Advice if I can’t meet girl in person right away?

2020-10-21T21:06:13+00:00

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2020-10-21T17:51:08+00:00

It really depends from person to person and I often tend to struggle with this myself. Put in too much effort and you will kill the tension before meeting, put in too little and she'll also lose interest.

I usually end up talking to them once a week or so and we'll just have a small chat. I'm not that big of a fan of 'checking up' on them and hitting them with "how have you been or how was your week?". Instead I'll just send them something like a funny post

DavidCameronEtonLad · 2020-10-21T17:53:31+00:00

Just keep up general interaction replying to her stories or tweets or whatever (IF they are funny don't be too thirsty). If there's mutual interest she'll still be down to meet in a month. Otherwise just more generally make sure to talk to other people too so no matter the outcome you're cool with it. Building up so much anticipation to when you meet or having an idealised version of her in your head will just lead to stocky situations if it doesn't go as planned!

Title	Advice if I can’t meet girl in person right away?
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Date	October 21, 2020 5:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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