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Field Reportcarlosgomez85/r/seduction04/10/20 08:35 PM
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Field Reportcarlosgomez85/r/seduction22/09/20 12:11 AM
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Smells like excuses.
/r/seduction23/10/20 04:30 PM
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Cold approach
/r/seduction23/10/20 09:32 AM
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Just approach as covid doesn't exist. That's the truth. Calibrate afterwards if she wants distance.
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:40 PM
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Rubish videos. Manipulation will get you laid but suck your soul out. A U T H E N T I C I T Y
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:37 PM
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Grow up.
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:18 PM
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They don't if you have to think about it, label it, intelectualize it.
/r/seduction22/10/20 10:12 AM
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LOL
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:51 PM
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I was kissless virgin until 24. Get this shit out of your head. You can be a fat slob and still bang if you're willing to put in the work. If you're not then stay inside the self pity lane for the rest of your life.
/r/seduction20/10/20 04:07 PM
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Its not. It's an excuse not to take action. Girls are starved of real life interactions.
/r/seduction18/10/20 05:27 PM
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Seems like a casual guy that is not sociable and perhaps shy it happens with many guys who don't break out of the shell. If you feel he is truly interested in you follow this advice. You only have one life and living with the regret of what if is not something that I recommand. Since you're both mature adults I would try again to make it very subtle to him that you want go out with him. If he still doesn't ask you out then go for it. If he's shy he will like you for helping him out. If he doesn'…
/r/seduction17/10/20 09:41 PM
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Don't give up man. When I said the return of investment is delayed is that you can work on yourself for years and then all of the sudden life changes and is a new puzzle which you have the pieces(work that you did) that fit and makes everything better. I think you are very thoughtful of your life and have great self awareness which will point you in the right direction. Do you have friends that you connect with emotionally?
/r/seduction17/10/20 05:27 PM
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Hard to say but answer these so we can narrow it down. Is he a busy man who has a lot of stuff going in his life? Does he have many woman friends? We need to determine if he's a big player or just a casual guy that's shy of asking you out. Try to describe his life if possible.
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:05 PM
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I see. Can you expand on this a bit more? What is it you do to better yourself? Are you constantly going out to meet people?
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:03 PM
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7 habits of highly effective people. I read it at 18 blew my mind then again at 24 and blew me away harder than before.
/r/seduction17/10/20 11:36 AM
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Its not manipulating if it comes off as natural. You push pull all the time with your close friends, making fun of them calling them names and then having a laugh together. Treat woman the same. If you have to think about what to say to push her away then its manipulation. Easiest way to describe it as is english bater.
/r/seduction17/10/20 11:31 AM
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Its true bro. You're just rationalizing your failure. It is what it is deal with it.
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:31 AM
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Honestly yes how you look matters. But then it doesn't I was fat bad with the ladies then I got ripped and that didn't change anything in terms of success. Then I stopped obsessing how I look to the point where I would forget who and what I look like. I'm just a voice coming out of something and got this cool pov like a VR set. I think it doesn't matter as long as you are a cool dude still a bit harder tho. Hope you get my idea. Inner game is more important than outer game.
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:24 AM
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You only set up logistics and throw a joke here and there. Anything other than that will kill attraction, mistery and make it very platonic. You can't convey yourself through text you got that right. You can only show glimpses of yourself but not to the full extent you wish. Do it in person.
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:19 AM
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It is true but the return of investment is always delayed. I used to be depressed and felt there is a disconnect, gap between me and life. I still kept on pushing the boulder up the hill like sisyphus and sometimes watch it roll down and start again from "zero". But this is where the greeks got it wrong. Each time you take the pain and drag it up the mountain, you get stronger. Now I'm sisyphus enjoying the struggle and also finding many many flowers to stop and smell on the way up. I sometimes …
/r/seduction17/10/20 07:47 AM
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I'm happy for you. Life is great when we put a bit of effort into it. Keep going bro.
/r/seduction16/10/20 03:56 PM
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Good point. I spent 2 years working on myself, going gym getting a good career and stuff because I thought that once I have it then I can focus on girls.
/r/seduction16/10/20 03:54 PM
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Disable last seen in the privacy section and text her when you can.
/r/seduction16/10/20 03:51 PM
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Its ok then. If you're not getting laid it won't be because you live with your parents but because you will react weirdly when the situation comes up. You should probably joke about it. "I moved in with my parents when all this happened to save money and spend time with family". "Oh we can't go to my place my mother made me promise I marry some girl haha". Just be cool about it. Solid advice above as well. Don't think about sex during the date.
/r/seduction16/10/20 03:48 PM
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Shut up man with this victimhood mentality. Be a man
/r/seduction16/10/20 02:32 PM
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Ask him how he is. If he wants to hook up with you then you'll feel him through the texts.
/r/seduction16/10/20 02:29 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction16/10/20 02:27 PM
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Message her something funny like an inside joke, something you both know, situational humour. Then ask her out again. If she likes you she probably already took her mind off you since you ignored her.
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:06 PM
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How is that putting them on a pedestal? Its genuine and authentic. As long as he showed her that he's interested romantically she knows what a second date means. You ignore girls because your frame is not strong enough. If you're a "tight" guy who has his shit together, saying to a girl that it was fun going out with her shouldn't make you feel your value is going down or that she's being showered with attention. The only way she can respond to it is say that she liked it as well which balances …
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:04 PM
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This is not true. Girls are anxious after the first date. They are afraid you won't message them again and ghost them they need reassurance. After a date I wait 2-3 hours and text them. "Hey it was great hanging out with you". Wait for reply and then say "Lets do this again on xyz".
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:50 PM
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When you get 2 grand slams and beat Nadal.
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:12 PM
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That's enough. Don't force conversations into it. But if it goes there its your time to show you like something and you're passionate about. You're overthinking. :)
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:20 AM
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Do you like playing?
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:17 AM
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Some girls will react badly to this and think you're not interested. I think its just how it is no way around it. I'd rather be misterious than text her constantly to reassure her that I'm interested in her. At the end of the day she will choose you over the guys that send her good morning and good night texts. I refined this method and found that it works really well if you made a good impression during the cold approach. If she was keen to give you the number chances are you will benefit from …
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:43 PM
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hit or miss. Last girl I was out with I didn't text her until the day of the date thats like 4 days. She messaged me saying why I didn't text her and if Im only interested in meeting her face to face. It definitely worked she was very intrigued on the date. I suggest you do the same. You can mess up any attraction you have by texting. More to lose than to gain. She's texting everyone already so you will just become another...
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:15 PM
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These posts....smh. What do you guys think about batman? If I replicate his behaviour will I get laid?
/r/seduction13/10/20 11:29 AM
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This was beautiful to read. Thank you. In a way its selfish of you not to talk with people because you're not giving yourself to others who may need you.
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:22 PM
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This is weird. I started reddit and I get a post that describes my situation. I will talk about my situation maybe I can shed some light for you as well. She's not ready for a relationship or to date anyone now. Previous bad relationships left her scarred and she is afraid to be vulnerable again. I left her just few hours ago. I tried to pursuade her to give it a go with me but she won't. This is hurting a bit because I know this girl would shine if she were to stay around me for a few months. B…
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:45 AM
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You're overthinking just do what you want bro. Don't kill the joy of life with this. Just be.
/r/seduction11/10/20 09:41 AM
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bro get out quick. If you don't have her phone number leave it on a piece of paper.
/r/seduction11/10/20 08:39 AM
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This so so so much. Tomorrow I'm going out like a robot from 12-2 to get some numbers. If I get 5 numbers I go home happy. From 5 numbers I will get 2 dates next week which is a lot for 2 hours of enjoying the day by talking to strangers. I love dates I don't care how they go, its just something different than ordinary life and something to look forward. This is important, always have things to look forward to. Keep off the depressive mindset.
/r/seduction10/10/20 07:57 PM
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lol you for real?
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:43 PM
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Yea. If she suggest an alternative thats the best thing.
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:18 AM
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The first one implies she's the one choosing you and you hope that she will say yes. What man with choices and an attractive life asks a woman for her permission to hang out with him? You need to view your self and time more highly.
/r/seduction08/10/20 05:19 PM
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Work on yourself and you will slowly get a glimpse into how attractive behaviour looks like. Basically if you're a man with hobbies, friends and career focused then everything falls into place. Don't learn tehniques or methods it needs to come out naturally otherwise you will lose your soul in the process of faking how great you are. There's many resources out there which should give you a general idea how to speak, text with woman.
/r/seduction08/10/20 05:18 PM
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Yes its subtle non verbal communication. Here's a needy conversation. Hey are you free on Monday? Yes Do you want to go out with me? Let's have a coffee. Sorry I can't Oh ok how about Tuesday? This was very bad it shows you are not decisive need her aproval, don't have other things to do. Here's another. Let's grab drinks on Saturday. Sorry I can't Why? Are you busy? Anything along these lines. Your chances of getting laid are as high as your power to walk off / cut contact and carry on with you…
/r/seduction08/10/20 04:16 PM
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Imagine you're sitting in the most comfortable sofa on the beach drinking your favorite and watching the sun go down while your friends around are having fun. Now text her. It should be so laid back, smooth and non needy that she should sense it. Be outcome independent. That's all. Hey I'm off on Tuesday lets grab a coffee, I know a great place.
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:38 PM
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Hook up with any legal age girls. You do what you want. Eventually you will realise that some girls are too young for you.
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:02 PM
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i wouldn't because it will throw you off balance. I suppose you have to be more mindful of their traditions and culture but I'm getting too much in my head now. Just do the usual...
/r/seduction07/10/20 07:30 AM
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Create a personal vision about how you want to look, feel and behave 5 years from now. Write it in great detail and also write stuff that you are afraid will happen if you don't change. This should take you an hour. Put your heart into it don't write like a robot, you need emotion into it. Summarize your findings and then create goals based around that vision. This will cure your loneliness and put you on a path. You will feel a fire awake from within you. Use it, go out there, your time is limi…
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:42 PM
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My dick went noodle first time I tried to have sex because of porn induceed erectile dysfunction. If you beat your meat do it without porn and don't grip it too hard. You will thank me later bro
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:37 PM
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Stop texting her for a week and see if she engages you. If she doesn't wait another week and engager her with something light like something funny during the date you had. Move on bro I know how you feel. Now its important to show your character. She will smell the neediness if you keep messaging her. I know its tempting but you will lose your soul by doing so.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:35 PM
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You don't do it directly. Clothing helps. It's just there, girls notice it and that's all. If you don't have a good body you will mentally block yourself, oh I'll approach when I look good. Guess what? You're never going to be satisfied with how you look. Acceptance acceptance acceptance.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:31 PM
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Small campus I would not approach randomly because you'll get a bad reputation. Focus on expanding your social circle. I did this a few years ago I moved moved to a new university for a year. What I did was attend loads of societies and be very friendly with everyone. It will snowball quickly and you will meet a lot of people, just put yourself out there. I would friendzone every girl I know, don't give out the I'm thirsty attitude. After you get known as the fun guy then you can start focusing …
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:14 PM
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Get out of the cave lol. Self limiting beliefs all over.
/r/seduction30/09/20 07:54 AM
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Ok. Ignore this idea you have about her being a big feminist. She's just another woman who has the same needs as everyone. It's cool you played it safe if you believe this girl has great potential to be in your life but it's also limiting you in a way. Just try to be touchy, bring the energy up and peak with a kiss and then see where it takes you. Freedom of outcome!!!!
/r/seduction28/09/20 01:58 PM
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You should have escalated and try to have sex with her by now. Maybe she's giving you a chance to repair this on the third date. I wouldn't waste my time going 3 dates with a girl which I haven't at least kissed I have male friends for chatting and joking. So you need to see if she's romantically interested or you got friendzoned.
/r/seduction28/09/20 01:40 PM
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Woman are not as visual as man are. They matter as first impression but afterwards thry don't. Will you lose many chances because you're ugly, yes. Will it matter in the long run? No.
/r/seduction27/09/20 10:22 AM
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Lol this is the most ridiculous. Looks don't matter. As much as I dislike those RSD dudes look at Owen hell no look at Luke that fat fuck. They don't matter its just another excuse you create to rationalize your failures. Even if they did matter, who gives a fuck? You can compensate with something else. The uglier you are the bigger the riches since you gotta work 10x more than the rest which puts you 10x ahead in overall attractiveness. I used to know a 5'6 balding fat guy with a golden mouth l…
/r/seduction26/09/20 06:10 PM
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I agree more with this than the other reply. Reading this I think I done the right thing to let her work for it if she really wants it or not. I will drop her completly. Thx
/r/seduction22/09/20 07:06 AM
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I understand. I realized afterwards that the text was not ok. I never had someone flake this way before. She was way way more invested than me. I guess she flaked on herself.
/r/seduction22/09/20 07:04 AM
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Wait a day and then move on. That took some courage well done.
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:02 AM
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neah
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:20 PM
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Was expecting some cringe stuff but you're a champ.
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:19 PM
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If she refuses you, all the group will know and this will blow your chances to hook up with anyone within. Be smart and try to meet her again indirectly through a party or something and then make a move and see if she reciprocates. Messaging a 18 year old is not effective. She is showered with social media attention already.
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:16 PM
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Yea, her name is Angelina Jolie, she gets approached by 180 man a day.
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:24 PM
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For every annoyed woman like you there are plenty of beautiful girls who light up when I approach them and we have a great time. So...I'm sorry for taking chances at my own happiness. Also, 6 minute per day? Most girls that refuse me take 2 seconds to tell me they are busy and have to go.
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:20 PM
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If the other person has no idea a hook-up may happen then you will fail. You need to warm her up to the idea before you try by flirting and getting a sense of how aroused she is by you. What you are trying to do is as similar to me going to a random girl in the streets and go for a kiss. You need some tension in the air.
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:02 PM
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Bro you went too scientific on this. You're killing the beauty of human soul. When you walk down the street and see a girl that lights up your fire you don't rationalize it like oh im attracted to her because she has 96.78% chance of survival past age 35. Don't forget to smell the roses.
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:39 PM
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Mostly looks. I prefer fit girls either skinny or normal. I find extra weight unattractive, it's just me I have friends to like bigger girls. After this I will look at her skin tone and hair color, I date within my demographic so I prefer girls who look kind of like me. If she matches what I list above then everything else is just bonus. Cute smile? I'm melting. Soft voice i'm dead. Witty jokes. Call an ambulance. It's hard to say what makes a girl attractive but I can tell you that some things …
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:11 PM
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