Hey, I'm a brown guy, 5' 8", college sophomore, average weight, a 6 or 7 looks wise, charismatic. Been well-versed in Red Pill theory since being subscribed to the subreddit two years ago. Despite this and knowing it works for people on the regular, I still don't see huge changes in my life like I want to, mainly with women. To be frank, I want more women in my life.

Over the past year, I've been attempting to improve my SMV, going from obese to healthy weight, dressing better, displaying better social skills, meeting more people, showing more self-discipline (like diet and PMO), going to more social events, focusing on my hobbies and business ideas. My personality should also allow me to get close to girls as well, I'm a very life of the party kind of guy, I come off as warm to a lot of people. Despite this, I've only had my first relationship in the last year, a few makeouts, and that's it.

I feel my problem comes with intention. I'm expressive with emotions most of the time, but I go completely stoic when I talk to women especially. I find it difficult to tell women what I want from them. I always have this mindset that women should be coming up to me to show that they're interested. I can't seem to muster up the courage to imply that I want to make out or fuck them. What is a good way of showing my intentions and being assertive?