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More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals

warmy1818

June 17, 2024
217 upvotes
/r/MensRights

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

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Title More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals
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warmy1818

Upvotes 217
Comments 25
Date June 17, 2024 1:22 AM UTC
(2 years ago)
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[–]Punder_man 67 points68 points69 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And of course this will be seen as more "Manosphere" or "Red Pill" stuff by feminists..
Heaven forbid that we hold women accountable to the same degree we expect of men right?

Not only that but in the UK, male victims of domestic violence are included under the statistics for VAWAG (Violence Against Women and Girls)
So is it any wonder the statistics are one sided and seem to show that only women are victims?

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That should be illegal to do.

[–]Punder_man 11 points12 points13 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Should be.. but it isn't..
Its just a way for them to further the narrative of "Women are victims"

Look at the stats we have!
our VAWAG stats clearly show 100% of victims of violence at the hands of men are women!
Ergo we need more policies to curb the violence of men! /S

[–]Current_Finding_4066 15 points16 points17 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminist need funding. If government would provide funding to male victims, there would be less money for feminists groups. This is a huge part of the issue.  Couple it with fact that many such groups are being run by profound misandrists, and you get where we are.

[–]Current_Finding_4066 22 points23 points24 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

About time to raise awareness of how harmful women's violence against men is.

[–]Kir141 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I think it’s time to equate psychological violence with physical violence, then the statistics will be more reliable

[–]Current_Finding_4066 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In case of feminist derived and promulgated statistics, you can bet it will not make a difference.

They already claim that because men are on average a bit physically stronger that violence against men by women is not as harmful.

Case in point is rape. When drunk women sleep with men, they cry it is rape. Do they care to make the same claim when a man is drunk? I think not! They go even further, when both are drunk, they claim man has raped her, cause you know, men always want sex and cannot be raped again.

[–]HumbleSheep33 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If anything, I saw one study that showed that male violence was more likely than female violence to be a response to physical aggression, whereas female violence was more likely to be in response to verbal aggression. Eg women are fragile 🤷🏻‍♂️

[–]Kir141 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am now very cautious about various studies on these gender issues. Many things cannot be called by their proper names if they violate the rule "women are good and men are bad". Even those who are willing to tell the truth are forced to do so in a very softened form. So, most likely, the real situation is much worse than what is published.

[–]Angryasfk 16 points17 points18 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Funny how The Feminist Daily (formerly called The Guardian) knew that men were 40% of DV victims 14 years ago, and yet acts as if it’s solely women who are victimised now. And women being a majority doesn’t cut it for a publication and mentality that’s so careful to “not exclude” various minorities no matter how small a percentage of the population! They keep going “and women” for war veterans even though it was well over 95% men killed in combat. And they go on about “people with a cervix” or “people who menstruate” etc for fear of “excluding” trans people. But they’re happy to exclude close to half of DV victims. Now why would that be?????

[–]Punder_man 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also, something interesting.. ALL the "Related Topics" were biased in the direction of "Women as victims" with each photo showing women...
Its not subtle but it is ironic to say the least...

[–]Kir141 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is because there is no independent press. You can't write something in the newspaper that isn't approved by the agenda.

[–]hendrixski 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I firmly believe that all human beings commit right and wrong at the same levels regardless of race, gender, creed or sexual orientation.

Therefore I believe that 50% of DV perpetrators are men and 50% of DV perpetrators are women. Ergo the gender gap in the data is a measure of reporting bias.

[–]generisuser037 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I would also argue that many men don't even realize they are victims because they don't get hurt when their partner hits them or throws something at them. or it's just so normalized for their spouse to act violent in fits of rage they don't even realize it's violence. it's partially a problem of under reporting, but also a sheer lack of information for male victims. 

[–]hendrixski 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed.

As an abuse survivor myself I was shocked to learn that I was being abused. I was simply never taught that I could be. I always heard the educational literature talking about women being abused.

Turns out it's not your body that hurts the most after abuse - it's your mind. Most abuse is psychological abuse, financial abuse, neglect, and social abuse. And abuse is not about strength. Abuse is about control.

If more men were taught this then we would see the reporting change. And 50% of abusers in the statistics will be men and 50% will be women.

[–]Kir141 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would say that it is believed that a man cannot be harmed. Many men, having received psychological or physical violence from a psychopathic woman, shrug their shoulders and move on with their lives, considering it normal, “women are women.” Therefore, 40% is a very underestimated figure.

[+]gvdexile9 -29 points-28 points-27 points 2 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Haha, women beating up men:) give me a break... Also, go lift some weights or at least learn to defend yourself, what is wrong with you, a bunch of whiners...

[–]Killin4ssault12 20 points21 points22 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

and when men defend themselves against said women, they'll claim "he assaulted me". then what?

[–]Punder_man 16 points17 points18 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Ah yes.. i'm so glad we live in a society where if a woman lays hands on me I am fully justified in defending myself and everyone will see it as me defending myself..
What a fantastic society we live in!

Oh wait.. that's the OPPOSITE of how our society works..
Men are essentially the punching bags of women, men are expected to sit there and take it
"Men aren't allowed to hit women" is a common phrase told to young boys..

Also, domestic violence isn't ALWAYS physical violence, it often is.. but women tend to be more emotionally or psychologically violent using society's presuppositions of men against them..

If a man is being physically attacked by a woman even often when she is armed with a weapon like a knife or a bat or something many people will claim that he had "No right to hit her"

Whats the point of "lifting weights or learning to defend ourselves" when by doing so we are likely to be arrested and treated as the abuser?

Maybe you should go touch some grass buddy?

[–]Killin4ssault12 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i fucking know right, does this guy not know how the world fucking works?

[–]Punder_man 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They are so confident with their idea that men can simply "defend" themselves against women..
Its amazing how they legitimately seem to think this is at all how the world works..

[–]Killin4ssault12 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty sure this guy is one of those white knights who hates his own gender, look at his comment history, he's literally on twoxchromosomes and girl gamers, another one he said his mom argued for the rights of men and he asked her who's side she's on.

Reason I know it's a guy is cause he mentions an ex wife. Thought it was a woman lurker given the subreddits and ignorance.

[–]Angryasfk 15 points16 points17 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What do you suggest? He should beat her up? He’d be the one arrested by the cops if he were to do that, even if she started the fight.

[–]TrdVls 14 points15 points16 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What’s your fucking problem, man?

[–]TheSilverShade 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's lost

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