Should a man look for a woman/plate/partner who share in common tastes and interests, or is it just an induced delusion?

abdada · 2015-08-24T13:27:11+00:00

I never LTR a woman I have a lot in common with except for social values.

My LTRs want a leader and they follow my lead naturally.

Once you learn the language of women, it doesn't matter if you like the same things.

Be a strong leader, find a woman who desires that and appreciates it, and let her bond to you.

I don't drink or do drugs. I eat meat. I prefer dates at 6am outside than bars at 10pm inside. If a woman wants an LTR, she shows it by mimicking me and following my lead.

[deleted] · 2015-08-24T12:28:56+00:00

Women will absorb the traits and activities of men who present positive environments. I have had 4 different women start playing Ultimate Frisbee merely cause I played it and invited them. I have had women on tinder express interest in the small talk exchanges of picking it up when I mentioned it even if they flaked. Women are natural followers and will pick up your hobbies if you are with them long enough be it Plate/STR/LTR/orbiter.

thor_away92 · 2015-08-24T15:39:52+00:00

Maybe if you're both snowflakes, sure. But the reality is everyone likes the same shit; self-indulgence resulting in immediate gratification. Everything else is just different variants/forms. (Booze, sex, feels, stimulus)

FrameWalker · 2015-08-24T16:44:12+00:00

It really doesn't matter. There is nothing wrong with wanting a girl just for sex. Be unashamed to pursue casual sex or strictly sex. If she does other nice things for you it's a bonus, and you can reciprocate 2/3 back.

If you genuinely want to do an activity with her, invite her along.

trpftw · 2015-08-24T19:15:58+00:00

I teach things to women. It's the most amazing thing. I teach them hobbies and things that I do for fun. They just love it when you show them how to do something.

I teach them:

playing billiards
playing chess (This is very tricky because it's not exactly woman-friendly. There's a secret way to make girls interested in this but you have to study up a bit on women grandmasters and why they like chess. Some girls have expressed interest so I did show them)
shooting firearms.
archery
darts
cooking if they don't already know.
Tennis

(p.s. there is a strong chance that they are just HORRIFIC at all these skills, so you might get frustrated).

You have to lead them and be their teacher. It's a dominance dynamic. They won't always naturally have common things with you.

StarDestinyGuy · 2015-08-24T11:58:25+00:00

Of course.

More common tastes and interests means more enjoyable talks and activities together, which means I'll enjoy spending time with her more and have more fun with her.

How is this not common sense?

BoTuLoX · 2015-08-24T10:21:26+00:00

It comes in handy for a LTR. Other than that, it's media bs.

Title	Should a man look for a woman/plate/partner who share in common tastes and interests, or is it just an induced delusion?
Author	Krainz
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	August 24, 2015 9:56 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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