was this girl interested in me to begin with?

czfreak · 2024-08-16T02:28:14+00:00

Never flirt over text if you have the chance to do it on person. It shows weakness. She may just have a man or she doesnt find you physically attractive. Impossible to know

DaygameCode · 2024-08-16T13:59:08+00:00

My success changed when i realised that every girl is either interested or potentially interested until you give her reasons to lose that initial interest they had at the beginning.

In this case, the trains you gave her to lose that interest were that rather than being direct in the beggining with your intentions. you decided to act friendly and withhold your intentions for weeks. So by the time you tried to make a move it was already too late.

It’s a commun mistake many guys make:

❌First they act as friends, and the girl agree to be friends (the romantic intentions have not been expressed), then they start to get to know each other as friends reinforcing the friendship, and then after a while the guy reveals to her his actual intentions for romance.

✅It should be letting your intentions known and then if she responds that she is open to the idea from the beggining, then getting to know each other as potential lovers, acting romantic and sexual from the very first dates, kissing web in the first dates and then eventually the girl will usually ask for the guy’s commitment. (So kissing/sex needs to happen first and the she ask you for the “boyfriend and girlfriend” labels)

Note that texting isn’t part of the equation here. You don’t get to know a girl as lovers from the comfort of your phone screen. You do it in person, face to face. 90% of everything you say to a woman needs to be said in person.

That means that if you are spending 6 days a week texting we and only one day per week talking in person, you are giving the woman reasons to see you only as a friend, and not as a lover.

GetNaughtee · 2024-08-16T02:23:28+00:00

It's difficult to say. She may have been interested initially, and for whatever reason, the interest faded. Or she may have had platonic intentions from the start.

If I exchange IG's with someone, I'll likely go through their posts. If I see something I don't like, I may lose interest. It's possible that happened, but the best course, if you really want an understanding, is to simply ask.

Title	was this girl interested in me to begin with?
Author	Bubbly-Potential-709
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Comments	7
Date	August 16, 2024 2:09 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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