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[–][deleted] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (1 child) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
[–]yalqlq56261 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Dude you should read carefully before removing post. As a moderator you never contribute anything. All you can do is just removing a post. Don't be so useless in life. You should make your parent proud of you. They already spent so much money on you, hoping one day you will be a useful person.
[–]StandardGreekGod 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also online dating is a place for women to get validation
[–]StandardGreekGod 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
200 matches is a fuck ton. I think you’re wasting a lot of time and energy because 6% turnover is very low. You can be getting way better results approaching in person.
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Approaching in person is a mans game. It’s harder but you results are so much better. “ when you do what everyone else is doing , you’re gonna get what everyone else is getting “
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think you need a coach. I meet maybe around 10% of my matches. Matches don’t mean you will hit it off. It just means she at one point she found you interesting.
One thing I realized is don’t text too long. I had one girl I matched she kind a hit on me but I could see her interest falling. I cut the small talk and asked her out. We are getting dinner Saturday.
Usually if you text too long you will usually get ghosted. That’s how it is for men
It’s the nature of the game. Online dating is very fast paced and it’s hard to convert matches into numbers/dates because of it. If you getting 6% that’s not too bad...The key to succeeding in this environment is to build trust and rapport (fast) and then get her off the app. I recommend you finding some good canned lines (ton on this app) and use them to create an impression of who you are . So when you hit them with the line initially you can gauge whether they are receptive to you or not . If they are, go for extraction of the number . If not continue to dialogue until they are more comfortable with you. I know that was a lot to consume do here’s an example :
Me: “You’re so gorgeous that you made me forget my good pickup line.”
Her: * any enthusiastic response *
Me : “ I also forgot to get your number , what is it again?”
Now if she responded to the line indifferent than just continue dialogues until she’s more comfortable. You should be able to gauge when she interested .
Her: indifferent
Me: “ what have you been doing for fun during COVID-19 “ ...
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