I have fucked up in the past before because i think i give up too quickly. Sometime when im at a party ill hit on one girl and after a bit of her giving me shit tests ill go leave and hook up with another girl and ill do this throughout the night but i fuck myself over by not taking "the best catch" home. Its not that they find out about the other girls but i just keep searching rather than work with one girl.

I guess my question is how do you know when you should really just give up on a girl to not waste your time and when you should keep going with their shit tests. Or is this just a matter of having bad dread game? Should you even have dread game with a stranger?

Edit: want to ask the other question thats been on my mind;

How do you get in the habit of being manipulative in the proper manner? Somebody mentioned here recently about his ability to getting girls to do their hw for him. Now clearly thats not i want to be, using the skill for petty reasons, but i want to learn how to ask for what you want. I gave a bad character trait of hating to ask for help from others, not because im scared or anxious of others because im insecure of what that says about my ability as a man. I hated asking people for their hw because i didnt want to be that pain in the ass friend who can't pull his own weight. Or getting people to do things for me in general for the same reasons, how do i change to manipulate others for things i need?