Hey! Hope everyone is staying safe and healthy during these times.

I am Jack a 19-year-old college student and over the past year, my life has changed quite a lot. I want to get into this aspect of life because I feel as though it is very fun and a great way to fill my downtime. A little background information, over the course of the past 6 months I went through a breakup with my long-time girlfriend of 3 1/2 years. On top of that, I lost 80lbs and have significantly improved my body.

The problem: With the background out of the way I need to get to the core issue here, I am on a small campus and during my freshman year I barely went out. I don't know a lot of people on campus and don't have many close friends. I have a very small social circle and I want to find a way to expand that not only for myself but to make myself more high value. A lot of my issues come from the fact that I did not make any connections that freshman year so I don't get invited to parties or even know about any events happening. I am a fairly extroverted person nowadays and I really enjoy meeting new people. The problem for me has been meeting people, to begin with, and offering something to that group. I like to use humor quite a lot and it is great quality.

How this relates to seduction: I am tired of using my lack of social groups as an excuse as to why I can't get girls. I want to be that high-value person and I have worked so hard on my body and mental to become that. I just don't really know where to start now. I find myself often thinking about since its a small campus that it would get around that I just wanna hook up with girls etc. I just need help on where to start and how to build that aura so that girls want me. I know this is a broad topic and there is no immediate solution but I want to implement anything I can to make myself successful. I've met up with a couple of girls on campus but it never seems to escalate very far and often leads to them ghosting.