I want to care less about sex and more about other things

2020-12-04T14:14:38+00:00

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OrzhovPalatine · 2020-12-04T14:06:47+00:00

Honestly I didnt have that casual "if it happens it happens" attitude towards sex until I had my fill and sex wasnt special anymore.

Until then I was faking it.

When I finally had enough sex I almost came out of a coma and realized "oh shit, there's more important stuff besides getting ass"

I want my life to be together for me, and I don’t know how to do that quickly

So how do I do that?

You either

suck it up and force yourself to focus on your own shit, jerk off anytime you think about sex
get enough sex to satisfy your hunger, then you can focus on you.

I had to go through the latter until I could focus on actual stuff besides getting ass. The problem with the former is you're constantly distracted and have to clamp down.

bemore_ · 2020-12-04T14:20:15+00:00

I'd recommend David deida, go to his website. You have to find a way to understand your relationships in terms of your purpose in life

Nothing with long term effect happens quickly. Life is more like an art than something we overcome or succeed at. So you can learn the 5 primary colors by the time you are 10 but will take your whole life to make art

Maybe just have more sex, it's easy. When a girl messages me she's horny and asks to come over it doesn't effect me as strong as it has in the past cause I've grown a little more past my neediness. Dealing with women "artfully" is the challenge.

But yes, dealing with women while you don't feel the man in you hurts

Title	I want to care less about sex and more about other things
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Date	December 4, 2020 1:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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