Today, I approached a girl that I saw at In-n-Out Burger. She had a beautiful body and was wearing a UCLA basketball sweater and tight fitness leggings which made her so attractive. As I was waiting for my order, I was trying to think of ways that I can approach her. I noticed her sweater and knowing that UCLA basketball is in the final four, I figured it would be a great way to start a conversation. I said to myself, "just say what you are going to say and that's it. Whatever happens, happens." I was a bit nervous, heart beating a bit fast, shaking a little, but didn't worry too much. I picked up my order and saw her at the door. She was with 2 guys and they had a conversation. As I was near the door, I went up to her and asked, "are you excited that UCLA is in the final four?" As I was about to leave, she answers "yes", then asks me, "did you watch the game today?" I was wearing a Kershaw name and number t-shirt with a dodgers hat and dodgers mask, so I figured she was talking about the dodgers season opener, so we had a very quick conversation, so she was really nice, and it went well with her attractiveness.

Another time in the very hot days of september of last year, I went to the Strand between Manhattan and Redondo Beach. I saw this woman rollerskating by me. She had a very beautiful dress. It looked like a sundress. She also had a beautiful afro and a nice complexion that I was attracted to. I saw her sitting with her male friend and I thought to myself, "I am going to approach her and comment her dress" without worrying about whether or not she was going to get mad at me. So I went up to her and told her, "you have a very beautiful dress" and she told me, "thank you so much" and I ended with "you have a very good night".

The moral of the stories here are if you see a woman you like, make an approach without any second thoughts. Not doing so will increase your anxiety even further. Yes, you will be nervous, but it goes with the territory. Say what you are going to say and that's it. The rest will follow. Sometimes, you have to step out of your comfort zone. You have to hype yourself up a bit and say, "I am going to approach her. I am not going to worry about the result. Whatever happens, happens." Also, you just don't know what's going to happen. It's better to know then to not know who she might be. If you do it right, she might like you and want to talk to you more. Just don't get too nervous or don't be a creep and treat her like a sex object when approaching because they will see through that and they will not talk and give you one word answers. If you notice something on her shirt or she is wearing something nice, make a compliment on her dress or make a comment on her style. She will be very appreciative. A little bit can go a long way.