No one is ever interested in me, at least not the people I am interested in. How can I improve the way I approach them?

2020-12-20T20:45:01+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

2020-12-20T17:31:54+00:00

Well your problem lies with your mindset, the fact that you're automatically assuming they won't like you back puts you in a losing situation already.

Focus on yourself, beat your inner demons that bring your confidence down, and then worry about approaching women.

Monamoans_ · 2020-12-20T17:33:25+00:00

Change your outlook because your post comes off negative and nagging. What you want to attract, you have to become. So first YOU need to identify YOUR struggle areas and turn them into your strength. If impatience is your struggle, why are you impatient? What triggers it? We get the same 24 hours and it’s up to you what you do with it. Read a book or watch a seminar on patience. Find out what’s related to patience - resilience, persistence, long suffering.

Once you understand your mind, find a focus point. Be willing to ACT and work towards your goal. One day isn’t going to change you, this is a lifestyle change. 💜

kettlebell_workout · 2020-12-20T17:41:09+00:00

Contrary to popular belief Dating is not something mysterious. It is governed by some rules and fundamental principles. Go to 100s of dates and you will realise that if you follow a specific blueprint it will work 90% of the time.

At the moment you are doing too many mistakes and not following those principles, that's why you suck at dating.

MattyIce1220 · 2020-12-20T20:23:42+00:00

If you have hobbies, you could join a group and meet people with the same interests. This may help because you will have some common ground to start with.

Title	No one is ever interested in me, at least not the people I am interested in. How can I improve the way I approach them?
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Date	December 20, 2020 5:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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