Matched a girl on tinder a month ago, made all the classic attraction and texting mistakes

2021-01-10T14:37:06+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

northwoodsgirl0717 · 2021-01-10T16:16:17+00:00

Well it appears you have two options. This is Reddit so people will be telling you to just walk away. And that's an option. It's difficult to recover once you've screwed up. But in reality we all screw up in little ways in all our relationships, and we repair it and move on if the relationships are healthy.

It occurs to me that you might want to try just starting to do it right this time and see what she does with it. It looks like she likes you if she's gone this far with things. And try to get off texting and arrange a meet up or Zoom. Communication is much easier face to face.

You will also have to be prepared for rejection or friend zone because it could go that way. But do you really have anything to lose if you shoot your shot?

I am a woman and might have a different perspective than the guys though.

Recently a gentleman and I had similar issues while texting. He basically just started over by keeping it fun and flirty. And we just arranged a meet up, which I am excited about. So maybe that's a bit of encouragement.

Title	Matched a girl on tinder a month ago, made all the classic attraction and texting mistakes
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Upvotes	1
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Date	January 10, 2021 2:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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