How do i flirt

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-05-31T13:30:53+00:00

This will sound like bat shit advice compared to anything u will hear on this sub, but don't flirt. Took me 20 years to hit that "eureka moment."

Women flirt.

The best way to "flirt" is to not flirt at all because flirting in of itself is feminine behavior. It goes against man/woman polarity.

I'm sure you have noticed in your own experience or in social climates that when the guy flirts back with the girl in a similar manner that she did with him, her energy instantly shifts like her vagina is being boarded up.

That is because flirting puts u in a "try hard" approval seeking behavior (as perceived by female mind).

The solution is to not flirt with the girl; but to charm the girl.

The difference is when you are being charming you are making yourself the chassee, not the chaser. You do this with polarity by showing the opposing traits of what is pleasing to you about the woman. Opposition is fun for her, showing similar traits is what makes girls feel like deer in headlights.

If the girl flirts with me and is kind and sweet, now I know not to be that way in return because I'm not the same gender.

If the girl says a compliment like: "you look good today"; I will say something in a stoic tone like "behave yourself, at least buy me a shot before making moves".

Stuff like that initiates play fights and physical touch and the girl becoming even kinder and flirty to you. Not to mention the free drinks.

Ultimately u got to do it your own way, this is just my input after struggling for 20 years all the way to seeing near instant results with the above changes in how I talk and behave.

weedsmoker7 · 2024-05-31T13:07:26+00:00

Im pretty bad at this stuff, but I think the general idea is to put the idea of you two together in her head. Like say she told you about a new cafe in town, you'd be like "I'll definitely have to check out, only if you come with me though" , or if you bring up a movie that she's never seen, "Oh we'll have to watch it together sometime". Make sense? There's more to it, ofc, but this is a pretty simple and easy technique

Title	How do i flirt
Author	AcceptableCake1337
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	May 31, 2024 10:36 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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