My friend overshadows me in every social situation. What do I do?

2020-11-23T21:39:38+00:00

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DaydreamingMister · 2020-11-23T21:24:21+00:00

The answer is so near that you can almost reach out and seize it...

In general (not just in your specific situation), a man does well to be able to fly without needing a wingman.

Learn to be fine going out solo to socialize, or pursue a hobby, or go hit up an event you want to check out. Why?

-No one there to cock-block you. And your specific situation sounds like a prime example of this fact.

-If you meet someone cool, you can hang out or head out out with them right away without having to ditch your friend or figure out a ride home for one of you if you two came together, and there’s no pressure to get your person to line up a friend for your buddy, or any other bull like that.

-And like you said, your feeling of power & your results are better without your buddy being with you.

Title	My friend overshadows me in every social situation. What do I do?
Author	JackEatsBurritos
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	November 23, 2020 9:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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