When did you identify them and what process did you go through to fix them and how did it change your life?

What advice would you provide to others seeking to do the same? Primarily for relationships... But really any important area of your life.

I'm writing a blog about how recovering blue-pills can fix their limiting beliefs and would love to make sure that what I went through is at all congruent and relevant with what others went through. I also posted this on r/becomeaman but got limited responses

And also it might be useful for other people to read your stories to inform their own improvement.

Cheers brothers