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rurpe/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 09:02 PM
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rurpe/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 05:02 PM
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Seems like you are on the right path
/r/askMRP20/01/16 03:41 PM
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Learn to love yourself so you are not dependent on other people.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:59 PM
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He is young and broke. Olive Garden is a probably a real treat.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 04:30 PM
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She also says she doesn't like the vulgar sexts that I send her and she feels like she's just a piece of meat, she says she wants to be romanced. She says I'm trying to be macho and she doesn't like that. I know, watch what they do and not what they say. Have you ever been propositioned by an unattractive person? Did you like it? She wants the sexts, she just doesn't want the overtly sexual sexts from her unattractive husband. Try being a little more covert and flirty with the sexts. You want to…
/r/askMRP18/01/16 04:27 PM
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Focus on other areas of your life that you can change: Attitude, Physique, Style, Money, etc.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:58 PM
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It's a shit test. They want to know if you are alpha or not. You can use the techniques you learned reading the sidebar to bust all shit tests: Agree and Amplify: Only four times today Disagree and Amplify: I've never masturbated because touching myself is a sin
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:54 PM
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You joke but he is crying to the Internet while his woman is out enjoying unlimited soup, salad, and bread sticks.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 06:14 AM
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The guy is so broke he can't spend $12 at oilve garden. He needs one good job, not two shitty ones.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 02:39 AM
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You are not a breadwinner. You are living off of another man's child support. Fix this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 01:00 AM
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Acting like a "tough guy" is beta. Why are you trying to be tough with these lowlifes?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:08 AM
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Lack of empathy (be a psycho, women digs psychos) No one is saying this. Mentally unstable people are not attractive and will not make long term gains in life The cynical world-view (You are man, nobody cares about you except you so you better look our for #1 first !) Do nothing for a month and see how much your life improves. TRP advocates doing things that benefit you. It teaches you to act instead of waiting for someone else to fix your problems The discussion-climate when it comes to TRP bei…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:48 PM
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Please read this every day for a week. It explains what is happening and what you should be doing: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/askMRP15/01/16 03:38 PM
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"We both know who is the smartest one in the relationship" and then STFU. This works because she will alternate between thinking she is smarter and wondering if you are smarter. Good luck.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 03:35 PM
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lifting won't automatically make you a giant meathead. This a what happens when a gaunt man lifts: http://stronglifts.com/wp-content/uploads/brad-pitt-fight-club.jpg
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 03:29 PM
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We don't have any decent empirical methods to identify "loons".
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:40 PM
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Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt are 8s. You and your SO are 5s.
/r/askMRP13/01/16 04:13 AM
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Objectively, nothing Subjectively, the amount of time. I don't consider a one month relationship to be a "LTR" but some of the guys on here do. I think the LTR mindset can be toxic for young men who think they are "set" because a woman has stuck around for a few weeks\months.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:22 PM
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it is a demonstration of the war we are in with feminists and leftists No it isn't. It seems as though the mods and the media are choosing to protect the immigrants instead of the women.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:17 PM
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I know. OP seems to have read the book but forgot to pick up on these key points and I wanted him to try and think about what he is doing and why.
/r/askMRP12/01/16 04:11 PM
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Why did you want to stop having sex with your wife?
/r/askMRP12/01/16 04:05 PM
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A month long relationship is not an LTR. Tell her that you don't like texting, leave it at that, and keep doing what you are doing.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 05:55 AM
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Nope. You give yourself the mental limit and then walk if you can't get there. Think about buying a car. If you only want to spend 30k but the salesman won't go below 33k, you walk. Getting emotional or letting him convince you to spend the extra money is a loss for you and makes you a loser. The key is to set a realistic limit and to know the true value of things. Executing "the deal" is the easiest part.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:24 PM
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Know what you are willing to give and walk when it is time. Getting shamed by someone or emotional is weak.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 04:21 AM
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read the sidebar and learn how to A&A
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:33 PM
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this is bad. really bad. She is using powertalk and coming in with these terrible straighttalk lines is dumb.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:47 PM
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Agree and amplify to absurdity "Not really. All these chicks just want casual sex and I am saving myself for someone special"
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:45 PM
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That is not "agree and amplify". You did not agree or disagree. You did not amplify. And you missed the last part: it is called "agree and amplify to absurdity". You have to amplify to absurdity.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:45 PM
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How to get out of this misery? Focus on other successes in your life. If you "need" a woman to be happy, you will never be happy.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:40 PM
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I've been fully instituting STFU and not getting caught up in her outbursts or shit tests. I instituted a tad bit of dread by taking an appointment after work and not telling her about it, resulting in being late an hour or so. You are misinformed. MRP is not about being an uncommunicative asshole. You are going from 0-100 and it will backfire on you. You need to slow down and understand what is happening. read this comment everyday for a week until you get it: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedre…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 04:27 PM
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so they don't have to raise another man's child
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:53 PM
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Your mistress\girlfriend\wife will realize you are powerless and will use sex as a weapon to get what they want. You have to be willing to fap, abstain, whatever. If you keep removing avenues for satisfaction, you will have no choice but to supplicate to a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 10:43 PM
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The sidebar
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:34 PM
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She got bored and moved on. You should too.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:34 PM
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I got it. I think I would just fuck some other women instead. Your mistress would pounce on this weakness too. You have to fix yourself. Relying on other people for your "release" will be the death of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 10:16 PM
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I think you are confusing "financial independence" with "having a job and paying my own way through life".
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:52 PM
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Go fuck yourself, literally. Jerk off. Or don't But know that if you leave your sexual pleasure in the hands of your wife, she will always have the power and you will always be a sad little man who is afraid to piss off her majesty so that you may have a morsel of sex at her discretion.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 09:46 PM
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I'd start by taking responsibility for my own sexual pleasure. As soon as you give her the power over it, you lose, so take it back.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 09:23 PM
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I was sick of the power struggle and decided to give zero fucks about sex with her, thus removing the consequence and the weapon. Porn and fap were in play then. Post MRP, there is no porn or fap, so that isn't an option. You need to stop thinking with your dick for a few minutes. Have some fucking self control and maybe you will have some actual control over your outcomes.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 09:12 PM
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I don't care what the outcome is Then why are you asking random men on the internet for advice on achieving a desired outcome? I just want a satisfying "victory" to officially close the chapter on her You can do that right now by deleting this post and forgetting about her. You want revenge or victory because you are still hurt. Its time to move on.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:33 PM
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Using logic and reasoning. What could possibly go wrong....
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:17 PM
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You need to nuke this. her: "he asked me out to lunch" you: "go for it, we aren't really exclusive and I'm not the jealous type"
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:16 PM
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Remove the consequence and her weapon will be powerless
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 08:06 PM
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Is the answer to deny yourself guaranteed sex, because you want to go to the gym? Shouldn't you get both. Its not about denying sex. It is about taking the pussy off the pedestal so that it no longer controls your actions. Once she realizes that she cannot control you, the testing and whatnot will be dramatically reduced. Isn't guaranteed sex what we bargained for when we agreed not to fuck other women? How is that working out for you? This is the "fantasy" they sell you but we live in reality.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 08:03 PM
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"Hi"
/r/askTRP04/01/16 05:11 AM
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It's a shit test. She is using her "jokes" to see if you will buckle to her will or not. Continue as normal but know it could lead to a main event or mini main event if you don't supply some comfort/beta every now and then.
/r/askMRP02/01/16 04:36 PM
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The easiset way to internalize MRP is to remember that it controls ALL of your relationships past, present, and future. You can nuke your marriage but your next deal would likely have the same problems.
/r/askMRP02/01/16 04:26 PM
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There is a huge difference between doing shit that needs to be done and doing shit on someone else's list. You have to use your judgement to determine if this is essential to the mission. Doing dishes? Essential. Doing laundry? Essential. Painting the hallway because she doesn't like the color? Probably not essential.
/r/askMRP31/12/15 04:05 AM
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No. He stole a truck at the gas station. Read the article.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:22 PM
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dont be a one trick pony, use all the tools
/r/askMRP30/12/15 09:15 PM
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You are "walking away" a lot which can be seen as childish. You can't be an oak if you are not present. Try using some of the techniques you learned from reading WISNIFG instead of defaulting to "hide from the wife until it blows over".
/r/askMRP30/12/15 06:59 PM
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Intoxication manslaughter is a 2nd degree felony For adults. And Adult Minors. And minors tried as adults. Minors often receive lesser sentences. He also ran from the scene. And had priors. Couch also pleaded guilty and Miller was convicted by a jury. You need to look at all the facts of the cases. They were different because the circumstances of each were different.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 04:16 PM
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He stole a truck which is a felony and was tried as an adult. Big difference in the eyes of the law.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 02:19 PM
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You can't be close to things that dont exisit. There are no unicorns and if you put someone on a pedestal they will have no choice but to look down at you.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 06:17 AM
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Another thought: work on fixing your vanilla sex life. If she is excited she may be more willing to fuck you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 06:10 AM
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Your wife treats you like this because she knows you won't do anything about it. You need to stop making excuses and do something.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 06:00 AM
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No more fancy nights out? Divorce? You've tried talking, you've tried pouty, you need to ramp it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 05:53 AM
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Then you need a consequence and acting like a pouty child after she rejects you is not a consequence.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 05:49 AM
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Maybe. But lots of people have gotten nothing from their shitty behavior: http://www.dallasnews.com/news/community-news/dallas/headlines/20100814-Many-Dallas-County-drivers-found-to-2024.ece Texas seems pretty fucked up but googling "probation intoxication manslaughter" brings up lots of examples.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 04:32 AM
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http://www.star-telegram.com/opinion/editorials/article3840320.html Also http://www.dallasnews.com/news/community-news/dallas/headlines/20100814-Many-Dallas-County-drivers-found-to-2024.ece
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 03:20 AM
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He got the maximum sentence for his crime. He didn't get what you feel like he deserves. Big difference and it invalidates your entire premise. The law was dumb, not any of the other bullshit you posted.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 02:37 AM
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You are part of the problem which is why you are getting a lecture. The dude was convicted and given the maximum sentence. Trying to inject your feels and opinions on something that was done by the books to prove a point is fucking lame.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 02:22 AM
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It was intoxication manslaughter, not homicide. You need to learn the difference. MINORS convicted of INTOXICATION MANSLAUGHTER may not receive jail time according to Texas law. For other crimes, they MIGHT. They could be tried as an adult. You are using emotion and feelz to argue a legal case based on logic, reason, and codified laws. Just because he "plowed and killed" does not make it homicide. Eliminate your feelings and look at the facts of the case and you will see that he received the max…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 01:53 AM
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No because I don't associate with shitheads.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 01:30 AM
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You are an idiot. Risking your life doesn't make you a man or generate respect. If it did you wouldn't be here. My advice is to ditch these dysfunctional people and find a higher quality mates.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 01:01 AM
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You need higher quality friends.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 12:48 AM
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It wasn't homicide. And texas does not eliminate jail time for minors for crimes. The media got you emotional. Use facts to discuss the case: his lawyers tried a stupid defense and he received the maximum sentence.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 12:47 AM
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Apparently not. And your friend likely sat in jail because he couldn't post bail.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 12:23 AM
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He was prosecuted to fullest extent of the law. He was convicted. The sentencing was in line with similar cases of minors.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 12:08 AM
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A serial killer tried to blame Twinkies in the 70s. People try all kinds of stupid shit. No one bought it. It was not a valid defense and it did nothing for his case. It was a complete distortion of psychology and it didn't fool any professional.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 12:03 AM
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Covert contract? Yeah maybe There is no "maybe" about it. It is the very definition of a covert contract. Its the only reason you are posting: You are upset because you wanted to have sex after a night out. A woman wants to sleep with a man because she is attracted, not because she feels obligated after another shitty meal at Applebees.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 11:58 PM
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This is due to Texas laws. It was covered extensively when it first happened. The media is baiting you with lies and half truths.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:49 PM
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This was covered extensively by lots of people when it first happened: Texas laws are apparently really fucked up when dealing with minors and\or alcohol. If he was 17, he could have been classified as an "adult minor" with full punishment. This is legal bullshit and has nothing to do with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:44 PM
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There was no legal precedent set. Neither the judge nor the jury bought the "affluenza" defense. He was convicted. His punishment was well within the guidelines for other minors convicted of similar crimes in texas.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:39 PM
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He got away with it because he was a minor and Texas routinely gives out probation to minors who commit intoxication manslaughter.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:16 PM
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Probation for intoxication manslaugher for minors is common in Texas. Had he been an adult or in the process of committing another felony, he would be in jail
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:14 PM
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And guess what? The female judge agreed with the defense, and sentenced her him in the same manner that Judge Boyd would probably sentence her next door neighbor's daughter who happened to plow over and kill 4 people: 10 years supervised probation time, no prison time The media has fooled you and whipped you and others into a frenzy through half truths and misleading evidence. Probation is common and standard FOR MINORS convicted of intoxication manslaughter regardless of race\gender\etc in Texa…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:11 PM
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Some women will lay down and submit. My snowflake is instead seemingly a master at flipping the script out of the blue. You are giving her too much "power" when you talk like this. She acts like a lot of people act, she is not special.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:58 PM
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The last few times this has happened, I stay pretty OI but tell her that I enjoy having sex after a fun night out this is a covert contract. kill it. my mind for the evening and preempts me "you know I get tired late at night so I hope you don't have any plans" This is called "flirting" and you failed to flirt back. You had tons of options "We better do it now then" "I got a hotel room instead of hanging out the jones'" "They have wide stalls in the restaurant bathroom" "we are leaving an hour e…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:37 PM
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Women are naturally Machiavellian which is why STFU is a standard saying around here. She likely did this in response to some sophomoric active dread you tried to pull recently. You need to start working on passive dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 08:25 PM
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because if my wife is being shady and blatantly ditching me to go out drinking with someone she won't name than I do give a fuck You have a boundary but you do not have a real consequence. The way I think of it is my active dread appears as if I'm going out to pick up a chick and bang because fuck you. Active dread is really difficult to pull off. What she did was active dread, likely in response to your active dread. You want to research and cultivate "passive dread" Yeah my SMV is high but tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 08:23 PM
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Am I a pussy, is this normal because I'm the youngest Its both. They all remember you crying over stupid shit and acting like a child when you were a child. Ignore them and continue with your life.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:21 PM
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If she adds nothing to your life, it may be time to move on.
/r/askMRP28/12/15 02:33 PM
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He needs to start over on an alternative account.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 01:29 AM
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They needed the job and the slight change was shocking to them because they were not prepared.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 03:03 PM
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She is likely lashing out when you are gone because she is frustrated and emotional. Be the oak, weather the storm, etc. The next time she starts in in you, just tell her "I know this is difficult for you, I will be there on Wednesday". As long as she acts right when you are there you are likely doing it right. Pay attention to her actions.
/r/askMRP24/12/15 03:01 PM
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Reducing debt is key but you need to reduce with purpose. If you are reducing debt so you can buy more shit, you are doing it wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 05:01 AM
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10 years is impressive. You could literally spend the next 9 years doing nothing and you would still be ahead of most other people on the planet.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 04:56 AM
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A man who saves more than he spends can easily retire after being in the workforce for a decade. He may not be driving a bently or living in a mansion, but living from age 30 to 80+ without working seems pretty wealthy to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 04:52 AM
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It's a leadership failure if she thinks the FU money is "hers". I don't like your position because it is the default position for those that are not prepared. There are lots of people who continue living after losing their homes and assets. Having cash on hand gives you the ability to truly tell the world to fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 03:52 AM
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The reality is the only way to truly move forward and be in the ideal "fuck you"position is to start and run your own business. Not true. Lots of people are retiring in their thirties. You can achieve financial independence with a job, you just have to be ruthless with your spending and saving. Check out Mr Money Mustache for more info.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 03:12 AM
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People liquidate their assets all the time. Fuck you money is about having the cash in the bank to avoid that. Get 6 months of expenses in cash and see how it changes your attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 10:58 PM
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“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” -Ernest Hemingway
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 09:22 PM
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And I couldn't tell you if the shit I was dealing with just dissipated, or I noticed it less Debt and obligations are extremely toxic but we put up with them to have our stuff. It is a vicious circle. You may be a prime candidate for FIRE. Check out Mr Money Mustache.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 09:14 PM
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She cheated and spent all your money. Sounds like she is high maintenance and high drama, just like those other women. Maybe we should have term for it. I propose "awalt", lets see if it sticks.
/r/askMRP23/12/15 07:26 PM
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'too big to fail' you win today
/r/askMRP23/12/15 03:24 PM
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Your wife is doing this because you are afraid to enforce a consequence. If you do not act now, it will just happen again. Here is what I would do: Return all her xmas presents except for a small cheap one. You are thousands of dollars in debt and should not be spending more money on stupid shit. Return all you presents. You don't deserve any rewards for your behavior this year and you need to start leading. Purchase one more gift for her: 1 copy of "Dave Ramsey's total money makeover". Act now …
/r/askMRP23/12/15 02:58 PM
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Needless to say, she doesnt even know what a BJ is Your little princess knows about blowjobs. Please join the rest of us back on planet earth.
/r/askMRP22/12/15 07:32 PM
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Or she is trying to shame him into doing something she wants. Context matters and op never provided it.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 07:37 PM
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Unfuck your diet and go to the gym.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 08:43 PM
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Wear a condom. Use your own condoms, never hers. After you are done, flush all of it. Never be out of sight of your condom, before or after the act. After a few times, it will just become a mechanical process while you smile on the inside.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 08:39 PM
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/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP20/12/15 06:26 AM
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Start dating men instead of women
/r/askMRP20/12/15 06:22 AM
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Dread is more than just flirting, too. Don't become fixated on "my wife must see me flirting". Sometimes the best dread is just planting a seed and letting the other person cultivate it.
/r/askMRP20/12/15 04:31 AM
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Go read the book "when I say no i feel guilty". There are tools in there for handling the talks. light dread with telling her about the new attention from other women This is a really terrible form of overt dread. Dread needs to be subtle to be really effective. Don't be so desperate to brag to her.
/r/askMRP20/12/15 03:59 AM
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How are you doing on your MAP? Are you improving yourself?
/r/askMRP19/12/15 03:23 PM
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Is expecting decent treatment on any day, never mind one's birthday, a covert contract? Yes, it is a huge covert contract. Next year, make plans without her.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 03:19 PM
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Behind most media types is a Producer pulling the strings. The producer doesn't get paid unless people are watchinglistening and this incentives them to deceive, fabricate, twist, and exaggerate for ratings. Most mass media is crap and is not worth your time. Especially top 40's bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 08:15 PM
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your frame is leaking, bro
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:08 PM
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They are projecting. Carry on.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:31 PM
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Trust your gut next time, dumbass
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:25 PM
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The real feedback that you failed to pickup was this: A women who needs to ask her boyfriend before she hangs out with you is not interested.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:19 PM
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What IF YOU HAD OTHER WOMEN TO TALK TO YOU WOULD NOT BE WORRIED ABOUT THIS ONE. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU OR SHE WOULD BE AT YOUR HOUSE. FIND SOME OTHER WOMEN AND LET THIS ONE WASTE SOMEONE ELSE'S TIME.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:13 PM
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This is not a gossip magazine and we are not here to talk about D list celebrities. Take this bullshit elsewhere.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:06 PM
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You should be talking to one of your other plates. But you don't have any other plates so you are wasting your time and putting yourself into orbit. Good job, champ.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:04 PM
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She is chasing him around the house explaining her denial. If he can't leave a room without appearing butthurt, leaving the house won't do shit. He is changing the rules too fast and needs to slow down.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 03:56 PM
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The reason she is apologizing so much is because you are taking your attention from 100 to 0. You need to read this comment 10 times to understand what is going on. Notice how her "lets cuddle and watch tv" is nearly identical to example given: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 03:50 PM
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You really need to get out of the house if you get a hard no Negative. Going from 100 to 0 is going to seem butthurt and cause some bullshit. You need to slow down and read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 03:44 PM
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If buying a house or providing for someone else generated passionate sex, this sub wouldn't exist. She is bored because you are boring her with all of this "in the future" talk. You need to have an immediate mission in life. Not "when my business takes off in a few years" or "once i finish paying off our debt". Do something.
/r/askMRP17/12/15 08:54 PM
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Customize the words to match your frame and personality but keep the general message. "This basement is out of control. We are cleaning it up this weekend"
/r/askMRP17/12/15 08:48 PM
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A man with no frame doesn't have the frame to hold frame
/r/askMRP17/12/15 08:45 PM
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Step 3 is so common sense, I'm a bit embarrassed not to have done it yet. Acta non verba
/r/askMRP17/12/15 08:37 PM
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You need to focus on acting instead of trying to inspire or lead using words. Step 1: Declutter your spaces first: Your desk, your dresser, your closet, etc. Step 2. Slowly, slowly establish clutter-free spaces in your shared spaces. Start small, a single kitchen counter, a single corner, etc: Kitchen counters, etc. If the clutter appears, identify the owner. If it is your clutter, handle it. If it is her clutter, start piling it into her space. Step 3: Set aside time to declutter big areas like…
/r/askMRP17/12/15 07:11 PM
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Read the fucking article
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:16 PM
1

Frame isn't power: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/askTRP17/12/15 02:25 PM
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I refused to evenly split the appetizer I got with her, telling her life's not fair whIle I laughed and ate more than she did I'm 50/50 on this one. Just seems like he was being petty out of spite or to prove a point I told her our waitress was hot This was incredible weak. There are hot people everywhere. Had he had any game\class\status, the waitress would have shown interest in him and generated a ton of passive dread. teased her about all kinds of things Teasing and playful if fine. who know…
/r/askMRP16/12/15 10:50 PM
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"72"
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:37 PM
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Naivety is only so much of an excuse for so long You have "unplugged" recently, no? It would seem a bit foolish to expect the entire world to change because you have made some personal improvements recently.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 10:17 PM
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I just didn't understand your point about having a "history". This is not hard concept to understand: Most women will not throw away a ten year relationship because you acted like a jackass for a night. Try it for 6 months and see what happens While not every asshole move is alpha, plenty of them are The goal is to be a better man, not to act like an asshole. You can still get what you want out of life without pigging out on appetizers like a fucking twat.
/r/askMRP16/12/15 10:15 PM
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You seem to think that people are either Alpha or Beta. There is a wide range. Operating on one end for few hours isn't likely to significantly affect your overall history with a girl. This is why Betas come here and fail hard after trying to alpha up for a few weeks and why Alpha men can show some beta and still maintain frame.
/r/askMRP16/12/15 09:39 PM
1

This giant wall of text is difficult to read. Format it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:22 PM
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The point of this post was to highlight how girls react to supposed "asshole" behaviors when with an alpha as opposed to a beta. If I had been a beta in her eyes she wouldn't have felt so nice around me. She didn't treat you like a beta loser because you have a history. Frame is fluid and will likely move in between the two extremes (beta and alpha). Simply existing on one extreme for a very short time is unlikely to have any real consequence on your relationship. http://therationalmale.com/2011…
/r/askMRP16/12/15 09:19 PM
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When your are having sex, whisper "squeeze" into her ear
/r/askMRP16/12/15 09:06 PM
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Except you've already seen the hurricane destroy other people who didn't get out of dodge and figured it will never happen to you? We see what happens to others but fail to apply it to our own lives: Humans are terrible at introspection when it affects them: His wife cheated, but mine wont He lost his job, but I wont lose mine He didn't have savings and lost everything, but that won't happen to me He got cancer from smoking, but I will not etc. This is amplified when society pushes the Disney vi…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 08:56 PM
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I'm not seeing the actions of a high value man in this post. You seem to think that being an asshole makes you an alpha. It just makes you an asshole.
/r/askMRP16/12/15 08:38 PM
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You are spending a lot of time worrying about what other people think of you. You need to learn how to give less fucks.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:39 PM
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It depends on your personality and the situation. The default should probably be "fun and joking" so that you are perceived as a fun guy and not some super serious blow hard.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:36 PM
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Memorizing lines, comebacks, and wagers will only take you so far. Part of having "game" is learning the wit and quickness needed to execute these on the fly. So why don't you take this opportunity to tell us some witty wagers so that you are prepared the next time this situation is sprung on you?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:33 PM
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This was difficult to read and had a lot of extraneous details. No one cares about your living room.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:16 PM
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EDIT THANKS GUYS - RIGHT ON COMMENTS. She texts me "are you mad about the deer?" I go "yeah I am fuming, it's hunting season so they're going down." Then 1 min later: "of course not babe, glad your dad stepped in". She goes "good. Thank god." I go "looking forward to seeing what undies you have on tonight" , she responds right away with description ... Thanks again brothers! ;-) So, you tried to please your wife by trying to "keep up with the Jones'" and then she blew out the budget and you seem…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 10:54 PM
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You desperately need this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3vagle/is_your_wife_addicted_to_the_scroll/
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 10:44 PM
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Yes, but remember that receiving other "love languages" from the opposite sex has many effects on your partner. Her internal dialog might be "wow, she gave my husband cookies, I wonder if he likes them better than my cookies, I haven't made cookies in a while, what if he is bored with me, .......".
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:35 PM
4

You are giving the outside world too much influence over your household when you participate in the "lets see who spent the most money" game on facebook.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:24 PM
1

Fuck the book. We are not here to change your wife or give her book suggestions. Change yourself and all the people in your life will respond.
/r/askMRP15/12/15 04:05 PM
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Go have an emotional affair and then tell your wife about it. Remind her that there was no physical intimacy and see how she reacts.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 03:49 PM
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You need to focus on having boundaries and enforcing them. come up with a plan and act on it. Here is an example: "I will not let another human being tell me how to wield eating utensils. I am a man and am capable of feeding myself" Then when she says something, a simple "I am capable of feeding myself. If you do not like what you see, there is the door". And then you point to the door and continue eating. If she maintains or wants to start a fight "I do no want to fight about knives and forks, …
/r/askTRP14/12/15 11:36 PM
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This is sick behavior from both of you. You need to get out.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 09:41 PM
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no utensils, bare hands from now on.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 09:41 PM
1

So you are still spending $500-$700 for a phone but are making payments at $30 a month?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 08:32 PM
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Only one she would object to me getting from the neighbor was physical touch If this were true, dread would not be possible. Have a lady friend write you a thank you note or bring you some baked goods and see how unaffected she is.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 08:25 PM
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but obviously there has to be a better way right? Yes, take responsibility instead of blaming others. You are mad at him but should be mad at yourself for letting another person have so much control over your life.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:19 PM
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She wants me to put them both down after I use the knife, then pick up the fork with my dominant hand, then put the fork down, and repeat. I get told this at least once very meal. Flip the genders on this story, change some minor details, and post it to another site. They will tell you that you are in an abusive relationship.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:09 PM
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Ex 1. It is your job to lead, so you lead to a better outcome. They get a few minutes to vent and then we move on to another subject. IF they persist, you go to the gym. Ex 2. Agree and Amplify Ex 3. Divorce\soft next Ex 4. Agree and Amplify
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:03 PM
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Just imagine what she can brag to her friends about, and buy that Trying to impress the Jones' is for suckers
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:56 PM
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what sounds like no grounding in established theory in psychology I'd view it in the same vein as MBTI and other popular personality tests. People like it because it seems "relatable" and "accurate". Has the book enhanced your life in any way? Seems to be pretty fluffy and filled with religious stuff which does not apply to my marriage. I skipped it. You could save yourself the trouble of reading it by digesting this post ( http://marriedmansexlife.com/2011/06/the-five-beta-love-languages/). Kno…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:53 PM
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There is a book called "The 5 love languages" which seems to be pretty common in relationship therapy circles. Knowing your wife's "love language" will help you pick out gifts that are the most effective for her. If she cares more about "word's of affirmation" your "quality time" gift of shows or spas will be "nice" but not "great".
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 03:39 PM
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She doesn't like you, she likes your money
/r/askTRP13/12/15 01:22 AM
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I don't need another Daddy to take care of me...I need a partner who will roll up his sleeves...or are you going to put on a newspaper hat and play pirate captain? She wants a leader not a boss. Here is the difference: http://i.imgur.com/VAqJVbU.jpg What is you mission? What are you doing to lead?
/r/askMRP11/12/15 08:58 PM
0

Why does it matter how many guys she is seeing?
/r/askTRP11/12/15 08:30 PM
1

I was blackout drunk ... I know, I should’ve had a lock on it! Getting black out drunk leads into a lot of different problems you are not prepared to handle
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:18 PM
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The courts only care about establishing paternity. They don't give a fuck how it happened and sometimes they do it without any data or evidence and even if evidence disproves paternity: http://fox2now.com/2015/02/18/judge-orders-man-to-pay-30k-in-child-support-for-kid-who-is-not-his/
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 03:55 PM
1

It is possible in both scenarios
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 03:46 PM
1

Whats up with the whole vasagel stuff. I need to google this now, hearing it too often here. Its male birth control. You will still need condoms to prevent STDs.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 03:42 PM
4

Trumps dad was a real estate tycoon and he inherited millions of dollars from him. You would have to be a very special type of stupid to fuck that up.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:23 PM
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Actions not words
/r/askMRP10/12/15 06:13 AM
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She made the effort while they were dating and then shut them off. I don't think this is an hard or soft line.
/r/askMRP10/12/15 05:58 AM
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You start at 1 and then work your way up slowly. And you are misinterpreting "withdrawal attention" it doesn't have to happen right after denial and it doesn't need to be from 100% affection to 0%. That's too fucking much for a man with a weak frame. You need to read this comment everyday for a week:https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/askMRP10/12/15 05:50 AM
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10 weeks may be a bit much. I think most people overestimate progress and will naturally cut that down to 4 or 5 as they grow impatient and want results. I also think most guys will see dramatic results at around 4 or 5 and taking a while to get there doesn't sound like it would be too detrimental. That type of breakdown is becoming my default template for life. Negotiate raise at work: you will get it, or you won't, or you won't and you will do something It has really helped me isolate the sign…
/r/askMRP10/12/15 05:39 AM
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Am I justified if I try to get them outside my marriage if she doesn't start giving them? This is question for yourself, not strangers on the internet As for the other stuff, you should start reading the sidebar and start slowly implementing the 12 levels of dread. Spend 10 weeks at each level. There are 3 possible outcomes: She does She does not She does not and you do something about it
/r/askMRP09/12/15 11:19 PM
2

I never said it was a good imitation
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 06:22 PM
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I didn't say it was a good imitation
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:46 PM
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He is imitating GLO and others who do similar things
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:12 PM
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He is imitating GLO and others who do similar things https://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3u81hz/gaylubeoils_guide_to_fixing_the_jersey_shore_body/
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:09 PM
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Anything you give her "outside of court" is considered a gift. it doesn't matter what type of verbal or written agreement you have. This means that you could pay her for 5 years, and she could take you the court and you will have to repay for all those 5 years again including penalties and interest. This is literally a ticking financial bomb. It is in your best interest to get on the system now so that you can make your payments legally and establish your rights as a father. Your state has a for…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:20 PM
1

I'm sorry I hurt your feelz
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:11 PM
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/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:46 PM
2

There is no secret. Just go to the gym. Even if you just do some push-ups and some cardio and leave, you will be creating new habits and these new habits will become part of your life.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:45 PM
1

Only one of us thinks you are smart for doing nothing and expecting the results you want.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:43 PM
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You are getting mad and things you cannot control. If someone cuts you off, your reaction is your choice. Once you realize that YOU are in control of you reactions, you can start to choose. The next time someone cuts you off, ask yourself "Am I letter others control me or am I controlling my emotions?"
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:42 PM
1

Yes, I made a post asking how I can do nothing to change the outcome of something. You can't possibly make that make sense. Anyway yeah glad you're done though. If you attended college, demand a refund.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:37 PM
1

I see your point but I'm curious as to how you think I'm asking advice on how to do nothing. Based on what you wrote when you said Surely you can be a strong / silent type and still avoid this question bullshit. Which, to me, sounds like you are not too interested in doing much to get the results that you want. Anyhoo, I'm done, good luck!
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:44 PM
1

Dude. Look at your posts. can I do nothing and be the silent type? To which many responses are telling to to be a leader. Not the type of leader who addresses his troops before battle or a wedding planner who bosses people around (a VERY odd example considering the context). The point is to lead them to the conversation you want. That is displaying leadership, even if you don't understand why.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:26 PM
1

It may be more passive than direct game but the very act of gaming the conversation to lead to a result that you want is leadership.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:08 PM
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I think the suggestion someone gave in another comment makes sense: answer a couple of questions that make sense, make them guess on some (as stated above) but after a reasonable amount of questions, joke that it's an interview, or pressure flip the fuck out of them someway, which I think is much, MUCH superior This is hilarious. You ask a question about controlling a conversation without being a leader and then latch onto answer that is basically telling you to lead.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:38 PM
1

With an "Advisor" type Machiavellian I wouldn't have that problem, but I haven't met one in person. This is an interesting topic. I think by their nature, the Adviser types are more elusive. I could see a lot of situations where someone could be an Adviser in some areas of their lives but not in others.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:13 PM
2

Slow down, and practice.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:53 PM
1

Abundance mentality. As soon as you realize that there are an abundance of things, you will become less jealous of the things other people are temporarily holding.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:52 PM
1

Agree and Amplify "Where do you work?" "Taco Bell, I just got promoted to 'lettuce chopper' last week" All of this shit is in the sidebar. Why are not reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:50 PM
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If you do not want to lead then you have made the choice to follow. If you don't want to play the interview game, agree and amplify to absurdity. "Where do you work" "Taco Bell, I just got promoted to 'lettuce chopper' last week" All of this shit is in the sidebar. Why are not reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:49 PM
1

If you are internalizing your anger and coming up with plans to make changes in your life, you will be perceived as strong and unflappable. You will be the oak who gets mad and does something rational about. If you are using anger as an excuse to yell or pitch a fit like a two year old, you will be seen as a two year old
/r/askMRP08/12/15 03:36 PM
2

Why would you cut corners on something so basic? It makes you seem really stupid and lazy.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:23 PM
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obviously a large long term payoff for you how do you deal with the boredom and time investment You answered your own question. Not everything you do in life is going to be fun and exciting so you always take the long view.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 09:05 PM
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Keep in business at first, progress reports, asking for advice, etc. Then look at what he has in his office. Model trains? Maybe he loves trains. Picture of a golf course? Etc. Ask about these things and then try and learn a little. The best advice is that people want to work with people they like and usually people they like have similar interests.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:59 PM
3

You have not experienced even a quarter of what life has to offer. You have not had kids, travelled the world, bought a house, run your own business or whatever. Sure, not everyone wants to or is going to do all these things, but to deny they are life changing milestones would be foolish. You possess a childish outlook on life where women and partying are the focal point. Unable to see beyond that, you see what comes after that as being inferior. You don’t want the party to end, because you live…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:10 PM
3

Using logic and reasoning to destroy a shit test, what could possibly go wrong?
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:07 PM
3

It was beautiful
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:04 PM
1

Every once in a while, practice empathy
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:04 PM
5

Create a money making project for yourself that ties into your PhD. Then pitch it to the CEO. If your project is specific, you may remove yourself from middle management's control and then will be in a position to directly report to the CEO where your can start working on a "social" and "business" relationship. The ideal project should have real potential and\or the potential to "fail upward" Consider Ryan with his social media thing at Dunder Mifflin. It was an obviously stupid idea to anyone w…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 07:55 PM
1

It would be the state, not susie, requesting your info.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:09 PM
1

Your military records: How many men with your exact name, approximate age, served on your base near the time of conception? Your phone number. Your provider keeps extensive records and has your SSN. Subpoenas on records of your calls and texts are common in all areas of law. Your email address: You gave a lot of information when you signed up. Email providers can be compelled to release this info on you. etc There are also non-government businesses setup to find people. It is called "skiptracing…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:07 PM
2

You are lucky, not smart. You are not paying child support because she has not filed and has not applied for welfare. If any of these change, you will be compelled to take a DNA test because a refusal will automatically result in a judgement against you. The state doesn't automatically go after you but once you are in the system, they are relentless because they get paid each time they collect.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:18 PM
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Me being several states away made sure that would never happen. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uniform_Interstate_Family_Support_Act This is not true. You are on the hook no matter where you go. In fact, there is NO statue of limitations on back child support. Your child could be 40 years old and she could still file against you for the first 18 years (plus penalties and interest). Also note that if she applies for ANY state assistance, the state will demand a "fathers name" and they will go afte…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:08 PM
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I got a raise a couple months back. He's also "considering" me for a higher position next year. And I've changed nothing about my work routine. I know the truth though. He wants to keep me close. To keep his loyal friend and trusted adviser nearby. This has nothing to do with the company or merit or the sweat from one's brow. He has selfishly pulled strings so his "best friend" is more available and I've simply benefited as a result. People say "Work smarter, not harder". This is powertalk. The …
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:34 PM
2

Depends on the job. If you are a low payed, low skilled worker, you just quit without saying much at all. Just say "My last day will be x". If you are highly paid, highly skilled worked, it is common courtesy to give advanced notice with some like this "I really enjoyed my time here but will be leaving the company in 2-3 weeks."
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:16 PM
1

Ive sent out 15 messages Your perspective on rejection is completely fucked. 15 is nothing. Do you really think you are entitled to anything after 15 lame attempts? Some guys get rejected 15 times in one day. Come back after you have sent 1,500 or 15,000. Start approaching in the daytime.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:10 PM
19

This grammar, formatting, and flow of this post is a mess. I seriously doubt you have what it takes to be in the 1%.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:06 PM
1

Keep aa daily log of your weight and do a 7 day average. It will reveal the detection of your weight loss/gain.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 06:32 PM
1

If there was an easy trick, everyone would do it
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 12:28 AM
2

It's called "intentional under employment" and judges will throw the book at you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 11:09 PM
3

Being an asshole doesn't make you alpha, it just makes you an asshole.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:52 PM
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You have not experienced even a quarter of what life has to offer. You have not had kids, travelled the world, bought a house, run your own business or whatever. Sure, not everyone wants to or is going to do all these things, but to deny they are life changing milestones would be foolish. You possess a childish outlook on life where women and partying are the focal point. Unable to see beyond that, you see what comes after that as being inferior. You don’t want the party to end, because you live…
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:47 PM
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"I'm going to watch netflix and chill"
/r/askTRP02/12/15 09:35 PM
1

Apparently I flagged myself as "nice guy" by being helpful to them That is not how it works. There is a huge difference between doing things for others and being a doormat. A minor event like helping old people move heavy shit is not likely to put you into doormat territory.
/r/askMRP01/12/15 11:01 PM
2

Let's say you want to send $100 to Save The Whales because you like whales, or rescue puppy dogs or something. Can you do that without harming your alpha cred? Yes, but only if you did those things because you wanted to do them. If you do them to see approval from others, those thoughts will poison your actions. Doing nice things doesn't automatically make you beta just like being an asshole doesn't automatically make you an alpha.
/r/askMRP01/12/15 10:57 PM
1

because they will use your current salary against you as bargaining point and you want to avoid giving them this point.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 10:37 PM
1

next time you have an important event in your life, try googling to see if you can get some advice. There are MILLIONS of articles on this subject that all basically say the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 10:20 PM
1

The hiring manager's job is to hire the best people for the least amount of money possible. He doesn't give a fuck about your bills or cost of living. And honestly all of this explaining and justification just makes you look weak. If you want 130k, ask for 130k and then walk if they balk.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 10:14 PM
2

Salary is a very tricky verification companies can and will ask for past w2 forms
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 10:10 PM
2

My boss was capped at how much she could give me and it was tied to my previous salary. There was never a cap. A cap is "no more than $75,000" not "a little bit more than he made at his last job". Tying future salary to past salary is a negotiation tactic and a huge cost saver for companies.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 10:04 PM
1

Looks like there are two copies. If you google "12 levels of dread" the first link goes to the post in TRP and the second goes to MRP. I may have been looking at the TRP one? Thanks for making the changes, hopefully it will help.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 09:49 PM
1

You say this "Give the first 7 steps about 1 month for every year ...." but it is buried in step 9. Something as simple as "Do this for x months" at the beginning or end of each step may be helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 07:03 PM
1

My attorney kept assuring me that this was false and not how it works, even with the web page directly from the state of Missouri website This is the best part of this post. It is in your best interest to get deeply involved in matters that concern you and your business because even expensive professionals make mistakes and say ignorant things.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 06:38 PM
1

tell him "drinking again?" and then take your girl to your room.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:13 AM
2

If you are choosing a job based on women, you are doing it wrong. If you want higher quality women, go after them.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:11 AM
2

use protection and try not to fuck trashy chicks
/r/askTRP30/11/15 11:57 PM
1

If you consider them in a modern setting lots of classics are pretty trashy. I guess you have to wear a suit and pearls to experience them but at the end of the day, you are still being entertained from a story about cheating, lies, murder, suicide, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 11:15 PM
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The key is in the "build up". If you set overt expectations for sex she is likely to see it as a chore or another thing that needs to be done before she can go to bed. Good build up: Come home after work and give a long kiss and an ass grab. Continue with touches, etc until bedtime. Bad build up: Come home after work and tell her you can't wait to have sex tonight. Do your hobbies etc and then escalate at bedtime.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 10:59 PM
1

I went too hard when I started too, expecting those around me to instantly adapt. Once you slow down, you can really internalize the levels of dread and gives you lots of time to make mistakes and learn from them while setting up your new frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 10:44 PM
2

She is constantly asking about the "new you" because you have been a chump for the last 5 years and then tried to change the whole dynamic after 6 weeks. You did more reading than the average person but failed to take your time and fix yourself before expecting others to respect the new you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 10:40 PM
3

Ignore but be mindful of how you ignore her. MRP is not about becoming the Ice King to defeat the Ice Queen. If you go home and refuse to speak to her or are short and cold, you will seem butthurt. Change will come but you can expect to undo years of fuckery after reading a few books and implementing for a few weeks. This is a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 10:32 PM
3

There are too many beginners who skip to step 4 after reading a few posts and then wonder why no one is respecting the new alpha. I think the 12 levels should include specific time frames, eg "Stay on this step for 4 weeks"
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 10:16 PM
11

She is Irish and has a temper Nice hamster you got there. Try this instead "She is Irish and has a temper". Your wife has a temper because she has a temper. She has a temper with you because you are a low value man in her eyes. Read this comment 100 times: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 09:00 PM
5

“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” ― Ernest Hemingway
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 06:14 PM
1

It may be time to retire this account
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 05:26 PM
1

There is a difference between flirting and making demands. Flirting: long kiss Demand: you are going to blow me Flirting: pinch on the ass Demand: we are doing anal tonight Note that demands from a high value man can be seen as flirting too. You just have to know where you stand with your woman.
/r/askMRP30/11/15 05:25 PM
2

Trp isn't about being a stone cold asshole. You could give a girl your jacket and then bring her into you. Bam. Instant escalation.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:22 AM
2

Do not talk directly about sex when you are not engaged in sexual activity. It kills desire and sets expextations which then become more chores for your wife. Wait until she is worked up and then tell her what you want. As for the other stuff, you need to realize that energy level does not equal alpha. Just because you have less energy doesn't mean you can't maintain frame.
/r/askMRP29/11/15 08:44 PM
1

Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/15 06:29 PM
1

No. Have some self respect.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:26 PM
1

No, he is telling you to focus on the things you can control.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:26 PM
1

Turn off the TV and read a book
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:20 PM
1

I DO see obvious feminine shaming language that pervades your posting history Please share with the rest of the class so others can learn from my obvious feminine shaming language
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/15 05:09 PM
2

You may step off the field but others will still be playing the game around you.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 03:51 PM
1

Don't mind him, he can't take criticism unless you have a pip next to your name.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:04 AM
1

You are a phony and will continue to call out your bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:02 AM
2

LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:00 AM
2

Avoid tying on joints (elbows, ankles, knees)
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:43 PM
23

If you ever manage to have sex with a woman, it could be you!
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:41 PM
8

He hasn't learned to use commas and you have not learned anything from your English classes. "Faking the funk" is a "figure of speech" If you are faking the funk, boys, they'll know it or Bros, if you are faking the funk, they'll know it
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:40 PM
1

Women do have a lot more power now, no doubt. TRP and MRP tends to idolize the 50s but the reality is a lot more bleak.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 09:26 PM
1

Housemaker may not have been happy but didnt have as many options to leave Living with an unhappy woman doesn't sound very appealing and does not make miss those "good ol days". will take the house, car, kids, life savings if you fuck up once. That and abusing the legal/justice/educational systems to suppress men The financial hits do suck
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 09:08 PM
1

and yet, here you are
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 08:56 PM
2

If it was 60 years ago Rose colored glasses. Times have certainly changed but if you think that marriage was pure and honorable in the 1950s I have some bad news for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 08:52 PM
1

Am I foolish for believing that I can enter a marriage that will be like marriage was hundreds of years ago when women respected their husbands? You are foolish to believe that marriage begets respect. Be a respectable man and people will respect you, marriage or not. And don't fool yourself into thinking "old tyme marriage" was a joyous institution. O curse of marriage, That we can call these delicate creatures ours And not their appetites! Shakespeare 1603 AD
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 08:49 PM
1

There are tons of people on here trying to give constructive criticism or hold his hand. I'm taking a different route. In this case, neither seems to be effective as the bullshit keeps coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 08:27 PM
1

Yeah, and he said some terrible things about my mom
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 08:12 PM
-1

You forgot to add the part about going to starbucks and having a revelation based on a positive transaction with an employee who is paid to be nice to you and all of the sex and awesomeness that followed. F-
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 07:57 PM
1

it just seemed like a really obvious a&a after what happened earlier
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 09:23 PM
7

Wife goes to start in on me about forgetting another water bottle. You missed a huge A&A here: "You are right. Something seriously needs to be done about these water bottle situations. This is the second time today I have seen someone freak out about a water bottle"
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 09:07 PM
2

Passive - Aggressive? You bet! That's not passive aggression, lol
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 07:31 PM
1

/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:37 PM
1

he ran it into a wall. this is user error, not a defect
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:36 PM
2

you ran your toy into a wall. this is not the sellers fault. take some responsibility for your actions
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:35 PM
4

If he does not have significant connections (daddy owns a business, old world money, etc) he will likely struggle to land a high paying job with a political science degree.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:02 PM
2

you can read the sidebar for free, dont waste your money.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 10:07 PM
1

Don't be so literal. Walking into a room as fit, well dressed man with good posture would easily satisfy 34 and 36
/r/askTRP17/11/15 05:32 PM
1

Just read up and practice, it will become second nature.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:30 AM
2

Good. The goal is not winning or being mean, it is just deflecting stupid bullshit with stupid bullshit
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:14 AM
1

Both were terrible. You need a lot of reading and practice. Try again. But Agree and Amplify this time.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:05 AM
3

The goal is not to "get even" or "put them in their place". Those are asshole moves. You want to be fun and interesting. Pop quiz: a woman you just met asks you "are you gay?" What is your reply?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:55 AM
2

No, the point is to destroy the shit test. You don't necessarily need to poke fun or neg them. You are communicating that the shit they say is not getting to you and you have no need to attack back because you have better things to do.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:44 AM
3

soft next and find a new woman who wants to be around you
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:49 PM
2

No. What part of "grab me a burger over there too" is absurd? In fact, you probably should have said, "Awesome. See if you can locate some ribeyes, I'm famished. Medium Rare." That is an absurd request because not many people bring ribeyes to a tailgate. If you were at a event or party where steak was a possibility, you could have said "Awesome. See if you can locate some hotdogs, I'm famished. Extra yellow mustard."
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:47 PM
3

I cut her a check for 10k and she had a huge smile. I would have cut her a check for 1 dollar
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 11:37 PM
2

Its "Agree and Amplify To Absurdity". It has to be absurd to make it effective. You are essentially telling her: I heard that absurd thing you just said is here is an equally absurd thing. read, read, read and then practice.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:30 PM
2

go ask your dentist
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:19 PM
2

Teasing is difficult because it can make you seem butthurt. You need to "Agree and Amplify". Plenty of information here if you search for it. "Awesome. See if you can locate some steaks, I'm famished. Medium Rare."
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:14 PM
1

Downtime is fine but trying to drum up dread with low value hobbies may not be the best strategy.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 07:35 AM
0

Think about it this way: going to bar to watch mma, going somewhere to do mma. Both get you out of the house but one is a lot more interesting. You need to read this comment:https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/askMRP16/11/15 07:33 AM
-3

Watching sports is the same as playing video games: They are both extremely low value activities. You basically sat on your ass shoved booze and cheeseburgers into your mouth. Doesn't sound very attractive, does it?
/r/askMRP16/11/15 04:16 AM
1

You spend a lot of time at Starbucks
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 03:26 AM
0

No
/r/askTRP15/11/15 12:16 AM
3

ask myself "did you really have a bad day or are you just being a whiny bitch"
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:57 PM
23

I stopped after "Knawlidge". You should be banned for 1 month
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:43 PM
12

had provided a few bottles of homemade wine. It was strong stuff Nice hamster. Don't blame the wine, it was probably normal strength and you bought into the "homebrew=powerful" hype while drinking twice the usual amount. Stong wine is bum wine like Night Train and Wild Irish Rose. Learn to stop drinking when you get too drunk. It lets the moron out of the cage.
/r/askMRP13/11/15 06:34 PM
1

"I have this under control" If she does it again, pull over and tell her to get out of the car.
/r/askMRP11/11/15 05:44 PM
2

you want me to tell you what would make you happy?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 10:43 PM
1

First of all, I never claimed he was beta or feminine. If OP wants to cum in mouths or on faces, he needs to start acting like someone who wants to do that and the first step is to create a boundary and then enforce it.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:39 PM
6

she explicitly told him that she would be controlling it after she had done it for months. She has every right to do this and he has every right to find it unacceptable.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:29 PM
2

you are going to need more than a backbone. this isnt about "laying down the law", you need to start on the 12 levels of dread and work your way through them slowly.
/r/askMRP10/11/15 10:13 PM
1

stating an expectation .... time saver.... sounds like you are trying to "negotiate desire". You can search here and abroad to see how well "expectations" are followed from men in your situation. You need to really need to read this 10 times: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/askMRP10/11/15 10:10 PM
3

go do something else or go to bed. Once she realizes she cannot control you via your dick, her attitude will improve.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:34 PM
1

exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 06:33 PM
2

Leaving was a bad idea. You went from 100 to 0 instead of doing it gradually to let her adjust to the new reality. You need to read this comment 10 times: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb
/r/askMRP10/11/15 03:59 PM
-2

You may still be projecting anger in interactions with your wife and people may be noticing. Try adding some humor, amused mastery to your interactions, especially around others. her (at a busy party): will you get me a drink you (with a laugh and smile): no
/r/askMRP10/11/15 03:40 PM
2

even though you are not married, you may find /r/marriedredpill useful
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:27 PM
9

This is a giant shit test. The next time she tells you where to come, say "No thanks" and leave.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:25 PM
1

my snarky comments do contribute. I'm QC, not production. Lots of people delete or edit their bullshit once I get involved.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 03:22 PM
1

he probably shouldn't have deleted his comments so others could learn from his masterful execution.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 03:19 PM
2

I think you may be taking "monk mode" too literally. You don't need to become a full on Buddhist or complete specific classes. The purpose of monk mode is to remove women from your life so you can find purpose in your own life without them. Then you add them back in and keep them in your frame. Stoicism may be a better fit for red pillers than meditation.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:57 PM
3

you can't control her. if she wants to poison your kids against you, she will. best plan is to STFU and only talk about logistics. Also, not sure if fucking a new chick will negatively affect the outcome of your divorce. Your lawyer will know and you should ask them.
/r/askMRP09/11/15 10:47 PM
-5

wat
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:25 PM
3

Beware that one of the mods on TRP admitted he had never kissed a girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:06 PM
5

I have found that asking questions is the best way. Not only do you get more info than you give, many people will you think you had a great conversation connection without realizing they had just talked about themselves for 15 minutes. You will eventually need to reveal some about yourself so maybe you should think about 10-15 things you could reveal to anyone and stick with those topics if/when they come up.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:09 PM
13

"Court attention at all costs" simply means to stand out from the crowd. If does NOT mean you have to be the "life of the party". It could be as simple as working out and getting bigger so that people turn and look at you when you enter the room. For the other stuff, you are taking it too literally. You will have to speak to let people know what you have been doing with your life but there is a right way and a wrong way to do that. Let's assume you are at a social event and someone was talking a…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:52 PM
3

The courts will find it and will punish you for hiding it
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/15 04:29 PM
7

Get a paternity test for your son
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/15 04:27 PM
11

You should be handling shit that needs to be handled. Don't think of it as "giving passes". Example: she is holding a sleeping baby and asks nicely for a glass of water. Do it She demands water in a harsh tone. Laugh and tell her no
/r/askMRP07/11/15 03:14 PM
4

Your money and other stuff is all fungible (your dollars are the same as chad's dollars). The only unique thing that you can offer a woman is your commitment and attention. You have to apply or remove it judiciously. Immediately removing attention (leaving the house, ignoring, etc) over minor things is overkill and will make you seem petty and weak. Sometimes you do need to have a little chat with the wife so that everyone knows what is expected of everyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 10:18 PM
1

When you lock hands, turn your palm to the ground. His arm will move into an awkward position forcing his body to contort.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:32 PM
1

there is no secret: "naturals" do what they want in the pursuit of their wants or goals.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:56 PM
2

They are poking you to make you seem weak in front of management and to get rid of you. Stop letting them get to you. Keep in professional. Read the 48 laws of power.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:54 PM
2

covert dread is the most effective because it lets the imagination run wild
/r/askMRP06/11/15 03:41 PM
6

never let the audience peek behind the curtain. it ruins the magic
/r/askMRP06/11/15 03:38 PM
1

many white collar jobs look down on felonies
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:38 PM
2

you should be using incognito mode in your browser to avoid snooping. google it.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 03:25 PM
5

On dread, thinking of telling her I'm getting a babysitter and going out that night, too. That is overt dread. Try covert dread: Get a babysitter and let her find out about it on her own. edit: You should also do it on a different day from her "date" so it doesn't seem like petty tit for tat bullshit
/r/askMRP06/11/15 03:24 PM
8

She would be afraid of losing a top tier man and wouldn't be pulling this type of shit. If she did, a look with a raised eyebrow or a laugh would destroy this instantly. MRP is not about controlling our wives. They have free will and will do whatever the fuck they want. MRP is about controlling ourselves and making ourselves attractive so that our wives are drawn to us. You need to start reading the sidebar and start on the 12 levels of dread (read carefully and do not skip steps, take your time…
/r/askMRP06/11/15 03:23 PM
1

i no longer care. stop wasting my time
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:13 PM
10

It's your SMV. You need to improve it and people will be nicer to you.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:07 AM
9

I agree that it is extreme but divorce must be on the table. No exceptions. If you are not willing to walk, your dread is mere puffery and is nearly useless.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 04:02 AM
2

pack it in boys, nothing more to do here because op found a unicorn
/r/askTRP04/11/15 11:02 PM
2

In some states, past payments could be considered "gifts" and would not reduce the retroactive child support owed.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:54 PM
2

We don't plan on going to court over child support, so I guess she's not like some women. If she applies for any type of public assistance, the state will go after you. She could also change her mind. If this happens, the state will also seek retroactive child support. All of your past contributions and financial help will not reduce your retroactive amount and will accrue interest until it is paid off because the state considers it a gift and not proper support. Tread very lightly and learn abo…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:52 PM
3

The protective order is also protection for you. You need better legal representation.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:36 PM
6

You are in love with a woman who will suck a strangers dick and will reluctantly sucks yours. Is this the best you can do in your life? You need to read the sidebar on /r/marriedredpill and decide what you want in life
/r/askMRP04/11/15 07:19 PM
1

Who does your laundry or washes the dishes? Your mother?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 04:04 PM
4

it makes you look poor\cheap. do it in private if you must.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:49 PM
2

/u/InflatableRaft is about to impregnate a woman because he thinks papaya seeds are birth control.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:43 PM
3

sounds like she is nexting you. go meet other chicks and forget about this one
/r/askTRP03/11/15 07:23 PM
1

Yes, it is a different way to communicate with her. You should try a few ways and find one that works. "turn over" "i want to try a new position, turn over" "i love the way...turn over" bottom line, you need to tell her what you want
/r/askMRP03/11/15 07:12 PM
0

Hell I cut most stouts half with water gtfo
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 07:03 PM
0

"turn over" and then stfu. If you need to have a conversation about it, do it right then and if it kills the mood, so be it.
/r/askMRP03/11/15 05:07 PM
3

that is a battle you don't want to win You can't win. Even is she only has 100 friends on facebook, the likelihood that someone is going on vacation or buying a new car or buying a new house or whatever that month is near 100%. Trying to compare your life to highlights of everyone else's life is a recipe for disaster.
/r/askMRP03/11/15 04:57 PM
4

Your wife is competing with the other vacation moms, you are competing with your wife, etc. You need to stop and just be your own man. Your daughter will respect you for who you are if you follow your own path.
/r/askMRP03/11/15 04:54 PM
3

find a woman with a job? be more creative with your dates? This is a problem you can solve yourself, you dont need our help.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:58 PM
3

They are selling a product to women. Stop consuming media that isn't designed for you. There is no conspiracy. Money runs the world, not religion.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 02:16 PM
1

The whole point of the sub is to help people. Trying to stop that would be stupid and ineffective.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:14 PM
2

No
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:11 PM
8

You are ruining a great circlejerk with all that logic in your post.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 04:31 AM
3

Wat
/r/askTRP03/11/15 04:26 AM
3

http://www.sugarstacks.com/
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 10:25 PM
6

go to a park and toss a frisbee or something
/r/askTRP02/11/15 09:50 PM
2

replying here since oc deleted his comment and this is already typed up portion control People who count calories but do not measure or weigh their food are likely overeating. Go pour a bowl of cereal. Now measure it and compare with the recommended serving. You could be doubling or tripling your calories consumed. Avoid all "diet" foods Fat, Sugar, Salt. These make food taste good and food manufactures play with the proportions to market their products. Go look at a bag of Twizzlers and you wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 09:41 PM
1

[citation needed]
/r/askTRP02/11/15 07:19 PM
1

Its just like crying. There are ways to cry like a man (single tear at your fathers funeral) and ways to cry like a child (blubbering, snotty, loud, etc).
/r/askMRP02/11/15 05:24 PM
1

You may have trouble finding a doctor who will perform the operation
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:08 PM
1

google "manly hobbies" and pick one
/r/askMRP02/11/15 05:04 PM
5

If you don't want to go, don't go.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 06:15 PM
1

And yet, here you are.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 06:08 PM
2

Go to the pubs/bars/clubs. If you want to elevate your game, start approaching in nontraditional places: the market, waiting inline, bookstore, coffeeshop, etc. Women are literally everywhere, take advantage of it.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:37 PM
1

You have no idea what you are talking about. Ratios? Fuck that. If you see a pretty girl go talk to her. It doesnt matter where you are. You can meet women anywhere. Munich women are everywhere so you can game everywhere. There are no secret spots.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:24 PM
0

Your wife doesn't need another whiny baby in the house so keep your mouth shut and handle as much as you can. This way she feels like you are trying to get better instead of feeling obligated to nurse you back to health.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 03:19 PM
4

Women are everywhere so you can game them everywhere. You don't need a special spot, you need to stop being a pussy and start approaching.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:14 PM
4

Women are the same everywhere and the basic rules to the game are the same: approach, escalate, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:04 PM
-1

A stranger only cares about your meat because that is all they know of you. Hi is brilliant because it cuts through all the bullshit and lets you get down to business. If the "men" here would simply grow a pair and say "hi" to a few chicks they might actually get laid.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 07:16 PM
1

Body language. Get in close and look for ioi
/r/askTRP31/10/15 06:34 PM
3

they talk all day long. Talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk
/r/askTRP31/10/15 06:34 PM
33

Sit at home and be alone then. Maybe you can jerk off and get to bed early so you can wake up and do nothing again tomorrow.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 06:32 PM
26

The best opener: Hi That's it. No cute story, no dumb trick, no stupid hat. Walk up and say hi.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 04:17 AM
2

Settles what? High value Indian and Asian men are balls deep in pussy on a Friday night. Just because no one answered doesn't mean shit.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:13 AM
1

They are a hobby. As a man you should be striving for lots of things to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 03:57 AM
2

Video games are a hobby. The problem with video games is that they are not a masculine hobby. Source: lifelong gamer with other hobbies.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 03:54 AM
6

His ratings are high because he is entertaining
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 01:54 AM
5

Why would you want to do that?
/r/askTRP31/10/15 01:11 AM
1

Those are all terrible, especially asking about her week. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP30/10/15 08:05 PM
2

random person: nice costume, bro you: thanks, what are you up to tonight? random person: blah blah blah you: sounds cool, lead the way
/r/askTRP30/10/15 07:57 PM
1

give us some of your openers, they may be fine or need slight tweaks
/r/askTRP30/10/15 07:55 PM
5

never
/r/askTRP30/10/15 07:54 PM
1

She may have fucked 10 dudes but that doesn't matter. She is not "yours" and was never "yours". You are holding on to something that doesnt exist and you need to let it go.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:17 PM
1

Its going to happen and you are just going to have to get over it. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself wont change anything so you need to hit the gym, meet new people, find interesting hobbies, etc.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:48 PM
2

google "gamergate recap" there are tons or recaps on it. The wikipedia article has tons of info on it too. Don't be so lazy.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:42 PM
2

there is a cool new website that links you to all the relevant information
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:29 PM
3

3 to 1. For every 3 texts, they get 1. And the best reply is "My place at 8pm"
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:27 PM
3

If you keep messaging people to go do things and they constantly say no or make excuses, you need to take the hint and stop. It sounds like you need to pull back from your existing group and make some new friends. There are countless ways to meet people, google it.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:22 PM
1

Your second round of frame quotes aren't very meaningful imo. For big issues, sure, but that comes up rarely. I would imagine that most men on here are trying to fix the big issues without realizing that they are a direct result of multiple small issues. The purpose of my post was to help them understand that if you want to go to round two, you must do round 1.
/r/askMRP30/10/15 03:19 PM
2

true true
/r/askMRP30/10/15 03:15 PM
2

what do you want to do?
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:10 PM
1

And it rarely works for them, otherwise it would be call "the right thing" instead of "going against". Think about it.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:32 AM
1

Its not going against "TRP", it is going against nature. come back after you crash and burn. the sidebar will be here. good day.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:45 PM
3

Because your wife will ask you to do some annoying errand, and you'll say you have a softball game, and she'll get pissed off. Pissed off something else has a higher priority for her attention than herself. But those are easy enough Shit Tests to deal with, because you'll be arguing about softball, and you'll never have to say anything that sounds remotely close to, "you're not entitled to my attention." You will simply act, over a sustained and gradual period of time, in a way that changes the …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 10:42 PM
2

What part of "I don't think we should see each other anymore" was unclear? She already gave you "closure", you are just too weak to accept it.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 09:32 PM
2

wtf is CCG?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 08:16 PM
1

she removed her attention and you removed yours. getting angry or scolding is a beta move. move on with your life.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 08:10 PM
7

The bar is so low that you can impress women (and other men) simply by existing in the world at a fit man
/r/askTRP29/10/15 08:09 PM
3

Give it some more time and then reread. You may pick up on things you missed the first time after you know a bit more. Frame is confusing because there is no one definition, it is an idea about how to conduct yourself. You probably came here because you have a wife who doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated. All of trp is about setting up your frame so that you can have the life you want on your terms.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 08:02 PM
5

For beginners, frame is simply having standards and enforcing them "I will go to the gym 3 times a week, even if it is inconvenient" "I will read x book by next monday" etc Once you establish your standards with yourself, you can enforce standards with other people and then they will be living in your "frame" "Fuck me or fuck off" "Do not talk to me that way" "You are being disrespectful and I will not put up with it" and then do something about it Your outward frame is only effective if your in…
/r/askMRP29/10/15 07:38 PM
1

Dont say this, gimp is a moron. There are much better ways to message this to her.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:23 PM
1

You need to change your attitude about it and make it fun. Try this: "You get the first round and I'll get the second". Everyone drinks and everyone pays.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:20 PM
2

I don't know, does it?
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:13 PM
4

You are trying to improve yourself to get laid instead of improving yourself to be a better man.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:13 PM
2

Have what you will accept and what you will not accept. Don't worry about what your priest thinks, you're using shaming tactics to negotiate and it feels weak. The church can suppress sexuality and she may believe her actions align with being a "good christian wife". If they are deeply religious, it may not seem so weak.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 06:07 PM
12

When I first started, I withdrew affection too hard and too fast which lead to a mini-main-event. I was still depressed and angry and couldn't wait to start doing something about it. Although it did lead to some positive changes, it would have been much easier and more effective to do it slowly. Stage 4 works best when you are out of the anger stage.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 03:56 PM
1

The main problem is that you think girls will chase you for some reason and this is not what TRP is about. You have to actually do something and so far all you have done is ingore the advice here and put yourself into orbit while convincing yourself that your tested and proven not to work tactics will somehow win her over. You really need to spend some time reading the side bar until you "get it".
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:19 PM
1

Not the way you are acting.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:22 AM
1

You are one of the many thirsty betas she has around begging for attention.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:56 AM
26

This should be its own post
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 02:45 AM
1

It doesn't work that way. Women do not need to chase men because they can get sex anytime they want.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:16 AM
12

Lots of people can write and play music. It does not make you alpha.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:17 AM
1

You are still "asking" instead of "telling" her what you want. You need to really understand the difference.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:14 AM
1

Unless you are really above average, she wont chase you.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 10:27 PM
1

"Jennifer Jones or Jennifer Smith?"
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:00 PM
1

You can't change the past but talking to a therapist may help you work through some of your hangups. At the end of the day, you are just going to have to get over it and move forward as the past cannot be changed. In regards to the living arrangements, it may be easier to think of him as a cool older roommate that you can learn from instead of "my deadbeat dad"
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:44 PM
1

Did you really think that you would wake up on day 30 and be completely over her? Stop trying to find the "magic" number or correct "break up percentage" and focus on build YOUR life without her.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:22 PM
2

You know the answer: Alcohol is a crutch and you will do better in all areas of your life if you can be sociable without it.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:15 PM
1

This is not a "safe space". The men here are harsh because it is the only thing that works. Your entire post was a mess, the content, the grammar, etc. You can't expect people to wade through that crap and then give good advice. You really need to sit down and think for a bit about what you want and what your goals are and then post specific question without all the extra crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 04:12 PM
1

If you have seen the show "the office", the Gervais Principal has a ton of insight into social hierarchy http://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 02:34 PM
1

Look for problems to solve at your current job using the computer and then solve them. Then you can take what you have built to someone in the company that recognizes talent or you can take that example to an entry level job.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:24 PM
2

[Serious] can you google "Natural muscle gains"?
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:19 PM
1

You are not giving us much to work with. What is there to comment on?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 01:15 PM
4

Be interesting and don't give away your commitment.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:37 AM
7

You know what is best for your family. Don't let internet people run your household. Be a captain and lead.
/r/askMRP28/10/15 04:19 AM
3

Your behavior and mannerisms permeate everything you do. You think high value men "talk liek dis" or ask "what r u do n"? You need to grow up and stop acting like a fucking child if you want to be treated like a man
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 04:11 AM
2

There is a big difference between jerkin it 3 times a day and once every few days. For some men, it becomes an addiction and they need to control it by going cold turkey.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:22 AM
8

I am NOT SURE if getting big is going to solve anything You see two women walking down the street. One is 120 lbs the other is 210 lbs. Which one do you want to fuck? You need to look like a man to attract women and men have muscles. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:18 AM
3

Part of being a man is typing words like "be" instead of typing "b" like a teenage girl. Try it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 03:10 AM
1

Your feels are your responsibility. Remember this always.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:25 AM
0

Adopt a dog
/r/askTRP28/10/15 12:17 AM
1

Same
/r/askTRP28/10/15 12:17 AM
2

Save this shit for your peabrained friends
/r/askTRP27/10/15 11:57 PM
4

You know "why", no need to ask. She does this shot because she thinks you will orbit and when she sees otherwise, she adjusts her behavior. Don't talk, act.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 11:57 PM
0

read the sidebar and you will find many hidden gems
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:55 PM
19

The goal of TRP is to control yourself and your own emotions since you cannot control other people or their emotions. I hate feeling like an awesome girl like her gets to have so much choice over whether or not to stomp on my heart. she can stomp all day long, your reaction is your choice. You need to read the book "a guide to the good life".
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:52 PM
2

"How about Never ask for the meetup, it makes you look weak\indecisive. Use this instead: "Meet me Tuesday 7:30 at Dive Bar"
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:48 PM
1

do whatever you want
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:27 PM
2

How are you proposing the date? Give us the exact wording you use.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:26 PM
1

"Last time you said that you rambled on about some shit you saw on facebook\pinterst\whatever for 15 minutes. Have you been on facebook\pinterst\whatever again?" deliver it with a cocky\funny attitude and you will be able to gauge what she really wants and give her an answer.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:01 PM
1

Why should I stay with my wife? You married her, not us. You tell us why you should stay with your wife.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 07:29 PM
1

Lets take it one step at a time. I wouldn't be surprised if some of the "men" here sit at the kids table at thanksgiving.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 07:21 PM
1

You gave him advice that encouraged him to do stupid shit. He should not be texting his wife "dont go to whole foods, it is a waste of time and money" Yes, he should. He should not get into long, drawn out conversations about it over text which is where his mistake was. A captain must be able to direct his first officer and that sometimes involves communication. There is a time and a place for STFU and this was not one of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 07:19 PM
5

A lot of people on here are not "rp men" yet. You have to remember that this is a classroom, not a graduation party and you will see freshmen doing stupid shit. It is OK to text your wife but the moment it turns into a conversation/debate/argument is when you need to shut it down.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:51 PM
2

You can make a woman come while focusing on your needs, they are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:48 PM
0

the best exercise to lose weight is "fork putdowns". If you want to "do something" today here is your plan Take the amount of food you would normally eat and throw it away or save it for tomorrow. do this until you can learn about proper diet and nutrition. Go to the gym and get on the treadmill for an hour every other day.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:25 PM
2

I go exercise but not lifting. Also, I look old for 30 yrs old. Not a fat guy but too slim. You are fat, don't hamster it. You need to unfuck your diet and start lifting weights. I have had friends but got no one right now. I am completely alone for last few years. Make new friends Am I too fucked beyond repair ? What shall I do to have positive mindset ? No. You are fucked when you lie in your death bed regretting all the things you didn't do. Go to the gym today and start something new for you…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:21 PM
3

I'm not sure she can make it any clearer. Move on with your life, don't fret about this chick, act like it never happened, and move on. It sounds like you caught some feelz but you just have to move on.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:18 PM
2

Not necessarily. Sometimes they are just bored of you and that is ok because you are a busy man and have other interests.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:07 PM
9

Tell your old man to STFU or GTFO and then enforce it
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 05:15 PM
8

You handled it poorly because you are trying to maintain frame via text messages. You are trying to logic your way into leadership. Stop. you: "dont go to whole foods, it is a waste of time and money" her: "Um why? WF has the best organic and gluten free options." Then you stfu When you get home, you can have a short talk about it while remaining on point.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 05:14 PM
3

Also, I want to emphasize that you may only be a bad lay if this keeps happening to you. Sometimes they just get bored after a few times and there is nothing you can do about it.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:57 PM
0

You have no idea what you are talking about. each person is responsible for their own enjoyment, otherwise it is "work"
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:52 PM
2

post your story and really try and internalize the advice they give you over there
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:48 PM
1

Part of being a man is taking responsibility for your actions and outcomes. If you focus on her enjoyment, you will be missing out on yours. You still need to DEVI and communicate, but if you are focused on your enjoyment, it will be a better experience for both of you.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:47 PM
7

I'm not the one calling names and getting riled up by words on the screen. Read the sidebar and lift, it will do wonders for your psyche.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 04:43 PM
1

focus on your enjoyment
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:31 PM
9

She doesn't seem interested in you. Go game someone else. If this pattern repeats, you may be a bad lay.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:08 PM
8

Maybe you should take a break and then come back when you can form complete sentences.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:32 PM
3

It will only change if you do something. You cannot test your frame with a woman who cheats on you because you are operating in HER frame since she decides who and when she has sex. The only thing you have control over is YOUR actions. If you want to practice your frame, reject her the same way she rejected you. As long as you are thirsty for her rotten crotch, you will always be in her frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:58 PM
1

people at the top can be miserable too. The point of the movie, and the speech, was to reframe what is means to be "successful".
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:45 PM
8

you are a low value man fucking a low value woman who is cheating on another low value man. improve yourself and start fucking higher quality women.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:43 PM
17

God sent Woman to be your life companion. If he does exist, he is a master troll.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:55 AM
6

You could send one more message: meet me at x at y time. If she flakes or does not offer to reschedule, hard next and move on.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:46 AM
3

Women respond to masculine men. No need to stick your dick in crazy to get what you want.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:44 AM
7

Logistics only. Ask about the kid, focus on the kid. When the topic moves elsewhere, bring it back or end it.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 02:41 AM
1

nope
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:36 PM
4

You will have to master yourself before anyone will follow your lead. I suggest you read every book on the sidebar and focus on getting into school and\or changing jobs.
/r/askMRP26/10/15 10:27 PM
1

You are being a pussy. We call them unicorns because they don't exist.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:17 PM
7

Where is the fine line between being stubborn and being a pouty whiny child? Your intentions. If your intention is to manipulate and deceive to get what you want then you are a child. If your intention is to have standards and enforce them, that makes you a man. Women will use the "grow up" and "act like a man" shaming tactics. When you hear these, remember that your definition of a man (james bond) is different than hers (dad bod with a steady job).
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:13 PM
7

/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP26/10/15 09:06 PM
2

A lot of people delete their bullshit after I reply. You may not recognize my contribution as such but you have realized the error of your ways at least twice :)
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 07:26 PM
1

So what? The majority of Reddit is crap too.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 07:22 PM
1

Attempted and failed its over. move on to someone else and dont waste anymore time with this one
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:38 PM
-5

keep this bullshit on facebook, dont bring it here.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 05:26 PM
1

You need to adjust your attitude. There is a difference between being an asshole and enforcing your standards.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:22 PM
2

We are not here to make women our property. We are here to improve ourselves so that women are drawn to us. You need to take a step back and read the sidebar on the main sub.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:18 PM
2

I'm not getting too attached, but do think she's a great LTR prospect You typed a lot of words about a girl you have not slept with and are hoping for an LTR. This is your "frame" and she is falling into it. If your "frame" was a that of a man who desired sex, you would be having sex with her or having sex with someone else.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:15 PM
2

"That blonde over there" and then go talk to her
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:15 PM
0

I decided to put it in front of those who would see the most benefit This post will only be visible for a few hours before it gets buried. If you want long term visibility for the new noobs, ask a mod to sticky it.
/r/askMRP26/10/15 04:10 PM
2

what is the question?
/r/askMRP26/10/15 04:01 PM
2

It's not rocket science. You have a lot more experience now than you did in your 20s and you are probably more mature and responsible.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 03:32 PM
4

no one is going to take your "awesome" screen name. go do something more productive.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 03:27 PM
6

Your wife kissed a lot of guys and you are wondering if you are a beta or an alpha?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 04:58 AM
1

Stop making excuses
/r/askTRP26/10/15 03:23 AM
2

As soon as you "fix" your height, you will just make another excuse for your failures. Work on your game and own your body issues.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 03:22 AM
25

The purpose of deflecting a shit test is to show that her words do not affect you. All of your retorts sounded butthurt and angry which is not attractive Read up on agree and amplify
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:21 PM
3

gotta use his mouth to get the red wings
/r/askTRP23/10/15 07:04 PM
1

because you have a knack for falling for it. stop it
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 08:09 PM
-1

I just murdered you on every point you have tried to make. "Everyone get what they need from government" is literally the dumbest fucking thing I have ever heard anyone say. You need to learn how to read. The topic was healthcare and my position is that everyone pays and everyone gets what they need. Most people don't have thousands of dollars banked to pay for a emergencies or long term care. The system works in other countries and it will work here too. To fund your feminine spending habits, y…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:19 PM
15

“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” ― Ernest Hemingway
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:14 PM
-1

We all need 662 US military bases around the world. We all need NSA collecting data on the population. I was talking about healthcare. if you want to limit NSA and militray bases, you need to take that up with the republicans. Then stop incentivizing them to breed with welfare birth control isnt welfare. neither are abortions No thats not Ad Hominem. Thats you talking out of your ass, then getting corrected You are attempting (and failing) to discredit my words by attacking my intelligence inste…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:10 PM
-3

Except there is no correlation between more public school funding and better education Lots of countries spend more and have better rankings. Just ask Austria, Sweden, Norway, etc. Neither do I, which is why I would like my money not to be stolen so I can use it to keep my family, the people I am around the most, healthy. You are not a victim, please stop acting like one. Every one pays and everyone gets what they need when they need it. Just like every other modern country. More encouragement? …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:39 PM
1

That is a shit reply. "tit for tat" bullshit is weak. You shouldn't be buying her anything and it shouldn't need to be said. You need to work on using the skills you have learned by reading the sidebar. A&A works nicely for all variants of "you are not getting x" "Who said anything about hooking up? I'm saving myself for marriage"
/r/askTRP22/10/15 06:29 PM
0

don't disqualify yourself
/r/askTRP22/10/15 06:26 PM
1

tell her "stop doing that" and then if she does it again tell her "i told you to stop doing that" and remove yourself from the situation
/r/askMRP22/10/15 06:20 PM
4

The red pill gives your dong magical healing powers. I've seen so many reports of men who fixed their wives jaw and throats issues. Good Report.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 06:16 PM
2

Giving more money to public schools Lets cut funding. Our country needs more stupid people healthcare to people who didn't have it before I also don't like being around healthy people birth control Cut education, access to healthcare, and encourage more people. What could go wrong?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:59 PM
1

he is mgtow which in not attractive to women in the long term
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:25 PM
0

It is basically the equivalent of a 150 page book. Not many people can read that fast and is impressive.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:53 PM
0

The article is like 30,000 words. Did you read it that fast?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:47 PM
0

You are giving her too much power and making too many fucking excuses. Fogging, Broken record, leaving, etc. You know how but have convinced yourself that she will win be default. The next time she starts just stop and take a deep breath and then use the tools you have learned here. You will likely be dealing with her the rest of your life via your kid so you better start now before she runs you over for 18 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 04:09 PM
3

He owns a lot of land This was likely passed down from a more successful family member Women beg to fuck him Even a broken clock is right twice a day. He got lucky with few women but lacks the natural masculinity of other characters (Daryl, Robert California, etc) He never gets emotionally attatched to people Except for Michael. How many times did he "fall on his own sword" for him? He does the right thing even when nobody appreciates him He certainly has some "white knight" moments. Nobody appr…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 03:59 PM
1

You already know what to do: stfu and lead by example. My wife often makes comments about eating healthy and losing weight but I just smile and give a nod. Then she started asking about what she should order when we go out to eat. Edit to add: You should also consider the delivery of your messages when you speak. You could have said "do you want me to get a box for that" which is less butthurt and accusatory than "are you really going to eat that".
/r/askMRP22/10/15 05:01 AM
2

Yeah, it kills the mood
/r/askTRP21/10/15 10:51 PM
0

Her divorce is not final this may be important. she may still feel married and doesnt want to "cheat"
/r/askTRP21/10/15 10:14 PM
0

I did the monk mode for awhile and read and internalized Monk mode is good but you have to come out and start applying what you learned They accused me of being passive aggressive and having an undercurrent of anger all the time I'd imagine a man in monk mode who is angry about the past would seem passive aggressive and angry all the time I'm a technical man so I get tongue tied when I go up against a lawyer She has already won if this is your attitude. You know how to "win" arguments: fogging, …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 10:02 PM
1

Are you leaving the room to put a condom on?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:37 PM
0

Lifting is only part of the equation. If you look good then you are lacking on one of the other areas. Work on your game and read the following: "The book of Pook" "The Way of Men" by Jack Donovan "The Way of the Superior Man" "Models" by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:36 PM
0

It is not on the side bar and is not brought up much. Why would he read it?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:33 PM
1

The wishful thinking was that I had banked up enough "goodwill" to carry me through the rough patch Your relationships are restaurants, not banks
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:58 PM
1

Which books on the sidebar have you read? The initiation/expectations are a huge covert contract. I suggest you read nmmng.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:23 PM
4

It is dumb for a number or reasons including but not limited to: STDs Unwanted pregnancy Giving control of your future to someone else
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:07 PM
2

Which books on the sidebar have you read? The initiation/expectations are a huge covert contract. I suggest you read nmmng.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 02:39 PM
6

The main trp sub has lots of quality content like this and all mrp users should be reading and adapting pieces to fit their marriages.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 02:34 PM
1

Smoking adds nothing to your life but does have many negative consequences. It's time to quit.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 11:28 PM
1

you wouldn't be on here asking questions if you knew all the answers. If she sees you having fun with hot chicks, it gives you a decent preselection.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:27 PM
1

baby rabies is infectious and can strike anytime
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:07 PM
2

you are overthinking. at this point in her life she doesnt like kids, this may or may not change. continue on with your life.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:07 PM
1

stay off of social media. that shit is for validation seeking women, not high value men
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:53 PM
2

not your fault. start reading the sidebar and get to work.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:48 PM
1

ignore her for now and post pics of yourself hanging out with the hottest chicks you know
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:14 PM
1

It helps to understand that your status\social status is pretty fluid and can change instantly. Lets assume you are at 4 and your burp really loud in a formal setting, now you are a 1, but then you say something funny immediately and you rise to a 5. All of this happen in about 30 seconds. So my advice is this: Try not to worry too much about your standing since it can and does change often. You need to focus on having interesting hobbies and practicing your social skills. Get out there and meet…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:11 PM
3

Most MRP guys don't like therapy in any form which is hilarious because trp\mrp is therapy
/r/askMRP20/10/15 02:13 PM
6

/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:11 PM
4

You came in trying to defend the actual words "Is it actually worse than yours? Or mine?" instead of discussing the actual idea "does it matter what other people think of your username?" Sometimes the only way to reach someone is to beat them over the head with it.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:45 PM
3

what is being said here is very clever although there are probably quite a few dimwits here (such as yourself) that are too clueless to realize it. OP is here complaining and instead of giving him a platitude about "sticks and stones" is actively challenging him to think about what truly affects him in life. He is either going to realize that opinions of shoes and usernames is irrelevant or he will be here next week asking more stupid questions.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:36 PM
6

The response was absolutely brilliant. Think about what is being said instead of trying be a whiteknight.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:25 PM
4

why do you need validation?
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:18 PM
1

You are a shitty perfectionist. You came to a sub call ASKmrp and failed to ask an actual question.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:12 PM
6

if op doesnt get this, all hope is lost /thread
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:08 PM
2

This is where the versectomy comes in handy unless you want to see green goo oozing from your dick, use a rubber
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 06:28 PM
6

found the hipster
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:15 PM
3

If Brian was texting his wife he wouldn't say it was "from Brian" because he wife probably knows his name.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 04:59 PM
1

your response to the slightest hint of a problem is to drop them exchanging "I love you"s with another dude is not a slight hint of a problem. you have to have personal boundaries and you have to enforce them. Also, if he was texting his similarly named wife, we wouldn't say "from brian" since should would, presumably, know her husbands name. dont be a tool.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:56 PM
2

like taking away phone privileges for messaging Frame is not about power. Remove yourself, not the phone.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 03:12 PM
3

For beginners such as yourself, "frame" is the creation and enforcement of boundaries. I will not allow a woman to be late for a date with me bad frame: waiting 45 minutes in the hopes that she might show up good frame: leaving after 10 minutes to talk to other women I will workout 3 times a week bad frame: being "too tired" from work and skipping good frame: going to gym even when it is difficult and inconvenient You need to start setting boundaries and then start enforcing them with the people…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:48 PM
5

Agree and Amplify: Hamburger University (note: this place actually exists and can lead the converstaion elsewhere) Pressure Flip: (Said very quickly to push it back on her) ABC University How about you? The reality is that your degree and job will come up in conversation eventually. If you don't want to be seen as a meal ticket, then don't act like one. No "dinner dates", expensive gifts, etc.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:40 PM
-3

I'm not the type to stand in front of class jerking myself off.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 08:55 PM
9

You sounded butthurt. Women don't care about your "needs". Don't talk when a simple "no" will suffice.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 05:21 AM
20

There is a big difference between overt dread and covert dread. Stop taking about your other fake girlfriends and fuck your wife when she's asks you to fuck her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 05:18 AM
-1

His posts are either drunken ramblings or picture perfect examples of core rp philosophy. It honestly sounds like something out of "penthouse forum". I'm not buying it.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 05:16 AM
2

It seems fake
/r/askMRP18/10/15 04:45 AM
1

People move out of your way when you are walking
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:53 AM
1

What is so great about a girl who cheated on you?
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:52 AM
0

It all depends. You need to start thinking about life in terms of what is good for you instead of "rules" from the internet.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:49 AM
1

Read it again. You want powertalk not straighttalk.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:44 AM
6

Beer goggles + makeup + shitty club lighting can easily turn a 4 into a 8.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 05:51 PM
6

It just means you need practice. Learn from your mistakes and keep trying.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 05:49 PM
8

You don't have to drink or smoke and being around people who do does not violate gods laws. Listen, if you want different results in your life you are going to have to start acting different. Buy a telescope, find a late night poker game, go to a bar, 24 hour gym, etc. You need to do something where you are around other people.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 05:37 PM
2

Check your local alimony laws, waiting an extra year or two could extend your obligation if you cross the states predetermined thresholds.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 05:30 PM
6

Most bars are open till 2am. Stop making excuses.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 05:06 PM
12

It's OK to have "the talk" with the wife, she cant read your mind and does need to know that your sexless marriage bothers you. It is not OK to spill your feels every time something bothers you. Now that she knows you are unhappy with the lack of sex, your dread will be really effective because she knows her sex starved husband is in shape, active, and out of the house. If you talk today just keep it simple: the sexless marriage is not working for me. No feels, no long drawn out explanation, jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 01:09 PM
0

maybe your A&A needs some work. You have to remember to make it absurd Did you lock the door? I told the cat to do that on his way out, you are going to have to take that up with him No, I am keeping my shirt on. I will take off my pants Great, I shall remove my shirt and one sock (and then do it) etc
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 08:04 PM
5

She is just not into sex with you. If she was, she wouldn't be worried about the cat. Next time she does this tell her "this isn't working for me", and go do something else.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 06:06 PM
0

For some people, I think nofap, lucid dreaming, etc are just new distractions. I get that it can help some people, but what is effective for me is to focus on my goals and then work to them even if progress is small. What are you trying to rewire?
/r/askTRP16/10/15 05:51 PM
1

Maybe you should just take one second before pressing the send button or opening your mouth and ask yourself "what is the point of the message I am sending" and then decide to act or not.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 05:47 PM
1

Forgot about straighttalk, you really need to learn how to powertalk because women are powertalkers. straighttalk: want to come over and have sex with me? powertalk: netflix and chill? please read all of this to understand how people really communicate with each other: http://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/ (the layout of the site sucks, just make sure you read all of the parts)
/r/askTRP16/10/15 05:45 PM
1

Don't think of ways to entertain her, entertain yourself and invite her along. Then you will be operating in your frame instead of her frame.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 05:40 PM
1

With your hand at dick level, simply say "You only have to be this tall to ride this ride" and smile
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:06 PM
2

even though their husbands make more than enough money to support their family Be careful with your assumptions. Two college educated adults could easily have 200k in student loans. People who want new cars, vacations, etc need money and single income may not be enough.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 03:03 PM
-5

There is a reason your wife and this dudes wife have all told you that you are scary. You need to turn it down a notch.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 12:51 AM
-2

Maybe she doesn't like you?
/r/askMRP16/10/15 12:43 AM
1

AWALT does not necessarily mean that all women will behave a certain way. It means that all women are capable of behaving that way due to their nature. It comes from general gender discussions where you will hear people say "not all men/women are like that". It is a way for disccus behavior with devolving into discussions of specific women. For your specific situation, you need to keep the attraction up. Lift, read the sidebar, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 12:39 AM
2

You talk a lot of shit about humility and destruction of ego. Now might be a good time to put that into practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 10:22 PM
1

In his case, it is a fulfillment of a covert contract and a "reward" for being a good little beta (you buy me a vacation, I will give you duty sex).
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 09:20 PM
6

Seems a little butthurt. He just needs to soft next her. No need to waste another second.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 08:47 PM
1

this place is really going downhill
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 07:20 PM
1

How do I get past that initial wall. How do I stay calm when I get slightly intimidated by a pretty girl. Once you realize that nothing "bad" is going to happen, the anxiety will subside. The best way to do this is to approach lots of different people.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 08:22 PM
2

You don't have to be an alpha in all situations. You are spending too much time trying to puff yourself up. Shut the fuck up, ace the class, and then move on.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 08:20 PM
1

I am bothering him when I correct my own posture. no one likes being told what to do. Spend your time and energy improving your own life Basically I feel like my roommate is dragging me down with him on a social level, but he provides benefits as far as school goes. Not everyone will provide everything you "need". Be "school bros" and find some new "social bros".
/r/askTRP14/10/15 08:17 PM
1

we don't necessarily need a progress report but if you have any insight, share it.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 08:14 PM
2

Think about what impresses you about other people and then emulate that.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 03:47 PM
1

So nothing then. Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:18 PM
0

I'm sorry I hurt your feelz :(
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:18 PM
1

Is this common behavior? hard to say but you are spending way too much energy thinking about it. In the hours that had passed, you could have made plans with someone else. Then when she replied a few hours later you could have honestly replied "made other plans" Shouldn't my aloofness make her eager to chase/reply immediately? not necessarily. Your aloofness does not immediately validate her. Big difference Am I taking things too fast with her? Should I have waited longer to set up another meet …
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:58 PM
2

Go do something interesting with your life and you will not have time to worry about bullshit
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:49 PM
1

You cannot change the past and you cannot control other people. Get over it and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:45 PM
0

I'm just curious how Christians constantly feel persecuted. It makes no sense to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 09:28 PM
2

Aim higher. Instead of looking for a bartending job, be the owner and you can take whatever shifts you want.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:38 PM
1

Even if we consider the persecution of christians by terrorist groups, other groups are still outnumbered in the death tolls. For example, for every non-muslim killed (which may be a christian), Al Queda kills 8 muslims (http://www.spiegel.de/international/world/surprising-study-on-terrorism-al-qaida-kills-eight-times-more-muslims-than-non-muslims-a-660619.html).
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 06:32 PM
-3

shitting on people people because they're Christians I'm not shitting on Christians, I just think our persecution complex is fucking ridiculous. We are free to live and think with near 0 consequences.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 06:22 PM
-1

People are persecuted all around the world for their beliefs, skin color, birthplace, etc. By and large, the number of Christians killed around the planet in the last 500 years for their religious beliefs pales in comparison to the others groups. Go tell a rabbi you are feeling a little persecuted, I bet you will get a hearty "Oi vey"!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 06:07 PM
14

It is about how the experience makes her feel, and being in the company of a fun, exciting man, who happens to also know things that she likes ( as a bonus) is exciting for her, leads to Tingles and positive Feelz This is great advice. I think a few noobs take the STFU advice way too literally. If you are not having fun in your life, you are doing it wrong. All people, not just women, want to be around fun and adventurous people.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 04:49 PM
-1

Suing christian owned businesses and churches under employment law, anti-discrimination laws (think the cake bakers and caterers for gay weddings) etc. I'm sorry a baker had to bake a cake. When they feed him to the lions, we can talk about persecution again. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 04:44 PM
2

Read the sidebar. All of it.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 04:25 PM
1

it's either an excuse as to why they can't, or a "just to be clear, this is just as friends right?" They are politely telling you they are not interested but you can't seem to take the hint. When this happens, move on and dont dwell. I try to analyze my approaches, but I can't find anything that I can pinpoint to be the problem. If your approaches are solid than in must be your physical appearance. Time to hit the gym do you think it's a good idea to contact a past friend who used to be interest…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 04:19 PM
0

I don't think it is that high. 5 times maybe? edit: wiki says 3-4 times (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide) afsp says 4 (https://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/facts-and-figures)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 03:26 PM
-1

Men in general are being torn down White Christian men are one of the most privileged classes in our society. Christians haven't been persecuted for a few hundred years.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 03:09 PM
0

Don't worry about people who used to know you. Go meet new people. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 01:50 PM
1

You don't owe anyone an explanation. Try being funny instead of trying to find a logical excuse: "I'm a high school freshman"
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:51 PM
1

Real people are here. You just need to act better\not be so fucking stupid and people will respond to your questions.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 10:45 PM
5

You should focus on actions not words. girl: "I'm not looking for hook ups" guy: "thats cool. meet me a x for drink at 8" girl: "ok" Lies are deceit are beta traits. If you act like a man, people will treat you like one.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 08:51 PM
1

anywhere but here
/r/askTRP09/10/15 08:46 PM
1

I'm just messing with ya, relax. Your browser has a builtin IRC client and it will hook into the IRC based on this pages metadata. Press Alt+F4 on windows or command+w on mac to start it.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 08:37 PM
1

there is a cool new site to help you find things online
/r/askTRP09/10/15 08:22 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/uZaFJG0.jpg
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 08:16 PM
3

Does that reducto ad absurdum bullshit work in your game? Does using latin make you feel superior? Personally, I find Tinder to be a waste of time. Except you didn't say that. You made an excuse and I was taking you to task for it You were the halfwitted dunderfuck who romped in and decided to tell me what to do, and you're the infant taking offense that I'm not terribly interested in your opinion or your directions. I didn't tell you to do anything but if you are such a sensitive little bitch, …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:00 PM
2

You need to internalize that testing, both large and small, never stops. Ever. Where did I say i was missing tests? My point is that some things are tests of your frame and others are not. Sometimes making dinner is just making dinner and treating every event like a shit test or an assault on your alphaness is stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 06:35 PM
1

Again. I can recognize shit tests and other bullshit. I just don't need every interaction with my wife to be a frame affirming encounter.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 06:14 PM
2

Probably, after telling a girl on Facebook this summer my last name is Syrian giving girls genealogy lessons is not sexy. Stop talking about boring shit and keep if fun
/r/askTRP09/10/15 05:30 PM
0

right
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:27 PM
0

He's wearing the costume and thinking that gives him a pass on working on his true internal self. It's sad, and pathetic. You are painting with some broad strokes here based on a few comments I have made. I think you might still be a little butthurt from our last exchange. I'd link to it but YOUR ego deleted it to prevent further damage to itself :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:18 PM
10

so you are just here to complain then? Got it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:00 PM
15

Are you dense? Go to facebook and make a profile for Bob Bobberson who lives in your city on 123 Sesame St. Then keep going.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:20 PM
3

Seems we have lots of hetero men taking guidance from homosexual authors Homosexual men have an interesting perspective since they interact with women as people instead of potential mates. They have natural AM, IDGAF, OI, etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:18 PM
1

http://therationalmale.com/2012/11/19/mid-life-crisis/
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:59 PM
6

That's exactly why I don't use Tinder. You do not need to be honest when filling out your name and address....
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:55 PM
2

I use a different account for everything and always use a different screen name when possible. It is too easy to google user names and emails and find archived stuff from a few years back.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:54 PM
7

So you get drunk, and then drive to pick up a sloot, and then drive home drunk, and then drink more and then drive drunk again. Maybe if you weren't such a fuck up you could have gotten laid? She probably saw a someone who makes bad decisions and didn't want to partake. Stop drinking and driving.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 06:01 AM
-7

Again. This belongs in your personal journal, not here. Sober up and stop fucking around.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:52 AM
1

agree and amplify "I know right. My grandma is kinda crazy with the likes these days."
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:34 PM
0

I only escalate between 7:45pm and 8pm on the third Wednesday of each month. I'm not having any luck. Any advice for me?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:02 PM
2

I'd say an HB6 .... She just had her third child ... Sure, I wouldn't mind fucking her.... you need to raise your standards bro
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:00 PM
9

It sounds like she was busy and asked you to make dinner and you threw a little tantrum and then made dinner. Maybe you suck at story telling but this doesn't sound like an assault or your frame or major win for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:47 PM
3

You are missing the point. Someone who quits AFTER being fired is the same as someone who makes dinner for his wife AFTER she told him to make dinner.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:35 PM
13

Most people eat every night and his wife was at an appointment so he made dinner. I don't really see this as a test of his frame. But I'm just not constantly on the look out for any slight test of my frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:30 PM
22

So, she asked you to make her dinner, and then you made her dinner?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:04 PM
0

That's not what stoic is. Yes, it is. Being stoic and practicing stoicism are two different things. Please consult a dictionary to verify.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:36 PM
1

It helps you maintain frame by sorting your emotions
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:35 PM
0

Stoic doesn't mean you are emotionless it just means that your emotions don't affect your actions. Wrong. Being stoic is completely different than practicing stoicism. You and many others are often confused by this fact.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:34 PM
2

Learn to pick you battles. There is no need to be right, or correct, or the most alpha in every situation. You should really try and focus on having fun and enjoying life.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:21 PM
2

talking sh*t most of time just bringing up my SMV like "there is this girl just is kinda creepy and I think she maybe a stalker." This is not how you raise your SMV. This is called "bragging" or "being full of shit" and is not sexy. "Have you ever stayed up at night just thinking of why Refrigerator doesn't have a "D" in it but fridge does, like Eryn doesn't have a "d" in it but I can remedy. I'd expect this level of conversations from children. Do you honestly think this is clever? where I may …
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:19 PM
2

People who are in control of their emotions are generally pleasant to be around because you do not have to contend with their fleeting emotions and moods. People who are just stoic (emotionless) are boring and boring is rarely attractive.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:11 PM
1

use different words until you can pronounce them right
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:04 PM
3

I agree with you but there some people out there who think watching football is a hobby.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 05:20 PM
2

She may just be a complainer and you can ignore it or she may be looking for you to lead her out of monotony. Try this once a week and ignore the rest: "I'll be home soon and we can do x"
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:25 PM
2

She may just be a complainer and you can ignore it or she may be looking for you to lead her out of monotony. Try this once a week and ignore the rest: "I'll be home soon and we can do x"
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:25 PM
1

Your wife is full of feelz and needs to get them out. Set a mental time limit where you give her some attention and then start acting. Let her know you are going to do x,y,z tonight, change the subject, etc.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:21 PM
2

actually using logic and reason when talking with her Part of swallowing the pill means accepting reality for what it is, not what you would like it to be. If your goal is to win arguments, look elsewhere.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:13 PM
1

producing or consuming?
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:05 PM
0

The real issue is your anger for your sister. You need to learn to accept reality for what it is (awalt, af\bb, etc) instead of holding on to your blue pill fantasies (love, honor, etc). You wouldn't get mad at a fish for swimming around acting like a fish and you shouldn't get mad at your sister for acting like a woman. Having said that, if a lot of people know about the cheating, an anonymous letter could do the trick. It should include a copy of the book "no more mr nice guy".
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:39 PM
1

This violates the first rule: dont talk about trp. You have to find it yourself for it to be effective
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:33 PM
1

He already knows
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:30 PM
1

Pretend you own a business and you have two employees asking for a raise. One gives you examples of how he is saving or making you money. The other uses a shitty situation to try and leverage more money out of you. Which one gets the raise? You need to practice empathty and think about how others view your actions and then you can use that to get what you want.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:42 AM
1

Stop looking for excuses. Practice.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:39 AM
1

You feel like a pussy because you have no confidence. Do MMA or kickboxing, public speaking, etc. Get out there and do something.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 01:21 AM
2

Reschedule. Don't over think it.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 01:19 AM
-7

If he was working at his job he wouldnt be posting on Reddit, asshole
/r/askTRP07/10/15 01:14 AM
1

I know what dread is, or atleast I think I do (Basically jusy ingoring your plate/so) Wrong. Dread is about having options. Stop skipping the material. Read the sidebar and then read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:51 PM
1

"I'm low on cash and there are quite a few desperate women on here who will buy me drinks. Wanna hang out tonight?"
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:45 PM
1

You need to focus on "setting up a meeting" instead of "having a conversation". So instead of saying "whats up?" and getting "nm u?" back, text her "Meet me at x on thurs at 8pm" and go from there.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:43 PM
1

don't perpetuate the midlife crisis bullshit http://therationalmale.com/2012/11/19/mid-life-crisis/
/r/askMRP06/10/15 08:21 PM
1

Because the only thing you can change is yourself
/r/askMRP06/10/15 08:18 PM
2

Stop responding to whines and she will stop or complain to someone else
/r/askMRP06/10/15 08:16 PM
1

there is /r/marriedredpill too when he is ready but he will have to find that himself
/r/askTRP06/10/15 07:36 PM
1

There is a reason it is called "Spinning plates". You obviously can't pick up a 6 and a 9 at the bar at the same time but you can game a 9 on your phone while you are chilling with the 6.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 07:27 PM
2

describe the last time this happened. there may be a better way.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 07:23 PM
2

Send him a copy of "No more mr nice guy" discreetly and anonymously
/r/askTRP06/10/15 07:19 PM
-6

watch it now. part of being a man of action is to do things now, not when they are convenient.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 07:18 PM
3

If she is sincerely trying to make things right or improve, you should let her do it. If she is antagonizing or trying to start a fight, you should choose a direction and walk until she gives up or improves.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 07:16 PM
2

Remove yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 06:43 PM
3

Yes, acta non verba, etc. This is a starfish post and should go in your personal journal, not here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 04:18 PM
1

♂
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:08 PM
1

Instead of worrying about salvaging past mistakes, why don't you meet two new women?
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:07 PM
2

Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others If you had read the sidebar, you would be really prepared
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:06 PM
0

If you knowledge of streets and subways stops gets girls wet, you need to find higher quality mates.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:05 PM
1

She just seems incredibly basic to be honest Women are naturally Machiavellian because words are the source of their power. She may be basic but if she was and you truly believed it, you probably wouldn't be here asking about replys to basic questions.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:03 PM
1

[edit: ego adjustment complete]
/r/askTRP06/10/15 03:55 PM
1

There is no "right way" or "best time". If you are ready to end your monk mode, or modify it to try some approaches, do it.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 03:53 PM
1

No one is forcing you to look. If it bothers you go somewhere else. Also, these types of PSAs are useless. This is not a forum and this thread will only be visible for a a day before if falls into oblivion. Your message will never reach its intended audience unless you post the same thing every day
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:47 PM
1

The best exercise to lose weight is "fork putdowns". You don't need cardio. Bullshit. We went to a crowded event recently which included a long walk carrying shit and then a few hours of running around with the kids. Without some cardio, I'd be sitting on the blanket with the rest of the worn out "dad bods".
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:43 PM
4

share some of your unique experiences or ask about unique experiences from others. If you have no unique experiences, get out there and make some.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:10 PM
1

right
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:09 PM
4

You improve yourself and she either fucks you or fucks off
/r/askMRP05/10/15 10:08 PM
4

He is not a snowflake and neither is she. Plenty of men have turned things around following the advice here. If your wife is a "medium" then you have failed to lead or have failed to demand better in your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 10:05 PM
2

ECs are not infallible and many noobs on here automatically upvote them. Upvotes are not indicators of quality or correctness. Don't be such a crybaby about your upvotes\downvotes, waste your time on something more productive. In my opinion, it is not a good response, especially the way it is worded. You need to work on your "classic" shit test retorts including A&A, D&A, etc. "No, it doesn't fit anymore" "No, the snap broke off after using it 20 or 30 times :(" "I'm wearing it right now" etc
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:52 PM
19

My bday was last week. Guess what the wife did for me? Nothing. She gave you a great gift. You had a covert contract and she destroyed it. You need to kill these. go read NMMNG. We went out to dinner and she whined the whole time and was basically miserable to be around cuz she didn't like the place I picked. Next time, tell her to stop complaining. If she continues, cancel the date, drop her off and home and do do whatever you want. Be pleasant and matter of fact. Do not display anger when doin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:37 PM
3

Even if you divorced your wife, your beta tendencies may lead you to a woman who treats you the same and you will end up at the bar asking the same questions and complaining about a different woman. Keep improving yourself and check the app in another 6 months to see if things have changed.
/r/askMRP05/10/15 09:28 PM
2

you need a hobby: sports, guitar, mma, etc. Get out there and do something interesting and you will have something interesting to talk about.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:56 PM
3

why are you inviting low value people into your life? Challenge yourself and attract a higher quality partner.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:54 PM
1

This is a shit test and should be handled with the same techniques you learned from reading the sidebar. You have been reading the sidebar, right?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:53 PM
1

Practicing stoicism is different than being stoic. One is a system for rational thought and the other is a state of emotion. Go learn the difference and you will have your answer.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:52 PM
1

"He was texting me too. We were trying to figure out a way to bring up your dependence on your phone and your daily texting requirements. We think you should seek professional help" cocky\funny. you need to read the sidebar (again if necessary)
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:44 PM
3

Stop skipping steps. Go read the sidebar on the main sub
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:40 PM
-2

3.14 is the optimal number per day. Honestly, what type of question is this? Are you trolling? The optimal number is whatever number you want. Stop seeking validation from us a go live your life.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:39 PM
-3

That response was pretty weak. Next time just "lol" and next
/r/askTRP05/10/15 08:37 PM
1

You need a new hobby, one that involves interacting with people in the real world. Choose something that you want to do, do not focus on women, but make sure women are naturally around your hobby. For example, don't quit WoW and then pickup MtG. Look for something like coed sports. Your city likely has many different sports to choose from. Then start going with the intention of playing the sport and "meeting" people. don't pressure yourself to be there to find a new friend or a gf, just go out a…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 06:33 PM
3

lame
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:34 PM
6

A&A "Sorry for the late reply, I was right in the middle of using it when you texted. Enjoyed it."
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:33 PM
2

I think that nofap may be helpful for some men because they finally have experience having control over something that has been controlling them. There are no "superpowers", just a realization that you are really in control of your own life. Edit: the wiki has a good summary: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/wiki/index specifically the "rebooting is not" section
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:26 PM
3

/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP05/10/15 02:48 PM
3

Deep
/r/askMRP04/10/15 03:08 AM
4

Second, she is upset because previously i used to tell her what time i would be home by texting and i would text her asking how she is throughout the day and i completely stopped cold turkey. I told her "ill be home around ten after work. Just expect that" but i dont tell her that "ill be on time" or "ill be late." You are taking IDGAF and STFU too literally. You still have to communicate with your wife. Thirdly, she says i dont listen to her anymore. We were walking to the car after going to th…
/r/askMRP02/10/15 10:46 PM
1

no
/r/askTRP02/10/15 10:30 PM
5

Stop talking like this. Act like a man.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 10:27 PM
7

Have a drink. Then take her to another bar for another round. Do not tell her ahead of time about the venue change. Make it seem "spontaneous". This will get her in the mood to "follow your lead". Then kino and escalate.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 10:26 PM
3

What if my job isn't the problem? What if I'm the problem? Your job is not the problem, you are the problem. My retail job has me feeling completely trapped. It makes me feel powerless. Like I have zero power to control my life. I'm desperate. You need a new job I'm overwhelmed, and don't know where to turn. I desperately need advice, even if it's obvious advice. Start looking for a new job I want to make my life better. I want to put in the effort to make the change. But I'm starting to feel li…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 10:23 PM
7

Sprints are cardio. They may be non-traditional cardio, but anything the gets your heart rate up, by definition, is cardio.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 06:52 PM
1

yes, but you may find it affects other areas of your life (mood, energy level, condition of hair and skin, etc). Garbage in, garbage out.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 06:50 PM
3

The best exercise for losing weight is "fork putdowns". Track your calories and eat at a deficit.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 06:49 PM
2

Here is your action plan: Start working out Find a job Resume your diet
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:40 PM
1

You need to stop blaming other people for your situation and start taking control. Lift, read the side bar, etc.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:00 PM
2

Handle your alcohol like an adult. You don't want people to know you as "that barback that drinks to much"
/r/askTRP30/09/15 09:52 PM
2

Perhaps you should describe your current diet and lifestyle so we can make recommendations.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 09:48 PM
5

Many, many, many people are confused by being stoic and practicing stoicism. There is a huge difference between the two. Being stoic simply means having no emotion and many here seem to think this is what we mean when we recommend stoicism. Being a stonefaced, emotionless robot may not get you where you need to go. Practicing stoicism means having control over your emotions and choosing the appropriate response. So you should laugh when you find something funny.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 04:19 PM
1

You can't even control your emotions. You are not the captain of anything. Once you drop your delusions, you may learn something. Specifically focus on your following sentences: "She idolizes me \ a decline in sex".
/r/askMRP30/09/15 04:08 PM
1

Your friend lacks abundance mentality and is rationalizing his feelings to make himself feel better.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:22 PM
2

Without remorse. For example, you can dump a cheating woman without feeling bad about it because you know that your boundaries trump feelings and feelings will pass
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:16 PM
5

You will never be free as long as your happiness is dependent on another human. You must love yourself first so that you can enforce your boundaries without remorse, guilt, regret, etc. Have your feelings and then move on. dont waste energy on people who do not add value.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:42 AM
5

Then act like a man and suffer the consequences
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:35 AM
1

She is not attracted to you and is not afraid of losing you. Employ some dread, raise your SMV and then try again.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:33 AM
9

stop sucking your thumb
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:31 AM
0

we know
/r/askTRP24/09/15 10:49 PM
1

Maybe you should try and leverage your chef experience. Manager\Owner\Food Truck\etc
/r/askTRP24/09/15 10:49 PM
2

You are missing the point. It is not where you play or what you play. The point is to get out in the world and play. There will be women everywhere you play be it rap, country, jazz, etc.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 10:45 PM
0

not a waste of time if i can prevent other morons from doing the same. this is cringe worthy, are you 14?
/r/askTRP24/09/15 10:41 PM
1

don't waste our time with this bullshit
/r/askTRP24/09/15 10:35 PM
3

her: i won't be taking your last name you: i'm not giving it to you
/r/askTRP24/09/15 10:34 PM
2

Whats the fucking problem? It sounds like neither of you really want the gym in the house but you seem think this is grounds for divorce? Ask your gym for different equipment, change your routine, change gyms, etc. You need to start acting like a man who handles problems instead of a man who whines about his wife on the internet. To the broader question of home vs away gym: There is no passive dread when you are "safe" at home in the basement.
/r/askMRP24/09/15 09:00 PM
1

Do something. Sport, musical instrument, second language, etc. Do something you want to do. Then do it again. You will build an interesting life.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:46 PM
6

It is a crutch that can be abused and can lead to addiction. Why don't you try the 25/5 method? 25 minutes of work, 5 minutes of whatever you want. Repeat until you are done working.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:41 PM
3

her: i won't be taking your last name you: good luck with that
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:38 PM
1

It was poorly worded. I meant he would have access to people his age in college, not at work
/r/askTRP23/09/15 05:13 PM
3

You are gonna see a lot of people lose their shit over missing pickles or ranch. In your "real" life you will see people lose their shit over equally minor things and you will finally understand what "holding frame" means. If you do not control your emotions, your emotions will control you.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 05:11 PM
1

both get in trouble, possible assault charges, and there will likely be camera evidence.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:32 PM
0

Go to college. You will get a degree that can land you a high paying job and you will have easy access to other people your age.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:15 PM
1

Be the DJ.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 04:19 AM
3

Lots of legal ways to stay, quit trying to be a rebel (moron).
/r/askTRP20/09/15 04:18 AM
1

Stop comms and then start back up after 3 days. Next time start the ban immediately and don't give in to bullshit
/r/askTRP19/09/15 11:25 PM
3

You would not be able to work or if you found work, it would likely be low paid (dishwasher) or illegal. If you want to be in the usa, look at obtaining citizenship.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 11:23 PM
2

/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP19/09/15 04:09 AM
1

The fact that doctors all around the world universally agree the exercise is good for you.http://www.nationaljewish.org/healthinfo/conditions/cardio/exercise-and-heart-disease/ So my "facts" are based on the evidence of millions of people who die each year from preventable disease that couldnt work out because they had "heart problems".
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:32 AM
2

op doesn't want to pay for drinks and this is one way to get out of it. You do what works for you but next time you could try "I truly believe in equality so you can get the first round" with a big grin.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:18 PM
1

this will show you how: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:10 PM
1

do you need me to hold your hand and point you to the answer?
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:00 PM
1

there is a cool new site that will teach you how to do this
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:57 PM
1

you will be too busy trying to find "the one" that you will miss many opportunities. Go out, have fun and if it leads to more, go with it.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:55 PM
1

real men have beards. this guy is an actor, not a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 08:50 PM
3

The internet made me sad today. time to log off for a while.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:50 PM
3

You should learn what you have control over Your emotions: Yes The actions of any other person on this planet: No Once you accept this, the anxiety will disappear
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:48 PM
2

paternity test too
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:46 PM
1

Jail. You will go to jail. Start recording and GTFO.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:43 PM
3

"You buy this round and I'll get the next" and then shut the fuck up about. If she complains, order her a water.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:42 PM
1

There is a difference between using cash to get what you want and being a luddite. You can discreetly slip the right person 20 and cut lines, etc. you can't do that with an nfc chip.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:41 PM
1

It depends on the situation. Agree and amplify, disagree and amplify, silence, laugh with them, etc.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:38 PM
1

this is foolproof: "Meet me at x at y time for drinks" If she accepts or offers to reschedule, she is interested, otherwise next.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:30 PM
2

If you go out for fast food go to Moe's for burrito bowl Bowls are dangerous because most people will load them up and then you are easily at 1200 kcals.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 06:35 PM
4

this is a starfish post
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 06:31 PM
1

"phone screen cracked" is powertalk for "i am not interested". If she wanted to talk to your, she would have found a way. soft next and move on.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:04 PM
4

Your wife doesn't respect you. You annoy her Do you lift? Are you reading the books on the side bar?
/r/askMRP18/09/15 02:59 PM
0

A weak heart from years of not lifting. His doctor would be more than happy to prescribe some exercise to help him.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 02:42 PM
9

Being more confrontational does not make you a man. The "bros" you see out and about making a scene and losing control of their emotions are the fakest people on the planet.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 01:53 AM
2

Value your time above all. If this girl wants sex from you, she will respond to your "my house, 10pm" message. If not, you can spend your Sunday meeting new people instead of orbiting your ex.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:39 PM
1

Plus you know the artist, so you've got status points Knowing an unknown artist doesn't bring status, lol
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:01 PM
3

Thats a sure shot NO from her... she isn't gonna come to my place after her show And you know this how? She will go out with her friends and family 100% She wont be out all night Don't you wanna leave some possibility in the offer? You just have to reframe your relationship. She wants another warm body at her show to validate her. I'm assuming you want to plate her so you offer her the chance to hang out after she gets validated by the other her other orbiters. I guarantee you that a sat night r…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:59 PM
4

Or 'Saturday 10 pm, my place?'. no So it will be under the pretext that I would come on Sunday only if she comes on Saturday? No, they are independent. She will come if she wants and you will go to the art show if you want. There is no bargaining. You are not in a position to trade. You are in a position to tell her what you want: I want sex and my place after your art show. I will not be attending your art show, if you want my valuable company, you will be here at 10pm. You communicate all of t…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:01 PM
4

Secondly, should i go or not? That is your decision. You need to have a goal in mind and then work to reach that goal. If you want to plate this chick, your response should be "Sunday 10pm, my place".
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:18 PM
8

You may be terrible in bed. Also, you could be talking to much. Something as simple as "Meet me at x at y time" may work better than "meet me at x at y time to pregame and then to a frat party"
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:15 PM
3

"Meet me at x place at y time" If she shows up, she is interested. Otherwise soft next and move on.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:11 PM
1

"I'm looking for petite redheads"
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:47 PM
6

The wording is very, very specific. Leave out the dream and stick with "would" vs "did". "Why did I cheat on you?" could lead to a specific answer, eg: because we got in a fight in the dream, blah, blah, blah "Why would I cheat on you?" leads to a broad reflection on the relationship in the real world You could also go with agree and amplify: was she hot?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:41 PM
1

There is a difference between a cheeky\funny\sarcastic comment and and angry outburst. Speak up if you are going to be funny and lighthearted. If you feel anger, shut the fuck up and then speak if necessary.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:59 PM
2

You are failing because you are making too many fucking excuses. Stop making excuses and try to start acting for a change.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:25 PM
4

Urinate on him to establish dominance
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:22 PM
2

who cares. you should be pursuing your hobbies and goals. that is attractive to women.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:21 PM
1

Try shutting the fuck up. Seriously. Stop fucking talking. Count to three in your head before you even think about letting the words coming out of your mouth. Then ask yourself "Am I controlling my words or are my words controlling me"
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:20 PM
13

"I had a dream you cheated on me last night...." "Why would i need to cheat on you?" Pull her back into your frame and make her qualify the relationship
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 06:22 PM
1

this is a starfish post. save this type of bullshit for facebook
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/15 06:48 PM
2

It is not a shit test if she is hiding it from him. Read the post.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/15 06:03 PM
3

She is not doing it overtly. Read the post. He is snooping her phone or chats.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/15 06:03 PM
1

You are probably not exchanging fat for muscle at an even rate. You are eating too much.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:18 PM
-2

Yes, we understand why you are like this. You have no abundance mentality, no self respect, and you don't lift. Hit the gym and then work your way through the sidebar content.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:08 PM
4

You are giving way too many fucks where none should be given. You have the option to engage or not so choose not. Get off facebook, Reddit, etc and find higher quality friends. edit: we are here to "enjoy the decline", getting mad about it is a waste of energy
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:58 PM
3

who gives a shit what other people think. Make a move and if she is not into it, find someone else.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:27 PM
1

find the biggest alpha male in the group and urinate on him to establish dominance.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 05:57 PM
2

this is one of the only girls I haven't been able to joke around with in a cocky funny way this is all in your head. she is a person, like all the other persons out there. treat her like a person.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 05:56 PM
6

You fucked up by not telling her where you were going. It is not "bad" or "wrong" to tell her "drinks with the guys". There is no need to be evasive about or mysterious about shit like that. You also fucked up by talking too much. You are trying to negotiate desire by explicitly telling her that you will only be around if there are blowjobs. It is a threat and most people do not respond well to threats. you course of action is as follows Shut the fuck up about your feelz. No one cares about them…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 05:38 PM
3

Post pictures of what you are eating Complain about your boss\coworkers\friends Post inspirational messages in calligraphy Post lots of pictures of your miniature dog Have at least 500 "friends" and then post messages like "some people can't be trusted (you know who you are)" Post "I'm sad" with no other details every few weeks Post every time you are "tottally wasteed" Be sure to like\share\whatever with 10 people to have your wishes granted state your positions on divisive issues to make sure …
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:11 PM
2

Dread is constant, you just vary the intensity. You must also focus on Passive dread as it can be a lot more effective. Active dread: Telling your wife about the new secretary at the office Passive dread: When your wife sees the secretary laugh and touch your arm at a company get together Active dread: flirting with the waitress Passive dread: the waitress flirting with you Active dread: Walking around shirtless after hitting the gym hard for 9 months Passive dread: Getting comments from mutual …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 02:42 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 02:33 PM
1

google "Amused mastery"
/r/askMRP11/09/15 02:29 PM
1

You really need to read NMMNG and the rest of the books on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP11/09/15 02:26 PM
1

He still thinks asking for what he wants makes him a bad guy.
/r/askMRP11/09/15 02:25 PM
1

Bullshit. Expensive gifts are beta tactics. A woman will be happy with a bag of skittles from an Alpha (https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/)
/r/askTRP11/09/15 02:24 PM
1

You can have an inexpensive wedding and honeymoon if you don't marry a superficial princess
/r/askTRP10/09/15 08:58 PM
7

photography is about lighting and angles. Most of the time this will be out of your control and is not worth worrying about. go do something more productive with your time and stop wasting ours with this bullshit.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:54 PM
1

People don't respect your past commitment because you already gave it to them. You are still holding on to it like it matters. Time to let it go. Google "sunk cost fallacy".
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:50 PM
1

Here is my advice: You can't cultivate self respect if you are constantly worried about other peoples feelings. Your kids will still love you if you go to the gym a few nights a week. All they see now is a weak man who lives in a pigsty with a lazy woman. You need to start ACTING instead of talking. Once your family realizes your words are quickly followed by actions, they will act too.
/r/askMRP10/09/15 07:40 PM
2

seems like you already know everything. good luck.
/r/askMRP10/09/15 07:20 PM
2

only 1 only takes one time should I contact her and tell her I don't want to see her again no just ignore her yes
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:16 PM
7

You are raw dogging random women. I suspect your luck has or is about to change.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:03 PM
3

You are having trouble setting boundaries because there is no weight to your words. If you ask her to do the dishes, what is the consequence if she fails to do them? She probably knows you will just end up doing them so there is no reason for her to do them. Try this "This kitchen is a mess and I am not cooking. I'll be at the gym, you are on your own for dinner". Or "I am going to do my laundry now, and you can do yours when I am at the gym"
/r/askMRP10/09/15 06:54 PM
21

google "dependapotamus"
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:16 PM
1

You could do everything right and she might have still left. You can't control other people, you can only control yourself. You have to move on, over analyzing is not healthy.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:06 PM
2

The best dread is subtle. If you were lifting and improving your wardrobe, your girl would notice other chicks checking you out and flirting with you. You need to stop lying in all areas of your life and hit the sidebar hard.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:03 PM
3

'There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.' - Ernest Hemingway
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:59 PM
1

He is a cross between a passive loser and mgtow
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:46 PM
2

once you realize you are the result of your own actions, the world becomes a different place. I'd also recommend reading the book "a guide to the good life"
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:44 PM
2

No need to be a dick. Not sure where you, and many like you, are getting this message. Do you honestly think that correcting a chicks spelling is going to make her wet?
/r/askTRP09/09/15 02:00 AM
13

There are no timelines. Agree and Amplify can be the first thing you say to a woman. You are failing because you are making too many fucking excuses.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:51 PM
19

you only care about sex not true, i also care about blow jobs you only care about my looks not true, i also enjoy your cooking This is basic agree and amplify\disagree amplify and is covered in the side bar. why are you skipping the material?
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:12 PM
1

You physical appearance tells the world who you are without speaking a single word. It is the foundation of your frame.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:10 PM
2

trp is universal because is deals with the interaction between men and women.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:05 PM
8

you are giving her too much power. Treat her like HB5 and carry on as usual.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:15 PM
7

Have you guys seen similar things so close up? yes And what do you usually say if a girl asks you for drinks? I'll have a gin and tonic and a diet coke for the lady
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:02 PM
2

This does not belong here
/r/askTRP06/09/15 08:11 PM
0

Sermons are broad and generic so that they can apply the the guy cheating on his wife, or the guy with a gambling problem, or the woman with jealous thoughts, etc. You don't need God to be good, you only need virtue. "Live a good life. If there are gods and they are just, then they will not care how devout you have been, but will welcome you based on the virtues you have lived by. If there are gods, but unjust, then you should not want to worship them. If there are no gods, then you will be gone…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 06:51 AM
-1

And you haven't?
/r/askTRP05/09/15 06:45 AM
2

No insight needed, bro. You name dropped the stoicism subreddit and then failed to actually try and learn what it was. If you had spent anyttime at all in the stoicism subreddit or read any of the stoic texts, you wouldnt be here with these silly questions. I also never critisized your rp knowledge but your projection makes me question the work you have done so far.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 11:26 PM
1

You are trying to learn reading snippets and it is confusing you. Stop trying to take the easy way. Go read the book "A guide to the good life"
/r/askTRP04/09/15 09:57 PM
2

You don't understand stoicism. It is not about suppressing your emotions, being stone cold, or removing all joy from your life. Who wants to be around that? Stoicism is a philosophy for life that supposes the primary goal of life is to live in accordance with nature—which is to be a rational, social and virtuous member of humanity. If you are not having fun and bettering yourself, and the world by extension, what is the point?
/r/askTRP04/09/15 09:48 PM
1

Because married men need other alternatives than "next her" and "dont get married" and MRP fills that void.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 09:43 PM
5

IMO, shit tests are far down the list for MRP. The men over there need to start with lifting outcome independence abundance mentality These three things will lead to crushing shit tests naturally because these are the things that natural alphas do.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 10:02 PM
2

Women live for Powertalk, they'll pick up even subtle indications that you're possibly seeing other women I find that using the correct pronoun works wonders. Try to use "they\them" instead of "him\her". "Hanging out with a friend, haven't seem him in a while" "Hanging out with a friend, haven't seem them in a while"
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:27 PM
6

Although MRP is built on solid RP concepts (OI, AM, A&A, etc), half the posts in TRP serve no purpose for the married red piller. We don't need advice on how to avoid single mothers or tune our tinder profiles. MRP should be the first destination, not TRP.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:16 PM
6

Hell, even the honchos at MRP don't recommend marriage. They don't sell marriage. MRP isnt pro-marriage, it is anti divorce rape.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:10 PM
1

She is fishing for attention. "No babe, I only want you". You should not be paying this much attention to women on fb, twitter, etc.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 12:10 AM
5

Because life isnt fair. This site is a business and businesses want money. There is no money pandering to atheists and 50 year old executives at coca cola are too stupid to understand user generated content.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 10:00 PM
3

Keep it in cash. No need to risk a paper trail for a few percentage points of appreciation
/r/askMRP29/08/15 09:02 PM
8

It's a recipe for some sort of apple dessert.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 09:00 PM
2

How many times are you going to post this? Memes don't belong anywhere near trp.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 08:58 PM
2

Nothing more to do, time to let it go and move on. Also, stop drinking so much.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 02:32 PM
2

You will receive market values for your skillset. If you want more money, use actions, not words.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 02:05 PM
4

/r/marriedredpill You fucked up by failing to be a leader. Do not bring this up to her. She wants to be married to man, not a whiner. Start handling your shit and lead her to the life you envision.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 02:03 PM
3

No. There are no redillers in Brazil. There are a few vermelho pillers.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 02:45 AM
2

Do whatever you want, stop seeking external validation.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 12:02 AM
1

start posting so all readers can benefit
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:53 PM
1

Focus on improving yourself. When they compare you to other people and you are clearly "winning", you words and influence will have a lot of weight.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:49 PM
5

Urinate on him to establish dominance
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:48 PM
-1

You failed his first test: reading more than 26 words.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:47 PM
2

Anyone know what I'm talking about? No. Focus on improving yourself. The things you can't change will eat you alive if you let them.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:46 PM
3

It was the first Google result I'm impressed. Dailymail doesn't conduct scientific research, they report it, along with new York times and a hundred others. They sensationalize so morons will link to it
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:28 PM
3

the daily mail is not a reputable news source
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:10 PM
56

Stop wasting your time with low value women who openly lie to you. Hard next and move on.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 09:37 PM
3

I think a lot of people miss the message about emotions. TRP says talk less, control your emotions, maintain frame, etc. This does not mean you need to be an emotionless robot all the time. Women want to be man who ENJOYS life and you must display emotions for a woman to get this message. It means to laugh, be funny, cocky, tease, push\pull, etc. On the other hand, women are repulsed by weak men and you should not cry on your woman's shoulder. You should not take your problems to your woman, etc…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 09:19 PM
3

Never actually ate You looked at the menu. people at work are off limits.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 08:10 PM
2

He is giving advice, you are just too stupid to listen. Stop hitting on girls at work. Stop hitting on low value women Stop hitting on 3/4/5 This chick is going to poison anyone who will listen. Your friend may be the boss but your rep is going to suffer.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 08:09 PM
2

ask a physical therapist
/r/askTRP27/08/15 08:06 PM
2

If you were my employee, I'd have fired you already for letting your dick and scarcity mentality put my business at risk of a sexual harassment lawsuit. People seem to forget that they are employed to make someone else money and those other people have no trouble getting rid of liabilities. Some even enjoy it.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:26 PM
7

The "milk" suggestion is stupid OP's situation is a bit different. She is disrespecting him and weaponizing sex and his response should be to scale back his commitment to her.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:28 PM
8

Both of you are hamerstering so hard. The next time your gf is is rude or disrespectful, leave and turn your phone off. She will be pissed but that is not your problem. You "weather the shit storm" by saying "you were being really rude\disrespectful and I am not putting up with it anymore". Repeat it as many times as necessary.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:24 PM
2

texting "unsubscribe" works wonders in several different situations
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:30 PM
5

Infinity. Nexting should always be on the table, even in a LTR.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:28 PM
2

There is a difference between being "aggressive and forward" and "sexuality". If you dont have any luck at the clubs, try some day game.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:26 PM
5

If your dad generally acts like a man in his life, you don't need to address the issue because he won't be relying on you for emotional support. It is ok for a man to be sad when his brother is dying. If you want to "be there for him" or whatever bullshit advice your sister has given you, make an effort to take him hunting or fishing to take his mind off of it for a few hours. If you are expecting some emotional connection, you will likely be disappointed.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:20 PM
1

Walk or run to the gym. Stop making excuses Do bodyweight routines (/r/bodyweightfitness) in your apt. Stop making excuses Buy lean cuts of meat in bulk and freeze them. Buy frozen veggies. Stop making excuses Everytime you think "I cant do this", stop making excuses. Instead ask yourself "How can I make this work for me"
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:13 PM
15

You should be banned from posting for 2 weeks. Don't waste our time with this bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:29 PM
2

Pay attention to actions, not words. Someone who calls you rude but is still talking to you is lying to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:20 PM
0

Yes, be friendly. Instead of thinking about "Value vs No Value", try and think about it as "Casual vs Committed". Your casual relationships will lead to social functions and party invites until you have time to establish stronger relationships.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:04 PM
2

Lies are for the weak. "Out with friends"
/r/askTRP27/08/15 02:52 PM
7

First was kinda bad but the second was terrible. You got emotional and emotional people are weak. You should have said "girlfriend and I had a good laugh at your comment. She said she has a few chubby friends you can practice your game on".
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:18 AM
2

Do whatever you want. Sounds like you are tired of dealing with it. Set a mental time limit for her to bitch, and the go do something else.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 12:10 AM
1

"Let's go have drinks/coffee/whatever"
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:06 AM
5

Close your eyes and imagine you are with your bros. Then open your eyes and act.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:04 AM
6

We are not your doctors. Talk to your doctor about this shit.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:03 AM
21

Cut all contact. No responses. Delete from all social media. She needs closure so she doesnt feel guilty for cheating. Hard next and move on.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:47 PM
3

Treat her like any of your other work colleagues.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:22 PM
5

then why are you wasting our time? Soft next and move on with your life
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:16 PM
2

"Meet me for drinks at xyz at 9pm" and then escalate
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:54 PM
21

"Our lord and my personal savior, Jesus Christ"
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:53 PM
1

Maybe you should be happy that you have a chance to land a 6. Some guys are stuck with 4s and 5s. You need to focus on the other aspects of SMV: Status and Game. Spend your time improving instead of dwelling on things you cant change.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:40 PM
1

Turn you head to someone and say "Sup" and then continue the conversation.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:29 PM
2

If you feel like your time is being wasted, leave and do something worthwhile. No need to admonish or lecture, it makes you seem weak. Let your actions do the talking.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:28 PM
2

It gets easier and can be a pretty fun once you know the "rules" of the game.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:19 PM
3

Thursday at 3:42 pm is the optimal time.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:17 PM
1

While I do agree that a healthy and active lifestyle should be the first thing to try, there are many real chemical imbalances that can only be corrected via meds.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:55 PM
1

get added to the account as an authorized user or close them
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 06:40 PM
3

Again. She is not special and you are giving her too much power. All women have natural Machiavellian tendencies. They use words and emotion, not strength and logic. You have to kill this part of your brain so you are no longer a victim to her "superhuman jedi level shit tests learned by battling demons in the fiery depths of hell".
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 06:34 PM
2

I think it might take a Jedi You are giving it too much power when you talk about it like that. You dont need to be a jedi, you just need to recognize them and pass them.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 04:04 PM
1

1 year is a long time. Look at work, loans, etc. you need to hustle if dad cant help.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:00 PM
1

"Hey dad, I really need this money to complete Uni and have a chance to land a decent job." If he sends them money, thank him and move on. If he doesn't, you will have to pick up the slack. Many people go to school without parental help and you can do it too.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:50 PM
2

You need more physical activity to increase your body awareness. Martial arts, mma, dance, etc. Once you are more comfortable in your body, it will bleed into your sex life.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:41 PM
1

My original reply was asking you how fat you were. Then i told you to look at your text game and you gave another excuse and I started to challenge you. The context of the messages here are very clear: You are blaming tinder and lack of "super random occurrences" for your failure instead of looking at your own actions. If you spoke to 100 women this week, you wouldn't need a "super random occurrence". Unfortunately, you are too focused on trying to prove to us that you are a victim or too focuse…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:37 PM
1

I'm not arguing with you. This isn't an argument. You are acting like an angry beta and I am calling you out. You are here crying like a baby about your struggles and instead of being introspective you are lashing out at the people trying to help you. the rest of us are starting to see why you are not attracting high quality women. Read the side bar on the main sub and you will understand why too.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:32 PM
1

You sure are projecting a lot. Maybe the women in your life are picking up on some latent homosexuality? Or maybe they see how quick you are to resort to name calling and anger which are both huge beta traits. You need to start reading the side bar and get you emotions in check.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:26 PM
1

Ad hominem doesn't work on me, try again.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:57 AM
3

There are literally women everywhere. Day game, night game, club game, etc. You are failing because you are making too many fucking excuses. Harden up or be forever stuck here crying with the rest of the sad sacks.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:37 AM
1

My only comment is about Patron. It used to be a cheap bottle of tequila before a wealthy businessman put it in a fancy bottle, labeled it "super premium" and started marketing it to Americans.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 10:25 PM
3

get to 15% and increase your text game.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:49 PM
1

I will not be part of this pity party. You need to look at your texting game or do something else. Until you start overcoming excuses with action, you will always be a bitch to your ego.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:47 PM
2

Add more, higher quality, friends.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:20 PM
2

I should have clarified. Doing something positive (eating healty food) is harder than doing nothing (cheeseburger and fries) Doing something positive (working) is harder than doing nothing (sitting in moms basement) Doing something positive (going to sleep) is harder than doing nothing (consuming low value internet content and the jerking off into a dirty sock) Op knows he is being lazy and needs to decide if his life is going to revolve around active choices or negative defaults.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:18 PM
3

read the side bar. It is a how to guide on how to attract and spin plates
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:12 PM
2

Doing something is harder than doing nothing. I choose to do things because I see my friends getting fat, lazy, boring, and unmotivated. I want to do things so I must act like a man who gets things done.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:58 PM
1

You think she's unattractive? I don't know what girls you're fucking then. This girl is literally caked in makeup. There is something hiding under all those layers. I don't know how it's not obvious either. Guess I'm missing something. You are paying too much attention to shit that doesn't matter
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:44 PM
23

You got caught in a lie. Stop lying to women. Lies are tools for the weak and uninteresting.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:36 PM
1

it's not "flying out of the bullpen". That shit if for losers who cant control their emotions. You want calm, collected, and cool. Your words have weight because actions will be following up. This will be hard at first because many people have words and no actions. Once the people around you know that your words mean actions, you will not need to use as many words.
/r/askMRP25/08/15 06:23 PM
1

This advice works on all people, not just in-laws. Once you realize you have the power to maintain your frame, it becomes really obvious.
/r/askMRP25/08/15 06:17 PM
2

Shit will haunt me until the day I fucking die. Don't die a bitter old man
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:59 PM
3

It will be rough for a while. This will pass and you will find someone who respects you.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:56 PM
1

You got yourself pumped up over the summer and then when school started you got scared and retreated back into your shell. You are giving way too many fucks about what your classmates think of you. Be summer you and have fun.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:42 PM
13

simply thought that I had found someone with whom I could spend my life if I acted properly This is literally the definition of oneitis What do I do? Cut all contact. Change the locks. I am about to call the 'other' man Anger and violence are beta traits. Don't risk you freedom defending the "honor" of a cheating woman
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:37 PM
2

I'm not fat, though not jacked either I guess. But I certainly fall into the "waspy ideal" of weight for the most part. Which one are you?: http://forums.steroid.com/attachments/educational-threads/136939d1365372177-handy-bf-pic-chart-male-female-image.jpg
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:26 PM
2

too much analyzing. your looks will get your foot in the door but you still need other things to increase your smv.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:22 PM
1

I initiated conversations with women. Even something as simple as "sup" while waiting for a drink. Most people are scared of rejection and will never try.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:18 PM
2

This is what happens when people are too lazy to read the side bar. Op should be banned for 6 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:02 PM
19

Hold up. You mean Mark Ruffalo can't really transform into The Hulk when he gets angry?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:01 PM
7

"We are not discussing a,b, or c." If they bring it up again "I told you we are not discussing a,b, or c. Get out of my house"
/r/askMRP25/08/15 02:48 PM
2

Buy a $3 liter of vodka and pour it into an empty bottle that had $20 liter vodka.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 02:18 AM
7

She made an unreasonable request. Do you think an A&A would have worked? "Kid told me they wanted a 'swamp' themed party and I've been growing the algae all summer".
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/15 09:27 PM
1

driven and awakened, I feel sadness and anger. There are many stages to the pill and you will likely pass through each of them Late at night..I always stare at the ceiling and have a small moment of motivation. Where I think I can maybe change things around. But as soon as I wake up, it all comes back. You have to get up and do something different you have to replace one habit with another. When you wake up tomorrow, go join a gym and walk on the treadmill for 1 hour. Do it everyday. Then learn …
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:11 PM
2

Sounds like you know what needs to be done. good luck
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:05 PM
2

It is not cost effective if its taking 3 days of your life away.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:51 PM
3

People who go 100% for long periods burn out. Downtime is good as long as it is controlled. Try buying a smaller amount of weed if you have trouble controller yourself.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:36 PM
2

It depends. If the girlfriend sees you chatting up a girl with curly hair, and she is envious of girls with curly hair because her boyfriend in 7th grade left her for another girl with curly hair, she will be super jealous. Since you cant predict all of the crazy scenarios and each girl will have her own dread triggers, it is a lot easier to just advise men to constantly be on their game.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:32 PM
6

Anger is a beta trait. You don't need to be confrontational or angry to be alpha. Normally, the angry bros out there are fake, scared, and insecure. You need to reframe the conversation in your head. You need to focus on setting strong boundaries and then enforcing them. Lets say you have a date with a woman and she is 25 minutes late without a phone call. She shows up late and offers a half-assed apology. You could get upset and scold her or you could also get up and leave. Which is more alpha?
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:05 PM
1

There isn't a smooth way to accuse someone of cheating. My advice is to lie and come up with another reason your are collecting the DNA or do it incognito. You are fixated on the conversation instead of finding the evidence first.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:14 PM
1

Im not making any moral judgements or trying to assert political correctness. The question was "is it worth the risk". You would have to be a complete idiot to risk your freedom for a chance at some pussy. Do you have any clue what they do to pedos in prison? If you made it out alive, you would be branded for life.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:01 AM
1

He is risking his freedom and a lifetime status of "pedo" for a chance at some action.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:49 AM
-2

You are clearly a fucked up individual. Please seek treatment.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:37 AM
1

"The matrix? The first one was good but the sequels were terrible."
/r/askTRP24/08/15 02:25 AM
1

Found the guy with the small dick ^ ^ ^ It was a joke, chillax.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 02:08 AM
2

You don't get it. A lawyer cannot expunge records from a private database. Arrests and criminal history are reported in real-time now and the private databases cannot be compelled to expunge.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:09 AM
2

No it doesn't because private companies are not bound to honor expungment.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:03 AM
2

You obviously don't want advice. Why are you here?
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:01 AM
2

She wanted validation and you gave it to her. Next time just say "come over at 8"
/r/askTRP24/08/15 12:57 AM
2

People talk a lot of shit. He is probably puffing himself up or doesn't quite require the clearance he suggests.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 12:55 AM
2

Expungement is easy Nope. Let's say a company pulls your record as part of the data collection process once a month. You are in their database. Then the state updates their database. If the company does not reconcile, you will still be marked. Now multiply this by thousands of databases. Expungment may have worked in the 80s but the internet never forgets data. Tldr: private companies do not need to purge expunged records http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/51753949-78/expunged-criminal-expungemen…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 12:49 AM
2

Gave her the first orgasm You and the last 5 guys she was with. Women are like your job, it is rarely about your past successes, they both want to know what is next. You had the relationship shit test and failed.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 12:36 AM
2

Lift and read the side bar on the main sub. If you do the work, you will achieve your goals.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 12:32 AM
1

For things that can be out sourced, like cleaning, you have the option to pay someone else. If you have traffic, move closer to where you want to work and play. Some things are unavoidable and you will just have to deal with it.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 11:28 PM
1

Post this to /r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP23/08/15 09:29 PM
2

She's probably gonna laugh at it and leave. 7.5 is a little small. Good luck, you are going to need it.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 08:05 PM
2

Keep spending money on treatments that don't work and keep feeling sorry for yourself. Come back in 6 months and tell us how better your life is.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:37 PM
1

You should feel empowered, not guilty. You want high quality people in your network and must be quick to cut toxic people from your life.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:14 PM
1

Go online and buy a home testing kit and do it yourself. You will have an answer without accusing her of being a whore and potentially straining your relationship with your bro.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 05:42 PM
1

You can't change your height. You need to focus on the things you can change.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 05:01 PM
7

Fight club is a movie. Your life is real. We advocate doing things that will objectively make your life better in the real world. You have to understand that being happy all the time is the same as being sad all the time: it indicates a serious problem. Your are anxious because you are giving too many fucks where none fucks should be given http://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck You need to learn to focus your energy on virtuous things instead of worrying about dog leashes.Go read the book "a gu…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 04:30 PM
0

Realz > Feelz
/r/askTRP23/08/15 02:51 PM
1

"We invited you to live with us but unfortunately it is not working out for us. We really like having a clean living space and did not expect the chores to increase this much. You have 4 weeks to find a new place to live."
/r/askTRP23/08/15 02:48 PM
1

Motivation is fleeting. What you lack is discipline. You need to focus on doing something, anything, when you lose motivation. Get up. Do something.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 02:38 PM
3

You can't /thread your own thread. I'll help ya out /thread
/r/askTRP23/08/15 01:57 AM
3

What's with the latest obsession with frats and frat bros? College is starting back.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 01:53 AM
5

You have an idealized view of love that does not exist in reality: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/
/r/askTRP22/08/15 06:05 PM
4

Vcards are not important to men. The likelyhood that you will lose your virginity and be with the same woman for the rest of your life is 0%.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 05:32 PM
2

Yes, you just have to manage your expectations. There will be no fairytale ending.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 05:30 PM
2

People naturally want to follow and lookup to leaders. It's why they suggest you change venues on a date. It makes you the leader with a minimal amount of effort. You want to lead whenever possible to help establish your frame as a leader.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 05:26 PM
2

I'm not saying he has not made progress. I really respect the guy for what he does here. I don't even doubt his uncle made some comments about his progress. I just think the story is a little too perfect and sounds a little embellished.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 03:57 PM
1

The whole story seems a little too perfect. Like it was made up.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 03:05 PM
2

It's not rocket science bro. People who don't like you may do things you dissaprove. All relationships are like this. You are wasting a lot of time on this chick. It is unhealthy. Move on with your life.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 01:37 PM
2

Suck it up and follow the "rules". Work on yoursef, graduate, move out, then piss on his grave.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 02:46 AM
3

So it is ok for you to dance with other women but she cannot dance with other men? You need to focus on Abundance Mentality, it will remove her power of your emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 10:16 PM
-1

I like them too. This just seems really fake.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 10:12 PM
7

You don't have to be married to a cheating whore to be a good father to your children. Prenups are not ironclad. They are routinely thrown out. Show some respect for your readers and use some fucking paragraphs every now and then. Your spelling also sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 10:07 PM
16

You are better than this. we need real content, not trp fantasy porn
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 07:51 PM
2

If you need feelz, go elsewhere. This shit works because we dont sugarcoat it. Toughen up.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 07:03 PM
2

You are missing the point of the article. If she is making you commit to a relationship or jump through bullshit hoops before sex, she is weaponizing it to get what she wants and you should bail.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 06:24 PM
1

Start at the sidebar in the main sub and work your way through the content in between sets at the gym.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 06:17 PM
4

Mistake 1: saying GOOD TIME in all caps multiple times. It is creepy and too obvious. Mistake 2: Those texts were really difficult to understand, you really need to work on your communication skills and using less words to communicate. You could have avoided all of this by just saying "Meet me for drink at 8". Instead you offered lots of "GOOD TIMES" and shitty explanations.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 06:15 PM
3

First stop: the gym Second stop: the sidebar
/r/askTRP21/08/15 06:05 PM
1

Never have coworkers on facebook, unless you're 100% sure they're on your side Even 100% people will turn on you given the right circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:50 PM
1

Being a black sheep is a bad thing when you could be a wolf in sheep's clothing. You are failing the following laws of power: Law 5: So Much Depends on Reputation (your reputation is "loner\misanthrope") Law 6: Court Attention at all Cost (staying quiet and talking about tps reports make you boring) Law 7: Get Others to Do the Work for You (others are more likely to do your work if they like you) Law 11: Learn To Keep People Dependent on You (they may depend on you for work functions, you also w…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:35 PM
1

checkout the bodyweightfitness sub
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 02:53 PM
1

He takes on big projects and seems to be undeterred by failure or difficult problems.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:27 AM
1

There is no karma and there is no equity in business. It is a system setup by assholes to screw morons.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:25 AM
3

People come and go. Why waste time talking about people who don't care about you?
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:26 AM
1

he is asking about investing with the company "New york life" via his buddy who works there. bad idea http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/retirement-gamble/
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:51 PM
3

Your "buddy" is going to get a sweet commission and then his company is going to take 2% of your returns each year for 30 or 40 years. Do you want to give New York Life $150,000? If not, go setup an account with vanguard, schwab, or fidelity. They are dead simple. http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/retirement-gamble/
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:50 PM
0

She literally said "What you mean next time? There won't be a next time" and then went no contact. It doesnt take a genius to see what is happening
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:56 PM
2

Real estate has historically only barely outpaced inflation
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:11 PM
1

well not really that was the first time I have seen her since meeting Can you count? You had two chances. The first time you met and the second time she went out with you. so instead of being a douche and saying my text game is terrible, point me somewhere where I can improve my text game I'm not here to sugarcoat it or protect your feelz. You blew it twice and then your shitty text game sealed the deal. If you want to improve yourself, start at the sidebar of the main sub. You can read it in th…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:14 PM
5

My understanding is that usually plates exclusively see you (correct me if I'm wrong) wrong. plates are free to see other people and it is your responsibility to manage your emotions when this happens Can anyone offer any input as to handle the situation if I find out they've seen other people? Do I just let it slide? Put in minimal effort and establish new plates at school
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:08 PM
0

You've had multiple chances. Your texting game is terrible. Soft next and move on.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:03 PM
6

Low cost index funds. Call Vanguard and tell them you want to setup a roth ira. They will walk you through the process. Also, if your employer offers a 401k with matching, contribute just enough to maximize the match. You want r/personalfinance not r/investing.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:58 PM
8

I always figured because of the long period of time we've known each other This is a huge covert contract. kill it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 03:00 PM
1

No, you don't even have to be in college to nail sorority sisters. You are mentally blocking yourself with your excuses. You see a hot chick and assume she is in a sorority and assume you cant get them because you are not a frat boy or jock. You need to start at the side bar and work through the material. You wouldn't be here asking stupid questions about chicks from wealthy backgrounds or sorority sisters if you had any abundance mentality or outcome independence. You probably don't even lift e…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:48 PM
1

It's one year out of your life. Go to college and then start your business.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:12 PM
1

do both. The degree will follow you forever and you should have some good networking opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:05 PM
1

I don't go through life waiting for people to be nice to me. I use the techniques taught here to disarm shitty people and have them enter my frame. Only the craftiest of cunts has a decent retort to an A&A and then I am having fun instead of showing anger or defeat (both huge beta traits). He failed to have fun and your ego is making you a premature failure.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:32 PM
3

"I shall be attending this as a friend" "I shall be revoking my invitation"
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:07 PM
1

its a shit test. she wants to know if he is worth an bump to her count
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:05 PM
1

Memorizing lines will not help as you will just fail the next tests they throw at you. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 02:44 PM
1

Completely wrong. Businesses are in desperate need of people who have a deep understand of technology and have social skills.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 02:41 PM
1

Doubtful.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:29 AM
4

If you want to get anything done, there are two basic ways to get yourself to do it. The first, more popular and devastatingly wrong option is to try to motivate yourself. The second, somewhat unpopular and entirely correct choice is to cultivate discipline. This is one of these situations where adopting a different perspective immediately results in superior outcomes. Few uses of the term “paradigm shift” are actually legitimate, but this one is. It’s a lightbulb moment. What’s the difference? …
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:23 AM
2

Learn programming. Don't stop at "basic programming". I've know a lot of people who had good ideas but lacked the skills to build it. They end up hiring the lowest bidder to save a few bucks and end up with shit. Your programming skills will take you far in life of you pair it with social skills.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:16 AM
2

Find a new job then.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 03:25 AM
2

Agree and amplify is the most basic skill. Have you been reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP19/08/15 03:23 AM
1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uniform_Interstate_Family_Support_Act
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:23 AM
7

She is venting, not asking for help. I'd set a mental time limit and then start changing the subject.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:47 PM
19

If she applies for ANY welfare, the state will go after your ass "on her behalf". You just got lucky.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:44 PM
13

You got defensive and stern instead of being playful. "You don't have to be so rough with the chair you know" "Ever since a chair killed my father back in '92 I just cant respect them anymore" "What are you doing here" "Curing cancer" "Why would someone bring you a drink?" "I just saved them from a shark attack" Agree and Amplify to Absurdity
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:40 PM
6

You will also start recognizing excuses from other people. friends, coworkers, etc. It it really hard to keep my mouth shut these days.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:23 PM
3

It needs to be incognito. Call it Calc.apk and include a basic working calculator. Then if you enter specific keystrokes it unlocks the real app
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:10 PM
29

I moved across the country because I found out that Florida cannot enforce child support outside the state, change over my DL to my new state, and never looked back. This may have been true in the past but there are federal laws now forcing states to cooperate. You cannot outrun it if you stay in the US.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:03 PM
1

lots of chicken, rice, and veggies. Peanut butter.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 08:02 PM
4

Add three more HB9s
/r/askTRP18/08/15 07:59 PM
2

share with the rest of the class
/r/askTRP18/08/15 07:56 PM
3

You need to focus on "enjoying the decline" instead of trying to fight feminism. Alpha men have been dressing up for for thousands of years. It was a simple way to disassociate yourself from the commoners who could not afford such luxuries. You should enjoy yourself and make sure you are the best looking and wear a FITTED suit that shows off the progress you have been making in the gym. https://sartorialsavillian.files.wordpress.com/2009/08/customvsofftherack2.jpg
/r/askTRP18/08/15 04:01 PM
-2

If different fonts and formatting are hindering your progress, you have bigger problems to deal with. Having it in one place is nice.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:22 AM
4

Read them both and then post your findings for the rest of the class.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:20 AM
2

You are not a special snowflake. You have barely just begun and you have already convinced yourself that your path will be harder than others. At the time of this comment, there are at least two stories from former betas on their way. Read everything and apply what you can.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 05:15 AM
2

Different resumes for different careers that emphasize past experience. For example, a "sales" resume would talkup your "up selling" and "customer interaction" skills you obtained at the restaurant.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 02:02 PM
1

Yes https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/20/i-have-a-boyfriend-responses/
/r/askTRP16/08/15 01:42 PM
2

No, day game. Get numbers
/r/askTRP16/08/15 03:16 AM
1

"If she's on the clock she don't want the cock" Challenge yourself and day game.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 01:36 AM
9

I have done my best to keep up with the housework and not say a word about it This is a covert contract. You do the work hoping she will give thanks or notice or pitch in. You have to kill this part of your brain. You are cleaning because you want a clean house, not to win the affection or admiration of your wife.
/r/askMRP14/08/15 04:49 PM
3

Showing up uninvited and making a bunch of wild claims seems a little possessive and beta. Possibly mention how she's been just CRAZY to get pregnant and can't wait to quit her job and be a housewife except Chad, who recently had a vasectomy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:40 PM
2

some men do not understand the implicit contract and are hoping for any scrap that may fall in their lap.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:01 PM
1

You need to start over. Start at the sidebar and read everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:03 AM
31

It's about moderation. You can't be improving yourself if you spend all day mashing buttons. I like games too but i know it will not objectively increase my smv so I limit accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:00 AM
2

some people are 40 years old before the find the red pill
/r/askTRP13/08/15 08:29 PM
1

Dread level 3. After rejection, start leaving the house to go do something. The most common advice is to go workout but there is no dread when you are "safe" in the garage.
/r/askMRP13/08/15 08:16 PM
8

This can't be solved with a clever one liner. You lost frame with your emotional outburst and she gave you a taste of your own medicine. If you have a problem with her shoe addiction, you need to address it with her and LEAD her to a solution. I don't give a fuck about my wifes shoes. Women love shoes. If she uses her budget money on shoes, i dont give a fuck. Why are you trying to start shit over a pair of shoes?
/r/askMRP13/08/15 08:07 PM
3

you need to drop all of these people and find higher quality friends
/r/askTRP13/08/15 05:00 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat. Clock out and day game on your lunch break.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:52 PM
1

That is the point. Keep it isolated in one easy to ignore thread. In the homebrew sub, I dont have to view countless "when is my beer ready", "is it infected", etc posts over and over. Since reddit doest really have "stickys" like a normal forum, it is a decent compromise.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 03:33 PM
1

it works well in other subs. for example, the homebrewing sub has a "daily questions" thread that is always at the top and filled with the same shit people used to post over and over as separate topics.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 02:27 PM
2

I appreciate your comments on this. Your technique also touches on the "dont bring me problems, bring me solutions" attitudes that many bosses seem to have. While others are busy with their whinefest, they are observing you dissect and solve problems.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 09:33 PM
1

If that's what you want to believe, that this whole thing is as concrete as your mind conceptualizes it to be you literally told us in this post that you kept quiet and were a loner. I'm using your own words Go do some ayahuasca with a shaman and then come back and tell me what its like to be water and free of conceptualizations. Not saying that as dick or anything, just pushing you to see if you can find a place of transcendence I don't believe in mystical bullshit. This is the type of shit wom…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 09:23 PM
1

i will try your technique and report back. it seems like a lot of talking but if you have had success, it probably works. thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 08:35 PM
1

aye
/r/askTRP12/08/15 07:50 PM
1

you should read the book
/r/askTRP12/08/15 07:49 PM
1

I know a guy who dresses badly, obese, looks like a slob, has no qualms about being critical of women or being envious of their being treated unfairly well, overly critical of everyone, likes to correct people, can act like a mean boss....... and yet, he still has success and hasn't ever had any serious problems at work other than realizing that people hate him. There are plenty of badly dressed, obese, grumpy pigs in office buildings around the world. If this is "success" then our gender is fuc…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 07:19 PM
1

Bullshit The wolf in sheeps clothing is effective because he blends in, the sheep believe he is a sheep. His is not sitting on the sidelines trying to conjure up some "mysterious lone wolf" vibe. Lone wolves violate the following laws and are rarely effective as they think: 5, 6, 9, 11, 18, 25, 27, 28, 34, 37, 39, and 43.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:58 PM
1

I have now modified our budget plan. Instead of saying “We have $X for the week” and then running out by Friday because we bought a shit ton of frivolous shit, I say, “We have $X for the week FOR ESSENTIALS”. IF we have money left over next week, we take that money out for frivolous spending. If it so happens (like this week with all the back to school fees, clothes, books and shit) that we spend the entire budget, well, fuck us. No frivolous spending next week. Applied stoicism. you may want st…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 03:55 PM
1

My point is that noobs arent going to know to post in the weekly thread and giving a daily spot to hold all the softballs might actually help reduce the number of shitposts.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 03:51 PM
1

They operate based on feelings, not logic, and try to make logical sense of her actions is pointless. Hard next and move on. This woman will provide no value in your life. stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:25 PM
2

Law 38 "Think as you like but behave as others" Law 48 "Assume formlessness" Law 26 "Keep your hands clean" Law 4 "Always say less than necessary" Law 33 "Discover each mans thumbscrews" I don't get involved in the discussion (law 38,26) but do pay attention (33). If I do, it is vague (law 26,48). I will just make a superficial remake (law 4,26,48,38) and redirect Office drone 1: OMG can you believe what politician said about hot_button_issue? Office drone 2: I know I cant believe they said that…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:27 PM
4

Recap: you tried to escalate she rejected your advances you tried to kiss her she rejected you you talked about your feelz she rejected you you tried to initiate contact again she used power talk to tell you to go away ("see we are not compatible at all" = "leave me alone") Hard next and move on with your life
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:13 PM
-2

make it daily, not weekly so that there is constant interaction between the noobs and the vets
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 05:27 AM
3

and get the soft support they want No. We don't need to be be soft. This shit only works because it is not sugar coated bullshit. We need a form letter: "It looks like you found us, welcome. We want to help but you need to help yourself first by completing the following three tasks: ......."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 05:25 AM
3

marriage 180, not affair 180
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 05:20 AM
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