Background:

So I meet this girl, smokeshow... solid 8.5 at a bar a about 2 months ago. Me and a fired go dance with her and her friend, we excange name but we get blown out. They leave the d-floor, we laugh and carry on with out night. Out having a cig, and she's there. While I'm playing with my phone, she initiates a conversation, we chat for 5... I get her number then we both carry on with our nights.

So over the last couple months I try to initate meet ups. She can't make it, a couple of times tried to pick a different date that I'm busy with... but whenever I txt always get a quick response. We finally meet up Saturday, say's she's gonna bring a girlfriend. I'm like cool.

Date:

So I get to our meet up spot about midnight. A local bar. She's there on her own. I sit across from her... we start with some small talk... and she comes to sit next to me after about 5 minutes or so we can hear each other better. We chat about the usual, work. Eye contact is good. We both admit attraction. All positive stuff. So her friend shows up, she moves back across from me, I'm introduced, chat for anohter 5 mins, then tell them I'll be right back. I go for a cig. Come back in, they are there but I see a friend at the bar. I go say hello, we do a shot with some chubby hoes he's with, chat for a minute but when I turn back to our seats, they are gone. I go to sit back down, thinking they went to wash up or something. After a few minutes I send a txt to ask where she went, I get back that she thought I left, I send back nope, and no response.

Only thing I can think of is negative social proof cause the girls my buddy was with were like 5's.

Anyways, I'm blown out so I think fuck. I know this is way too much contact, but I'm trying to salvage the night.

I txt here I like her, call later to try to keep the date going. She actually answers... (shocked) but just to say it's not gonna work out (not shocked). I let her know fair enough.

So waking up the next morning, still a bit puzzled. Everything was very positive. I send her one last txt just trying to get a read on where it failed. If there was no attaction there or we just didn't get along, no problem. Been there before. But can't figure this one out. Txt as follows:

So help me out. We meet up, we're chatting everything is going good. Mint. Then? Not exactly sure what happened but maybe you can help me out so I don't crash and burn so bad with the next one. heheh.

No response... not that I expected one.

Thoughts?