how to talk to a girl who's wayyyyy out of your league.

2020-09-18T00:36:03+00:00

As long as you have that "out of league" mentality you won't be able to talk to her. She probably wants your validation anyway.

cottagecorehoe · 2020-09-18T01:08:23+00:00

Anyone who saw me and my ex would always say I was way out of his league. But then...why was I attracted to him?

Because he carried himself like he was in my league. (I don’t really believe entirely in the league stuff, but if we are going with the comparison). You got this dude; you’ve got her attention since she is snapping you. Go get the girl :)

danstratum · 2020-09-18T01:16:31+00:00

Move on. Man up The first question you should be asking is how to become an 8 with that big brain. Gg.

ChuggaTacoTrunks · 2020-09-18T02:55:45+00:00

Bitch my league is wherever I want to be, so I'll go for whoever I want.

mangoh8628 · 2020-09-18T01:45:05+00:00

Girl here. First off, cuteball should be extinguished from your vocab lol. I’d like to think I’m a decently attractive woman but always date men who are not comparable looks wise (this doesn’t matter but I digress.) Why? Because there are certain men who command confidence. They don’t believe they are out of my league or act insecure. It’s not about looks. It’s about masculinity and knowing you’re the shit. So as everyone else said, you gotta get that mentality out of your head and instead emit waves of confidence and self-worth. Fake it til you make it!

2020-09-18T02:53:59+00:00

Get in her league or at least beleive you are

throwawayyyy2247 · 2020-09-18T02:59:28+00:00

Get into her league then bring back down to your league only to go back up.

quinnmcd · 2020-09-18T03:48:38+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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andy64392 · 2020-09-18T05:45:07+00:00

“Well if you’re asking me that should I assume you like me”?

If she says yes, you won 99% of the battle as now there’s no r/seduction needed. She fucking likes you. Go from there depending on what you want. Maybe ask her to dinner or to go downtown or something

Title	how to talk to a girl who's wayyyyy out of your league.
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Date	September 18, 2020 12:22 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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