Found a girl but I feel like I can do better

2020-08-18T13:11:01+00:00

Why did you even commit to her then? Seems like you're using her.

revente · 2020-08-18T12:44:30+00:00

Some people will try to shame you for such feeling. Fuck them - you have no control over your emotions as they are rooted in other underlying factors.

Just figure out what you want and do that.

Personally i would go for quality over comfort.

2020-08-18T13:05:20+00:00

Talk to her about your feelings. Be open and honest, but phrase it the right way - don't degrade her, be sensitive and socially calibrated. Maybe her feelings are not that different. Anything is possible. You just find it out by talking to her.

You should not waste your time or her time, but maybe you two can give yourself a time limit for becoming clearer about your feelings.

Also, she might be better than you think. As she is your first girlfriend you have no comparison.

mkdxx · 2020-08-18T13:15:48+00:00

Honestly, I’ve been there. I don’t think it’s selfish. We are humans, we have feelings and standards (even if that sounds super superficial). There’s nothing weird here. But the most important thing is for you to think about the reason why you decided to commit to her in the first place. If you’re not comfortable in that relationship, you always have the right to end it. Even if you’re committed to someone, you need to be the first person you’re taking care of!

Title	Found a girl but I feel like I can do better
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	August 18, 2020 11:59 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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