I’m hopeless at being sexual with women and I don’t know how to fix it

Dodechaedron · 2020-09-27T22:02:31+00:00

"... and only thinking about getting laid and trust me women can usually sense that"

Exactly. Women flirting process is designed to weed out the insecure men.

Consider that when you meet a woman for the first time, the chances of sex are less than 1%, assuming that you are interested yourself.

As the interaction progresses, you have to understand, through the body language, through what she says, through the way she looks (or not) into your eyes, whether the chances are going up or have crashed. If the case is the latter, generally, that's it; a crashed plane won't fly again any time soon.

If she's interested, she'll give you hints and leads, she'll laugh at your jokes and even initiate the physical contact, e.g. she'll touch you. She might be kind and smile and be friendly, simply because she's nice but this doesn't mean that she wants to sleep with you.

You have to "feel" the difference. You have to understand whether there is chemistry or not. You have to be subtle and avoid flirting if she's not responsive, rather than ruin your game and embarrass yourself.

If the said signs don't occur, don't even ask her out nor ask her number. Switch to 'polite and friendly' mode and gently disengage.

tibles20 · 2020-09-27T18:33:36+00:00

That is why I am a virgin because i am hopeless at sex

Dodechaedron · 2020-09-27T20:34:50+00:00

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neisbsudnei9191 · 2020-09-28T21:12:58+00:00

Go fuck a escort. 👍🏻

Title	I’m hopeless at being sexual with women and I don’t know how to fix it
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	September 27, 2020 5:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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