Stop texting these hoe$

2020-10-16T23:40:21+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

wondermomof4 · 2020-10-16T15:10:02+00:00

I disagree but hey if that’s your thing have at it. Good luck.

Forever_A7oneWolf · 2020-10-16T15:13:44+00:00

Question, what if this hoe is 24/7 online in whatssap and want to text with me frequently and she always get upset everytime i stop texting her.

We always see each other everyweek so setting up a date is given.

isthisalreadyused · 2020-10-16T15:30:58+00:00

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JusttheCheshireCat · 2020-10-16T17:55:07+00:00

Boy, I bet you’re a blast.

best2getsome · 2020-10-16T17:00:48+00:00

Yea man I understand where you're coming from, texting girls forever is a pain in the butt, especially when you don't know what you're doing.

If you're an average Joe and you texting girls without a goal, throwing shit at them and waiting to see what sticks, you're gonna get frustrated. But that's the way most guys go about it.

I used to be at this point too where I'd just be texting girls for logistics, but then I was just trying to prove to myself that all the time I used to spend trying to be nice and chatty, trying to banter through text, only to get ghosted by some girls, wasn't pointless because it allowed me to figure out that "duhh texts are only for logistics".

No they aren't.

Don't get me wrong though, you won't build attraction through texts. Attraction is there, or isn't there based on what happened before. If you met her in real life, attraction should be there for her to text you. If you met her from Tinder, attraction should be there from your profile, etc. But if your real life interaction sucked and your Tinder profile sucks, your text game won't change anything about it.

Now why do we need to banter through texts?

I'm not telling you that bantering through texts is a game changer, but it's most of the time necessary. Be it only to set a frame to your relationship. It's not what you say that matters, it's how you say it. Whether you answer her immediately. Whether she's chasing for your approval. Whether you get butthurt when she drunk texts you. Whether you're able to give her value. And also, it's fun!

(when you know what you are doing)

It's creating comfort, in the sense that it makes you REAL. It gives her the opportunity to invest and see that you're invested.

Of course you don't want to become pen pals. But no one asked you to be an entertaining texter or to force yourself to text. If you can't see her for two weeks, I'm the first to advise to go silent and go on with your life.

Which brings us to the next point. Bro, why are you even texting her?

I agree that you want to be leading to a date first and foremost. It doesn't mean that you have to be a sociopathic robot about it. Because if you don’t want to get to know her and just want to fuck her, she will feel it when reading your texts and most girls won’t like it.

Also, it looks insecure AF. If you cannot afford to banter a bit she will think you’re afraid to put your personality out there and/or that just don't care about her as a person.

Throw jokes between two logistical messages. Take your time. But stay on track.

You want to have clear boundaries. If she doesn't let you lead her to a date, you move on.

Be clear in your intent. What do you want? A date? Cool, ask her out.

She doesn't want to? Make a joke about it and ask her out later. Still giving you excuses? On to the next girl, she doesn't want it.

Nowhere in my previous sentence I feel not in control. Nowhere in my previous sentence I am trying hard to entertain her to get her to like me. And I'm still texting like a normal human being.

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Objective_Entry_2048 · 2020-10-16T16:09:34+00:00

I 100% agree with this... some light banter maybe but if you’re texting for long periods of time and not at least intimate with her you’re a pen pal.

justgotalpha · 2020-10-16T16:08:13+00:00

Text should only be for logistics aka set a date to meet and escalate! The men that is entertaining women texting back and fourth its WASTING HIS TIME!! TRUST ME!! Texting without escalating is just giving the girl VALIDATION! go MODE 1 ON THESE HOES .. and if they are not with it you keep it moving to the next hoe

Title	Stop texting these hoe$
Author	DenverPUA
Upvotes	5
Comments	26
Date	October 16, 2020 3:03 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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