Yo, what’s the best way to look at a girl or treat a girl you just met to keep her interested in you ???

letsgetrandy · 2020-10-05T15:25:46+00:00

but when I’m talking with the boys I’m a lot more confident and more myself

Or, maybe you're just posturing for your boys, and when they're not around you're looking for some opportunity to be vulnerable and let your guard down.

Well, guess what: girls want the same alpha male around that guys want. Humans are not evolved to be attracted to weak, vulnerable men. Your guard and your posture belongs up AT ALL TIMES.

how to not treat girl’s like a trophy straight away and like the best way to keep it cool around them

When you look at a drop-dead gorgeous woman, just imagine her with a gross mole on her belly, or big deformed nipples, or weird feet. Heck... after you've seen enough gorgeous women naked, you'll start to see that they ALL have flaws, and while others see a "perfect 10", they go home and look at the mirror at their flaws and beat themselves up emotionally.

Everybody has flaws. Everybody is insecure. Remember that when you're around someone and tempted to put them on a pedestal -- when she's on that pedestal, her pretty face is farther away and suddenly you're eye-level with her deformed ass feet.

quinnmcd · 2020-10-05T02:01:09+00:00

It’s all about you’re mentally. First off, you have realize the long term goal is to be partners and your equal, she can’t be your equal act like she’s better than you.

Work on your confidence and realize that you have value. When you know your value you’ll get more into the right mindset of that she also be trying to win you over too.

Look beyond women’s looks. Really get to know them and understand what qualities you want in a women. Looks should be icing on the cake, not the whole cake.

Have a mindset of abundance. Talk to more than one girl and keep your options open. Don’t get into “she’s the one” or “she’s my soulmate” mindset. Also have in the back of your mind that there more beautiful women in the world that want to be with you.

When you put her on a pedestal you show that you don’t think you’re on her level. Trying to win women over shows that you’re insecure and potential needy. Women want you to be confident and assertive.

I highly recommend the book Models by Mark Manson that can go more in depth about the mindset needed to peruse women.

SimplyRegality12 · 2020-10-05T03:21:21+00:00

It’s your emotions that are fucking you, once you stop fucking your brain up with porn you should be good

SimplyRegality12 · 2020-10-05T03:07:34+00:00

Stop whacking it

Title	Yo, what’s the best way to look at a girl or treat a girl you just met to keep her interested in you ???
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Date	October 5, 2020 12:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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