Hello all,
Today I would like to share with you the story of the police abuse I was victim of while previously residing in London, UK as a foreigner. While I had originally planned to post the story directly here on Reddit, this is not possible as the text exceeds the character limit by a far bit (about 120,000 characters in total). As such, I am going to link the website I had publicly hosted to share my story instead: www.MyUKPoliceAbuseStory.com
Being such a long read, I will also make a brief summary down below. However, I hope you will be able to read my full story on the website if interested to know more about it and the full details of what had happened.
Summary:
My ex panicked one night due to my nose bleed and called the police on me making up a story and falsely accusing me of domestic battery. She was completely unharmed and I was the only one hurt with evident nose bleeding at the scene. There was no other evidence whatsoever an assault ever happened. Despite so, I was wrongly arrested without being asked a single question regarding to the supposedly alleged crimes. Ironically enough, I ended up being the only one assaulted that night, by the police itself no less. I was kidnapped and held hostage in a dirty and cold cell for hours despite being innocent. Eventually, I was interviewed in the morning and let go by the police without ever having any charges filled against me. After this event, I developed some psychological problems which ended up affecting me much more as an individual with disabilities.
My troubled ex then started to abuse me more and more over time. Among other things, she often brought up the false arrest as a way to keep abusing me even more by threatening me to make further false calls to the police and have me falsely arrested again had I not played along. Eventually, we broke up and I simply tried my best to move on with my life. In order to do so I requested the police to get rid of the false arrest record from the UK police national computer. That's all I initially wanted and asked for. I have sent the request also attaching a signed letter from my ex stating the situation was all a misunderstanding since the beginning. UK Police took over a year to come back to me saying they wouldn't remove the false arrest from my police record, quoting the initial false accusations as the sole reason why. It was horrible beyond imagination. I felt like even though my ex was not there to physically abuse me anymore that she was still somehow abusing me through that false arrest record. I started to hate the British police for allowing the domestic abuse to not just happen but also worsen it through their actions, further adding to it themselves thanks to the ordeal I had went through with their false arrest and refusal to delete such record.
I started to lose my temper here and became offensive when communicating with the police out of frustration for the absolutely absurd situation I was put in. Eventually, I ended up sending further evidence against my ex just to have that record deleted once and for all. I was forced to show video evidence of being beaten up with a bottle by my ex. All of this just to "prove my innocence" and get rid of a false arrest record which should never even had happened to begin with, and after my ex already had signed a letter saying the crime I was accused of never occurred. This worked but I wasn't going to be okay with a simple record deletion anymore as at this point since my mental-wellbeing worsened once more as I literally had to relieve the abuse I was victim of and talk in details about it despite this was the very last thing I wanted to do as I just wanted to forget everything that had happened to me and move on with my life.
Hence, I also sent an official complaint requesting the police to formally apologize for what they had ultimately caused. Please note that at this point, in addition to everything else, I had also already attempted suicide on two occasions. The officer handling my complaint, despite being fully aware of the situation beginning to end, and even receiving the exact same video evidence, somehow decided to ignore everything I said of substance, excusing his colleagues behaviors while keeping an accusatory undertone against me. Best of all, he even went as far as to falsely accusing me of being arrested for committing an actual crime as if it had really happened.
I was fucking over it at this point. I am a domestic abuse survivor and victim of police abuse and yet no one was giving a shit about anything. I had already sent video evidence of real abuse just to prove my own innocence against false statements that never had any basis whatsoever. I was even barely alive by miracle at that point after attempting to take my life twice. Despite so, all he could do was accusing me once again of a crime that not only I had never committed but was the actual victim of; something which both my ex and the police too also used as an excuse to nonsensically ruin my life. I panicked and completely lost my mind as a result. I sent him an email inviting him to come over to my home country and accuse me of those fictional crimes straight to my face again so that I could take his life before my own. I had also proceeded to send another official communication wishing him, the police officers who previously falsely arrested and assaulted me and every other abuser in their organization to die from the worst type of cancer and burn in hell for eternity for all the pain and suffering they had caused to innocent people who are the only real victim of any crimes. I have absolutely no regrets for any of my words giving what they did to me. Those people were supposed to prevent crimes, saving me from domestic abuse, instead they only ever had caused it to become worse and, as if it wasn't enough already, even added do it with their own abuse without ever bothering to apologize for any wrongdoing whatsoever. And then they falsely accused me once again on top of it. Fuck them then.
Long story short, after this I sent a formal crime report against the officer for his malicious statements, something which was quickly brushed away with an half-backed apology from his supervisor. In the meantime, I also sent a further complain review to another organization which once again failed to address my full concerns for yet unknown reasons. Other things happened in the meantime, such as an investigation against me for malicious communications for what I had told the British police officers after receiving the malicious statements in the complaint outcome, as per above.
I am finally fed up enough with the whole situation at this point so I decided to make my full police abuse story public now. I am also currently preparing to take the police to court for a number of issues, first in the UK if possible, or alternatively through the European Court of Human Rights.
/End of Summary
Again, this is just a very brief and inaccurate summary of what had happened so I would strongly advise you to read my full story if interested.
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