Listen I get it, you go to bars clubs etc. and you know you want to meet a girl but there’s so many things holding you back.. or at least that’s what it feels like..

Here’s some reasons why that’s irrelevant and how to go about it.

Whether you’ve been approaching for years or it’s your first day it’s normal to feel some type of way and this is the normal experience for 99% guys anyway

At the end of the day STOP focusing on what you dislike and start focusing on what you do like

As long as you’re a normal guy that has good intentions there shouldn’t be a reason why you don’t deserve to meet someone new

Now we can really go in a lot of depth where it stems from and that’s something you should work with yourself with time but try to focus on having fun and spreading that vibe of having fun

Practically speaking try to just approach as soon as you see the girl without trying to think too much and over analyse the situation try to just jump in regardless of how you feel and make yourself believe that she wants you to approach and everything’s gonna go well anyway

After the approach tell yourself it went amazing and keep pumping your state and on to the next one do this for yourself and not for validation whether it goes “amazing” or “bad” it’s all the same shit if she doesn’t want to meet anyone that night you couldn’t have done anything anyway

You wjll feel so much better when you see you have the balls to do something most guys would either need to be drunk or on drugs to do and you just did it with the power of your mind

It’s so much better to go say hi and get blown off then go home wondering what would happen, the night is really young and you could’ve talked to a bunch of girls and not feel comfortable yet and boom you talk to the last one and all of a sudden you’re in the zone and you’re feeling amazing

Do try to push yourself in this aspect it’s a very rewarding experience you’ll only know after you’ve done it after all none of it matters bro life keeps moving every second and you’re 1% more confident in your powers to exert your will into the world

Keep proving to yourself how much of a G you are by being able to walk up to a girl you fancy compared to almost every other guy in the world that would never say shit always remember “say something say anything”

And after a while you’ll be able to have fun with it and get better don’t beat yourself up go out there and enjoy life, put all your bullshit that holding you back in the past and go make things happen you really got this, nothing is holding you back.

The world is a friendly place and no one’s after you and even if someone’s not fucking with you personally that’s completely fine literally who cares man

Go prove yourself what a g you are man forget about all the theory or what Hollywood has told you what a man should be like or talk like or look like there’s literally only one YOU express yourself in the most authentic non apologetic way give yourself that permission to be yourself fully and be confident in the fact that you are exactly how you are and completely enough exactly the way you are right now, you don’t need anyone’s approval cause you’re already the shit.

-aqua