Is it bad to be polite and softspoken? Heard from a friend it's a turn off for girls

DestinyChitChat · 2020-09-25T07:40:23+00:00

Teasing is neither cruel nor savage and adds a nice, fun dynamic to a conversation via flirting and can build attraction. It's also not something you have to adopt either.

Bars/clubs are loud environments so yea you will be at a disadvantage at those places. Maybe just hang out at cafes and bookstores.

feistykalorina · 2020-09-26T00:11:57+00:00

Being polite and soft spoke are a plus with quality women

2020-09-25T06:37:13+00:00

My most recent ex was like this, and I loved it. It does depend between person to person but I don’t think that being more reserved is a turnoff whatsoever, I think it means you’re more comfortable with yourself!

(Plus, smart women love nice guys because they know that they won’t be treated poorly... Or maybe that’s at least just me, but still)

tibles20 · 2020-09-25T10:52:34+00:00

Oh yeah that's why i am stuck in the friend zone mate but it gives me time to play with my niece and go on a sports course at Leicester college sometimes you dont want women get in way of that

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-09-25T15:40:46+00:00

It's not so much a turn off, rather it's nothing special. Being polite is like you selling me a car and I ask you about its features and you say "well it has wheels".

You dont get points for being polite, most people are generally polite.

As for soft spoken, it's only attractive if you have a quiet confidence or you're stoic.

Polite and soft spoken is pretty much nice guy vibes. It's boring and vallina.

If you want to attract a girl you have to invoke some kind of emotion in her like make her laugh. Practice making girls laugh and you'll notice a difference v just being polite to them.

After that you try other things.

Title	Is it bad to be polite and softspoken? Heard from a friend it's a turn off for girls
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Date	September 25, 2020 6:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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