In game or life you have to develop your self image. Think about the man you want to be with women and honestly strive to be that man. For example I think of me making out with girls in the daygame upon meeting them getting them warped in my hands. Striking desire in women’s eyes having a perfect body etc. that takes time guys but first write out in a journal(yes you should have one)who it is you want to be and how you are going to achieve that. Once your goal of the self image is realized. Approach anxiety and other quirks of the journey will feel minuscule because you know you’re on the path to YOUR destination hope this helps cheers!!