Is it fine for someone who is already taken (has a spouse/SO) to still get attracted to other person?

cottagecorehoe · 2020-09-26T00:47:32+00:00

Of course, we’re human. Once you start dating someone it doesn’t automatically adjust in your brain that only your partner is attractive to you. It’s totally possible to find other people attractive while in a relationship.

As long as you don’t ACT on it while you’re exclusive with someone, you’re fine. Hey, I’ve definitely checked out people (both guys and girls) with ex-boyfriends before hahaha

2020-09-26T00:59:02+00:00

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If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

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2020-09-26T01:07:26+00:00

I get what you mean, I don’t mind the stares (like thank u for appreciating my looks) but the way they act around me is what bothers me. I just hope I don’t fall into it lmao and I’m kinda distancing tho ‘coz someday I don’t want my future SO to act like them around someone they find attractive, it’s fine to check out and that’s it

Title	Is it fine for someone who is already taken (has a spouse/SO) to still get attracted to other person?
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Date	September 26, 2020 12:31 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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