Ofc women don’t come first your purpose, goals do. But to me chasing women is my goal a purpose. As a man I think a active sex life is important does that mean I’m needy, need women? No not at all. Start to tie women with your ambition. Want a good career? You study for it go to school etc. Want a good body? You go to the gym. Want a abundant sex life you go out and get it. Because you’re the type of man that gets what he wants. Once you frame approaching women because you’re a AMBITIOUS man it’s much easier to do so.