Hey y’all we gonna keep this short and straight to the point

Again like I’ve said in previous posts if you like to complain about your situation 24/7 and think the world’s out to get you, this post ain’t for you.

And honestly some self reflection about your beliefs and where they come from or even therapy would be of much better use of your time.

This post is for serious men looking to improve their situation and ultimately BE ABLE to talk to someone new WHEREVER they are and capitalise on WHATEVER opportunity passes by them.

So let’s start with the typical scenario that I can confidently say 100% of all men in the whole world have been through before and how to fix it.

You’re in a bar/club/street/festival/your rich grandpas 4th wedding — Doesn’t matter

And you see a cute girl you want to approach and get to know, potentially date or have a one night stand whatever it is doesn’t matter

But you don’t know what to do or what to say in that situation.

I’m gonna give you the checklist of things you should always do to AT LEAST improve your odds if not actually getting the girl.

But first I want you to forget whatever advice you’ve heard in the past by friends/coaches/sister/nieces/hollywood.

Okay now on to the good stuff.

let’s talk about the before the open for a sec

sometimes you don’t want to waste time and over analyse the situation like if it’s bad to approach her or wtv bullshit excuse you have and jump straight in

Other times tho (esp when u get comfortable with regularly gaming) you might want to analyse a bit before jumping in

Now one last thing “Saying something is ALWYAS better than saying nothing” remember that all the time

Now on to the practical:

  1. You speak with a voice just a bit louder than normal (basically avoid speaking quietly)

  2. You make strong eye contact while talking

  3. You close proximity so you’re standing as close to each other as possible without being too close (just enough to be a bit uncomfortable but not completely uncomfortable)

  4. You are squared up — meaning your shoulders are facing each other

  5. You add slight touch — always calibrate to your situation.. It’s more expected to be physical in clubs/bars than day time but don’t use it as a limiting belief either

Now that’s pretty much the absolute basics, when it comes to the actual words you’re gonna say it’s not WHAT you say that matters but more like HOW you say it and how you feel about yourself

ex. (if you feel like a weirdo even if you said the “right” things you’d still come off as a weirdo)

So give yourself permission to say whatever comes to mind or is interesting for you at the moment

-Aqua