So I got involved with TRP over a year ago. It was a tremendous to every aspect of my life. Especially my LTR. I have been with her for 4 years and the last 1 1/2 years have been ridiculously fantastic due to me implementing the things I've learned on TRP. But I think I've gotten soft! For the past month or so my SO has been getting more and more disrespectful towards me. When we're texting she will get irrationally mad at me for whatever reason and give me the "ttyl I'm not dealing with this" line. I just ignore it until she contacts me again. But still, I feel like I shouldn't have to deal with that. When there's something serious I need to talk about with her she won't take it seriously then refuses to have a normal conversation and will say something like "ok you're annoying I'm taking a nap"- (I can't make this shit up...)

I have been accomplishing a lot between school, work, personal goals with finances and especially my physical appearance. A few months ago she would praise me like I was the best thing since sliced bread, recently she acts like what I'm doing "isn't that hard" or "a lot of people do it". It's not like I'm sitting around waiting for her to pat me on the back either. Someone else will acknowledge my accomplishments in a group setting and she will literally belittle these things in front of everyone all of a sudden. If I confront her about it she calls me "overdramtic" or something like that and again doesn't take it seriously... when we go out on dates I never get any type of stimulating conversation anymore, it's more like if I disagree with her opinion on something she cops an attitude and destroys the mood of the entire outing and acts like a 4 year old.

She's an overall nice girl don't get me wrong, I've built a pretty solid relationship with her, it just seems like very recently things are starting to wear down a bit. I know this is my fault in some way because I probably have gotten too comfortable the past few months and gave her too much wiggle room to the point where she thinks it's okay to act like a child. I want to nip this in the bud as quick as possible and continue on with the relationship the way it should be, so any advice is appreciated! Also i was thinking MAYBE I should downgrade her to plate status. But that would be a last resort seeing as how I've gone through so much with her, just wouldn't seem right. Thanks guys!