Long story short. Girl I planned on marrying got pregnant by another guy. Said she was lonely and needed attention. Seemed like a universal BS excuse.

It's been almost 3 months since she told me she was pregnant. I feel better but how do I let her go? I hate her for doing this to me but I just can't stop thinking about her.

I'm only 21 and I realize that it's better that this happened now rather than in 5 years. I wasn't even looking when I stumbled onto her. It just happened and we clicked really well. Guess it wasn't enough.

Please help me swallow the pill and move on with my life. I still love her but I will NOT raise another man's kid.