Clarification on TRP and STDs. Secondarily, questions about TRP vs MGTOW.

blkav8tr · 2015-06-22T02:47:29+00:00

Be selective in who you fuck. No one night stands. Use common sense.

dr_warlock · 2015-06-22T03:42:06+00:00

There is always risk with sex whether it's std's or pregnancy. The only 100% effective way to prevent either is abstinence. Do what you're comfortable with and accept that this risk comes with the territory.

MentORPHEUS · 2015-06-22T05:32:09+00:00

I hate condoms. In my serial monogamy days, I'd get tested and insisted my partner get tested with each new relationship; discovered most women don't like doing this and act insulted.

I've always been interested in LTRs but never one night stands. This includes part time, long-term plates on a scale of years. The best and safest are the ones who won't have sex quickly, even when your SMV is strong and her desire for you is open and unmistakable. Some of my plates had other men come and go from their lives during my time with them, but they were selective and slow with these too.

Not a perfect or foolproof system, but it's gotten me near 50 with never an STD.

TopTRP · 2015-06-22T13:19:39+00:00

I get the impression that this subreddit is more centered around the PUA perspective

I don't blame you for this as there are certainly a lot of guys who come to TRP that are more interested in using it as their 'secret weapon' to get pussy rather than because they want to have their blinders removed.

Guys whose life revolves around slaying pussy ARE NOT REDPILL. They employ some red pill principles as a learned behavior but they derive their own self worth from the quality/quantity of women they get.

A redpill/alpha man does not derive his self worth from women.

Don't misunderstand, actual RP guys can still and usually do slay a lot of vag, that just isn't their focus in life.

So what's the deal with TRP and the risk of STDs?

You've got to realize who you're talking to with these kinds of things.

The audience you think you're addressing, i.e. the category 1 kids who derive their self worth from women aren't thinking about STDs. They simply don't care about the risk, be it from ignorance or indifference.

Redpill men who are successful and have their life together, know that laying some disease ridden slut is not worth jeopardizing their life over but at the same time they aren't just giving up on sex entirely.

So we make calculated risks in regards to who we fuck. That's what life is. Every decision you make is a calculated risk.

Will I drive to work today when I could get killed in an accident?

Will I have sex with this girl when there's a chance she has HIV and my condom will break etc etc?

RP men aren't thirsty. They have the ability to turn down wretched pussy, but they also accept some level of risk over the course of their life.

JackGoldsteinWrites · 2015-06-22T15:40:47+00:00

The Red Pill is not about PUA, MGTOW, LTRs, etc. The Red Pill is simply a collection of truths that many of us have never been taught, or haven't figured out, or haven't seen. Once you "wake up" from the "Blue Pill" matrix, your destiny is in your hands entirely.

PUA, MGTOW, LTR are just different routes men take once they know exactly what they want out of life, and they operate from the perspective that TRP gives. For ex., getting married as a RP aware male is a different decision than getting married as a BP.

It's up to YOU to decide what you do with RP information. No one path is better than any other. And if you're not sure, it's perfectly fine to ruminate (but lift, stretch, sleep, eat well, read well in the mean time).

I'm a lot like you in that I abhor STDs, so I tend to look for girls who can be made RP aware and try to get a decent LTR. This is the safest way to get regular sex. I did the PUA think for awhile and now I'm doing LTR and both offer learning opportunities. I actually think LTR game is a lot harder than PUA Game. It's very easy to fake alpha for a night, it's much harder to actually be the leader she needs to keep her in your gravitational field. The shit tests don't end, only complemented with comfort tests. I tease and do cocky/funny relentlessly.

Sometimes I have to be a complete and utter asshole with my girlfriend simply because the moment demands it. Yesterday, I knew my g/f had a busy day. She was not out of bed at 8 AM. I went to get her going, she refused. I pulled off her blanket and blasted the A/C. She called me an asshole. I laughed and told her "when you thank me later, don't forget to apologize." By 5 PM she thanked me for getting her out of bed so she could get her shit done (with a BJ). And I got my apology. Think there's no learning and game in LTRs, think again.

I know a guy married 50 yrs who told me he STILL has to game / tease / lead his wife.

So any path you choose, you will learn. You need not worry about that.

Title	Clarification on TRP and STDs. Secondarily, questions about TRP vs MGTOW.
Author	Pabsmanhere
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	June 22, 2015 2:15 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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