Body Hair

FelixCopy · 2015-07-05T11:43:09+00:00

The only unattractive body hair is back/shoulder hair or really really bushy body hair (legs, you know the type). Otherwise its a non-issue.

Coming from another hairy dude, I just shave or nair the back/shoulders if I'm planning on being shirtless. I'll also trim the chest/front hair down a bit so it looks a bit more thin. I've done a full nair before and it was kind of dumb as its clearly not who I am. Family members of mine get lazer hair removal on their back/shoulders which I will be pursuing soon. Stars like Drake clearly get their full body removed. I'd say ultimately it is more attractive to be body hair free but ladies simply don't care as much as they "say" they care.

ckp2906 · 2015-07-05T09:04:18+00:00

You answered your own question. Preferences.

Most girls i know around 20-25 prefer very little to no body hair. (armpits and legs excluded).

The ones i know and seen, aging from 25-33ish, that's when it becomes a grey area.

Seriously do what you want. If you find yourself manly and awesome with that bear like body hair, rock it man!

flying_cumshot · 2015-07-05T11:29:30+00:00

Some girls hate it, some girls like it, some girls don't care.

throwaway-aa2 · 2015-07-05T10:39:27+00:00

Finally a question I can answer (in a ramble).

Yes and no. It's highly dependent on a lot of factors, and whatever you decide, just understand all the nuances. This will be a ramble because I don't even know where to start.

How body hair looks on you will change based on how much muscle you have. Women's preference will also vary wildly but ignore women because women can be MADE to like hairiness. Generally you don't want your hair to get to the point where it's getting tangled because most women will have a knee jerk response to it (I'm talking about the women you'd meet). Traditionally most women consider someone like Hugh Jackman to be hairy when they say they like hairy men but you have to understand that he has muscle & an aesthetic face and he's not that hairy to begin with. The problem is that you pretty much don't want to be taking a razor or waxing your body non stop (if you are hairy like me then you're not going to be able to stay hairless, it's not even practical). You don't want to be shaving non stop because that one week in shave for your body doesn't look as good and it's immediately obvious that you do shave. So generally on your body hair doesn't grow at the same speed.. some areas fill up faster, some areas very little. When you shave, you get rid of that, so it looks very shaven in the sense that it doesn't look like natural body hair. I say that to say this: generally my body looks best with about a month of hair growth from being shaved completely down. Also keep in mind that shaving constantly is bad because if you're hairy the stubble of your hair will be poking into the girl when you have sex and it'll be uncomfortable to her. Also if a girl is going to put her mouth on your body, she generally doesn't want it with a mouth full of hair. As a hairy guy you sort of have to feel it out. Generally girls who like a TON of hair are more of an edge case. I prefer to keep my hair trimmed but not entirely hairless for a number of reasons. I like to look at my muscle development, my hair getting tangled is uncomfortable, I look much better with a clean cut look. If I met a TON of plates that liked my hair I could easy just decide to grow it out. But think of it like this: There are tons of men out there who like tiny petite breasts. But generally a lot don't. So what's a girl to do... well she just does what's comfortable to her knowing the default is probably big breasts and she'll grab guys who enjoy small breasts just because she's hot anyway. That needs to be your outlook.

There are a LOT of different factors. I would generally say you should check your environment and plan accordingly. For me (I like to look decently clean cut and I grow hair fast which to me doesn't look that good in V-Necks when it's like wild growth, like a bush growing out of my neck), trimming is best. My girl likes a more hairy chest but she'll fuck me hard anyway and I probably give less of a knee jerk response to other girls which is what I'm going for.You're always going to get a mixed response, so just feel it out, try BOTH and just do what's right for you. I can help you navigate it but you'll have to figure it out.

OH. The other thing... there's like this damn if you do damn if you don't think with hair. I've had people be like "DAMN! You're fucking hairy man" and then on the other hand be like "You shaved your chest? GAY". It's easy to see you're not going to win with everyone (or even the same fucking person). If you're not muscular you SHOULD trim it though. I'm muscular and I trim it but again there's a lot of different factors in play.

fullcount-bottom9th · 2015-07-05T14:43:19+00:00

Hey OP, if you haven't already, Google the term "manscaping" - - plenty of info to be found.

Title	Body Hair
Author	wingednewt
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	July 5, 2015 8:45 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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