So I've matched with this gorgeous girl on tinder and I really don't wanna ruin it with her, she's witty and sharp, I'm great too but just don't know how to make conversations, I wish someone could've told me a skeleton of questions to go through to keep her in loop and interested!!!, She's hot afff

quinnmcd · 2020-07-30T09:47:03+00:00

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Edevo · 2020-07-30T09:52:17+00:00

Don't faff about and ask her out. You can do it!

Mistermistery101 · 2020-07-30T21:29:03+00:00

Pretty much what everyone else said. Seduction and game is never about just one girl. And it's not even really about if she likes you. You should have the constant mindset of "do I like her" or "does she fit into my life".

Me personally, I think you're at a point with her where you should be setting up a date. Not trying to entertain her and keep her interested. Anyone with experience can tell you that you don't build romantic/sexual relationships with woman by being texting buddies with them. You do it by seeing them face to face and physically interacting with them.

For Me personally what I do, when I'm using tinder, is ask for either her number or her Snapchat. This helps with standing out more, compared to the dozens of guys who are only messaging her on tinder. .

after you have her Snapchat, immediately try to set up a date. I'm assuming you want to see her face to face, so it makes no sense to drag on unnecessary conversations. Instead of forcing yourself with trying to keep her entertained via text, simply ask her something like "hey when are you free this week? You seem really cool and I want to take you out."

Her response is going to tell you whether or not she's interested in taking the situation forward. If she for whatever reason says no or doesn't respond back(ghosts you), then it was a bust. But let me just clarify that if that does happen, then it was going to happen regardless. Talking to her for days/weeks at a time wasn't going to help the situation at all. As a matter of fact it would be worse for you because you would have invested a lot of energy on this girl. Based on your how you worded your question and some of the things you said, I believe you would potentially obsess over her. And you don't even know if you guys are compatible face to face!

Would you rather put in all that mental energy and get a no from her? Or would you rather just be honest and authentic with her from the jump, ask her out, and then get a no? The latter is more productive.

She might say no. But she might also say yes. Seduction isn't about manipulating girls who don't really like you to like you. At least for me it isn't. It's about being authentic and confident in who you are, expressing that to others, and making boom boom with the girls who are compatible with you.

2020-07-30T09:42:23+00:00

“What’s that booty taste like?”

9 times out of 10 times it works every time. Your welcome, bro.

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