Been seeing this girl for a few weeks. She is definitely high maintenance. She is absolutely a princess. She likes old fashioned traditional roles (which I fall into that category). She likes expensive dinners, spa dates etc.

I’m starting to feel like I’m being used or she is pretty low interest. In person she seems to act interested. Let’s me touch her, doesn’t pull away etc. Asks me “get to know me as a person” questions. She has said she is taking it slow cause she is looking for someone compatible that she sees may be a life long partner. She really wants a gentleman and nice guy. After the second date she asked if I’d be willing to help her move some stuff cause I have a truck.

One thing is she never initiates any texts. After 3 dates she started to become a little warmer. She did ask twice impromptu, hey I’m out and about want to grab lunch.

Fast forward, the day of move she was warm. Hugs, rubbing my arm etc. after helping her move she got somewhat colder. Little longer between text replies and the pet names she would call me stopped. I asked her out again, she agreed. After the getting colder I’m starting to think she is using me for free meals, validation etc until the next best comes along.

Would you back out of this date that will probably cost me 200 or so (which I can afford no problem) with an excuse, or would you just go on it have fun and then just go silent after and reassess if she reaches back out?