I find myself to be a sponge to other people ripping on me. I just take it. I don't know if they're joking or if they know they can get away with it and make themselves feel better by ripping on me. I was raised by my mother and have been a BP beta all my life.

I don't know how to respond to them and how far is too far. My manager at my job does this to me, I have no idea how to respond and when I want to respond I feel like it's too far and can cost me my job. I need help