I have this milf nurse I have been hooking up with, and for right now its generally been amazing, super willing for sex, always down and so on.

I tried to keep it purely as FWB but feelings crept in, but were kept down by her general coldness and good time chunks between our contact.

Last time I saw her, she cried when I left because she will miss me, it felt 'real' for once out of her. One big thing is we live 5 hrs away, so we only get together about once a month though she will call more often. I feel like we are good/fast friends but have been wary to be complete 'in', as I've learned that lesson in the past, and I constantly question in my mind 'is she playing me, at least subconsciously, all to get validation and resources?'

My question is, I fully know that there is no true future here, as single moms are bad news generally, plus she has age on me and while hot for now, how long; but can you have an emotional/sexual relationship with a women like this, and NOT have it where she will try to chain me into raising the kids?

THANKS