taken from you by others. 'Education, experience, perspective, health, fitness, passive income' External value becomes secondary, since it can be taken from you easily, and often replaced easily. although obtained at will … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 01:16 PM |
| 6 | Having a high SMV profession, spinning plates, and avoiding the betabucks life.This right here. Hey op, my dad's side of the family has been high up in ownership and management of a large Corp since my... Great granddad? Starting with him as the president of it we've been connected ever since. Thankfully gdad and dad are very rp old school and have never had an issue separating the chaff from the grain. In the next few years, I'll be taking over a large amount that will change my life. Here's what they've taught me. 1: don't ever discuss money around women. Not how much yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 01:01 PM |
| 4 | [FR] "It would of been like seeing a man in a dress"Yeah, normally I'd agree but general rules are hasty generalizations. Even in the bdsm community you should know that a sub has power too. They ultimately control the fantasy of the Dom by allowing them to enact. You've really only learned a rule about girls like her. Just one girl isn't enough to make a blanket statement like this. Just do her hard and do her good regardless of whose on bottom, you should be on top in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 10:34 AM |
| 14 | They Won… So let them have it.No. I understand where you're coming from, but don't stop here. Don't be angry or disgusted with the world. Yes, we do live in it. However you always must remember that you are the sum of your inputs. Even the worthless can give something worthwhile. Don't bother trying to explain trp Phil to them, keep saying they should look into it themselves, you shouldn't really even be discussing it with people outside the circle. We are not fishers of men so to speak. You continue to work on you, improve … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/15 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Reminder: Don't Argue About the PillNever argue the red pill, argue for value management and egalitarianism. Avoid terminology and mentioning how you came to this line of reasoning. Above all remember that the very issue with the matrix, is that it's an easier more comfortable version of reality. Just as with a dogmatic individual, the average person simply is not prepared for a shake down of their beliefs of this level. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 05:21 PM |
| 9 | Have I lived long enough to see myself become the villain? Or, how I learned to stop worrying and love the age gap.Not outrage and disgust. FEAR and PRE-DREAD. Exactly what they'll react with when you're priming them anyway. This is to be expected and ignored, unfortunately spinning it 'if there are women in that group you want to spin later' is incredibly difficult. The social pressure to avoid you is much higher for this kind of reputation. Also, be careful op, younger girls love to brag via kiss and tell. Be careful and try to stick to girls who are of drinking age or higher. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 11:13 AM |
| 10 | Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for your taste/preferences in women.Ignore them. I used to stick to only white girls, so I got a lot of shit too. "5'11 black male" and I was picking up the cream too. Other white girls were fine with it, black girls became really bitchy, but I'd like to think of it as pre dread, black guys were fine with it, even going out of their way to complement my change 'that's very unusual in case you didn't know'. The people who hated it most? White beta males and ugly black girls. It reminded them that they're on the bottom of the ladder… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 11:01 AM |
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