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in a free polygamous society, 16/17 men (as evidenced by historical DNA analysis) This interests me. Got a source please?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:54 AM
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Yes...
/r/askTRP04/12/15 10:27 PM
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Invite her over. Fuck her again. She's just really embarrassed. This is the best way to show her you don't care. Maybe give her a sexy spanking ;)
/r/askTRP28/11/15 01:55 AM
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Check out /r/marriedredpill for LTR advice
/r/askTRP28/11/15 01:54 AM
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You couldn't see the forest for the trees. Happy to help.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 05:46 AM
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Don't go prompting just because you're confused. It's okay to be confused by her actions. Stick to the plan, logistics, stoic etc.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 05:43 AM
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I just found her behavior obnoxiously weird. 'Weird behavior' is incredibly hard to decipher. Especially online. It's generally not worth troubling yourself over. Better to just prompt for some simple behavior (eg. send her a date invite and wait for a response) and judge that instead. Now you've got actionable data to work with instead of 'weird behavior', now you can figure out what's up.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:55 AM
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It's no different to a date. Propose a time, if she's interested, she'll accept or reschedule. "Visit this Friday, I'm cooking steak with mushroom sauce" Alternately, you can be more vague for the same effect "Visit this weekend, I'm cooking steak", or even more vague "Come visit, bring wine, I'll cook steak" Edit: Hopefully you can think of something more enticing than steak, it's just an example...
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:44 AM
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You're putting yourself first by reading that book. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:37 AM
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I'm really confused as to why you don't just txt this woman tomorrow and give her the details like she asked... I get that your phone is dodgy, but, you can't just send her a txt asking for her email so that you can send her your resume? She's sounds like she could be pulled into your orbit...
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:35 AM
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This can't be considered a goal. How do you measure it? When will you have achieved it? This is better considered as a maxim, a rule to live by, "I take care of myself first". If you follow the sidebar, these questions will be answered in time and in the right order. Keep reading friend. Edit: You got this advice in the last thread, don't ignore it twice. "Read the sidebar especially the post on how to set goals."
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:27 AM
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I'm assuming she's attracted to OP because if she's not, it really doesn't matter I just don't get why you would hit on someone who lives 1500 km away from you, and why I'd be interested in a 35+ year old anyway. It's a bit creepy if I'm honest. She wants to fuck you... Same reason 50+ year old men message young women... Well cause I really just don't understand the purpose of hitting on someone 1500 kms away from you (especially if you have no history). There are plenty of stories on here of wo…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:15 AM
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You're overthinking this. Why do her reasons matter? If you want her 'resources', you make it happen. If she stops you from making it happen, you know where you stand. Facebook -> mobile is an upgrade in intimacy. She gave you her number without you asking. Those are IoIs... Edit: I'm changing my answer On second thought, I'm pretty sure she's about to try to have an affair with you. She's moving off of facebook and onto mobile because it's secure and you've already been on a 'date'. Regardless,…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:04 AM
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Spot on. There was some good vibe, and I could tell she was also into me, but I didn't attempt to escalate or pursue (for a few reasons). Was that reason "I'm scared to escalate"? What do? Well OP, you're clearly out of your element, so going to a group thing is just going to set you back. Don't go. Invite her to yours. You're cooking for her to pay back the favor. Make sure she brings wine. If she doesn't accept the invite, you blew it, move on. As said above, anything other than this is a step…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 01:07 AM
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The cum I can see I'm not worried about. It's what I can't see that worries me. I'm not worried about intentional impregnation, it's far less likely than accidental. You can't spend your whole life trying to avoid 'black swan' events. I can control what happens to my cum after I ejaculate on a woman because women do what I say/want. I can't control what happens to my cum inside a condom because it's an inanimate object. Yes, I'm aware you can test the condom for holes by filling it with water. N…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:49 AM
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Fashion advice: trainers are not fashionable Sport advice: get a professionally fitted shoe specific for the sport you are training Basic advice: want to look like a basic bitch? Nike Freerunners. They're good, cheap-ish, and make you look basic too!
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:12 PM
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You need to fix your head. Read the side bar. Read the recommended reading. Read the top posts from the main sub. You can't act like a man until you think like a man. And please, whatever you do, DON'T GET FUCKING MARRIED. Don't give your wife the keys to your cock and a loaded gun and say "please have sex with me". Because she's not going to. She's going to lock your cock in a cage and point the gun at your head until she gets bored or you crack.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:09 PM
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I have read other red pillers who are married and got control of their marriages. You couldn't control a kite with ribbons on the back... "So my plan is to try and stop being Beta" Listen to you. You've already been defeated... You've given up in advance. Please don't get married. You aren't capable.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:46 PM
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I didn't see anything clearly, that's why I asked here, you deluded You didn't see the Bali-boy with the 'average as fuck' face that shows on screen in the first 10 seconds? He's smiling and spitting game... How did you not see that clearly? Sun in your eyes? Maybe you can borrow his glasses... Or at 1:10, playing on the beach with a guy that is clearly short... And again at 1:54, is that guy taller than her? Look at the player with the super attractive face at 2:05. He's totally got the facial …
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:44 PM
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Have you ever heard about face and height? Yeah, as you can clearly see, face and height make very little difference to a woman's attraction for a man. I'd be glad to PM you my body If you look like Jeff Seid and you're complaining about not getting laid, I don't think any advice I can give you will help except "cut off your tongue, it's not doing you any use".
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:26 PM
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That's cool bro. Enjoy cumming inside every woman you meet. Regardless, I'm going to keep enjoying cumming on AND in women. And I'm going to keep recommending to guys on first dates "NEVER BLOW YOUR LOAD INSIDE HER". Until you're certain she's not crazy (they hide it well on the first date), it's just not worth the risk. Who the fuck cares what they love to watch Self conscious 4th timers care... Hence the fucking advice. Masturbating while looking at a naked woman, even if you had coitus for so…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:21 PM
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If you can't laugh at children and sheep, you're going to have a tough time being a red pill man. This is not your problem. You don't need to do shit. Your sister can be a little bitch all she likes. Your dad can be a little bitch all he likes. I don't see how that makes your life any harder. Take the example of your sister not cleaning up after herself. If she's expecting someone else to do her share, don't do it. I feel like you're trying to stop your sister from 'using' your parents. They rai…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:10 PM
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Compared to most American, those Bali guys are athletes. And yes, they are fit. They may not be 'male model attractive', but they are clearly below 15% body fat. They may not be able to bench 200lbs, but they can clearly run further than the dairy isle in Wal-Mart.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 09:59 PM
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Do i cum in her with a condom? Best not to, there's always a chance that the condom leaks. Plus, squirting it all over her body (or in her mouth) is so much more fun (for both of you). Most chicks love watching you cum. It's like validation x100. i don't know if i'm a good kisser If you aren't sure you're a good kisser, better to air on the side of aggressiveness/dominance. how do i cum when i want You don't cum when you want, you cum when you're ready. Enjoy the sex, if you spend the whole time…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 09:57 PM
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What's going on here is that ugly women go to foreign countries to have sex with fit men for cheap and without risk of being judged. Basically, they're doing what their attractive friends get to do back home. Yes, I've seen the video. If you believe that over 10% of the women doing this are attractive, you'd be wrong. Just like if you believed that all highschoolers looked like the movie stars in Twilight, you'd be wrong. That's just you being led astray edited media, or in words you can underst…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 09:22 PM
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Kiss Europeans on the cheek, once or twice. Hug everyone else, if they make any sort of comment about the hug I just say "you'll get used to it". I never shake hands with a woman if we're on a first date. If she offers a hand shake, reject it. Start a thumb war, call her out ( "What is this, an interview? Come here", hug), kiss her hand all the way up her arm, etc. Hand shakes are so fucking awkward when what she really wants to do is touch your chest and smell your neck. Don't fucking shake han…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 09:10 PM
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what are some good ways to greet her to impress the shit out of her You have abs and she knows it. You don't need to do anything else impressive. Just sit back, let the hamster work itself up, and close when she's feeling the tingles. She'll give you plenty of opportunities to be awesome, you just need to capitalize when you spot them. Don't go TRYING to be impressive, that shit is weak. frame yourself in a sexual way? Touch her like she's already your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 08:39 PM
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Uhhh, if she says "I don't want any guys in my life right now" after having recently sucked my cock, I'd say "okay" too, I'd smile and laugh and kiss her on the head. Sounds like this was part comfort test. You needed to be less cold and more humorous, amused mastery would have sailed you past this with a gentle breeze instead of stormy seas.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:39 AM
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I tell my friends they can fuck my current partners if they want (they can try). Why does this matter to you?
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:47 AM
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Alright well I met a French girl today at 3.15 and fucked her at 7. Good luck with your never been kissed girls.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 08:25 AM
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Let me get this straight, you're trying to find a girl who has never even kissed a stranger? Enjoy being alone forever.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 01:11 AM
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except my boss, who’s pissed because we had professional clients with us He's probably more pissed that you did it successfully and he didn't. "Never outshine the master" Regardless, it was a dumb move. I want to set up the follow up but am not sure my next step. I know having her meet up for drinks is the next step There's nothing different about fucking this woman compared to any other woman. All the basic shit is the same, you just have to do it all better. Send her an invite txt, you've got …
/r/askTRP24/11/15 11:49 PM
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How old is she? If she's only 18, 5-7 years is a great time to be having babies. Oh, and don't get married.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 04:47 AM
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My guess is you've not gotten any pussy since you lost her. That true? You've got no abundance bro. Can't fight oneitis without abundance. why do I do this? Because you have no self-respect when she's involved. how can I stop? By never messaging her again or messaging her something so bad she never messages you again. Or, you could just have some god damn self control.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:44 AM
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Have her bring a bottle of wine or cook/clean something. You're doing her a favour and if you both treat it as such you retain the right vibe. If you do this for free, it's leaning towards beta/niceguy territory and you lose the vibe. Edit: When you get a txt, look at it and think "how can I make this about logistics?", because honestly, if it's not about logistics, it's probably a waste of your time.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:14 AM
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Invite her over to 'interpret her dreams'. Do some mumbo-jumbo. Fuck. I don't see how this plan isn't so god damn obvious to you.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:07 AM
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Nothing different. Just know that it will be harder, you will be shit tested more (especially about age) and you will be allowed to fail less. I gotta ask, why bother?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:43 AM
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Make it so her friend is not there. If you want more details you'll have to give us more details.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:41 AM
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Most guys fail to escalate and establish physical comfort. Touch girls more, see how it effects your game.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:08 AM
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So you want to know "Why do people (especially women) gossip?" Power. Knowledge is power. The fact that you made a post clearly shows that gossip gives them power over you (because you let it). Women especially aren't big and strong. They get power socially. Gossip is one such way that women get power in society.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:05 AM
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This is like getting called 'asshole'. It's a compliment. Own it.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 01:05 AM
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If Sunday works for you, propose a time and place. "OK. 3pm at Starbucks in Lazy Town"
/r/askTRP19/11/15 11:45 PM
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Meditation. You gotta let those feelings go.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 11:30 PM
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Giving someone a present on their birthday isn't beta, depending on the present...
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:33 AM
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Honestly she sounds like more trouble than she's worth. It would be better for your mental health and your SMV if you moved on. You can't win a woman back over txt. Give her time to cool off then meet her in person. Refuse to discuss this over txt "we'll talk about this later" and if she pressures "I need to think"
/r/askTRP19/11/15 06:26 AM
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The complaint said: what is happening to us? Are we gonna just not talk anymore?! Ouch, that's not a shit test. That's a comfort test. Check the language she's talking 'we' and 'us'. (instead of shit test language, "what's with you? Are you gonna just not talk to me anymore") Your one chance to be a bit beta and you went fake alpha on her instead.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:48 AM
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If you were Brad Pitt she would have said "oh no I'm on my period! Come over on Friday"
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:45 AM
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I don't care how pretty or popular she is, if you offer a date that a girl can't make and she doesn't counter-offer, you're almost certainly not attractive enough to her.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:22 AM
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How old are you? (I'm assuming high school because you're going to 'a dance')
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:19 AM
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Was this over txt? What did her complaint say? That was the shit test. All this nonsense (everything you wrote) spawned because you failed the shit test. What do? Stop trying to change your personality until you've finished reading the sidebar. There's a reason we say go slow. There's a reason we say don't change everything at once. There's a reason for monk mode. You are a testament to those reasons.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:14 AM
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Words mean nothing, actions mean everything. If she's not trying to reschedule with you, she's probably not interested. Regardless, hit her up in 5 days when her period is definitely over or in 14 days when she's mid cycle and super horny.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:02 AM
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By doing them. Nobody is going to hold your hand. Nobody is going to fix your life. Nobody is going to own your shit. That's your job. Man up or fuck off.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:03 AM
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If she messages you tonight, you're in, escalate hard in the first 5-10 minutes, kick her out if she puts up LMR. If she doesn't message tonight, stop wasting time on her(your analysis of her seems on point, it would be risky and needy to proceed). Best of luck.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:24 AM
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Good shit. You're going places. Check out the /u/omlala post on passive preselection. You're unattainable. You need to show these women they stand a chance. Kino is almost certainly going to do this more effectively than anything else.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:59 AM
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I told him that I am reading SS... He didn't show me any reason why I should think he knows what he is talking about. If you're reading SS then you know that all the big 4 lifts require your core to be activated at all times during the lift. Show him you know what you're talking about instead of being an unconfident little baby and he'll graduate you out of kindergarten. Although I agree in this case, I will say that normally it is good to just let experts do their jobs. I don't go to my salsa c…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:53 AM
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The leader of a football team is the most experienced and skilled player on the team (generally). You need more skill, more confidence in your abilities, and more experience. Leading is a learnable skill, even if you're doing it unnaturally. I often find myself wanting to be lead Tough luck. You're an RP man, you don't get that luxury unless the situation allows it. Man up.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:41 AM
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I have talked to him about this multiple times. He is some kind of master of doing a little bit of what I want and going back to the endurance exercises. It's not so clear cut either, if I knew exactly what I needed I would not be using a trainer. I am glad that I am now going to gym and know how to use some of the equiptment. I just need advise on how to move forward without this guy. Yes I will keep telling him that I don't like his workout, but I don't expect this to change anything -- he kno…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:34 AM
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The Charisma myth
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:27 AM
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Try for one art, one pleasure and one sport. Me? Bondage, strategy games, rock climbing and sailing.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:26 AM
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Because most dudes struggle with projecting a high SMV over txt. They're even worse on Facebook. Edit: most guys struggle to make a good online dating profile. Imagine them trying to keep it up 24/7 Its also unnecessary
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:19 AM
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Just to confirm, are you sure they're attracted to you? No offense, but, at ~17 I was a complete idiot with no fashion sense and had no idea. Walking and talking isn't a great dynamic unless you've got an arm around her / holding hands / bumping into her playfully. If you aren't escalating physically during ANY interaction, you're moving towards the friendzone. Try being more physical and see if they run off (if they like it, they won't).
/r/askTRP18/11/15 11:22 PM
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Read the 5x5 or starting strength guides, they will tell you what to do. You don't need me for that. I'm telling you how to get what you want. Walk to the squat rack. Ask him to check your form. If he says no, proceed anyway (if you're following the SS guide properly you won't be risking injury). What's he going to do, drag you to something you don't want to do? "We're doing pull-downs now" "Actually, I'm going to do some deadlifts. Can you help with my form?" Don't take no for an answer. Stop l…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 11:10 PM
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The gym is still some thing new scary for me. So is getting what you want. I suggest reading No More Mr Nice Guy and When I Say No I feel Guilty. All this can be changed if you had the balls to tell your trainer you don't like his workout routine. I want more squat/dead lift/press/bench press Tell your trainer that. I am very bad with the dead lift -- even with no weight -- I round my back. So pay a guy to help you with it... oh wait. Dude, you need to tell your trainer you are switching to star…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:37 PM
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Isolate, initiate, escalate
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:32 PM
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Anchor yourself (and through you, her) to a location by leaning on a wall/pole, sitting or standing in such a fashion that you're stopping her from leaving easily (ie. she would have to walk passed you). Anchor them to you. Put your arm around them. Hold their hand (or both, front on). Get them to sit on your lap. What sort of situation are you approaching in? Girls walking between classes? Lunch time? After school? etc. Edit: Are you too scared to talk to them when they have grouped up with the…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:23 PM
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She wants to fuck you (if you're man enough to make it happen). Good luck.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:17 PM
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Next time you meet up, tell her to dress up nice. Tell her what dress to wear, what earrings, etc. Tell her to 'doll up', 'dress up real nice', 'dress to the 9s', whatever lingo works for you. You don't even have to do something super special, light a candle at any stage or hand feed her something sweet and it's a suitable reward for her efforts.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:12 PM
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I'll pay for her drink or ice cream on a first date, 50/50(ish) from 2nd date onward. If we're cooking I'll pay for food and she can bring wine or vice versa. I don't do restaurant dates. If it's an activity, she can pay for her half. I buy all the condoms (honestly, these things cost me as much or more as some of my dates), safety first. Also gas, I drive a nice car in an sprawling city, that starts to cost.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:04 PM
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Tourist areas are the best place to find a one night stand. If it's "famous" for having a good nightlife, it's "famous" for having lose women too.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 05:22 AM
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Where she wants you to work is not relevant. She will not be less attracted to you if you take the job where her ex is. If she dumps you over that, good riddance, you don't need that kind of drama queen in your life. Take the job that is best for you.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:29 AM
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Sounds familiar.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:48 AM
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Read the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Green. That's my bible.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:47 AM
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It's not just women getting drugged up. It's young boys too. Government has to keep all the sheep in line. It's easier when half of them are made docile with 'prescriptions'. Welcome to the dehumanization of society.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:45 AM
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Should I go talk to her? Do you want to fuck her? Do you think you'll get to fuck her if you don't go and talk to her? Don't forget to escalate physically or you'll friendzone yourself, good luck.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:40 AM
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Someone who is intimidating is likely to take something without asking. Someone who is supplicating is unlikely to take something without asking. If you want to be less intimidating, be more supplicating. You said yourself you need to 'calibrate'... The most I try to give is a smirk unless I genuinely laugh I smile big. So smirk/grin more... I'm curious as to when and how people call you intimidating and how you respond. It's almost certainly a shit test and it's so easily defused (just say "tha…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:36 AM
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Acta non verba. It's almost always better to say with your actions "I'll walk away if we don't fuck" than with your words. I can only take her home late night when parents are asleep So meet her really late at night... Stop giving her an hour of your time to decide to fuck. Give her 5 minutes of walking in the park, 5 minutes walking back to your house, 5 minutes of dry humping on your bed, then whip your cock out. Seriously, if she's interested, this is all it should take from here, you've alre…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:28 AM
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What do you want from her? If she's asking repeatedly, amused mastery and ignore are your friends. You can't A&A this shit 5 times a week and expect it to work every time. Eventually it becomes obvious you're dodging the question. With amused mastery and ignore, it is immediately obvious you're dodging the question. That's what gives it power. Alternately, yeah, tell her she annoys you. Nothing wrong with setting a boundary. No more need to dodge the question. You need to have a good feel for ho…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:19 AM
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Have you tried smiling? I'm pretty sure smiling is the opposite of intimidating...
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:14 AM
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I dont have a good excuse other than its hard for me to have a girl pay for dinner. That is something I will need to work on. Read "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" by Manuel J. Smith Right then and there I decided it was over. We go out have a good time, but this time I made her pay the check. Funny how the second you took the pussy off the pedestal you were able to make her pay for food... please meditate/journal your thoughts about this, this should be a key learning point for you What I want in …
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:10 AM
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She keeps on calling me, I start talking and telling everyone I know about this girl and how she never leaves me alone, how she is super into me. Privacy and discretion, google those words, you should understand why people value these things... People start going up to her and telling her what I'm saying. She tells me to stop telling people that she's crazy for me, she says it's weird. That's what you get for bragging and running your mouth. I ask her if she liked me when I thought she did, when…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:51 AM
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Invite her for a 'netflix and chill' style date. If she accepts, you know you're in, you just have to escalate better. If she declines, you know where you stand. Bonus: Talk to girls about the guys they have dated before you. Bring up a hygiene horror story so women know you're not a neckbeard. Bring up condom use very offhandedly "thank god for condoms" then move on. This lets them know that you're a safe/clean fuck.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:14 AM
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I ask them to hang and they usually agree. Are you fucking these girls? Did you even make a move? What sets me apart from these guys? They want to fuck these guys and these guys are probably alpha enough appear like they will make a move.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:58 AM
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Courage is not a lack of fear but having the strength to do things despite being afraid. You need to man the fuck up and approach or you'll spend your time alone and wishing.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 11:58 PM
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Should I pick up the girl or should I DGF? Do you give a fuck? How hard is it to pick her up? What's it worth to you? We can't answer these questions for you. Is it a sure thing or is it just another 1st date? Do you have abundance (of women, or money and time)? Consider it quickly and make a decision.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 10:54 AM
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Find attractive woman, smile, approach, hold out hand, spin her, start dancing. And if you get that far: escalate, isolate, enjoy.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:06 AM
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Then this is really obvious what to do. She's waving a little hoop that says "make him say nice things about my mother" You gonna jump through it?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:58 AM
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Why the fuck didn't you just include the exact wording of the food txt with the names/locations changed. Sigh. Assuming your txt doesn't mention her mother at all, your frame is that you don't give a shit. Because you don't. Any deviation from that is a fail. She's being a sarcastic little cunt, I'd probably not even respond. Just let her stew another week. If I had to txt her, I'd either completely ignore what she said or I'd say "thanks. blah blah food place" Don't let her drag you into a conv…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:29 AM
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So what's the plan? Drive 2 hours so you can practice somewhere that nobody will know your face? Why is college the only place you can hit on girls? Don't you have other hobbies and responsibilities that force you to leave your house?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:15 AM
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I'll take option 3 for $100 Just keep doing what you know you should be doing. When you're actually in her town, then judge her actions and words to see how she really values you. Make a decision about her future once you have enough info. Anything sooner is guesswork and is an unnecessary use of time and energy.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 02:47 AM
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You're being a bitch and making excuses. Lots of men before you have overcome these issues and had great success. Why don't you think you can? I just moved on campus recently so I dont know a lot of people outside my roommates. Go meet people... Me and my one roomie go out to parties on the weekend but he isnt the best wingman and has no idea how to hold his alcohol and often ruins sets. I ask him all the time lets go out and talk to girls and he's like scared too and I dont know anyone else to …
/r/askTRP17/11/15 02:43 AM
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Women can go silent intentionally sure, but you still want to react. The key is to not react. Only to act, when you are ready. This is her game, if you play, you lose. Edit: There is a whole subreddit for red pill women. I'm certain they'll be able to tell you the value of silence in weeding out betas. But they don't make up the entire population of women. Not everything a woman does is a test... Thinking that would be giving women way too much credit. So how then are you going to know when she'…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:00 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. If you do, make sure it's really tasty shit so you can eat it if you have to. Also don't let anyone catch you shitting where you're eating for a greater chance of not having to eat said shit.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:56 AM
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The only "test" that this is, is testing to see if you're a needy bitch or if you have abundance. It is exactly what I have said in the post. I'm starting to think you guys just read the title. Dude, it's like this. It's not a test. All it is, is silence. Nothing more or less. The way you react to the silence is a test. But it's not her testing you, it's the silence testing you. The silence beckons and the betas respond. The Alpha male responds when he wants to, which is to say, when it is conve…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:52 AM
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Anything from Ramit Sethi Oh and search 'entrepreneur' and 'career' in the main sub, sort by top rated posts. There's good shit already written.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:25 AM
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I honestly don't have abundance. My confidence is very high right now and I feel that if I made an effort I could have sex with other people without too much effort. I appreciate the advice and I'll re-read plate theory and give the "managing your bitches" thread a look. Part of plate theory is actually having abundance. From your post it was obvious you lack it. You need to get more women in your life. Now. Not later, not once this is over. Now. Asap. Forever and always. Multiple women is criti…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:24 AM
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I really should be disgusted by it Screw that nonsense. Don't listen to the moral-spewers, unicorn chasers, STD-paranoids and ThoseIdiotsWhoAreRedPillButSomehowStillBelieveInASpaceMan 43 dicks worth of practice? She sounds like a good root. Have fun. the reality is I don't see myself marrying her or having kids with her so I don't see how it makes much of a difference. Precisely! Don't let the man drag you down! The dynamic of our relationship is that I poke fun and make jokes a bit. She's attra…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:03 AM
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How to behave in class Pay attention, you're there to learn. outside Alpha as fuck. is being funny bad? Never be funny ever. Nobody likes funny people. Everyone knows that laughter is just insecurity. /s What the fuck man? Very top of the sidebar it says "for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios." You suck ass. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:51 AM
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It means literally nothing and should affect your game in no way. There are far to many possible reasons a woman ONLINE might not respond. As such, WHY THE FUCK DO YOU CARE? Just message some new bitch and see if she's down! "Jenny didn't txt me for 3 hours on Saturday, better check with askTRP!" The only "test" that this is, is testing to see if you're a needy bitch or if you have abundance. Obviously you're a needy bitch. Also, why are you gaming orbiting girls in other cities before you even …
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:46 AM
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I'm not every aesthetic Should probably work on your aesthetics (and your spelling). apart from talking and joking about the dog Is your dog the only thing you talk about ever? What do you talk about to co-workers? Your dog? Their high-school history and what they wanted to do when they grew up? Or just random crap? Pretty sure most conversations are just random crap. You should know how that sounds... I often can't hear them over the wind and their soft voices, any tips? Are you standing? Why a…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:28 AM
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Get your testosterone levels checked. This could definitely be medical. I'm confident on the inside and I really like who I am as a person That's a lie. Everything you do is for someone else (because you're a validation seeker). What do you do for you? Before I could stop living the validation chasing lie that used to be my life, I had to quit my job, come out of the closet as a BDSM kinkster and open up about my lack of desire to marry. I used to play trumpet because my parents said I should, I…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:19 AM
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Meditation. Ego death. Stoicism. Instant vs long term gratification. Not comparing yourself with others. Knowing your value and what you value.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 02:43 AM
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So nothing you do is fulfilling? Why not do something fulfilling? Travel. Cook. Write. Paint. Coach. Teach. Photograph. Discover. Destroy. Create.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 02:41 AM
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Don't send her a dick pic. Can't you see her waving the little hoop trying to get you to jump through it like a dancing monkey? Also, why have you been messaging for 2 hours but you haven't met? This just screams "I'm a boring person with nothing interesting to do with my time". Yes, that's a two way street, but women are allowed to be vapid because vaginas are in demand. You're not allowed to be that fucking pathetic... PS. Don't send pornography (aka dick pics) to minors (aka under 18's).
/r/askTRP16/11/15 02:25 AM
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This is the difference between discipline and motivation. Motivation is fleeting. It doesn't hang around forever. It comes when you get excited, when you get low, when you're bored. Whatever. Discipline is iron. It is the flow of time, ever constant and unwavering. It is as sure as the sun rises. You're relying too much on this magical idea that things will suck less, that you'll be motivated suddenly. They won't. You won't. Have discipline. Motivation is for fat tumblrinas. You either have to e…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 02:17 AM
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Before enlightenment, chop wood carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood carry water. You're always going to have to vacuum, cook, clean, walk the dog, lift, shower etc. Or, you could not and see what happens to your SMV. Your call. (if you do enough school work now you can pay someone to vacuum in the future. Again, your call)
/r/askTRP16/11/15 01:07 AM
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You don't really need to worry about being creepy because you're attractive. Creepy means 'ugly guy who wants sex'. That's not you so you're good. Creepy also is when guys escalate too fast. Know the right speed for each girl. Be charming about rejections.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 01:04 AM
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Once again, I know now that I was just being a naive guy who doesn't understand how woman operate, but why do women hurt men like this? How can they possibly not realize when they're leading men on to think they're into them? Why are you blaming women for men's (your) inability to not be lead on? They are no more responsible for overtly saying "I don't want to fuck you" as you are responsible for overtly saying "I want to fuck you". It's not their fault most dudes suck at reading the signs. We w…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 11:49 PM
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This shit takes time man. Keep lifting. Have you been to a stylist? Your facial hair, clothes, accessories, shoes and skincare all matter too. If you suck at looking good, you won't look good. You may not even know you suck. Get help, you can afford it. Where are your hobbies? Why is nothing awesome about you listed? Bitch I cook, rock climb, read, dance, swim, run, play basketball, fuck like a madman, I party, I chill and I have a motherfucking job. Why haven't you said anything good about your…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 11:16 PM
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She didn't answer your question and she didn't ask a question. Radio silence.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 06:12 AM
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There's no such thing as bad publicity.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:14 PM
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You aren't getting laid and it's been over 8 hours.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:12 PM
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Meditation. Stoicism. Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:25 AM
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Joe Rogan
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:28 AM
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Just ignore. You can act like the millions of others who have never and will never hear about this shitty trend.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:27 AM
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And you think this shitstain can tarnish yours? Don't make me laugh. What's he going to do, tell everyone you raped him? He's going to (or already has) stopped shit talking about you. What he said was clearly not true. You can either go out of your way to prove that you aren't the little bitch he is calling you (which is a little bitch move). Or, you can let him play his little bitch games, continue with your awesome life and continue not being a little bitch, and let him look like an idiot for …
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:25 AM
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So like, 5 women out of a possible 10000 eligible singles in your area MIGHT think you are a loser? I don't see the problem... Why do you care what one loser and 10 of his friends think?
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:05 AM
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What is he saying? Is it true?
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:41 PM
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Look up the Vin DiCarlo escalation ladder.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:34 PM
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Do you care? Do you know she has a BF or are you guessing or going off what she said? Edit: also, do I know her? Do I know her BF?
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:33 PM
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I can tell this girl is kind of emotionally attached a bit already. Yesterday I fell asleep early and I woke up to a lot of messages from her worried etc. I had previously called her out on that she was suffocating me, and now she has this fear and thought I felt suffocated yesterday.. when really I fell asleep. I can tell she was really worried and sad. Falling asleep puts her hamster into warp. That probably means you txt her too much. Try to be less available. She shouldn't be expecting anyth…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:31 PM
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Do o you want to fuck her? If so, why aren't you escalating physically on her? If not, why do you care? She's just being a slut...
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:21 PM
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I wish I'd found TRP in highschool. Just keep lifting. Get into after school activities. Use your time at school to study. After school, socialize with people you have things in common with (your hobbies and sports and activities). The children in the halls of that sheep-farm are not worth worrying about.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:15 PM
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Reacting makes you seem weak. Not reacting reveals the racist idiot as weak. Smile and continue with what you're doing.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 08:57 PM
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Read BANG by Roosh
/r/askTRP12/11/15 08:55 PM
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Honestly it doesn't matter. If you didn't have the media telling you that you should want hot women, you'd be perfectly happy in your cave with 2 or 3 girls that you totally settled for but don't care.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 08:54 PM
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Wait 2 days, if she hasn't messaged, ask her to come to your dorm... If she does message, message back then ask her to come to your dorm...
/r/askTRP12/11/15 08:53 PM
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You want to post that on your wall? Expect that not to work. Where's her plausible deniability?
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:10 AM
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"Let's get a drink, x time x place" That's all you need to know. Also want an excuse to get her number. Oh, did the government hand you a law saying you were only allowed to speak to women for reasons that didn't include sex? Sex is one of the few reasons I talk to women. I don't need an excuse to tell a woman she's pretty just like she doesn't need an excuse to dress up pretty. She can just do it because she wants to and I can ask her out because I want to.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:08 AM
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By reading and practicing the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:01 AM
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As per always. Ask her on a date, if she says yes she likes you. If she says no or anything else she probably doesn't. Why waste time guessing when you could know the answer in one word. "coffee?"
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:59 AM
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Know your value. Know what others value. If someone gives you their value, give some back. It's that simple...
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:52 AM
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You spent two hours trying to decide if you should thank someone for helping you? And you say you've read the metalageddon thread? What exactly did this person do that you were so fucking confused about? Dude, NICE guys give away their value hoping to receive sex. That's what nice is. A loss of value for no gain. If you gained, it's not nice. It's normal. When I buy a sandwich, it's normal. Sure, I gave the guy $5, but he gave me a sandwich... When I give a guy $5 and he gives me nothing, then I…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:05 AM
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There's no magic "make my girlfriend fuck me" trick. This isn't buzzfeed. Read the sidebar. You're blue all over. You need some serious reading. I want to know what I should do to change my relationship to the kind of relationship I want. You can't change the relationship. You can't change her. You can only change yourself. Have a better life and she'll more likely want to be a part of it. Right now she's a part of it and it's clearly not good enough for her.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:59 AM
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Have you read Mark Manson, specifically his opinion on vulnerability?
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:01 AM
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check out the thread "be polite not nice" by metalageddon
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:49 AM
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How could one marry/love a woman and give all of his love to her when she had her face full of cum from several other guys? I don't give them love or marriage, just cum.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:44 AM
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Escalate physically. If she stops you, you know where you stand.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:42 AM
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What did she say?
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:40 PM
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Abundance mentality disappears when your abundance disappears. That's why you have to keep restocking the cupboard with plates.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:22 AM
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After sex, take off the condom and go to the bathroom. Fill the condom with water. If it leaks, your girlfriend needs to take a morning after pill (emergency contraception pill, planb etc.). If it doesn't leak, you're all good, flush the sperm water down the toilet and take a piss (to prevent UTIs).
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:11 AM
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How old are you? How often do you see your family? She's either bossing me around, asking me to do something for her or criticizing me. How about just calling her out when she does this? Bossing - "What did your last slave die of?" Asking - "Are you asking me for a favour?" Make sure to collect the favour before you do the next one. Critizing - Shit test, agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:51 AM
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Eating Strawberries for breakfast this morning would effect your SMV more than this. What the actual fuck. Are you seriously insecure about the redness of your eyes? Holy fuck. You're a lost cause.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:45 AM
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If you want the possibility of her coming back into your life to increase, you won't give her closure...
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:34 AM
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She wants to fuck. Escalate or she'll find someone else to fuck.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 12:44 AM
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good workout? Good stretch. Good breathing. help with meditation? Depends on the person. Thoughts? Great talking point. Good for increased mobility. Feels good. Looks good naked.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:24 AM
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If she doesn't appear into you, what are you going to do?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:17 AM
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If you are meeting her for straight up sex then her interest should be so high it doesn't matter in the slightest how you get her number... Do these women not know what locations in your city are called? You can't just say Starbucks corner of x and x? Or by the x building? Why is scheduling a date in person such a foreign concept to you? You literally just do exactly the same as a txt but in person. Then that person meets you at the agreed time at the agreed place... If you're meeting at the rav…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:43 AM
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From in front wait till they get close then stick a hand towards them palm up to get attention while half twisted towards them. Like you're about to ask for the time then keep walking. From behind it has to be really dramatic because it's obviously slightly planned, even if only in the 3 seconds it takes to pull the trigger. Thus you run ahead of them, yes run, and then turn to block their path. Don't do this in secluded areas...
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:27 AM
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Once you've confirmed the date in person you can get the number, no problem ("cool, Thursday at 3 it is. Here put your number in my phone just in case"). It's not necessary though. at least follow up when you're meeting at the place you picked? If you're scared you're going to get flaked on, you're going to get flaked on.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:19 AM
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I think to live a happy life, you need a meaningful connection with a woman It can contribute. It is not necessary. Edit: you can have meaningful connections with family and friends (male or female of any age) too, but it's also not necessary So how do I feel again? Is it necessary? "is love necessary?" Nope. "How do I love again?" Find someone worth loving. is wanting a meaningful connection a weakness? Fuck no. Just don't go telling women that unless they dig and dig and earn it. I guess a goo…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:04 AM
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If she's hot, more power to her. If she's not, she might get lucky. Why the fuck do you care?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:54 AM
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I listen to jazz, classical (flutes are so fucking happy sounding) and swing...
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:52 AM
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Women are not attracted to the same thing men are attracted to. This would unequivocally not work.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:36 AM
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Lead. Not 'suggest' and 'give opportunities'. Lead. Keep pursuing her only if you're pursuing other women too.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:07 AM
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Right place at the right time and you didn't fuck it up. Sometimes getting laid just involves being yourself and not fucking up. That second part is harder than most guys think.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:05 AM
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Bonus tip: music affect your mood directly. Play a happy song to get out of a funk asap.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:01 AM
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Stop getting numbers. Tell women, "I don't want your number, you can give it to me after coffee on Tuesday." Start aiming for instant dates. Start scheduling dates in person. Numbers are a last resort.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:34 AM
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Testosterone Lifting Sleeping Eating healthy Routine Hard work
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:28 AM
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I'm logical, but when my emotions take over I have trouble reasoning out the best course of action. Do you meditate? You should. I was full of emotion when I confronted her Did you know you were emotional? When you feel it, just stop doing shit with other people. Work, lift, relax etc Fix your head. Go back to people when you're ready. I was a fucking wreck. And when I talked to her, I didn't even say what I wanted to say to her, she misdirected me and I totally fucked up Confrontation won't tur…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:24 AM
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I don't use an iPhone but I'd leave it on default.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:19 AM
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be assertive in the second order (you look/may be / feel x) not (you are x). only be assertive in the 1st order when you're speaking of your own intentions. (i am, i will) not (i think about x, or i might x). use this contextually its a tricky one This is a good tip. Well explained. Bonus: Mix in 1st order as her attraction for you increases. "you're a naughty girl" "you love having your hair pulled" "you're going to think about me at 3am" One last tip for those still reading: try for instant da…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:17 AM
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Head tilt is exactly part of it. Raised brow(s). Etc. The Definitive Book of Body Language - Barbara and Alan Pease What Every Body is Saying - Joe Navarro
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:10 AM
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Next time you are with your best friends notice how few questions are asked when talking about familiar topics(hint, it's very few). It applies to all interactions with women you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:02 AM
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You should be meditating.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:04 AM
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Go travelling if you can afford it
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:02 AM
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Non-commissioned sales is not sales. There's no motivation to sell better, for starters. It also doesn't look as good to future employers. Apple job is shit because you'll spend most of your time selling products that the consumer has already decided to buy before they came into the store. Also because you'll spend way too long just being a tech support guy for idiots who can't find the corner of a round room.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:02 AM
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This book looks so boring. The letters aren't even gold. I only read books with gold lettering on the cover. Let's skip to a page. "the ball blah blah" wow, it is a boring book. Looks like I was right again. I'm just talking bullshit now. Stop smiling or I'm going to try and kiss you. Chose a book that you think looks good. Open page 75. Read the first sentence. Damn, that's deep. You look like you don't dwell too long on heavy shit like that. More of a free spirit. No questions. If you can't do…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:55 AM
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Because it's socially acceptable and they have a fear of missing out.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:52 AM
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Take a gap year and work in sales.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:42 AM
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Yeah, you should have said "when are you coming to visit?" when she asked how you were doing. Everything you said was pointless.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:41 AM
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Because I always take a photo at the highlight of a hike and posting it to social media only takes an extra minute of my time. That's great value for money when you get a message a week saying "when are we going hiking again?" "how come you never told me you rock climb?" "I wish I could have come to the beach with you, Looks like you all had fun" The more women see it, the better RoI
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:38 AM
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Gotcha. Definitely not worth it then. Ain't nothing wrong with looking older, you're a man not a woman.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:33 AM
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Social media is best for social circle game. You have to stay on top of it. Add everyone (including uglies). I tend to not use social media at all due to the low return on investment For most guys it is. Yeah. If you do it right it's like passive income. Just sitting there making bitches more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:31 AM
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Validation seeking cancels out? Thats not how it works. She is on snapchat because she is bored, basic, and craving validation. Thats ok for her because she is a chick. Men dont expect much from chicks other than being cute and feminine. A man who is bored, basic, and craving attention is unattractive. I mean, the advantages of snapchat outweigh the disadvantages of having very minor validation seeking behavior. You also appear to be less validation seeking than all her other snapchat friends, w…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:22 AM
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Re reading snaps. Im referring to viewing stories. My first post clearly says "don't look at stories" Online dating is different. I set up a profile once with the overt intent of getting sex. Social media is something guys might tend to daily, with the covert hope that it will lead to sex. I'm not advocating daily maintenance. Most guys don't get in the position to take an "online dating quality photo" more than once a week. I can edit my first post to be more clear if this isn't obvious enough …
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:19 AM
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Yeah, when I use "hook up" I mean we do everything but sex. So I'm clearly having issues navigating LMR and that's a big negative on my game. You got to her house and failed to close. That's game. If she allows you to escalate physically, your body is fine for her. I think I understand what you mean. It's more of the aura you give off with your presence more than your looks themselves? Yes, exactly. Your physical appearance is only part of your first impression. Social proof for example, is just…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:10 AM
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Yep, totally agree. Any time a woman alludes to another man she's trying to make herself seem better (women think social proof works on men) or she is trying make you jealous. It's almost always an IOI, definitely in this case (since he got the number).
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:03 AM
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You're insecure about your hair. If you keep shaving it short you'll not have a choice but to accept it. If you grow some back, how long until the insecurity returns? How much money are you willing to spend to stop being insecure about this? How much time and effort? Is it worth it?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:00 AM
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Yes. Even in 10 years you'll find yourself unnecessarily pissed off at the way other people act. You'll just be even better at handling it.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:56 AM
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Snapchat is a thirst trap. Agreed. thats why I specifically outlined how not to use it like a thirsty beta. Just by viewing you signal that you have nothing better to do than look at assinine snaps. Just like hot women dont need dating apps to meet quality guys, quality guys dont need to participate in the vanity app that is snapchat. How is this any different to reading an asinine txt and not responding? As with all txt game advice on applications that have a send/received receipt (eg. "Seen at…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:48 AM
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I stop her with my facial expression (curious), body language (open and inquisitive) and spacial positioning (I make myself unavoidable so they make eye contact, including walking 3 paces ahead of a moving target and turning directly into their path like the puas do). Then I wait. When she releases the pressure/tension (looks away, starts to move again, speaks) I say "hi" in the most "I want to fuck you" voice I have. Then I say, "you're cute" and transition straight into something relevant (whi…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:36 AM
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I meant more so in that I hooked up with her one night, but then when I set up plans for the second, she drops that bomb on me. But yes, I haven't been very successful in navigating LMR. You suck in bed or have no game, you got needy or its just bad timing. One of these at least, maybe more. You were attractive enough physically to get her into bed once, her words mean nothing remember, look at her actions. From what I've seen, the alpha personality needs the physical traits to match. If they do…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:25 AM
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Get snapchat. Never send a pic unless you are sent one first. If it's not a question or a sexual snap, don't reply. Don't look at snaps straight away, don't you have anything better to do with your time? And don't reply straight away (duh). Don't look at anyone's story. Don't post a story pic unless it fits the criteria for a dating site pic (see /u/omlala guides for advice on what makes a good pic). If the picture doesn't make people go "I wish I was doing that", it's probably shit and validati…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:13 AM
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It is impossible with that mindset. Yes.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:47 PM
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Showed interest in a girl, she stated she had a boyfriend but was 'flattered'. I didn't get emotional or respond negatively. My response was 'oh, fair enough. I didn't realise.' Turns out she doesn't have a boyfriend but is now more talkative with me and shows more interest than before. Was the boyfriend just a shit test? Do you care if she's seeing someone else? (regardless if she actually is or not) The boyfriend should always be treated as a shit test if you don't care about their relationshi…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:42 PM
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Act cultured. Have friends who are cultured. FTFY
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:16 PM
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Walk away. Talk to someone else. If she's following you from circle to circle, that's exactly what you want.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:13 PM
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Unequivocally yes
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:10 PM
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Small town. Don't chase, wait. You'll see her again. Patience young padawan
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:08 PM
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Not everyone can max themselves into being Chad Thundercock. Sure,youll never be as rich or handsome as Brad Pitt, but you can be funnier, more charming, more intelligent. You can also be different. Not all super alphas fit the Brad Pitt profile. Dan Bilzerian is clearly not Brad Pitt butt he still has his own super alpha style. I've had a few situations this summer where I've gone home with a girl, kept the banter going to set up rd. 2, and then get the text saying straight up "I've been going …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:05 PM
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Unequivocally no.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:28 AM
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Because I am not petite or dependent enough She's fat and annoying. What do yo think? Good article. Only had to read a few lines before I solved her problem. She should try writing about world peace next, maybe I'll figure that out too.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 10:51 AM
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Uhhh, so why do you want her again? Sounds like you're about to start orbiting...
/r/askTRP08/11/15 10:42 AM
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She's married and wants you? And you think she's marriage material? She gonna cheat on her husband for you and you expect her not to do the same to you? Haha
/r/askTRP08/11/15 09:00 AM
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Not as much as they'd like and mostly with their exes and fuck buddies. Why are you asking such a desperate, needy, scarcity mentality question?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 07:47 AM
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So keep her around...
/r/askTRP08/11/15 07:41 AM
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What value does she add to your life?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 07:27 AM
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I'm trying to force feed the red pill by raising divorce rates. She's not your wife she's just your wife right now....
/r/askTRP08/11/15 06:40 AM
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Because you have nothing good to say about yourself. Maybe if you liked yourself other people would like you too.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:57 AM
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The site is making $40k/day rising very quickly and I have a ~5-10% total revenue cut. Are you guaranteed that cut if you stop working? What does that cut actually work out to per month? How much do you get paid hourly? What hours are you working now and what hours do they want you to work? What contracts have you signed so far? In exchange for dropping out of school for a year minimum, they offered to pay the $ my parents put into it for first year (~16k) and have me live with them provided I w…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:54 AM
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Meditation.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:38 AM
2

And that's your excuse to go chasing after a post wall hag like a dog chasing a car? Don't you feel pathetic when you do shit that pathetic?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:33 AM
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Depends on the motel, your state and how much you understand the value of cash to minimum wages workers.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:57 AM
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A park A motel Your back garden A public bathroom A private bathroom A friends house A beach A forest Your bedroom (seriously, sometimes you just have to be less of a bitch) "Dad can I borrow your car for a date tonight?" "Can you guys go out on x night for a while? I've got a girl coming over and I'd like some privacy "
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:52 AM
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Keep faking confidence. Only talk to her I short sentences. Don't see her more than necessary. Lift, eat healthy Get a job Being a single dad isn't a deal breaker unless you're a manchild, men can handle their shit. It's the deadbeats that deserve and receive vitriol.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:45 AM
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Abundance mentality, do you have it?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:42 AM
2

"goodbye"
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:41 AM
2

I had a hamstring injury that cost me all of my gains from pre-season. I knew what my SMV was before those gains and what it was after, and I know I need to get back some of those before I can start approaching again. I'm not working with a lot here, honestly. "I'll start approaching tomorrow" "I'll start approaching when I have a car" "I'll start approaching after I get promoted and buy some new clothes" Approaching with your old 'perceived SMV' is your comfort zone. Now that you think you don'…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:57 AM
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It doesn't matter where the validation comes from, they like it regardless. The more volume and the more broad spectrum the validation (from alphas, from betas, from women etc) the higher it raises her ego (what she thinks is her self esteem).
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:43 AM
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Calculating alpha quotients of all the guys around me What good does that do you? thinking of which one of the couples has the girl seeing Chad on the side, is that really his kid? How does that help? It's not a wrong way to view it, but it certainly is unhealthy to be focusing so much on this. No shit. Focus on yourself and one other person at a time. You and that person create a bubble and have a good interaction. Fuck everyone else. Is this part of one of the phases or does anyone have some t…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:39 AM
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Great sex is a really easy way to alpha widow women. So many dudes suck at sex. The 'orgasm hour' is a game I play. I try to get a woman to orgasm so many times in an hour that she loses track. If you ask a girl how many orgasms she had and she doesn't remember, you win. That sort of shit makes them desperate for you, very quickly...
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:34 AM
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I agree Paleo benefits too much from people being scared of carcinogens (and other scare tactics involved) and not being able to do research. The best part of Paleo is that it isn't too confusing and is easier to maintain as a lifestyle (because diets never work, only lifestyle changes).
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:23 AM
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Supposedly testosterone is significantly lower in males in LTRs? No matter what lifestyle they lead or how often they exercise, if I understood this correctly. I thought this was only for fathers? Us being both 25, my looks are not going to decline for a long time (provided I stay in shape), but her? No one can tell you if you're still going to be attracted to her in the future but you. Look at her mother and aunts for a glimpse of the future.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:13 AM
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You can't truly beat scarcity mentality (the foundation of oneitis) until you have actually had abundance. Keep being awesome and you'll find more than one woman who gives you attention. All of a sudden there are two women who you love. When you get to 10 or so women having given all their attention to you, you realise that your love for them was pretty much the same across the all the women.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:19 AM
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I read somewhere recently that all women were sexually stimulated when viewing pictures of attractive women. This suggests that all women are lesbian to some extent. Also thats nurture (society) has a big control over the way women treat the stimulation. you'd think women would be more interested in a high smv man than hooking up with girls. My biological imperative is to fuck women. That doesn't mean I can't enjoy riding a motorcycle. Women's biological imperative is to fuck men. That doesn't m…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:54 PM
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By definition it's not possible.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:50 PM
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Get him looking sexy as fuck. When he sees that he can do better than hippopotamus, he will. Don't force feed people the pill. Use simple TRP truth translations. "all women are trying to get the best man they can, right? That just makes sense. So the better of a man I am, the stronger women like me." This is hypergamy and how to use it to your advantage written in layman's terms and impossible to argue with...
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:38 PM
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You are further distance from your friends. Everyone has much busier schedules. Basically, the logistics get way harder so everything just takes more planning.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:00 PM
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Shut your fucking mouth and do your fucking work. You touched the fire, it was hot, don't touch it again. Because we have a program meeting. With everyone there. Including my coworker. So I can only assume the worst... You aren't going to get fired in front of the whole team, any 'boss' doing that would be the worst boss ever...
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:44 AM
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The ones that give you IoIs. Fix your mindset.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:20 AM
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If you're so blind that after reading the sidebar you can't see what advice is good TRP advice and what isn't, TRP probably won't help you get much further anyway.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:05 AM
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Testosterone levels are shown to increase in a man after he finds a NEW woman. We are designed to fuck everything that move. I do just that. Fuck monogamy.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:02 AM
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This is a pattern, right fellas? I mean I got her to switch up on her morals (weed), faith, and political stance all in a couple of days. Women will climb a mountain for the right man. They will say or do whatever it takes for the right man. You might not have changed her morals, just how she presents herself to you. Is this normal behavior? Yep. but I'm not wrong in saying she is going out of her way to try to impress me am I? Yeah it's almost entirely certain that she's changing (or appears to…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:59 AM
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To start a conversation, yes. If she agrees to a date, then wants to chat, go ahead and have the conversation. If she doesn't agree to a date, what fucking use is txting her more? Shut up and have something more important in your life than chasing tail that isn't interested in you right now.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:52 AM
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We have normal conversation or whatever, ya know just little small talk. How was your day, what they're doing, what I'm doing, blah blah. What gave you this terrible idea? Stop txting girls for anything other than logistics. You have no txt game. Don't txt.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:28 AM
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Your time is valuable to you. She is probably not (because she doesn't value your time). Do not waste time on her and you will be just fine.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:25 AM
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Pretty much. Switch and balance between the two to maximize results.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:08 AM
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The reason we take so long to reply, or chose not to reply, is because we don't need to and we have better things to do with our time. That doesn't make me a jerk. If you're 'faking it til you make it' then you're just going to have to keep faking until you really are busy enough and committed enough to your goals that you don't feel the need to respond to every worthless fucking txt.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:00 AM
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Don't get married!Don't get married! Don't get married! Don't get married!
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:36 AM
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Yep.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:14 AM
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The book by Dr Robert Glover
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:12 AM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:10 AM
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I posted a reasoned arguement about why we should be having open discussion and I dont think an outright ban on discussing positive sides of marriage should be removed or banned. "I concern trolled", "I don't agree with our dictators doing things for the greater good" Enjoy your ban I shouldnt get banned from a community for disagreeing with you and acting in a rational way such as posting evidence and counter points to the arguments made. If you go on twox and say women should be slaves and arg…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3rogkh/mod_if_you_bitch_and_moan_im_a_throw_you_out/ I'm not sure how more obvious it can be made, but just in case somebody here hasn't read the side bar yet, I encourage you to respond to this post and let me know so I can ban you as well. The rules are very specific. NO CONCERN TROLLING If you concern troll, you'll be kicked to the curb, no questions asked. Recently there was a thread removal, and a subsequent witch hunt- oh no! the big bad mods re…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:40 PM
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I know it's my job to be grounded and stoic for them both What the fuck am I supposed to do? Do I tell her she's gonna fight it? Do I tell her she's gonna die? Be the rock. That's your job. Do I stay with her and forget school? I can't just fucking leave her there.. You're going to have to do both. Work out a schedule. Talk with all your friends and family so your mother has company as often as possible. If someone doesn't rally the troops, your mother won't die with her army around her.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:17 PM
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Read "The Art of Seduction" What's your seduction style? Act that way.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:15 PM
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Don't worry about it. She's going to show up looking sexy. You're going to escalate, take her home and fuck. You've got this.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:13 PM
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Fuck girls while she's gone. Have you promised exclusivity? Do you care about your promise?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:59 PM
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Talk to your friends. It's okay to share your burden with the men in your life.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:58 PM
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Can't even grow a beard because of job restrictions Don't have time or money for surgery. You need a new fucking job. Quit your bitching and fix your shit.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:31 PM
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Game is part of SMV. Where you lack in one SMV trait, you can pick up slack elsewhere. Fit betas make up for their lack of game with their increased physical SMV. Fat black guys with skinny white women have game for days.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:21 PM
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It's so fucking obvious that since I have to spell it out for you, you lack the skills to actually complete the task. Go to clubs. Find the promoters. Talk to the bartenders about other parties. Industry guys are usually the easiest way to the top. When you get into the more exclusive gigs, socialize mother fucker. Make some god damn friends you stupid piece of shit. It's not fucking hard. It's no different to networking for business. That's why there is no fucking guide.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:18 PM
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The higher your SMV the more mistakes you get to make. Being muscly gets your foot in the door, nothing more.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:42 AM
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Just don't spill the beans all at once. Let her poke at you. Don't volunteer information.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:16 AM
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Fuck you cunt. Learn to search.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:11 AM
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Would any of you guys date a redheaded medical student? Is she hot? Then yes. Do your opinions on woman differ based on the level of education she has received or what she is studying? Sure, I'll think "she's better at studying than other people". Paper educations don't make you intelligent or wise, just good at studying. (also, "wow, she's dedicated") I noticed quite a high rated post on here not long ago claiming that one of the 'red flags' was a woman studying Gender Studies. Yeah you're aski…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:00 AM
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God knows. There's so many fucking reasons it could be. She wants you to know she likes casual sex. She wants pity. She wants you to be a beta (or at least thinks she does) etc etc. Look at their actions not their words. Mostly their words are just bullshit. Do what you want. Bitches be crazy.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:49 AM
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Sounds like you handled it well. If you bring it up now you'll only make things worse. Keep moving soldier!
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:33 AM
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First off, age of consent is 16 in my country, so I have no moral or legal objections to hooking up with that actual chick in the photos if she's 16. Age of pornography is probably still 18. That means you've probably got yourself some child porn in your possession right now. I'd delete them all ASAP. What do now? Stop messaging her. Block all contact. How pathetic are your dating options that you have to chase a lying whore all around the globe just to get a date? Don't you value yourself at al…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 02:43 AM
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All the information above is pretty irrelevant because it's all second hand for you, third hand for us. What did your S.O. say to you? What did you say back?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 02:39 AM
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Start yesterday You don't need a fancy car, nice clothes or a ripped body to enjoy participating in extracurricular activities. If you're just doing them to get laid, you won't get laid.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 02:35 AM
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Amused mastery. I laugh at the pathetic bitches who think they are queens because X Y or Z. They aren't special. They never are. Research stoicism. "“When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: the people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous and surly. They are like this because they can't tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own - not of the…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 01:57 AM
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Read Sex God Method by Daniel Rose, there's a free PDF floating around.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 01:54 AM
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Quoting Blackdragon here - 20 First Date Rules For Men Never compliment her appearance. Even if she asks. Avoid saying anything unless it’s a quick DHV or a question. Let her do most of the talking. Shut up. Avoid “job interview” questions. (“What do you do for a living?”, “What are your kids / parents like?”, “What do you like to do for fun?”) If you absolutely must ask some, keep them infrequent and spread them out over the entire conversation. Never lie. Avoid directly answering questions if …
/r/askTRP05/11/15 01:49 AM
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Ok so I texted her a day after i got the number and said "here's my witty text(smiling emoji): what's your schedule like? when are you free?" Translation :" I have lots of free time and am willing to drop everything to get a date with you"
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:53 AM
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It reduces your SMV with people you don't want to meet. With people who like Asians, it's neutral or a bonus. Look up 'polarizing'
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:46 AM
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Invite her over to watch another episode. If you don't fuck, next her. If you do, just plate her. She doesn't need to know you won't be exclusive.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:44 AM
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I went to doc today and told him flatout that I can't sleep until I masturbate. He said, "there is nothing wrong with it. If that's the case, be it. People with SO have sex before they go to bed". Your doctor is an idiot. (off topic, most are, they don't know how to think for themselves they're just really good at studying). This is called a habit. Your body thinks it should sleep after you masturbate because you've trained it that way. Research sleeping techniques, you don't need to masturbate …
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:37 AM
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But I need to finish the school year. Unless this is your very first year teaching, no you don't. "Teaching is not for me, I resign." "Why did you quit your last job?" "Teaching children did not provide the fulfillment I felt (or expected to feel) when I was starting my career"
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:34 PM
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women do not find these guys attractive because they're not fun enough. So what's the issue here? You literally answered your own question before you even asked it. 9 times out of 10, these people are boring and have other areas in their life that aren't attractive (fat, no social life, no productive hobbies etc.)
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:32 PM
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Stop bitching and fix it. Know how to use Excel and Word? Great, you can go teach adults. Speak French? Go teach it. You're holding yourself back with your risk aversion. The world will not end because you change career. (And don't forget, you're only ever one accusation from a teenage girl away from prison)
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:15 PM
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I didn't read your victim puke. Question 1: Meditation will help. Know yourself. Feel your feelings. Question 2: Isn't a question... Question 3: how can I deal with my mother? I won't mindlessly obey her. Too bad son. Her house, her rules. If you decide to break or bend her rules, make sure it is worth it.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:09 PM
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I often get constant looks from girls that are good 8-9s but when I get to bars I dont get the same reaction. Outcome independence. Why do you care what reaction you got? Did you enjoy approaching? Did you feel good after doing it? Do you want to do it again and again and again? Did you enjoy dancing with a girl? Did you feel good after doing it? Do you want to do it again and again and again? Stop approaching to get laid and get numbers. Black out drunk Luke was trying to have fun and girls wan…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:54 PM
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We don't plan on going to court over child support, so I guess she's not like some women. Are you sure it's not because you're paying her more than she'd get if you went to court? Anyway of course I'll help her out financially right? So she can work less and suck dick more? Don't fool yourself that any bonus money you give her is going to the child. If the child needs something, pay for it yourself, keep the receipt for yourself. Even offer sometimes a shoulder for her to cry on every now and th…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:47 PM
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No thinking required. She lied. She'll never be more than a plate. Get an STD test.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:38 PM
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/r/marriedredpill Fastest way to solve this problem is to find a new woman. Second fastest way to solve this problem is to see if your woman is interested in living a BDSM lifestyle. Gag her. Slap her when she talks, "do you know why I slapped you?" "I was talking about nothing again, sorry master"
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:29 PM
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You need to re-read this. Specifically the part about dominance, you little pussy bitch.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 08:47 PM
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If you're cold approaching: "is that important?" then proceed with opener.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:19 AM
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The hotter she is, the less likely she's LTR material. Basically.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:18 AM
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The strangest thing is that I still find myself swiping, texting, and approaching new girls with the intention to meet them and have sex with them. Is anyone else experiencing this or am I just out of control? This is actually recommended. That's how you keep the abundance and ward off oneitis. Also, I love the chase. The hunt. I'll keep approaching even with a full roster because I love it.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:13 AM
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You have to add value to peoples lives for them to want you to be part of them. In what ways can you add value to peoples lives? Focus on sharing that value with people. Joining activities or going to meet up is cool. Many people at meetup are not looking for friends though. At activities everyone runs home as soon as they are done. It feels like everyone has friends and asking to hangout or number is too needy. Find the person you bonded with most. Ask them to join you for a game of pool at the…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:07 AM
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You're making bitch ass excuses. Go practice on her. Tell your friend you want to fuck his girl and you're going to practice your flirting on her and want his honest help because he seems like he's good at it. Seriously. That's what good friends are for. (Also, psychological trick, after someone has done you a favor, they like you more! [because they've invested in you])
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:47 AM
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Discipline you bitch. Do you even lift? What's worth more to you, cockblocking your friend or doing your work? Why not just put in headphones?
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:06 AM
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she basically controls our sex life Read Sex God Method. Sometimes for laughs I get my plates to call me 'sex god' and to beg for my 'god cock' and shit. That book changed my sex life so fucking good. Google it, there's a free pdf around.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:47 AM
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Nah, zero frame. No game. The fact that you think your smv is low despite "years in the gym and multiple extracurricular activities" conclusively proves this.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:45 AM
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good point, works for me since I'm a fairly blunt individual. If it wasn't my natural state, I agree, I'd look too affected by the outcome.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:30 AM
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"I'm at X doing X, you should join me" Problem solved.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:09 AM
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That's a fair assessment. Remember Brifault's law. It's what value you give her right now. If you aren't giving her value, she's going to become unattracted to you.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:07 AM
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You need more abundance mentality. Why are you worrying about what she will do after you've stopped messaging her? You stopped talking to her. Let her do her own thing. If she wants to come back, she'll come back. If you give a girl radio silence she might never come back. Who the fuck cares. If she wants you, she'll make it happen. Women move mountains for the right man.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:56 AM
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If you read SGM I can't imagine this book being useful. You're being a technician or a perfectionist. Re-read SGM.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:51 AM
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'k' or don't reply are safe moves always. If she's really apologetic (says sorry in more than 1 txt) or she's trying to offer reschedule times already, start logistics again. "all good, next time" is not honest, as such, it's totally beta. (clearly it's not 'all good', you started a damn thread)
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:48 AM
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You're still her bitch. She's still disrespecting you. Fucking LOL
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:45 AM
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ask her what her week next week is looking like. This makes you sound like you'll fit your schedule to her. That's bad. Offer her a time, then offer a substitute time (this establishes that you are both high value, busy people) before asking this. In order to keep the attraction spike as high and as long as possible would you space the texts out over a few days? or try and get it sorted in a day and then leave it till the actual day? I'd do all the logistics on one day. Send a mid-week txt (call…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:39 AM
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I haven't read it but if you haven't read Sex God Method by Daniel Rose, start there. There's a PDF floating around, google it or search the subs.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:45 AM
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There's no definitive rule, 72 hours is a good guideline. The trend is: the further away the date, the more likely the flake What is the way forward for me here in this situation? Forget you even asked her out. If she says "I'll let you know" or some variation, you don't message her for 2 weeks or until she lets you know. Anything else is a scarcity mentality move.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:29 AM
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She is heavy on the pda within school That's the price of doing business. You think girls don't feel the same about having to associate with their BBs? She is too invested, I want to play "beta game", but I think that will only make things worse. Agreed, good luck out-investing this stage-5 clinger. when and what is the best way to brake up with her? When being in a relationship with her is no longer valuable to you. I can't tell you when that is. What way? In person unless you think it dangerou…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:10 AM
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My time is more valuable than anything, and this relationship soaks up quite a bit of it. I may need help on some techniques for drifting apart without social fallout. This is what the soft next is for. You just slowly drift away from them. Stop replying to txts as often. Don't initiate as often. See her less often. Eventually she'll move on. If she doesn't, you've got yourself an even better plate than before because you're still getting your value gains but it costs less value (time) from your…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:00 AM
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/u/omlala Poet and bro Thinker and fucker Keep doing what you're doing man
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 11:25 PM
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and by plating, do you mean 'cheating'? Or just riding CC? Plating means no-strings-attached sexual relationship. When the relationship is over, the spinner does not mourn the loss of the plate. That's what I mean (in 2 sentences), and everyone means, when they say plate. A woman could cheat on someone with her plate. She could ride the CC with plates. These things aren't mutually exclusive. I just never read it as them spinning plates, as that seems to be a male only RP term. Plate is only the …
/r/askTRP03/11/15 11:09 PM
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Women have been plating men since before the term was coined. An FWB has a guy come over who licks her feet, calls her goddess and gives her head while she works. The thing is that most women will get oneitis for their most alpha plate and try to secure commitment eventually. So unless (like my FWB) they are 'awake'/redpill, they are just going to follow their pussy tingles.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:27 PM
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Do all these things come with the territory? Yeah if you go into slut territory... Share your thoughts please. If she's going on regular 'girls nights out', she is not LTR material. If she has to tell you she's a serial monogamist, she's probably not. If it dresses like a slut, it's a slut. Honestly, this girl sounds like an excellent plate if you aren't trying for exclusivity, because you won't get that from this girl...
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:24 PM
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Every year I go to my local 'comic-con' and pick up nerdy girls. This is one of my niches. As others have said, all things in moderation. Being a non-productive hobby, very little time should be invested into it and don't make it the focal point of your interests.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:14 PM
2

Go read the front page right now. Good post about women not being able to respect you if you kiss their feet. Never forget.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 04:17 AM
5

It's bait. She's trying to get you to volunteer your help. Unless she asks for your help, you have better things to do. Don't forget she's a plate. Expect her to break.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 04:11 AM
3

You know , what's worse ? I see these Indian guys, may be more black than me ( i am brown ) , messed up hair, messed up south indian tone yet with beautiful blonde, brunettes. I have seen girls buying drinks for these Indian guys, holding hands, kissing on lips, showing true affection. That makes me even more mad at myself that I can't get it. Yeah man, that's the spirit. Get fucking angry. Get angry at yourself. Get angry at women. At your parents. At your friend. You're 29 years old and you ma…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 04:07 AM
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If she doesn't ask for your help, don't give it. Women hate that. If she doesn't ask for your advice, don't give it. Women hate that. If you do end up helping in some way, make sure she knows you're doing her a favor. Literally say "I'm doing you a favor here..." if you have to. That will shield you from radiating too much beta.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:58 AM
14

Never give money to bitches. Ever. If you do this, she'll fuck you over inside 6 months. And not in a good way.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:39 AM
1

Can't wait that long? Too bad. Get some abundance.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 01:41 AM
1

There's a sticky about exactly this on the front page. Based on the fact that you clearly don't know this already, you do not have what it takes to run a fraternity.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 12:57 AM
1

For me this is gf material, if I like someone and they don't cheat. She doesn't consider you her boyfriend. You said as much yourself. She said that was because of her ex. That's bullshit. She just wants to have her cake an eat it too. Seriously, this girl is giving herself so much plausible deniability that it's almost impossible that she's not preparing to cheat (if she hasn't already). It won't even be cheating, she hasn't promised you shit. Honestly, you sound like her fuck toy. If you don't…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 12:49 AM
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It actually might have been a brilliant move had she not been an idiot and stayed out of the limelight. That limelight will fade before she finishes riding the CC. Some dude would wife that up and pay her way in a second. English men love huge tits. She's not going to have any trouble so long as her nipples stay in front of her belly button.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 12:35 AM
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"Teach a man to fish" is a lesson that all the newbies seem to forget.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 12:18 AM
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Women don't take the lead. Ever. Get used to it. Acting uninterested doesn't mean she's going to ask you out. She's never going to ask you out. That's going to happen maybe from 1 out of every 100 girls who is interested in you. You can keep letting those 99 get away, or you can approach... I'd suggest approaching... i was interested in a girl at my church, and i would engage in conversations but i never acted like i was too interested as i didnt want to come off as a beta. I would text her msgs…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 12:01 AM
1

Girls go shopping, in all countries. Go to places where girls shop, at times when girls shop. Edit: what are your hobbies? if you have a spare evening, pick up a weekly uni-sex hobby/pursuit. Rock climbing and swing dancing are two of mine.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:55 PM
1

Tell me, how is your career going to progress while you work as a server? Do you even lift? (seriously, if you don't lift you don't even know what motivation means [or why discipline is so much better to have]) If you drop out of college, you're going to regret it. I feel like I'll gain more life skills that way instead of wasting away in my parents basement. Why are you wasting away? You know you can leave the basement once the studying is done right?
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:52 PM
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Maybe I am just undervaluing myself? Definitely. If you're even somewhat dominant in bed you're already top 20% in the sex category. Any comments or insights greatly appreciated She wants a fuck buddy right now (and by the sounds of it, just one, but you never know). You want an LTR. If you can't handle that, move on. You can't know her past or her future but her present state seems to not value exclusivity (otherwise she would have asked you to be exclusive with her, instead she told you to fuc…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:30 PM
1

Never stop approaching. Plates break. Always have a spare in the cupboard. Edit: And if you find some finer china you can always put an old plate into the cupboard for later too. This increases the lifespan of the old plate too (unless she finds someone else to serve).
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:13 PM
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I was on the dance floor, started making out with a girl and wasn't sure how to continue to escalate back to my place. If you haven't talked for at least 30 minutes to an hour, you're going to get major resistance unless you have a major slut. Isolate her and talk ("come on, we're going somewhere quieter"). Continue escalating (which you can take even further because you are isolated). Exit the club with an excuse ("let's go, I'm hungry") Lead her back to your place, don't forget that snack (if …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:03 PM
1

Waiting longer never hurts. It's like a stew. You really can't over-cook it, but under-cook it and it will suck.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:50 PM
1

Date more women. They aren't all vapid sluts. Some sluts are really smart. Try dating women in STEM fields. Intelligent, studious (less time to be slutty), and the fit ones are smart fit and work hard to stay that way (not just born with it).
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:18 PM
1

We made out a bunch but I didn't even try to pull (always be closing), first mistake. Not the worst mistake. Probably a neutral outcome. So I asked her for a second date at the end (second mistake) and she agreed. Still a positive outcome. This was better than asking over txt. Asking right at the end isn't ideal but this was still a good move. She asked me to text her when I made it home blah blah blah, I did (third mistake). That's not a mistake unless you over-txt. Say "home", no more, no less…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:15 PM
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Escalate. Number 1 mistake guys make on a day 2. Not escalating. Treat her like she's already your FWB.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:06 PM
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Vulnerability is an interesting one. Where I have found it to be useful is: Directly after sex With 'awake'/redpill women who see right through my games and appreciate that I play them Mark re-wrote this section on his blog, it's still a little hit and miss but it makes a lot more sense, I'd take a look there if you haven't yet. In a word, vulnerability is 'situational'.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:04 PM
1

What qualities does this girl have? What stereotypes would this girl have to meet for a high chance of finding these qualities? Go find that stereotype to increase your odds. Because in the end, that's all it is. A numbers game where you can skew the odds Edit: You're still going to date a bunch of sluts, you'll just date a better percentage that aren't sluts... Also, look up polarization. If you're trying to slay bitches with a shirtless profile pic, don't expect the non-sluts to bite on your b…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 09:54 PM
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Search monk mode in main sub. Also, never ask shit questions again you pathetic bitch. Learn to help yourself or you're already fucked.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 07:20 AM
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It's really easy to spot that guy and his conversation intentions. Roll with it. Better the devil you know. It's the quiet ones you have to watch out for. (if you want to be a dick, steer into his conversation and then keep driving right past. He'll look like a complete douche trying to get back to that topic but most people won't bite on 'old conversation')
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:45 AM
2

Everyone has something they want to talk about. Most people just want to show off. If you can give them a topic to do it with, that's the easiest path
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:13 AM
2

Yeah, so now imagine that every topic is linked to every other conversation topic. How many topics would you have to go to from here to Hitler? From where? theredpill? That's from the Matrix right? I like that movie. Nah, Enemy at the Gates is a good movie. That's true but he should have shot Hitler... Hitler? Didn't he date his cousin? Eva Braun right. Imagine if they'd met on Tinder! (Obviously this is a one sided conversation but you can clearly see how easy it is to move the topic in any dir…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:44 AM
1

Isolate THEN escalate. If you can't isolate then you can't escalate touching much further than above-clothes (because her ASD kicks in). does my blatant non-concern for them make it too adversarial? Just make sure not to verbalize it and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:37 AM
2

You need monk mode. ASAP.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:30 AM
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I'm happy of course to hear it, since it's very genuine in this case, and she means a lot to me - but I don't want to say it yet because I don't think it's quite time. Any time after 3 months is okay for 'the talk' and 'I love you'. What am I to do if she pushes for more commitment in the future? Give her as much commitment as you are willing to give. Have you thought about what you do and don't want (commitment wise)? It's very important that you know this BEFORE she ambushes you... What sort o…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:16 AM
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In no way would that have applied to the conversation. Then you need to learn more about steering a conversation. Are you familiar with the concept of 'degrees of separation'? Every conversation is only 2 steps away from your desired conversation if you know how to make people stand on the right stairs. How do you even know these words if you don't know how to apply them? Doesn't anyone on this sub read? If you are reading, why the fuck do you forget this basic level shit? That's my whole quote,…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:03 AM
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Here's a better question, why does it matter? This seems like emotional bullshit to me... You're making a fuss over nothing. What if he never comes clean about it? Will you dump him? How long will you wait? 6 months? A year? This is totally a non-issue. You're being too girly, go away.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:22 AM
2

How to become an alpha Study the sidebar. Girl who I kind if like's relationship with her boyfriend is getting pretty rocky. We both work at the same place, and I was thinking about going for it. You have a scarcity mentality or oneitis, or both. Study up on these. Don't hit on the girl at work. It's not worth it. No pussy is worth having to find a new job for. Pussy is so fucking easy. ways to get bigger EAT MORE CALORIES IN, CALORIES OUT You can't get bigger if you don't eat more. but Jeff, I …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:11 AM
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search the main sub don't be such a shit-bag it's not difficult
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:03 AM
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Any tips on how I can make the interaction more sexually-focused? Mention Tinder. How do I let my intentions be known through kino and body language? How do you even know these words if you don't know how to apply them? WTF. Doesn't anyone on this sub read? If you are reading, why the fuck do you forget this basic level shit? Kino, touch her fucking leg. If she likes it or doesn't dislike it, you touch her somewhere fucking else. That's it. That's kino. That's how you make it sexual. You touch h…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:55 AM
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It does not say jack shit about building the lifestyle Living the player lifestyle only requires that you attend lots of parties. Do you want me to explain how to go to a party? Okay, let me do that. Jeff, how do I get invited to parties? Make friends with people who throw and attend parties! It's not rocket science. But Jeeeeeffffff, I already have friends who throw parties but they don't throw enough parties. What do I do? You make even more friends with even more party animals or you throw pa…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:30 AM
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So throw a pity party. Write a big banner that says 'too difficult', tie it around your neck and end it. Or, you know, you could actually live the life you want to...
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:22 AM
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Your other option is distractions. Lifting, working, hobbies etc. Those won't 'remove the burden' but will at least make it feel that way for a while.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:19 AM
2

It's also now easier for women to get laid (technology) have no repercussions (government funding, birth control) and advertise their sluttiness (social media). It all comes back to feminism. Women telling women that they should be more like men (as /u/life_is_amazing100 has given a great example of).
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:16 AM
1

Any thoughts on why this is so prevelant these days? What, guys asking questions on TRP without having read the sidebar? Nah, that's always been prevalent. (FYI, the answer is third wave feminism - aka slutty women saying 'being slutty is okay' and other women going 'sure, i guess it is')
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:09 AM
1

I just wanna free my mind How can you write these words and not instantly think meditation? Seriously, meditate.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:07 AM
4

When I Say No I Feel Guilty No More Mr Nice Guy Read both.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:52 AM
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Those of you who have had short and long hair, how did it affect your overall attractiveness with women? This is a pointless question stemming from your insecurities. Different hair for different people. Like clothes, beards and women. Any other 'evidence' is anecdotal at best. any long hair specific gaming tips you found useful? Let women touch your hair (sometimes you won't be given a choice, yay for sexual harassment). Don't tell them how long you've been growing it. Treat it like a shit test…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:42 AM
0

Steven Hawking: attractive to women? No. Respected by god-damn everyone? Yes. Seriously? Your post is answered with one example? At least your username is accurate...
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:28 AM
1

don't you think if I knew where to go to talk to random girls I would go there? Are you trying to tell me that you've never seen a girl breathing outside of school? Between 4 and 6pm every weekday, school girls walk down the shopping street with their friends. They go into the food halls to eat. In the summer after school, they go to the beach. They go to the movies with their friend and both of their little brothers. There's no secret hang-out spot that all the single, attractive girls go to. I…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:20 AM
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You again. Seriously? There are guides on making friends. There are guides on hosting parties. There are guides on sleeping with women. If it is possible, what do I need to do to build that kind of life for myself in the USA? Read the sidebar. Is it even possible to live this kind of life after college? If so, what does it take? Well, for starters, most people after college don't want to live like that. So, all your 'friends' are going to have to be party animals. You want to attend 3 parties a …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:03 AM
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But it doesn't make me wrong. While I may be an asshole, 1+1=2, 2+2=4 and you didn't take the time to critically analyze my post.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:57 PM
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And what will he have to show for it? Expensive receipts for hospital parking.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:44 PM
2

nobody goes to the malls in my city, its just for old people shopping... Holy fuck it's like I need a fucking SHOVEL for all the shit you idiots want forced down your throats. my career will either be in business, law, or medicine. Please don't become a doctor, you will kill someone with your inability to think for yourself. nobody goes to the malls in my city Do you think that was the point I was making? Go to exactly-specifically a mall and hit on exactly-specifically girls from exactly-specif…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:31 PM
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Nothing to do with you in particular. Just keep doing what you're doing. What does this say about me It says you haven't read the sidebar. how can I tailor my game to capitalize on this? By reading the sidebar. Your entire post is covered, in immense details, under the banners of AWALT, hypergamy, branch swinging and ASD. (ASD, why? Because those girls who said 'I just broke up with my BF' can always just be lying so you don't think they are such sluts...)
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:24 PM
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Live somewhere that has more than 1 highschool within 20 minutes of you After school, go to the mall that is closest to that other school Approach girls ????? Profit! You don't need to hang out with the cool kids to get laid. is sucking up to the popular kids to get into their crowd the only way to get pussy? It's just an easy way (because the girls who hang out with alphas already know how to behave and what to expect and you know what to expect from them [the girls and the alphas])
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:19 PM
1

Have you read sex god method by Daniel Rose? Google it, there's a pdf. You need to get out of your head. You need to immerse yourself. Also, meditation will help you get used to living in the moment.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:07 PM
1

"Probably the best dick-pic I've ever been sent."
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:05 PM
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Love is what women think of men. Attraction is how women feel about men. She thinks she loves you. She feels tingles. This is why she can say "I love you but I'm not in love with you". She thinks she should love you because money/kids/history, but really you're not giving her tingles, she's not attracted. TRP defines attraction as 'tingles' who defined 'tingles' and where did they get it from? Tingles is a euphemism for attraction. Google 'attraction definition' for a definition... Sounds like b…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:58 PM
1

Search comedy in theredpill sub. Plenty of red pill style comedians. Patrice O'Neil is great. RIP
/r/askTRP30/10/15 09:50 PM
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You can't just watch comedy and expect to be funny. Study it. See what setting up a joke looks like. Watch how often they come back to their previous material. See all the different types of comedy. (do a little bit of slapstick around children and the women go crazy, especially if you fall into the worm or a push up and flash some stomach) You can't just looks and listen and expect to understand and be funny. Read a book on comedy. Check out comedians talking about comedy (like Stephen Fry on t…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 08:36 PM
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If your dick isn't in her mouth/hand while you fingerblast her, that's your own damn fault. She tells me my turn is later, but later comes and she does nothing. Have you ever had rough sex? Have some rough sex. Next time this happens, think back to the rough sex and then start towards it. Grip her neck, bite her shoulder, pin her arms. She's not going to stop you... (Obligatory 'plz don't rape')
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:58 AM
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You want to chew him out and hit him because he doesn't smile at you? Dude. He's the fucking valet. He can only gain dominance over you if you let him by REACTING If he ACTUALLY disrespects you (not just these seemingly imaginary indiscretions) tip him and say loudly "smile next time Jose". Game over. Best be prepared for any wrath that brings. Because when you're being disrespected like that(and u do nothing), it means you're seen as a bitch. Can you be any more vague? How about an actual examp…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:41 AM
1

I play guitar And you aren't in a band? What a waste of easy pussy... What do/did you guys do for fun that helps you meet other cool people? I enjoy rock climbing.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:28 AM
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I've read the sidebar. Yes, I've read it again. How do I specifically respond to shit-tests? You need to do some research on learning and memory techniques. It's not possible to have read the side bar and not learned at least 3 techniques for disarming shit tests. Agree and amplify. Disagree and amplify. Amused mastery. Pressure flip. Ignore. Gaslight. "how old are you? 30? You look at least 40. You give off those old man vibes" Agree and amplify (to absurdity). "I'm the last of a long line of m…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:19 AM
1

Olivia Fox Cabane... the one that has more than 5 reviews on Amazon... The only author who makes the front page of a Google search for "The Charisma Myth"... Honestly, stop relying on other people. Thinking critically is not fucking hard.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:30 AM
1

Yeah, I suggest you search 'comedy' in theredpill sub search bar...
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:25 AM
1

Halo effect is a cognitive bias in which an observer's overall impression of a person, company, brand, or product influences the observer's feelings and thoughts about that entity's character or properties. Attractive (internally and externally) people 'appear' to be more charming because of the Halo Effect. You can become more charming by becoming sexier in every way. Oh, and read The Charisma Myth
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:21 AM
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Everything.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:57 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/search?q=comedy&restrict_sr=on
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:57 AM
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Therapy, to move on. Meditation, to keep this in the past. Lifting, to be confident in the future.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:49 AM
4

I caught 2 buses and 2 trains every day for a year. I used some of this time to hit on women, always 1 per day but sometimes up to 4. I never saw any of the rejections again. also, how shit is your game? Are you getting yelled at when you ask for numbers or something? Women are flattered when you approach them. When they reject you, they FEEL GOOD. Unless you call her a cunt, there's basically no way that there will be social backlash.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:47 AM
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I'm somewhat scared that if I come up to a chick and ask her out or something there may be some larger consequences if I fuck up. If you go into an encounter expecting failure, you have already lost. another thing stopping me is that it's weird if I come up to a chick I never talk to Sure, if you were a weedy little bitch. But you're a jock. They will be flattered you now acknowledge their existence.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:39 AM
1

Art of seduction. Know your seduction style before trying to craft it. Bang will help you work on your strengths. Art of Seduction will help you identify them.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:34 AM
1

Especially for a BDSM relationship, this mini-FR is spot on. The dog isn't more important than her, but not exiling your dog for no reason is far more important than her desire to remove the dog from the bed because of feelz. Of course, you don't explain this. You just say "nope, this is how it is". Well done.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:31 AM
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No shit... Why are you wasting time on social media if you aren't top 20%..?
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:54 AM
2

So stop talking to her... Block her on all forms of communication...
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:32 PM
1

But why are people on the Manosphere masturbating furiously to every GamerGate story that develops? Because there is a large population overlap between gamers and the Manosphere. Because people who don't care about GG don't write articles saying "I don't care about GG", because they don't care about GG...
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:17 PM
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When she sees you liked her photo, she thinks "he liked my photo". When she sees you didn't like her photo, she thinks "why didn't he like my photo?" Which one do you think makes her think about you more?
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:44 PM
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I love that they called it "The Red Pill" Send all the anger this way so that people can look at actual MRA stuff with clear heads. It's like we're the lesser of two evils; I hope it works.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:03 AM
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Wait 24-72 hours. Message her "karmacrunch" and a picture of you. Wait until she replies then ask her on a date that is within 72 hours. If she doesn't reply, wait 48+ hours then ask her on a date that is within 72 hours.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:48 AM
1

I'll be missing a guy I haven't even dated, I just feel so stupid all of a sudden She wants commitment. Don't reply. Or do and go for logistics "that must be hard for you. join me for X tomorrow" So far as I'm concerned this is a non-issue. Keep fucking her for two months (seems certain she's going to hang around) then say goodbye.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:44 AM
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I never ask for exclusivity. I don't care if I get it or not. I only care about getting sex. If I think she's sexually unsafe, I hard next. I don't bring up her other partners or mine. If she does, I'm happy to talk (provided she's not wasting my time).
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:38 AM
1

Watch better comedy. There's plenty of TRP advice on this. Slow down, think. You actually have a lot longer to respond than you think (especially 1-on-1, that silence/tension is great). Amused mastery definitely helps with buying even more time.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:32 AM
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Amused mastery is the ability to not take other people seriously when you shouldn't be. People who struggle with shit-tests typically are too serious and need to lighten up. I haven't felt insulted by an intentional insult in about 4 years. Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:55 AM
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Look, regardless of the situation as is, the path forward is the same. STOP TALKING ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, YOU LITTLE BITCH. You are the gatekeeper of commitment. When she wants commitment, she comes to your gate and asks to be let in. She is the gatekeeper of sex. When you want sex, you go to her gate and ask to be let in. Keep fucking her. Stop thinking about relationships. If it happens, it happens. At the 3 month mark, if you decide she's actually LTR material, you can ask her to be exclusive …
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:26 AM
1

So you want to be her LTR? Why did you say this? I want us to be FWBs Clearly you want exclusivity from this woman.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:17 AM
3

Is making your body part of the public domain really considered empowerment? Do you mean "is being a slut actually empowering?" depends on her societal conditioning. Religious girls don't feel empowered being slutty, they feel shameful. Because that's how their society tells them to feel for being slutty. Short blue-haired girls feel empowered being slutty because they've been told it's empowering. why shouldn't I shame somebody who uses sex as a weapon? Because it serves no purpose... They've o…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:15 AM
2

You show her you care by fucking her hard and holding her tight afterwards.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:07 AM
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If you are introduced, pretend in your head that you're doing Jane a favor. This. Sometimes it's fun to say this sort of stuff out loud too. "You should make sure to thank Jane for setting you up." cheeky grin.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:50 AM
1

Approach one woman every time you go grocery shopping. Approach one woman every time you eat out. Approach one woman every time you go to college. An approach a day keeps the abundance okay.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:40 AM
1

after 3 messages.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:21 AM
1

So I need to expand my hunting grounds so to speak That's exactly what I'm saying. You think there aren't attractive women available to you. THEY ARE FUCKING EVERYWHERE You don't need to take Salsa classes to find a pretty woman to hit on. Any time you do something "for women" you are beta. You're looking at community college "for women". You should be looking at it "for learning". You take Salsa classes because you want to be able to dance, because you like the way it feels, etc. If you want to…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:20 AM
3

You're letting that be your problem. It's not. That's their problem. They had 30+ years to figure out how to pay rent. If they haven't, it's not your fault. There's no easy way to do this. You either get your balls out of your ass, or you shit on yourself for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:16 AM
3

Sounds like a great idea man. There is absolutely no reason not to do this. Great way to learn. Added bonus of being in proximity with multiple attractive women. Military women.... ugh.... the n-counts and cc riders would astound even the most jaded TRP'r. The real estate industry is almost all post-wall harpies. This sounds awfully like Scarcity Mentality. Why do we need to know this? It sounds like you're making excuses for your lack of abundance... You know you don't need an excuse to approac…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:09 AM
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As i'm writing this Im literally realising how bad this was It's honestly not that bad, she's replying and at least matching the number of words you send. Invite her to join you for a drink. Anything else is just a waste of more time and another opportunity for you to fuck up. T - Ok I can handle that Should have asked for the number/drink here.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:01 AM
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Are you co-signed on any of those loans/debt? If they died tomorrow, how much harder would your life be? You really should cut them from your life. Let them support themselves. They are poison and they are clearly killing you on the inside.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:56 AM
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she was bangable (sadly that's not a word?) You're speaking English: If someone understands the meaning based on the context, it's a word. We have 3x as many words as most languages. 500 years ago this guy called Shakespeare made up 1500 words, just because. Right click the underlined word, "add to dictionary", now it's a word. There's some learning for ya! well I come to every class being a (helper for deaf students or something volunteer) so if you ever miss class let me know!" as if that's so…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:48 AM
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Why does taking her down a peg even matter? Are you trying to fuck her?
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:28 AM
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Awkward takes two people. If you are comfortable, her discomfort will disappear in no time.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 12:36 AM
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Block her on everything. If you see her in real life, tell her to go away. If she doesn't, move yourself. Do you enjoy being treated like dirt?
/r/askTRP29/10/15 12:34 AM
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Honestly, it's such a big IOI hidden in a shit test that I'd just ignore it (don't directly respond to it) and escalate. Edit: also if you 'answer' this you close a conversation loop. Better to make her want to ask again by leaving the loop open.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:21 PM
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Amused mastery is your friend. Smile, chuckle to yourself, think, respond. If you don't think of anything, amused mastery probably has you covered anyway.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:56 AM
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YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING TO FAIL, SO YOU DO. alternately, you could get a full skin bleach treatment. Runs about $100 in India... I don't know if you've heard of that place, it's got 1.5bn people, but none of them ever get laid. apparently they lay eggs.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:53 AM
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Currently, I have no friends in new city. It's not like I lack something. I love askTRP... How is that possible that I don't have confidence ? I am very very subpar in terms of looks. Do you even fucking hear yourself? I have read few books and watched RSD videos. But, all of them seem to have white , 6" foot guys who honestly don't have much problem as I do. Tyler is a ginger with a receding hairline... READ THE SIDEBAR
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:28 AM
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The same way I don't feel the same way about COCK as women do...
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:01 AM
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The idea is, if she's already smiling and laughing when you say "CompSci" she'll associate positively with it. If you say CompSci while she's in a neutral or negative mindset, she's going to put you on the Beta Ladder (because that's the CompSci stereotype) and you'll struggle endlessly. Feel free to jump in and say CompSci earlier, but, if you know anything about comedy then you'll know that third time is the funniest.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:58 AM
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Wait till they've asked you 3+ times before you say CompSci. "What are you studying?" "I'm studying the ancient art of soap bubble blowing" "Your eyes" / "That freckle on your nose" "What do you do?" "I'm a professional clubber. Sealions are a real pest this time of year" "I scam people out of their money by pretending to sell them my kidneys on the black market"
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:45 AM
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Halo effect. Being mysterious allows women to fill in the blanks. If you're attractive, the halo effect causes them to fill these blanks with angelic qualities. If not, they think you're weird and they aren't curious. Being mysterious isn't attractive by itself per se. It's like salt, you add it in there to make the food even better, if the food sucks, the salt doesn't help.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:41 AM
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what can I do to recover the lost frame from this? You want to do some super-secret 'this alpha move makes all girls wet' trick? Dude. You lost frame (so you say). You recover by holding frame next time. Also, did you get laid? Hardly seems like a big deal if you still got laid...
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:38 AM
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As for the south, I have known guys of asian and Indian backgrounds that have done amazing there. Well there you have it Even in the hot-bed of social stigma, bigotry, racism and ignorance, RACE DOESN'T MATTER
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:34 AM
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You'll have less luck in redneck bible-belt states but you'll still get laid and find plenty of women. If you're worried about the number of women who are/will-be attracted to you, you have scarcity mentality. I suggest you read more content. Also, never bring up your race again. Every time you do, you weaken your self-esteem. There is zero to be gained by bringing it up. It can never be changed and it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:20 AM
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Eat sweets? Masturbate? Drink something? Meditate. Lift. What can I do to ease myself and act like nothing is going on? Your subconscious brain is not as intelligent as your conscious brain. Listen to a happy song to become happy. Listen to an angry song to become angry. The brain can be hacked and it really is that easy.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:12 AM
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There are women everywhere. If you pick somewhere to live based on the women present you have a scarcity mentality and you don't value yourself; in which case you can live anywhere you like, because you won't get the results you want until you stop thinking like that.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:06 AM
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Radio silence. Initiate in 5+ days unless you hear from her first. If you hear from her, the game is still on.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:49 AM
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First date with a girl you've spent under half an hour with? Ice cream/drinks/coffee First date with a girl you've spent over half an hour with? Activity things - roller skating, bike riding, rock climbing, hiking, beach, billiards, fly a kite, feed the ducks, walk in the park, cook together, "netflix and chill"
/r/askTRP27/10/15 05:25 AM
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I like the feeling when you hold frame but at what point does it cross arrogance or ignorance? When you make the wrong decision. When you make a decision that is more harmful to her/the LTR than it is beneficial for you. When you do something JUST to hold frame, regardless of better options. Edit: definitely check out /r/marriedredpill for LTR advice on frame control. My guess, you've become too serious. AM and A&A are your friends.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:41 AM
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U wot m8?
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:39 AM
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How is approaching not an instant admittance of low value? Instead of me trying to prove the yeti doesn't exist, how about you show us that it does? How is approaching an instant admittance of low value? When you ask girls out and get rejected, how can you NOT immediately get laughed at on social media (with all of its exponential amplifying effects)? What happens? What sort of reputation do you get? DYEL? You'll never succeed if you don't start. You'll never start if you're afraid of failure. I…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:51 AM
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I was talking to her and she started to walk towards the door and her friend who was waiting to talk to her. This isn't being interrupted. This is a girl not interested in you and walking away. I've tried not trying and i just get passed over and ignored like i'm invisible, they loose interest if they even get any in the first place. There's a difference between not trying and being aloof/outcome independent. Honestly though, do you even lift? Also, read up on body language, it's going to be evi…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:42 AM
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Send him here. You're not a lion. He's not going to listen to your cheating whore ass. Send him a txt "we're breaking up because i'm cheating on you. if you want to know why, that's why. if that doesn't make sense, google theredpill"
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:36 AM
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She then proceeds to say I should be lifting the heavy weights (40lb Dumbbells) "Is that how I get arms like these?" then squeeze her bicep. Shit test passed, A+. Extra credit because you touched her. I started chatting up the one closest to me about how often she comes and whats her goal and so on To keep the conversation going, I asked what school shes from Make sure to get her resume before the interview ends. You probably sounded more boring than a 60 year old bald man doing job recruitment …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:31 AM
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"dont even try" Smile. "If you insist". Carry on as normal. "you're an asshole"/"fuck you" Smile. "If you insist". Carry on as normal. "stay in your own lane"/"look at him trying" Smile. "If you insist". Carry on as normal. When you get interrupted These are quite hit and miss, but you're about to get blown out anyway so, that's what you want. As soon as you get interrupted say: "Is she always this rude?" "Wow, rude." "Adults are talking, please wait your turn." When she's going to do something …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:16 AM
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"come on, I'm famished" Say that while looking at her with your body pointed away from her for added effect. It looks like you're already leaving regardless of her answer, which you are. She said dinner, if she wants to be false with you she can go fuck right off.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:43 AM
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Asking her at the beginning of class is fucking retarded. It's like saying "please please pleaseeeee say we're still on for dinner" Why do you need to ask to know the answer? You'll know the answer when she comes to dinner or not. Asking is unnecessary and unnecessary = over investment.. Edit: seriously, you got given 3 options above and you picked the only one that runs the risk of sounding beta ("play it cool and don't be over eager", it's almost impossible to be low value, initiate a conversa…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:37 AM
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Always assume attraction. Don't bring it up. After class, "come on, I'm famished" If she resists at all, just say 'k' and walk off. You're eating dinner after class, she's lucky to join you. Never forget.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:23 AM
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He's saying the mere fact that you managed to ask this question makes you an ungrateful little shit. You're alive. Option 1. Go ask for handouts from your admittedly shit parents Option 2. Ask for handouts from the government Option 3. Work hard Option 4. Give up on life because daddy didn't buy you a car or show you affection... Edit: also, make some friends you call family. 1 or 2. It's so much better than settling for the 'family' you get assigned at birth.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:38 AM
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I did not want to invest time in dressing up, meeting up at a place, buying drinks/food, and all. Wouldn't you say FaceTime (or video chat) is an effective tool to filter her in case she's fat, unattractive, or her photos are all photoshopped? Why are you doing first dates that are inconvenient for you if they flake/are bitches etc? Desperate much? Why don't you just turn and walk out the door when you feel the ground shake beneath her feet? Don't want to hurt her feelings? You're a pussy, scare…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:14 AM
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Even the ugly dudes can get laid with good game. But as far as the tech meetup world goes you could be right that it's 99% looks. 80-20 rule. you can get 80% of the results with looks. the last 20% takes game. It's way easier to be fit than have online game.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 11:45 PM
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The same way you get through life with good parents. You work fucking hard for every scrap of value you can accumulate. You're going to have to work very fucking hard. Enjoy!
/r/askTRP26/10/15 11:20 PM
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You texted her "G'Morning". How does that help you in any way but give you thumb exercise? You facetimed her? Let me just link you to the exactly zero guides in TRP where we recommend to over-invest before you've even met. What if she wants to get together again? She'll text you. If you don't hear from her before the scheduled date time, delete her number. If she does message in a week or whatever, your first txt response is "who's this", that's perfect.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 11:18 PM
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Have you read the /u/OmLaLa guide Know Your Enemy? It takes 3-4 message to get a date. If you're attractive, you get a better % of dates. Again, you're either ugly or have shit photos. You don't need game on Tinder when you have the /u/OmLaLa guide.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 11:14 PM
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You don't need to act beta over messages, just in the profile. let her assume it. Dark triad clearly aint working for you right now. So my question really is " how do I deal with when she asks" - specifically if she does early / first meet so that I don't blow the chance to get a lay in before she figures out. Be vague. "just seeing where it goes, what are you looking for?" If she keeps prodding, just blow her up for it. "Are you going to propose in a second?" "Are you going to make me convert t…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:48 PM
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What ought I do? You ought to give useful details. There's literally nothing in your post for us to go on.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:41 PM
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You look like a beta and your playing field is quite literally women standing on the wall waiting to fall off? Potential targets seem to be around 33-35 and "looking for relationship". One glance at my profile should clear that up Why aren't you playing the beta role? Just play up the provider role to get a first date then go alpha on her ass in person. Easy lays. She'll think she's finally found her BB and he's not completely spineless, she just won't know you won't commit until she asks. Onlin…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:25 PM
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They don't trust your decisions. Keep leading. Keep making good decisions. Trust isn't built overnight. Edit: Metrics, nothing says "I'm a fucking baller" like a graph showing how shit got better since you arrived
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:20 PM
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Not hitting on enough HB9's. "Boo hoo, I'm poor" SO GO WORK "Boo hoo, I have no HB9's" SO GO FUCKING GET ONE JEEZ
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:17 PM
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I don't really know you so I don't want to meet you yet You have ugly photos (or are ugly), lack game or both. "Logistics only" is for attractive men and girls you've already met in person.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:00 PM
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She interrupts a conversation? Shhh her or put a hand over her mouth. Tell her adults are speaking. She gets handsy while you're concentrating on something else? Get handsy back... You don't need to talk to her just because she touched you...
/r/askTRP26/10/15 09:48 PM
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Despression makes you not want to get out of bed in the morning. Find things that make you want to get out of bed. Find reasons to live. Meditation helps. Especially if you don't feel you have purpose. Also, if you find yourself feeling sad, play happy music (or angry music if you're about to work out). Hacking the brain is an easy way to avoid the feelings of depression until you've worked your way out.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 09:46 PM
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I'm not going to give you fitness and health recommendations. The wiki on MD said "No bodybuilding" so if you're lifting, I trust you know what you're doing. I just wanted to know what you looked like (that said, have you tried eating more? it's the only way to bulk...) Read the sidebar. Key words: frame, game, charisma, value
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:26 PM
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Imagine trying to get someone to jump off a bridge without you doing it first. Imagine being first onto the dance floor. Imagine being the first to go skinny dipping. That's why you go first.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:08 AM
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Lifting 5 years. What's your bf% and weight? I'm pretty awesome Apparently no one else knows that... You need to work on your game.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 01:52 AM
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Solid advice. Last thing you said was "not from Jenna" then who? Let me rephrase for you. "they weren't walling you off from Jenna" Whatever perceived cock blocks there were, weren't stopping Jenna from trying to get you to block her holes with your cock.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 01:47 AM
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"I'm trying to preserve my 100% Scandinavian bloodline." Agree and amplify...
/r/askTRP26/10/15 01:30 AM
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Theredpill is sexual strategy not a moral compass. If you want to abuse your power, go right ahead.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 01:26 AM
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Because theredpill is debating generalizations and asktrp is typically debating specifics. You're comparing apples and oranges.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 01:24 AM
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I'm a fucking funny guy. Even my best jokes aren't as well received as some of the terrible one liners and situational comedy I use day to day. If you're using canned material, you're not using your best option. Edit - two freebies for 'impossible' openers Headphones in? "I hope you're not listening to X, I wouldn't have wanted to spoil their groove" On the phone? "is that important or can you call them back?"
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:54 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to reply. One of the things I was worried about doing by isolating is making the implied obvious. So say to one person that won't cock block : "I'm/we're getting some air. Talk later" then bounce Now you both have even more plausible deniability. Also, why are you so embarrassed about wanting to fuck a hot girl? I was worried about what other people would do if her friends saw me taking her outside "we're getting some air," they were already walling me out. Not from Je…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:45 AM
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Add in some side ab work alongside those push ups. Stay on the floor for side planks, reverse sit ups, crunches, front planks, etc. Also, dips. Parallel bars, lock elbows at full height above bars. Dip slowly till upper arm at horizontal, raise again and lock. Repeat to failure. If you're struggling with the upward section of a pull-up/chin-up/dip, skip it. Do the downward section and lower yourself as slowly as you can then reset to the vertical position. This will train you for the upward moti…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:42 AM
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Zero abundance. This is why LTRs suck. As soon as the LTR ended you had zero options. You immediately went to the options that you thought had the best success and because you don't have abundance, that meant old flames. Go out and fuck new women. It is the only way.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:33 AM
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Every time I start getting alone time with her, one of her ugly and chubby, or fantastically overweight friends invite themselves into our conversation and they'd try to do whatever they could to get her away from me. So get her away from them. Isolate. "I'm getting some fresh air, come on " grab her hand and walk out the door (alone) Jenna would find one way or another to fuck it up. First, she'd start to put her hands on my chest or back, and when I wouldn't give her the attention she'd try wa…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:27 AM
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I'd love to see some statistics behind your theory. Sounds like confirmation bias to me. Women travel for the same reasons as men. Not everything is sexual strategy gents. Women aren't travelling for 'strange cock' any more than men are doing the same for strange pussy. What do you think Thai tourism is built around?
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:19 AM
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My place - we go to my room and immediately she says she doesn't do this kind of thing. I ignore this and start kissing her. We make out for a bit but when I try to take her clothes off she says she doesn't want to. I said okay and go to bed. Shes gone when I wake up. Always take your clothes off first.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:15 AM
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Easiest game out there
/r/askTRP25/10/15 11:14 PM
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Walk away
/r/askTRP24/10/15 10:25 PM
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Shit tests. Agree and amplify. Disagree and amplify. Amused mastery. Ignore. Gaslight. Pressure flip. Plenty of material on all these things in the side bar.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 10:04 PM
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Shit tests are a chance to prove you are still the sexy man she loves. Ignore it when you don't want to be that man at that moment. Otherwise, be your sexy self. "Am I? Come here." Ass squeeze, big kiss. Done.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 09:35 PM
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Talk to a better lawyer
/r/askTRP23/10/15 07:09 AM
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I have sorted through most of my thoughts on this, but one thing I'm not sure of yet is if it is even worth trying to open women with headphones in. Does anyone with experience know if a girl having headphones in while doing work in, say, a coffee shop makes her much more unlikely to be open? Only because you're more nervous because you perceive it as more difficult. I've opened women on cellphones. "Is that important or can you call them back?" "I hope you weren't listening to $band, I wouldn't…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:37 AM
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Something that wasn't clear in my OP is that we were gonna see each other, we were figuring out what the plan was. Aka who was coming over to who's place. Nah, that was clear. It's also still clear that you hadn't cemented the plans and that she made an honest mistake. You're trying too hard to be alpha... An alpha doesn't care when she falls asleep. He had work to do anyway. He had a book to read. He had another woman to bring over. He went to the pool hall and shot with the regulars. He lifted…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:27 AM
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Downgrade her to plate. Treat her like a plate. You only told us one good thing about your girlfriend ("she's beautiful"), there's plenty more beautiful women out there. Preferably find one that you haven't cried on.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:23 AM
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You're thinking like a loser. You'll never be a winner until you think like one. You don't need specifics. You need to read plate theory. You need to increase your SMV until you think "I'd fuck me" and believe it. You need to look up on scarcity and abundance. You are limiting yourself. I suggest meditation.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:58 AM
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Work on your SMV? What, you stopped? No wonder she doesn't want to taste good for you. Yes, dread game. She needs to think you're going to leave. You can do dread x1000 by leaving asap. That's what I suggest. Screw LTRs. If you want an LTR, head to marriedredpill
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:34 AM
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Thanks, I don't mind being ripped apart. Why do you say that she does not even like me? If she did not, why did she kiss me. Because women will climb mountains for the right man. If she's not climbing your mountain, you aren't the right man. When someone finds you truly attractive, having sex with them does not require a reddit post. And, Jeff, I definitely did not behave like a loser when we went out on dates. Yes but you WERE a loser. You were faking it till you made it. You made it as far as …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:28 AM
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You know nothing of TRP. Go read the side bar and top 100 posts at least twice more. You live in India, the 2nd most populace country on Earth. You just spent 30 minutes typing out a post trying to figure out how you can increase your odds with ONE WOMAN. YOU FUCKING IDIOT. THERE ARE 1000000 WOMEN. WHY THE FUCK IS THIS ONE SO GOD DAMN IMPORTANT? SHE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE YOU, FUCK!
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:16 AM
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If you'd dumped her over this 1 and a half years ago, 1 and a half years ago she would have thought to herself "I can get him back if I taste nicer". Now, she doesn't need to taste nice, because you aren't willing to leave her. She has all the power. Just stop licking her pussy. If she decides she's going to withhold sex because of this, just leave. This is her problem to fix but she's not fixing it because she doesn't have to. Unless you make it so that she HAS TO FIX IT, she won't. Edit: Essen…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:12 AM
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Leading means making decisions. If you don't know what YOU want, how are YOU going to decide? Any time there is an opportunity for you to get what you want, LEAD YOURSELF THERE. The sheep will follow.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:07 AM
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Hypothetical: You set up an experiment. You test to see if "opposites attract" in the way you describe. If you noticed that yes, this is a trend, how would that help your sexual strategy? If you noticed that no, this is not a trend, how would that help your sexual strategy?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:48 AM
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I'm not twisting your words. The one with the most power in the relationship is the one who is most willing to walk away. The one who is most willing to walk away is (almost always) the one with the most abundance, the most attractive. You need to be more attractive. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:42 AM
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Hookup could be slightly more aware/awake than most. Maybe she's almost as awake as you are? I've met women who were more perceptive than me... I wondered if it's in women's nature to gossip Are you 4 years old? When have you known women NOT to gossip? Women don't have the same bodies as men so they rely on social smarts to secure resources... Remember that teen that went to jail because he was framed by highschool chicks? My ex is clearly psycho telling people that I abused her. Don't stick you…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:40 AM
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So do women talk to eachother post-breakups and weasel info out of eachother? Sure, if two women with the same ex just happen to bond, they'll talk about their ex with each other. I'd say about 1 in 1000 women have a relationship like this. Not enough of a majority to even think about worrying about. Is this info used to maximize male status and gossip? Sub-consciously Serious question. Why does it matter?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:26 AM
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I said my doctor measured me at 5'8. You answered a shit test with logic? Instant fail... Answer with: A&A, D&A, AM, pressure flip "You can see me from all the way up there?" "Who said that, I can't see your face from down here" "Hand me that napkin", proceed stand on napkin, "cool, now we're both 5'8." You're being way to serious man. Lighten the fuck up. This guy wanted to be your friend, he thought you might be cool. That's why he tested to see if you were cool. You weren't...
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:22 AM
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By "move on" I mean, forget about this and move on with the relationship. This is a non-issue brought on by your insecurity. You don't next a girl because she flakes on a date you haven't even scheduled yet. You don't next her after she profusely apologises for an honest mistake. So for now my goal is to make her more excited to see me than I am to see her. Do you think that's possible? If yes, how? "how do I make myself more attractive?" If you're asking that question on this board, I can only …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:16 AM
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We were supposed to meet up tonight at 10, and she fell asleep when we were making plans If you haven't confirmed the plans, the only thing she's done is shown (by falling asleep) that she's not as excited (right now) to meet you as you are her. At best, this is a red flag. Move on.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:57 AM
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Models - Mark Manson What every body is saying - Joe Navaro The first book is to help you have game The second book is to help you realise when your game is working (and if you're a sexy beast, when you don't need to game at all)
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:20 AM
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Short on time? Budget it. Plan better. Novels count as leisure reading. Non-fiction reading counts as work. Prioritize work over leisure as often as possible.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:56 AM
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Does anyone know how to cut out the sleep talking? Sleep therapists do.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:44 AM
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Exactly. This is called polarization. If you're a surfer dude, there's no point wandering around in a suit and tie. You're not going to attract girls that are attracted to surfers, you're going to attract girls that are attracted to suits. Doesn't mean I can't invest MORE in my surfer look. Buy a 2nd shell necklace. Is the SMV boost of 2 necklaces worth the $15 I spent on it? Cost vs value. (FYI - yes, any excuse for a woman to touch you. bitches love inspecting your necklace)
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:42 AM
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What are you reading? Did you read all the sidebar content and recommended reading? What books did you read that addressed game/charisma? There's nothing here for you that isn't already in one of those books. Unless you want specific advice, this is the best we've got.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:37 AM
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So here's what I'm posing to the TRP hive mind, how much to you invest in wardrobe versus other factors of your TRP journey? However much it's worth to you. You know that clothing directly affects SMV. You know some women will pre-disqualify you based on your clothing. Decide what you value and invest appropriately.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:33 AM
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Humbly. Also, get new friends. You are the average of the 5 people you associate with most frequently.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:21 AM
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It could be fucking anything man. Women are fucking strange and we have way too little context. Don't worry about it. Move on. You're sounding like you have a scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:18 AM
1

Consider it like training a dog. No BJ = bad behaviour. Don't reward bad behaviour with attention and affection... you only get more bad behaviour that way. Note that correcting bad behaviour immediately is key too. If you use a squirt bottle on the dog 3 hours after it shit on the carpet it's too late.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 01:05 AM
1

guiding her head and such Wrong technique if you want to be caveman. It's like kissing bro. You go 90%, she goes 10%. Put your dick in her face, she'll get the idea. If she doesn't get busy, stop trying to have sex with her immediately. Lie down, don't touch her. Go get a drink. Play with your phone. etc. Your frame is "If we aren't fucking, I'm bored of you" Relationships are always a value trade. What value is she giving you by not sucking you off on shark week?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 01:01 AM
1

Aggressive, yes. Demanding, no. Have you read Sex God Method?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:48 AM
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Me: Let me spot that sushi roller buddy Her: Wish I could but its at my sisters Radio silence. You aren't trying to get laid and she has no more value to offer you. Why are you still talking?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:46 AM
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Yep, this sounds like a great time to send her a 'k' She's trying to get you to invest.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:44 AM
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"I'm busy" is the better response provided you don't go all beta if (more like when) she asks "doing what?". Radio silence usually comes off as butthurt if she doesn't even know she's done something wrong (which is your fault for not letting her know on the night that you expect shark week BJs) refused to blow me, just kept teasing FYI - this is an invitation to go caveman on her Oh, and make sure to track her period from now on. If she's coming over on shark week, have chores for her to do, she…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:14 AM
1

I'm busy right now, what I'm doing is so much fun" So you'd do it if you weren't busy? Nice one. Enjoy her trying to pussy whip you for another year.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 11:42 PM
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TL;DR - Women are hypergamous. 80% of women will sleep with the top 20% of men. Be in the top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 11:03 PM
1

it was amazing meeting you too, shame I only got to kiss you once that doesn't really cut it does it? Are you free tonight? "Quick, look how more valuable you are than me" she messages me later saying she can't go out tonight because she has to study for us to go out on another day. I obviously call her out on her bullshit, and say thats fine but that we would probably lose attraction because I am going out tomorrow and next week is halloween so that if we are going out it will be in the future …
/r/askTRP22/10/15 10:52 PM
2

Contact sports. Some aggressive street-ball always feels good. Ice hockey, football, rugby, etc. Full-contact sparring martial arts. 3 hours training with a team each week, bonding with men while exercising, is so much better for your SMV than running solo for 3 hours a week. (Though some love the alone time)
/r/askTRP22/10/15 09:49 PM
3

Feel the wierdness. Do it anyway. You are stronger than your emotions. What do you want? How will you get it? DO IT!
/r/askTRP22/10/15 08:55 PM
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You need to up your roughness, big time. You're a little bed bitch. Choke her, throw her on the bed and face fuck her. Problem solved. You're fucking for her. Stop doing that. Fuck for you.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 08:38 PM
1

Hamster going to hamster. You're not going to be able to out-run the hamster. You have to let it run, wait for it to get tired, then put it back in it's cage. That 'expiration date' is negotiable, you can push it forward with some risky game, or you can let it linger with endless radio silence. Considering she's a Christian, waiting around is likely to see her find a BB. I'd be using a tactical nuke (to either secure victory, or blow it all away). Finally, abundance mentality bro. There are plen…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:22 AM
1

Well I've unblocked her at her request and she's requesting to follow me on Instagram. Pretty sure your sex chances vanished when blocked her and she found out, great way to seem butthurt. Your chances got even worse from there. From her perspective - you manged to overcome the butthurt because she said "can we please just be internet friends" and you replied "okay, but only because there's still a chance you might fuck me some more". Just give up thinking about this girl. You're wasting way too…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:02 AM
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There wasn't any need to block her from contacting you (unless you were starting to feel like orbiting). Sounds like she's going to come crawling back to you in a month or 6 for more sex. Better to commit the same old sin than a whole new one. If she initiates, give her a few messages then escalate. If she stops you from escalating, she's still not interested in sex. Next her again until she initiates again.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:51 AM
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Why are you nexting her? Why do you want to 'knock her down a peg' if you're nexting her? Just how butthurt are you?
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:46 AM
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Sounds like she wants more than sex. Is she a plate? Take her on a really shitty low-effort date (then fuck her in a public bathroom). Is she your LTR? Boy, she's trying to beta you.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 03:49 AM
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Is it a bad idea to bring a girl to a party so that everyone else at the party can see her treat me like a little bitch? Yes.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:45 AM
1

Now tell me, what do you WANT?
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:42 AM
2

Its not enjoyable to talk to women. So don't talk to women... Sounds to me like it's not enjoyable for you to talk to your mother... Don't talk to her? Also how do you interact with women while metering how much attention you give her? It seems like i am having to give attention to get the oppurtunity to create a demand for my attention. People don't want/need/know your current value. Get more valuable. How do you deal with women and their bullshit hamstering, horse shit feelings, and overall se…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:38 AM
2

Either she doesn't consider you an option or she doesn't want to scare you off.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:48 AM
2

Why are you not having drinks in a location that allows you to get straight to business?
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:44 AM
2

In contrast to this, it seems fairly common that men want their girls to be freaks in the sheets. And a common advice to turn your girl toward being a freak is to tell her how you're non-judgmental and actively encourage sexual liberation. Lots of different dudes on here. I don't give a fuck if she's fucked 1000 men before me. I really don't care. I don't want an LTR. For me, if she's not sexually open, I just move on. Other men are searching for LTR material. If you're looking for a sheet freak…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:29 AM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:23 AM
1

How old are you? How long since you swallowed the pill?
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:22 AM
3

headspace.com Waking Up: A guide to spirituality without religion - Sam Harris (varied reviews on this around here)
/r/askTRP21/10/15 11:16 PM
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Escalate, asap.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 11:13 PM
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As soon as that work 'boundary' is removed. You pounce like a rabid dog. How long since you worked together? Also, how do you deal with girls who are very touchy, with everyone? Touch her back, it's a two way street and she just invited you to walk down it. Don't be a little bitch (about touching her, or about her touching others). Generally I can gauge a girls interest based on this You don't need to gauge interest. You're already interesting. Make it known. Assume attraction.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 10:37 PM
2

Practice. Study up on body language. (read What Every Body Is Saying, also read The Definitive Book of Body Language) Also, she's uncomfortable because you feel uncomfortable. Get it into your head that touching women is natural and what they want from the right guy. Be the right guy.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:59 PM
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I brought it up, because it's not on the side bar, and he should read it. Why? Because if he's asking questions in here, I assume he's already read the sidebar and recommendations.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:56 PM
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So for now I've backed off dating a bit until I figure out how I want to approach this particular issue and figured I'd tap into TRP's collaborative cognition engine for some advice. Abundance mentality bro Get more plates! You only need to find 4 women who think your microhome is trendy, practical or understandably temporary. Then you've got yourself all you can handle for 6 months to a year before you need to find a new plate. That's the thing about plates. They break. Also, plates under age 2…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:53 PM
1

Have you read The Charisma Myth? Have you practiced it?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:21 PM
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There are so many fucking women out there bro. Find someone else. FUCK. Don't even worry about it. Red flag? Plate or next. Abundance mentality! Edit: Polarize and screen, it's not that hard guys! Just because she makes your dick hard doesn't mean you should stop thinking.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:11 PM
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Put it another way, would an ugly girl who you aren't attracted to be able to game you into finding her attractive? Male attraction cues =/= female attraction cues. Pointless question. I'm not saying that other forms of SMV gain are not important or are not useful. I'm saying, game will help you overcome any of your SMV weaknesses. Consider this: someone with game who lives in their mother's basement won't have issues because of that fact. Someone who doesn't live in their mothe'rs basement also…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:07 PM
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They make you to standard stretch positions, and then just shout positive reinforcements at you. Yoga = meditation + stretching. You clearly missed the memo on meditation. And half the women there weren't even sexy... Only 10 out of 20 women were sexy? Tragic...
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:53 AM
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I live in a single parent household and my mother makes about 3k a month. I've always had this insecurity about others finding out my financial status Little confused here, sounds like it's her with low financial status and you're a broke student trying to get by like every other person your age. How old are you? What's your education? Why aren't you employed? Also, there was a front page thread where a woman took home a hobo, cleaned him up and fucked him. I'm pretty sure your financial status …
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:27 AM
1

If you have to ask what you should be txting, you are not ready for txt game. You therefore have 2 options. Txt for logistics. Don't txt. If she's trying to add value to your life, txt for logistics and let her add that value. If she's not going to add value. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:16 AM
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Can anyone recommend good ways to meet women? Walk up to them and talk it'd be weird to just walk up to them, right? Women get dressed and put up makeup in the morning. They go to their dead end jobs and see the same people every day. The makeup is not for their co-workers. It is not for them. It is not for their boss. It is for you. Women look attractive so that prince Charming will sweep them off their feet. Women don't care if prince Charming sweeps them off their feet in a grocery store, a l…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:06 AM
1

so I texted her and told her Im making steaks friday You really should have invited her for steaks in person instead of waiting less than a day to invite her to your house for steak. It seems pretty needy. Also, this isn't the same as her declining to meet you all weekend, this is her specifically being busy at dinner Friday night. People in this sub really need to be more specific when asking for specific advice. You can safely offer an alternate time/day without seeming needy. So just keep up …
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:40 AM
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She used that word, upset? It's a shit test. AM, A&A, A&D, Ignore, pressure flip, gaslight FYI I'd probably say this. Fair warning: I have a tendency for playing frisbee with my plates. It's fun while it lasts. "I'm not upset, I'm just disappointed in you. I thought you were sluttier."
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:30 AM
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Textbook orbiter attempt. She wants attention and she's the only thing she's offering in return is to waste your time. If you keep talking to her, you're being pulled into orbit. How did you ask her to hang out? How did she respond?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:24 AM
1

Don't worry about them, they aren't in danger, they haven't touched any girls because they're still looking for the wrong signals.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:05 AM
1

the only difference between kino and Potentially getting hit with a sexual harassment charge is whether the girl is attracted/comfortable with you or not Pretty much. Add in the fact that she needs to be comfortable/attracted after the interaction as well, otherwise you're looking at post-event consent removal. Edit: The difference between a sexual harassment charge and a fun time is you and your ability to judge a woman's interest levels. The higher SMV you are, the more forgiveness you receive…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:58 AM
1

Yeah, and it was a hobo. I'm sure a mediocre man can do better than your asshole.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:50 AM
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"Better" is too vague. In what way do you want this to be better? Better chances of LTR? Better chances of casual sex? Shut her up faster?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:38 AM
1

There was a thread on the front page recently. A young woman fucked a hobo that she brought in off the street. This conclusively proves that game > all other forms of SMV. Anyone with game can pull. /thread
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:34 AM
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Please stop attacking my character. It makes you appear wood-brained. Please stop refuting my points without giving examples, evidence or even theories. You bring down the whole sub. work as hard as you want while players and high value guys fuck the girls OP is already living the player life that he longed for so much in his youth. Maybe if you read you'll learn something. In my group of friends, I am known as that guy who is constantly sleeping around and switching girls but I am still angry o…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:02 AM
1

It's either one or the other. Sounds to me like you aren't worth making time for. Should I ask her when she can reschedule or nah? It almost certainly won't help. Do you want to seem needy? That's a good way to seem needy. If she'd wanted to reschedule she would have suggested it. Become more attractive through scarcity (radio silence). Try again later.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:50 AM
1

Umm, she's busy bro. Either because she's legit busy, or you aren't worth making time for. I wouldn't worry about coming across as dickish, with that line you'll come across as desperate and needy. Go radio silent. Mid conversation if you want. Re-engage 2 days out from your next free time-slot.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:39 AM
1

Unless she's given you evidence that she's stewing (ie. She won't stop messaging you), you need to attack quickly. 1-3 days is the normal wait period. Adjust based on your schedule.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:35 AM
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Sure, the trick is to only give fucks when needed. You need to give fucks about fashion, career, hobbies, lifting etc. These things are important. You do not need to give fucks when a random club slut tells you to get a haircut. You already gave those fucks a week back when you saw a good barber. Alternately, you never had fucks to begin with because every afternoon the surf washes them out of your hair, making it impossible to give fucks. People started asking why I dont go to the babershop, an…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:32 AM
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/s FTFY. The feeling of happiness you get when you see the work you have built for yourself and you appreciate it is far superior to the fleeting happiness of a compliment. OP feels good in the moment after getting external validation but feels empty and pathetic later. OP needs to get some more delayed gratification tasks into his life, then he can stop relying on others to feel valuable. Delayed gratification example? lifting Delayed gratification generalisation? hard fucking work
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:17 AM
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I see myself playing these status, drama, and gossip games and I feel pathetic for it but I feel like it fills a hole in my past Guy says "getting external validation isn't enough to fulfill me" Your advice "get more external validation" Okay buddy. I'm that person.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:00 AM
0

Proceed as usual. Nothing different needs to be done.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 11:53 PM
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External validation feels good when we don't feel valid internally. Value yourself. Keep working on yourself and you will start to more and more appreciate your own value. What will fix a guy like me? More hard work. What can I do to fix this pent up anger I have? More lifting. Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. Keep doing what you're doing. You'll get there. Consider meditation for some improved introspection.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 11:44 PM
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at some point this could bite me in the ass No it can't. She's a plate. If this bites you in the ass the worst result is you get an extra night spare every week for a new plate. If you think she's going to be an annoying bitch that complains about the weather all weekend, definitely warn her about the rain. If you think you'll have a better time with her there, say nothing. She's not your wife, child or an LTR. Let her make her own decision.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 11:35 PM
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Probably. Could also be a half truth, she's thinking about "being with" someone else but hasn't yet. Could be a mate retention strategy, she's just letting you know she's worth keeping. Regardless, it's a good thing. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:59 PM
1

So you're on track then. Initiate txt once or twice (if she doesn't) over the next 2 weeks (in the same manner you've described). Hit her with a date invite 2-3 days out from the day. Good luck
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:51 PM
1

We have been texting here and there Here and there? How long have you been texting? You've probably blown it already and are orbiting. Next time, ask girls out within 2 days and 10 messages. Like last night she went out with this guy, I know this guy, he is really camp. But I think he has won her over, i saw a video of them on Facebook sitting really close and singing and having fun. But this guy is camp af, but they got close really quickly. What does that fucking matter? In that frame of mind,…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:30 PM
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I'd call, empathise, give a time constraint, recount a story of Max, then say goodbye. All in under 5 minutes. Her dog died dude. Be authentic and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:24 PM
2

Instead of being vague with your extremely specific question, why not be specific instead? What exactly did she txt you?
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:05 PM
1

Line up a job and flat (with other people, strangers or friends) before you arrive. So long as you know where you will sleep and how you will eat (having a job), you'll be okay. Feeling overwhelmed is part of the experience. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 09:59 PM
2

Whatever you want. Only you can see which way your moral compass is pointing. I think we can all agree that the crazy compass and advice compass are pointing towards "ignore her". If you invite her to stay, set the thermostat to "drama and sex"
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:29 AM
2

Ask her out in person. You aren't restricted to Facebook just because she added you on it...
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:22 AM
2

The only problem with your height is you. Nobody else gives a fuck. Just so you know, the shortest player on a rugby field usually wears the number 9 jersey. I bet he gets plenty of respect from your "friends". George Gregan played for the Australian Wallabies for many years, at 5'6", and although I hate him with a passion (sworn enemy of NZ), I respect him endlessly. Even more so because of his height. A bigger problem you have is you seem to call someone who pushes you around and drags you dow…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:40 AM
1

What if it's a chick I'm not gaming, but is friends with girls I would game? If a woman wants you, she will talk you up to all her friends. Naturally, her friends become curious. As such, game all women the same so they all find you attractive. Do I ever apologize/say why I took so long to reply? Why would you apologise for not replying instantly? Did you promise you would? Why do you owe these people an explanation of what you do with your time? Are they your mother/wife? Don't feel you need to…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:19 AM
2

Sure, go find /u/omlala and read his posts on Local Sexy Single Women. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:40 AM
2

Well, it seems you are completely screwed then. Nobody ever goes bowling for dates. I've never taken a girl to feed ducks. There is no such thing as coffee. Good luck for the next few years, women seem to be the least of your problems.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:39 AM
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Uhhh, but you ARE a player, right? Why not just thank her and move on? Why are you trying to shut her up? Why do you care what she has to say? If a strange woman joins your group and hears the girl ranting about you being a player, meanwhile you smile, sip your drink quietly and make strong eye contact. That strange woman's hamster is going to be running at warp speed. "Why isn't he hitting on me? Why does she care so much that he's a player? Who else is he playing, are they hotter than me?"
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:35 AM
5

Just fucking ask her out? I don't get what's so hard? "Join me for a drink, X bar, 9pm tomorrow" Done.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:19 AM
1

Will squatting more weight than my body can lift hurt me? I was told that only squatting with bad form will hurt me and that if I use correct form and can't get the weight up, I can drop it (roll it from my back to the spotting guards) and be fine. Why are you trying to lift something that you don't know whether it will hurt you or not? You should know (roughly) from set to set, and rep to rep, how likely you are to fail on a given rep. Pay attention to your body. How can I make decisions when I…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:07 AM
2

I have been in this LTR for the past few weeks LTR = Long Term Relationship Are you sure you haven't just been 'dating'? how can I reclaim and/or maintain dominance in the LTR? Dread. She thinks either you can't or won't fuck other women while she's being a prude. You can either make her think you're fucking other women, or you can fuck other women. Either way, she doesn't think you're worth fucking so she's not fucking you. That's what's up.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:52 AM
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You say you took the red pill a couple of years ago but it doesn't even look like you've read the sidebar... I approach the girl, talk to her, even go for a number close, but then soon after I notice that these girls are getting into relationships with guys they met through their social circles from college groups. Are you waiting a fucking month to ask them out or something? Cold approach has also gotten me a lot of rejections, some girls are just not interested. Did you expect every woman to m…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 02:00 AM
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Bad idea.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 01:26 AM
1

The guy you heard that from didn't get laid a lot in college (and still doesn't).
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:44 PM
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I run away as fast as I can and post this question on a relevant forum, then go back to the house with a new technique.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:44 AM
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TLDR - I have oneitis for a basic bitch You value her more than you value yourself and your morals/standards. Standard case of pussy pedestalization and oneitis. Next patient please. Don't just write, build abundance, or dump her, or move on or blah blah. I am not here for that, I get that and have done that. And I don't need that as I have already done these things and internalized TRP. You haven't internalized shit if you're SETTLING for a SLUT when you don't even want one. You're not a prize,…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:42 AM
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If she loved you, she'd get a Mirena coil. As always, if she did it in the past and she won't do it now, you don't deserve it. Also, do you want to raise a child? You're on the right track for starting on the wrong track.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:18 AM
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she has never enjoyed sex Have you read a fucking thing on the sidebar? Dude, whenever there is a breakup, it's over. The girl should never be more than a plate to you. If you want to fix it, head over to /r/marriedredpill Honestly though, you can't fix this even if you weren't 1000 miles away; you're fucked.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:52 AM
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Yeah I understand. Same advice. Go talk to married folk about marriage problems. /r/marriedredpill. Unless you want to get a divorce, you'll get the best advice in that sub.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:37 AM
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Cheat on her? Divorce her? She's already cheating on you bro. She cheated the minute she decided that she didn't want to have and hold you till death do you part. She crossed that shit out and wrote "till I get sick of you or find someone better". Go fuck whoever you want. What's she gonna do? Divorce you more?
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:35 AM
2

Cool, head on over to /r/marriedredpill ASAP. good luck
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:14 AM
2

I'm confused, is she your wife or just an LTR? Why exactly are you planning to leave her? In this case, AWALT is a reminder that she CAN and WILL cheat, but not that she already has. Now shes upset that im doing all of this for me and not for her Not your problem bro. If she wants to leave you over that, you're better of without her.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:04 AM
1

The specific sport has so little impact on your SMV that it's kind of moot. The fact that you have a sport (and are passionate about it) is what matters, not which sport it is. You could do figure skating, it's probably not as impressive as rally driving but it wouldn't make a difference so long as you love it... Relative to team sports, individual sports are not that much of a difference in SMV boost. Compared to Game, Money, Status, Appearance: playing sport is hardly an SMV boost at all. Comb…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:51 PM
3

No More Mr Nice Guy The sidebar on theredpill
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:45 PM
4

Why don't you want this woman to find love with a handsome stranger? Are you a sadist? Why can't she be happy? Why does only firefighter get to have what he wants? Why does his happiness trump hers? Have some morals man. This isn't a board for moral guidance, it's for sexual strategy. Taken women are part of sexual strategy 101 because you don't need to be better than every guy in the bar, just better/different than her partner. Advise users that they are likely to get hurt with their current se…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:47 AM
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Your morals are based on a monogamous world view. Go sit in a corner and think. When you're done, hopefully your mind won't still be trapped in that little box. Don't let organised religion shape your morality.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:01 AM
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I'd say for starters then, his profession and your ex-profession are creating a huge aura of 'respect' for this guy. Respect being one of the reasons I don't fuck my friends girls, I respect my friends. Secondly, you seem to identify with this guy. Instead of picturing BP you, this guy doesn't do any of that. Hope that helps. I'm not a psych or anything, just aware that having someone to bounce ideas of helps. So do brainstorms.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:56 AM
1

Everything comes down to value. We respect people with value. Other than being fit, what gives you value?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:51 AM
1

Lifting and eating healthy. Meditation. Medication. In that order. Being physically healthy will help your mental health, that's step one. Meditation will allow you to focus your mind and empty it too. Medication will shape your mind regardless of your inputs, last resort. Also, look into attention span 'hacks'. 3x 30 minutes a day is much more effective for learning than 1x 90 minutes (in most cases).
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:47 AM
3

Do you normally know so much about the girl's man before you fuck her? Perhaps it felt a little too personal... Did you do a similar job? Police, ambulance, military? Perhaps you're feeling some sort of camaraderie... It just seems weird that this has never been a problem before, which to me means something was different this time. Anyone got tips on giving less of a shit about chick's boyfriends? I like to imagine the dirty talk "swallow all of my cum, you wouldn't want hubby to find it would y…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:37 AM
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This is the easiest case of next possible. You want to LTR a girl who lies to you about STD's? Are you trying to collect the full STD set? Please get a vasectomy. I don't want my children to ever meet yours.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:05 AM
1

Anything other than "hate" or "pain" would indicate to me that this plate is probably wobbling. Quickly analyse my own actions to check I've done nothing to deserve beta-ization (and subsquently, have I done enough to not be beta-ized). I don't care if she's denying me certain sex acts/positions with reasonable excuses. She's only hurting herself. Eventually she will be less valuable to me than other plates, she'll get less of my attention and therefore time. I'll spend that time elsewhere, prob…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:03 AM
2

Have you tried feeding her some pellets? Llama's love pellets.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:38 AM
2

You have her number and she wants to hang out soon? How about hanging out with her? Soon...
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:33 AM
5

Anyways, towards the end when we were walking out I tried going in for a hug just to try and get a little physical connection and she batted it away with a stupid high five and then sort of just walked away. You didn't touch her at all, she wouldn't hold eye contact, when you did try to touch her she rejected you then ran off. Things don't look good. You messed up because you didn't hug her when you first met. You didn't try to get 'a little physical connection' until the last minute of the date…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:20 AM
1

Go radio silent. Never speak to her again. It's the best way.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:21 AM
1

You're worrying too much. You're going with friends; it doesn't even matter if she shows up. Send her a link, give her the time, wait and see what happens. Sounds like if she shows it will be fun for you regardless of how fun it is for her. If she doesn't want to go, no big deal. Pitch another date, low-key, if she rejects it, next her.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:06 AM
5

Dude, invite her to "hang" Escalate to sex If she declines, next her.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:58 AM
3

No, you come across as socially inept and creepy if you escalate touch beyond her boundaries based on your attraction+comfort levels. Yes, better to be bold, but, that doesn't mean you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:56 AM
1

Hold alt and press num-pad 1 twice.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:54 AM
5

Yachts. 20 year old women Golf 21 year old women Downtime 22 year old women Freedom 23 year old women Fulfillment 24 year old women
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:21 AM
2

Hard to say man. I have a friend who is WAY too touchy. I like watching him burn out sets. I almost told him what this guy told you. That fact that you don't know whether you were too touchy or not is a red flag. You need to work on that shit. Practice. Watch what happens when you touch a woman's arm after laughing at her joke or telling one yourself. Feel how her neck and shoulders react as you put an arm around her. If you lift, chance are he's just jealous. How did the interactions with said …
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:18 AM
3

I'm just genuinely confused about how you don't think it's possible to have a great life after 30 but you're looking for someone who has a great life and is over 30 to give you advice... Talk about oxymoronic. How about, just accept that fact that life is what you make of it, then go out and make the most of it?
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:11 AM
5

Did she fuck you? She was attracted. Why did she say this? She's trying to pull you back, either to BB or Orbit
/r/askTRP13/10/15 12:30 AM
5

She's not yours, it's just your turn. She's fucking you. Why do you care? Put her in a headlock and fist her until she squirts. "Do you like being stretched you dirty whore?" Edit: "I wish your dick was bigger", "fuck no, I have enough trouble kicking you out after I'm done with you as it is".
/r/askTRP13/10/15 12:19 AM
1

1 in 5 guys would look as good as Channing if they lifted as often as he does. It's not hard to be the biggest guy in a group of 5 (because looking pretty =/= looking big, you don't need to be both like Channing).
/r/askTRP12/10/15 10:46 PM
1

^ This. She knew what she was getting into when she married OP, right? What she's doing is beta-shaping (aka pussy whipping). Cut that shit out quick.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:40 PM
1

Lifting alone pretty much gets you into the top 20% these days. Enjoy the decline.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:36 PM
3

Amused mastery bro, she's upset over nothing. Don't talk about it, don't defend your family, don't defend her, just laugh and smile. Your wife imagined a bus out of nowhere and she's trying to drag you under it with her, I'd be laughing my ass off in your situation. EDIT: I'm assuming 'banter' means like telling her cats are just useless, boring dogs? Or that horses are just inefficient cars? In the same vein that you might tease a vegetarian that baby sheep taste delicious.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:49 AM
2

How fast do you escalate? Try switching it up.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:05 PM
1

Credible - able to be believed; convincing. Typically guys talk the talk and don't walk the walk. You need to be congruent in all things.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:26 PM
3

"I'm probably the most humble guy you've ever met"
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:14 AM
2

"aren't good at monogamy and child-rearing" - I don't see the connection here These go hand in hand. It's (almost) impossible for these child-wanting men to have the family they want if the mother is the village bicycle. Also, more partners = reduced pair bonding ability = increased chance of divorce = increased chance of child ending up a 'single mother' statistic. Which, as Stefan Molyneux points out, is pretty much the worst statistic you can wish on your kid. "Sluts are also more likely to b…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:35 AM
3

Oneitis is a feedback loop, the more you think about her, the worse it gets. You think about her less by being busy. Gym, more girls, friends, hobbies. Time is the ultimate cure, eventually you won't need to 'distract' your brain. Yes, you need to hard next her and never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:27 AM
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Yes, you're insecure. You're already scared that she's going to run off OVER A KISS! You value yourself less than a kiss from a stranger. Nice. No, her 'kiss count' means nothing. In this situation, I would delete my thread.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:21 AM
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It's a shit test. Women want to check you are deserving of your ego. Men want to drag you down. Respond to both genders as such: "Thank you" "You finally noticed!" "It's hard not to be right now, Time Magazine just announced me as Most Humble Man 2015"
/r/askTRP08/10/15 04:51 AM
12

In my experience with "awakened"/RP women, even regardless of the fact that she's aware that I'm aware she's shit testing, I react like an alpha and she loves it. You have to be even more alpha with the conscious ones (IMO) because they see through 'fake it til you make it' and they consciously identify beta traits as well as subconsciously. Acta, non verba
/r/askTRP08/10/15 04:48 AM
4

Basically: sluts aren't good at monogamy and child-rearing. Men who want monogamy and child-rearing have a tendency to shame sluts. Men who don't want or don't care for these things don't shame sluts. Sluts are also more likely to be crazy and/or diseased.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:56 AM
1

Nah dude, 80-20 rule applies everywhere. 20 percent of dudes are getting 80 percent of the sex. What makes you in that 20 percent changes slightly as you age and travel, but the basics are all the same and clearly outlined in TRP theory.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:43 PM
5

NZer here. Plenty of dudes here are as beta as the worst horror story. One of my flatmates was 28, works in a warehouse somewhere, beer belly, mullet; he wondered why nobody was matching him on Tinder. Said flatmate had a friend who was a total beta-bucks for his girlfriend, she just dumped him last week. I bet he's so glad he took her to watch State of Origin with his friends only so that she could lock him away on the big nights out. TRP is for all skill levels and all countries, races and rel…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:36 PM
2

"Gold-digger" is your friend. She comments anything about your ability to provide, throw that word out there in pretty much any way you want, problem solved. "Nice car Jeff." "Wow, you are such a gold-digging whore."
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:54 PM
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This is literally the sign I look for that I'm on track. If I don't get a playful punch, a "you're such a dick/asshole", a "Jeeeeeffffffff" or some such, I consider myself to not be on my game. "Jeeeeeefffffffff you're sooooo meeeeeeeean" is music to my ears. How to respond: Smile and say thankyou. Put on a baby voice and say "awww did I hurt your little feelings" "You love it".
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:10 AM
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You don't need to be a part of her social circle, in fact you probably don't want to be. You need to demonstrate you are high value in ANY social circle and ALL social circles. You join any social circle by spending time with them.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 10:01 PM
1

"K"
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:29 AM
2

I've always been a fan of stepping into a fight against women. Once you close the gap they can't swing. Protect your eyeballs and your ballballs. Step into the haymaker and half of them bend their wrists on you because they aren't ready. "Oh you hurt yourself trying to hit me, cute." You're always going to have a better time grappling/restraining a woman than punching her. Once you do have her, be sure to constantly scan 360 degrees like a fucking hawk. People like to sneak up on you when you're…
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:27 AM
2

Are I fucked a hooker for my first time. It was fun. No more or less fun than most of the sex I've had. I say do it just to take off the pressure. Srsly, sex ain't no big deal unless you aren't getting it.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:22 AM
2

If you can get a kiss you can get laid. Isolate and escalate!
/r/askTRP30/09/15 11:51 PM
1

Here you go
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:13 PM
4

Dude. she didn't kill your dog. She went on 3 dates and didn't put out... It's not the end of the world. Just ignore her until she messages you then invite her to chill in your bedroom. Anything other than chilling in your bedroom is just another way to lead you on. She knows you want to fuck. If she wants commitment, she's going to have to fuck you. That's the deal. She can take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 02:31 AM
3

We get to my house, she says she is too tired to come in but wants to hang out tomorrow or the next day. Next her, she's trying to make you orbit
/r/askTRP30/09/15 02:23 AM
1

So would her concerns about all of that just be things she wants to talk about while I listen, or are these genuine concern? Unless you are specifically asked to help or asked for advice, just shut up and listen (for as long as you deem appropriate). It doesn't matter what your advice is, how good you are at the field in question, etc. Until she asks for help, don't give it. If she says "my pussy is raw" she doesn't want you to start listing moisturizers... Unless explicitly stated, assume you a…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 02:18 AM
2

Why are you asking what she's doing?
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:42 AM
2

Tough shit. This is med school. You wanna drop out because of drama? Or do you wanna work hard at work and play hard later? Figure it out. Edit: game women at work but don't sleep with them or lead them on. Meet their friends after work for drinks. Game them, fuck them.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:27 AM
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I wouldn't bring it up. Women don't want you to fix their problems, they just want to bitch about them while you listen. If you do have a 'talk' (whatever sort you decide on), save it for after sex, it always goes better this way. Edit: Start tracking her period if you aren't already. It's like a clock for sexual experimentation. For a few days every month she'll be super-open for all your new ideas that she hasn't tried yet.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:43 AM
3

I'm a 5'8 skinny Doesn't matter. Black guy Doesn't matter. 20 years old Doesn't matter. Socially retarded and awkward Totally fixable. Cold approached for 6 months straight will zero success and I lost my confidence. "cold approached for 6 months and didn't achieve my goals" Cold approaching at all is a success. My buddies watch girls walk past and dream of approaching. You're a step ahead of most already. Did you enjoy approaching? (Even some of the failures?) I've decided to go all out to chan…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:39 AM
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Calm the fuck down. She apologized. That's what you do when you want to show respect to someone you've wronged. Txt her back and see if she's busy. Next time, don't ask her if she's in class then call her. If she's in class, she's not going to fucking answer your call. Why do you care how long it took her to reply? Were you sitting watching your phone all day? Give less fucks.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:31 AM
1

You already built rapport at work. If you have to ask: txt is for logistics only. There are millions of first date ideas on these forums. Do your own research. FYI - you don't need to order alcohol to have a first date at a bar... It's just a great way to meet people on dates.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:21 AM
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If you want to be "the silent type" you best be sure your physique, posture, body language and eye contact are all on point. Also, when you do open your mouth, have a deep voice (yes, it's learnable). Silent types with high pitch voices get little respect by default.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 01:38 AM
2

Basketball is a pretty niche first-date. Find something more general or expect it to affect your results. I save "activities" for 2nd dates.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 01:34 AM
4

Start anywhere. Take up programming right now, just to see if you like it. Guitar. Spanish. Dancing. Fixing computers. Rock climbing. Paintball. Biking. Skateboarding. Motorcycles. Painting. Poetry. Woodwork. Knitting. Pottery. Metalwork. Sculpting. Cooking. Electronics. Rugby. MMA. BJJ. Muay Thai. Yoga. Man, just anything is fine. Sound like fun to you? Do it. Progress for progresses sake becomes addictive. "a man must constantly exceed his level" - Bruce Lee
/r/askTRP28/09/15 08:43 AM
2

I'm a skeptic and I still liked this book. Waking up : a guide to spirituality without religion Give it a chapter.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:23 AM
2

Beta bait; the whales on PoF fish for betas better than any other species on the planet
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:19 AM
10

Screen better and it won't happen again. Never stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:15 AM
1

Happiness/smiling (eg. wide eyes and mouth) looks different to sexual desire (eg. slightly closed eyes). You want sexual tension? You display sexual desire. Happiness and tension are almost polar opposites.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:06 AM
2

You need meditation and stoicism in your life
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:11 AM
2

Be aware: if you go the smiling route; the more you smile the less (sexual) tension you create. If you think she's already attracted, give her fuck me eyes and a serious look instead.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:32 AM
4

Jealousy, crabs in a bucket or you were bragging
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:47 AM
2

If you're getting bullied/punked it's because you react wrong. Punked: you're too defensive/passive. You always/often appear of lower value after having been punked. Thus it keeps happening either because of the crabs in a bucket effect, or as part of an AMOG test. Bullied: you're too passive and conflict avoidant. Your bullies appears/feels of higher value after bullying you. This is again crabs in a bucket / AMOG. Reading topics: AMOG, shit-test, stoicism, meditation
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:45 AM
8

"I never come alone" with stupid grin or dead-pan serious
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:39 AM
1

If your dick can tell the difference between 19 and 25 year old pussy I will swallow your load to assimilate your powers.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 09:11 AM
6

I can see them looking down on a man who cuddles in favor of the pure Alpha "asshole" who hits it and bounces. That's true, hit and quit is a kind of alpha, but that doesn't mean that the opposite is beta. That's flawed logic. Snuggling post coitus is neither beta nor alpha. Some women are going to reject you pretty quickly after a hit and quit, some women need the appearance of commitment. None will do the same because you cuddle. (unless you overstay your welcome or try to keep her around too …
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:12 AM
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I thought our theory was many women could not pair bond. High number count decreases ability to pair bond and strength of said bonds. Maybe you confused this with the fact Women can't love men unconditionally. So cuddling and little kisses and shit is not beta? Nope, that's chick-crack when done post-coitus. Just make sure the pillow talk isn't beta.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:05 AM
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Cuddling releases oxytocin which creates a pair bonding. Cuddling is exactly what you should be doing after sex. (if you want to see her again) Cuddling before (or without sex) is beta orbiter shit. Get up and leave (or escalate.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:57 AM
1

Dude it's a counter-example... And it's not the only one. You made a really flawed generalization that all 18 year olds have been less promiscuous than all 22 year olds.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:49 AM
6

Sounds like a challenge to me. See who can go the longest without using the other persons name. I'd respond with something like "OK sugar tits, nicknames it is" and then proceed to get more offensive and/or absurd with every name. FYI my seduction style is "boyish charm" mixed with "rake", ymmv
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:45 AM
1

Probably because those idiots don't do what we're telling you to do. Wanna be an idiot or do you want to next her and wait till she begs?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:28 AM
0

Because I don't care how many cocks she's sucked. if she's sucking mine, we're good. Why cut my dating pool in half? Because they are even more vapid than 22 year olds? Because a 22 year old virgin has had less sex than an 18 year old slut?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:22 AM
2

The bit in brackets is most important. To clarify, You don't decrease the alpha to increase the beta levels. They can be adjusted independently if you do it right.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:18 AM
8

LTR's are an AF/BB mix. The general rule is: if you feel like you are unhappy with an aspect of relationship, you need more alpha until you get it If you she feels unhappy with an aspect of the relationship but you are getting everything you want, you need more beta (while still getting what you want).
/r/askTRP25/09/15 02:34 AM
2

You need to shut the fuck up. Like, write a sign that says "I'm not allowed to talk" then go out with some buddies and hit on women for a night. You don't need to talk. The less you say, the more women assume. If she finds you attractive, all those assumptions become good assumptions. (the halo effect: we assume attractive people are good/better) Sexual escalation is 90% physical. Acta, non verba. EDIT: Don't forget to smile, robot.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 02:23 AM
4

We aren't "calling you names", we're describing the negative aspects of your persona. You can bitch about it, or you can accept it and fix it. Bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 02:14 AM
4

Read Sex God Method (google for a free PDF or buy the very expensive book set) Best sex of my life since reading it. She once hinted that she found blowjobs "demeaning." Don't try to logic or reason with her about this. DEER is not your friend. Trust us - she won't find them demeaning when she decides to use it as a mate-guarding strategy as you increase the levels of SMV + dread. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 01:31 AM
1

Practice bro. You've had practice talking with your friends and family so it's easy. With strangers, you have to start at the bottom and take one step at a time. Practice makes perfect. "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act, but a habit" - Aristotle
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:17 AM
5

Are you finished crying? One year from now, do you want to look back and cry or do you want to look back and smile? Do what makes you smile. Oh and your ex was a unicorn, you'll never ever meet a woman as good as her. Nobody has ever met anyone better than her. Even whispering her name sends most men into howls of testosterone fueled desire. Good luck ever finding anyone as special as she was. Don't even bother leaving the house. You should just sit there on your couch and wait for her to txt.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:13 AM
1

The difference between a loser and a success story is the successes. Lots of little victories make you a winner. Losing 5lbs a fortnight makes you a winner. Lifting 5lbs per rep more than last week makes you a winner. Getting a number makes you a winner. Focus on the good. Fix and forget the bad. Catch 22 on experience. Just gotta put yourself out there. Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 11:20 PM
1

To me, 'the one' is oxytocin and scarcity mentality
/r/askTRP24/09/15 11:16 PM
2

I believe he just means "thinking while you game"
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:19 PM
3

If you want her to prove herself you need her to 'qualify' and 'comply'. Shit tests have nothing to do with it.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 06:19 AM
6

/r/marriedredpill Go to MRP for better advice around destroying/saving your marriage.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:22 AM
2

TL;DR - My FWB didn't come back to my house after a party, instead choosing to spend the night on a couch Shall I change my way of thinking about girls and LTRs? Yes, you wouldn't have to ask this question about a plate. You just assume she wants other cock and you remind yourself she can't be trusted above a plate status. What the fuck else does a girl stay at a party for? Who the fuck wants to sleep on a couch. It was 4am... How could I improve my behavior in this specific situation? How many …
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:32 AM
4

Hmmm, old quote. I should have paraphrased "sick of her drama". 9's are drama central.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:13 AM
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For every woman there is a man who is sick of her shit. 10's give me more shit than 9's. 9's give me more shit than 8's. 7's don't give me shit, they're too scared. I like 7's.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:00 AM
2

My question is how to proceed. Read the sidebar. I know the policy is generally not to shit where you eat So don't shit where you eat. I can get 10 women a week but a new job takes at least a fortnight. I'd like to build some rapport out of work. She's young so I'm guessing text game would be appropriate Only txt for logistics. Your txt game is no doubt shitty, otherwise you wouldn't have asked if txt game was appropriate. Stick to the facts.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:58 AM
2

How can I get out there and start taking massive action? You don't. You take small steps. You don't go to the gym for the first time and expect to squat 400lbs. You start on an empty bar; you add a little weight every time. Getting a number is massive progress. It feels good. "not feeling bad because you didn't get a number". That's progress too. Approaching 5 seconds after spotting a chick is progress compared to approaching after half an hour of sitting and staring creepily across the food cou…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:46 AM
4

Yeah, I get that. It's also an opportunity to piss off a big fucking angry dude. It's an opportunity to get shunned from group assignments. To me, it's just not worth it. That's why I advise against it. YMMV Weigh the risks and the rewards. Make your own decision.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:16 AM
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If you have even the slightest amount of abundance mentality you won't bother. They are taken. They are in your class. There WILL be drama. Move the fuck on, there are more than 2 girls at your university who want your sex.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:41 AM
2

Jump on fetlife.com Release your sexual frustrations through kink. Might want to keep your thoughts to yourself. The BDSM community is very liberal/feminist. They'll love you if you fuck them like they are objects and treat them as such, as soon as you say something that implies women are sex objects, you're going to get attacked.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:36 AM
1

Don't thank him. Thank them for the compliment. You're an asshole. "thanks"
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:19 AM
11

You are mistaking correlation with causation Jake does not get laid because he smokes weed. Jake gets laid because the type of person he is allows him to smoke weed, eat like shit and fail classes whilst still be attractive to women he wants to fuck. Drug abusers tend to have personalities and social lives similar to Jake. Hence the pattern. I don't care how long you've been lifting. You're like one of the idiots who thinks smoking cigaretes is cool or gets you more laid. It doesn't. It kills yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:20 AM
1

Men have been watching a show then fucking women since before movies came out. They had orgies in ancient Rome. Don't give me your bullshit. Italian women have ONS too...
/r/askTRP23/09/15 10:52 AM
1

Before enlightenment: chop wood, carry water After enlightenment: chop wood, carry water I have issues with friendships and love, seeing it only as "what can I get from this person". Some of the things you or others can gain from friendship and love are things like fun, companionship, understanding, compassion, etc. Just do what makes you happy man, life makes more sense when you're happy.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:59 AM
6

Everything is bio-mechanical. Your thoughts are neurons firing. Love is a mixture of chemicals mixed with some more neuron firings. Nothing more. Some people love dogs. Some people love their children. Some people love a life size doll with rubber lips. One day, if you let them, a woman will love you. It will be as 'real' as the ground you stand on. It won't be the unconditional love a parent can have for their child. Disney isn't real. She's going to have expectations, if you don't meet them, h…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:17 AM
8

You shouldn't be thinking about her at all, waste of time and energy.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:08 AM
6

Anyone else find the lower the count, the more likely the information is volunteered without asking? (She's bragging she's not a slut) High count women will brag too, but not humble-bragging about low counts... If you're after an LTR, wait until after really good sex, steer the conversation towards previous really good sex, ask her count. If you're spinning plates, why do you care? If you're after a wife, are you fucking stupid?
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:05 AM
22

Sweet. 3 months from now you can be pulling 7's every night. Enjoy!
/r/askTRP23/09/15 02:28 AM
6

Situation 2 isn't baking. You changed the subject. Baking = short-term soft next/radio silence. Baking creates tension and mystery, talking removes it. She said "lol k?", you should have left it to bake for 2-3 days and then asked her out if she hasn't replied already. Txt for logistics bro.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 02:26 AM
2

19 years old Have money Get a car All other SMV boosts are mostly age irrelevant so just search around. The two above are specifically critical for allowing you to have a 10/10 social life, having a social life being the biggest SMV boost for most college students (it's a very social-proof based environment).
/r/askTRP23/09/15 01:30 AM
1

Your school means jack shit to women. You think Ms Duke gives a shit about the surfer-guy's degree when he's fucking her in the back of his run-down station wagon on a moldy mattress?
/r/askTRP23/09/15 01:25 AM
12

Do you even lift?
/r/askTRP23/09/15 01:20 AM
1

Do you have transfer options for if you perform highly at the 2nd tier school? Can you do a post-grad (do you need to?) at the 1st tier school after completing the degree at the 2nd tier school?
/r/askTRP22/09/15 11:17 PM
4

Text is for logistics only. The fact that you have to ask these questions means you can't handle txt game, stop trying. Ask her to meet you at a specific place at a specific time If she doesn't accept or raincheck, next her. PS. Raincheck only counts if she offers an alternative. If she makes an excuse and doesn't try to reschedule, next her.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 11:11 PM
2

Comfort zones bro. Like building muscle, you have to break your comfort zone walls for them to grow. It is the only way. I'd suggest watching netflix with a girl on your bed. Gives you 90-120 minutes of very slow escalation. Enjoy yourself. Feel the softness. The warmth. The wetness. Hold her gently, squeeze her tight. Rest her head on you, and yours on her. Go through the entire Vin di Carlo escalation ladder if you really want. Enjoy the closeness. Good luck bro.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 11:05 PM
1

You don't need to respond. It's not a question. Alternately, pitch a date so she can buy you said drink. If you have to ask questions about txting, the only response you need is "TXT FOR LOGISTICS ONLY"
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:57 PM
1

K
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:43 PM
-1

Say "thank you" with your best shit-eating grin.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:30 PM
4

I enjoy talking, this isn't a problem for me. Talking with women? Now that can be an issue. Typically I've found the closer they get to the wall the more they sound like they know what they're talking about in a complex, stimulating, intellectual conversation. 27-28 being the sweet spot for attractiveness/youth and intelligence in one. You just have to avoid the wall-approaching babyseekers. Edit: The vapid girls are just as fun for conversation, just have to find a better topic. 50% of which en…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:00 PM
6

Health benefits Combats aging Mental health benefits Not to mention the effects being big has on men Yep, I'd keep lifting.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 10:53 PM
-1

Yes.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:40 AM
4

This is a well-discussed topic. Use the search feature on this forum and the main forum. The general thinking is: If you want to fuck whores, fuck whores. The risks and rewards are yours alone.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:01 AM
3

Don't sweat it bro. You're already on the right track. You are aware that you fucked up. You want to fix it. You know how to fix it. Everything else is just in your head. My question is how can I avoid these super weak moments in the future? ... It's those moments of quiet reflection in between that the weakness really rears its head. Stoicism and meditation help with this. It's about being aware, in the moment, that you are feeling weak and then you counter by acting strong.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:58 AM
1

Read more. Read non-fiction 1+ hours per day for the rest of the year. Take action. Every time you feel desire, take action to fulfill that desire, even in a small way. Get used to doing, saying, and getting what you want.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:05 AM
1

40% of women never return to work after giving birth. Resources matter. /u/Sementeries is correct, resources comes under the commitment banner. You don't give resources to a woman you aren't committed to.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:02 AM
3

Height is genetic. You are short because your ancestors were short. You are living proof that short people get pussy. Stop complaining, stop being such a bitch, go and earn the life you want.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 02:22 AM
1

How did you come to know that she has photos of your dick? Does she know you know she has 10MB of your cock on her phone? What is the fallout from a worst case scenario? (She sends this pics to your family? work? facebook wall?) How much damage can she do in her position? Edit: Do you know how she received said pictures? All from the same app? (There's no way it's a glitch if she's got your pics from 2+ sources). My guess in that case would be she took them off your phone when you left it unatte…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 02:12 AM
2

1) Get social proof from her peers 2) She will approach you or will signal for you to approach 3) Isolate her ("play you that song...", "show you that video I mentioned...", "can usually see people fucking from my window...", whatever) 4) ???? 5) Profit
/r/askTRP17/09/15 02:09 AM
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Sigh. When will people learn. You game 6's the same way you game 9's. A 9 will let you fuck up 3 times if you are a 9. She will let you fuck up zero times if you are a 7. A 6 will let you fuck up 100 times if you are a 9 (alpha windows amirite). A 6 will let you fuck up 5 times if you are a 6. That's it. That's the only difference. The hotter she is, the less mistakes you can make. The hotter you are, the more mistakes you can make. *Numbers indicative only, YMMV EDIT. **Treating a 9 like 9, ins…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 02:02 AM
2

Yep. This could have just been a title, "If she meets you in a park anywhere, alone, past midnight, is it a sure thing?" Yes. It's a sure thing.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:36 AM
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Hard next = never talk to her again Soft next = don't talk to her until she talks to you first. This is a case for soft next. Her flaking on you shows disinterest. If she wants this to go further, she needs to show interest, aka, she needs to message you first. Some guys tolerate zero flakes. I tolerate 1 flake and if the 'raincheck' meeting isn't 5 minutes from my house, I can't be fucked and I'll soft next her again until she makes herself more available. 2 flakes = hard next for me. Edit: har…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:29 AM
2

Did you send said dick pics to her friends? Sounds like a case of women 'sharing' [read: not so humble bragging] and she sounds like she's stalking your cock.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:24 AM
2

Unless her 'blowing up' damages your career, I wouldn't be too worried. Hold frame and nothing bad can come to you. It's been a year. You aren't being socially tactless. If she doesn't want to see you, she doesn't have to go.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:16 AM
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Don't accept friend requests from people you don't know. Don't feel guilty because some crazy chick can't let go. You aren't the only dude with a clinger for an ex. She's not going to be your last clinger.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:12 AM
3

Because sperm is abundant and wombs are not. So this is the biological argument. This is one of the biological arguments. There are more. Whenever I hear about slut shaming, it always sounds more like a moral argument to me. I'd tend to agree, most slut shaming argues based to morals. Hence when I ask why is it "acceptable," I'm wondering what the basis for the moral argument is. Is this purely religion? Religion is certainly part of it. I'm no expert but I would bet it's a large part of it in t…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:52 AM
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In other words, did feminism arise because of women wanting to imitate promiscuous men who went around sleeping with a bunch of women? Or did TRP arise because women became promiscuous and began sleeping around with a bunch of men? Feminism arose because women with some power (first world, upper middle class) wanted more power (equal to men). In other words, I guess what I'm really asking is the age old question that feminists have always asked: why is it acceptable for men to sleep with a bunch…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 05:32 AM
3

You're a man who doesn't know what he wants. That's your problem. Life is about getting what you want. Currently, you don't really want anything. I've been there. I've felt that extreme apathy. Know that as you get more of the little things that you want, you will start to feel more desire for big things. Life is about fulfilling our desires, biological or otherwise. You need to get yourself more desires.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 03:41 AM
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The purpose in life is to experience it. Life is your collective experiences. The more good stuff you experience, the better your life will have been. You only get out what you put in. Consider meditation. read Waking Up: A guide to Spirituality without Religion by Sam Harris.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 02:48 AM
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You're focusing too much on the outcome. Start trying to enjoy the process. Approach anxiety for me was a result of not being able to enjoy picking up girls. There was so much pressure. After blowing out in enough sets, I found that focusing on having fun was the key to getting results. Focusing on results was the key to getting rejected.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 02:45 AM
1

If you want to fuck her, fuck her. You know the risks (pregnancy, rape allegations...) you know the rewards (easy, clean pussy). Do the math, make a smart decision. IMO, find new women. You don't sound like you have abundance.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 02:34 AM
2

Endless cycle of boredom and validation until the right guy comes along and takes them out of the venue for the remainder of the night. Host your own parties. They don't happen unless you make them happen. You don't know the right people yet, that changes as you host more parties.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 02:32 AM
2

Video your training sessions. Review your own form. Submit them online to fitness forums. Make friends with a more experienced gym-goer. (offering to spot is a great start)
/r/askTRP11/09/15 05:22 AM
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Guy moves in with his girlfriend's ex, worries about being viewed as beta. Man, TRP get's funnier every day.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 02:30 AM
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There's a great marriedredpill thread on this, gimme a sec. Found it It's not quite the same issue but you get the idea. It's about subtlety.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 01:28 AM
2

Old PuA trick. They used to do it with disposable cameras. Everyone in the room sees the flash, turns and looks, sees you being Mr. Awesome. What's not to love! Whatever style works for you. Typically with groups you need to be slightly more energetic than they are, which means for a photo, you'll have to be really smiley.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 01:23 AM
3

Go fuck 10 new women.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 10:54 PM
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You are in a negative feedback loop. Every negative thing you think or do makes you think and do more negative things. Listening to BP songs and crying will only make things worse. You need to listen to the happy songs, the get-pumped songs, the dance tracks. The ones that remind you of the good things in your life, if there's nothing good in your life right now, then remind yourself what's worth living for. Also, go lift. Healthy body, healthy mind.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 10:52 PM
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First I come to the bar with some friends (not really close, so i ditched them in search of some females). While going around, some group of girls call me up to take a picture of them. Im like "only if you give me five dollars" and they all laugh. I keep pressing that I want five dollars and one girl is like we dont have any money. So instead I say "oh then give me a kiss on the cheek then". They give a bitch face and are like hell no. After that I just walk away, never taking the picture for th…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 10:44 PM
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Yes, you're being a little bitch. When a dude makes a joke at your expense, you make one at his or you laugh at him because he has to make jokes at your expense. You need to read more. Look up: AMOG, shit tests, frame
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:05 AM
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Stop postponing your monk mode by endlessly deliberating. I know your type. Sack the fuck up and commit already. If you commit, you will see results. If you don't, you won't.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:25 AM
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Do you want to get sexual with her? Ask her out, asap. The pen thing is a perfect opportunity to game her. A million little ways to put a smile on her face when she asks for a pen. Show her the pen but snatch it away right as she goes to take it. Repeat 3 times. Amused mastery for any pouting she does. "What's in it for me?" "Say please." Please. "Now say pretty please." Pretty please. "Now say pretty please with a cherry on top." Blah...
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:22 AM
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Have sex before, during or after [almost] every date. That's pretty much it. If she stays the night, I always get a blowjob in the morning. Different girls need different quantities of dates. When she's a fresh plate I try to keep it 50/50 (50% "netflix and chill", 50% actual date things) until I figure out how demanding she will be.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:21 AM
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We talked and she sat next to me on the bus, so I thought I was getting somewhere. This can be measured. You either got somewhere or you didn't. Did you get her number, a kiss etc. ? Over the course of the next week we talked a bit and I'd say subtly flirted, although I'm not really experienced with flirting. Flirting is just non-serious conversation that includes TOUCH and EYE CONTACT and occasionally SEXUAL INNUENDO. Every once in a while she'd talk about her figure and how she had no boobs bu…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:15 AM
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You don't. That's why modern marriage sucks.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:46 AM
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Read the top comment. It's a red flag, not a deal-breaker. We're dealing with guidelines, rather than strict rules. There are always exceptions. I also agree with abdada, that kind of confidence from a woman means she usually gets what she wants. Which, usually, is 100 dicks/year. Edit: Which makes it an LTR red flag, as per the thread title. If this girl is a plate, I'd not be concerned at all.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:56 AM
1

It is considered a red flag when a girl approaches you Where did you hear this?
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:49 AM
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You say you made out and went down on her. To girls, this doesn't count as sex. I think you ran into LMR and didn't realize because you think head = sex. To men, head is sex. To women, head is not sex. I think you escalated in the wrong order and she got cold feet. Were you naked or clothed for the head? Was she naked or clothed?
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:47 AM
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You need to have a serious sexual health lesson with a doctor. She actually makes $60k a year. I'm at like $20k, so I doubt I'm baby daddy material. You plan on making $20k/year for the next 18 years and 9 months? You think she plans on working after she gets a baby in her? 40% of women never return to work after pregnancy. Odd's aren't good bro.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:04 AM
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Go get tested. Wrap your monkey until you know the results. If you don't have the herp right now, the last thing you want is to get the herp on Wednesday. should I just nut in her again? For you I'm guessing pregnancy is a worse disease than herp... Condoms aren't just for stopping STDs... The last thing you want is to be a baby daddy for this fat hog. It seems to me like you are scared of having a conversation about the fact that you are using a condom this time and didn't last time. Grow some …
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:49 AM
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"How hard should I work?" is the essence of your question. I'm telling you, you should work as hard as you want to. No-one can tell you exactly how hard you should work. You already know that hard work gets you what you want. So you need to decide for you, how much hard work are you willing to do to get what you want? (with the caveat, if you work too hard, are you getting what you want?)
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:31 AM
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You can't always be on. You need to be happy and enjoy life. Everyone has a different work/life balance. What some people consider work, others consider fun. In fact, on any given day something could be fun or work. Sometimes I have to force myself to read a book that, the day before, I couldn't put down. So, as per red pill standards, the answer is: do what you want, you are responsible for any benefits and consequences.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:20 AM
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If what she said in that txt doesn't make sense to you, it surely won't make sense to us. That being said, what she said doesn't fucking matter. What matters is how she acts. She wants to see you tonight? Make her come to your house (see how she acts), if her motives aren't in line with yours, kick her out and soft-next her.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 12:38 AM
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Aristotle said (paraphrasing) "we are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is therefore a habit" The difference between you and a 'natural' isn't that they started with better social skills than you. You were both born mute. The difference is the 'natural' practices his social skills, naturally. You need to be social until it becomes a habit.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 01:01 AM
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I can science this question. Studies show oxytocin is released by the woman's brain when her breasts are touch by her lover or offspring. Oxytocin is the love drug, a woman under the effects of oxytocin feels stronger towards their lover. Thus, men who play with boobs are more likely to pair bond. We can therefore conclude that playing with boobs is a trait that ends up getting selected for because men who don't play with breasts are less likely in passing on their offspring due to less oxytocin…
/r/askTRP07/09/15 12:53 AM
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Get on marriedredpill asap. The subreddit for RP guys who are trying not to get divorce raped and lose custody. They give great advice (unlike the poster above who just told you to spend the week in a hotel). FYI staying a week in a hotel can easily be considered abandoning the marriage... Until you have finalised the divorce (if that is where this ends) sleep in your own bed every night possible.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:55 AM
2

Waking up : a guide to spirituality without religion. Sam Haris
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:49 AM
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Clearly not interested. Are you retarded?
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:22 AM
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Back in college, these 2 girls started making fun of me by greatly exaggerating the amount of body hair I have. That's a shit test.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:21 AM
1

Meditate
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:19 AM
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I think he's trying to discredit TRP as 'effective for indians' to eliminate the competition. He's going to paint the pill purple and sell it back in the home land as revolutionary dating techniques.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:06 AM
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"Hey" "Hi Chad ;)" "What are you looking for on here" "Friends at first, see where it goes..." "I can handle that much. Netflix and chill tomorrow, 8pm, address is 123 easy street" done. Tinder is a numbers game. The hotter you are, the better your chances. Don't waste time trying to be smart, funny etc. Just be hot. You don't need to explicitly say 'no commitment' for at least 2 months in the current dating market. It's fantastic.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:02 AM
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Tinder.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:48 AM
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You don't need to smile endlessly and always, but if you think you're boring her, the last thing you want to do is project that on your face, that's why you smile before you change subject.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:45 AM
1

This. So much. The Halo Effect works on attractiveness and solid game is the epitome of male attractiveness. Everything is easier in life if everyone thinks you are attractive.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:41 AM
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If you tell us what you did, we can tell you what you should have done differently... Or you can whine like a bitch, whatever works best for you.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:11 AM
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I thought I had this problem. I was wrong. I wasn't being smart, I was being boring. I wasn't fun, I was serious. You just need to lighten up. Practice smiling consciously, your brain will reflect the smile and your conversations will take a naturally lighter tone.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:01 AM
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Waking Up: A guide to spirituality without religion. Meditation will help. Get your testosterone checked. Procrastination is a depression symptom. Are you lifting? Start. Do you watch porn? Quit. (yourbrainonporn.com)
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:55 AM
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After fucking 10 new women and feeling the 'love' feelings for 5 of them, I realised that feeling was really just my body trying to convince me to impregnate a bitch. Now I love the feeling, not the woman.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:51 AM
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Biggest contribution: Game Fastest/easiest contribution: Lift Check out this - https://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-men/
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:49 AM
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Quit porn. Yourbrainonporn.com
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:05 AM
2

Works exactly the same on Tinder. She swiped right, she already wants you. You just need to not fuck up.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:02 AM
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She's clearly interested. Sometimes game isn't about working your way into her pants, it's just about making sure you don't get kicked out. I'd say you're already in her pants. Respond to the "hi" txt with your date invite. Wait as long as you see fit before responding, I don't think it will make much difference seeing how much she's chasing.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:31 AM
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Yeah, that's hardly "personalized". Getting dangerously close to oneitis symptoms here. You're seeing what you want to see. "Don't validate the plate" Your attention is a reward to her. Unless she deserves it, you don't give it. A non-sexual snapchat does not deserve attention. You gained zero for having read that snap, she therefore gains zero too.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:08 AM
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While jogging: Need to turn a corner? Hand on small of back, turn her with small pressure. Stop at an intersection? Stretch together. "Keep limber". While doing anything else: Vin DeCarlo escalation ladder. Google it. EDIT: On second thought, stretching together at the end (with some awesome partner stretches) would be perfect kino. Don't forget about using eye contact to make the tension palpable.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:02 AM
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If you want to work in a STEM field, you almost always need a STEM degree. Since you had to ask this question, you aren't capable of getting a STEM job without a STEM degree. Stay in school.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:55 AM
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Details bro. What was the picture? What did it say? Unless it was a question, you really don't need to answer. If it was extremely sexual, try to fuck her tonight. She could be bored of you again tomorrow, such is the nature of women.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:46 AM
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I couldn't escalate past taking our shirts off Lead by example, if your pants come off, hers will follow. whenever I tried to escalate past that she would say "not tonight" That's when you get up and have a glass of water. Take a smoke break. Turn on the TV. Yawn and ask her when she needs to leave. Or, just get up and leave. Withdrawing your attention is how you get what you want. Because your attention is what SHE wants. She initiated a conversation with me She wants the D. Me: Hey. How are ya…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:32 AM
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Depends if said guy can get over his limiting beliefs regarding his race. If said guy went into every interaction with a goal of having fun, polarized himself to quickly discover if the woman was attracted or not, then proceeded as normal, he would do just fine.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:48 PM
1

If you get LMR, take your own clothes off before hers. Makes her less self-conscious, lead by example, etc.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:38 PM
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I genuinely enjoy talking to this girl And just around the corner there are 100 more girls you will genuinely enjoy talking to. To top it off, said girls are just around the corner, in immediate dick-sucking range. I'd be waiting for her to initiate contact. I'd initiate contact when I knew she was back in town. Txt for logistics only. Never plan a date more than 72hrs in advance.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 10:25 PM
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This wouldn't be a problem if you were plating bitches instead. When a plate breaks, you don't cry that it broke, you celebrate that you now have time for a new plate.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:57 PM
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"I'm meeting some friends in X for Y this Saturday, get Starbucks with me at 11am." If she agrees, she's interested. If she doesn't (and doesn't try to reschedule) she's not interested. That is all. That is all there ever will be. If you want a date, ask her out. If you don't want a date, don't ask her out.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:53 PM
2

You cannot negotiate desire.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:15 AM
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those who aren't quite buff yet should be aware that size doesn't matter Size does matter, it just doesn't matter a lot (arguably, it matters only ~10%) I like me more and am curious to reverting back to the skinny frame set with a much more improved mind set. Do whatever you want. Just know that you hurt your chances at success by being smaller. 'Swimmers body' is a damn good look, it just doesn't quite tingle the girls as much as a bigger look.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:57 AM
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Quick reminder that female attraction cues are not the same as male. Looks matter a lot less to women than men. On Chateau Hartiste, it is suggested in the Male SMV test that out of a total 26 SMV points, only +/-3 points can be attributed to physical attributes. One for BMI, one for muscle mass, one for aesthetics. I tend to agree. Fat guys and skinny guys can land hot chicks too, it's just harder and less likely (by 3/26, or 11%). Also, you're in the wrong frame. This post has the frame of 'I …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:11 AM
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I have no idea. I wasn't there. You might have just come off as a douche. You could have been over-reacting. You may have done it perfect. The fact that you have to ask is the problem. Learn to fight. (Pick any martial art, keep lifting) Learn to control your emotions. (Meditate, research stoicism)
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:44 AM
1

Now the fact is that your typical girl who is cute but nerdy is going to be way more likely to go after an Asian guy compared to your bottle blonde sorority bimbo who parties with the Chads, I would not tell an Asian guy to waste his time going after those types. So if I was Asian and wanted a Blonde Sorority Bimbo, you'd say to me "give up, she's out of your league!" I thought this was a red pill sub...
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:41 AM
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You cannot judge the contents of a book by its cover. You won't know if she wants your little brown dick until you offer it to her and she says yes or no. Trying to find a woman who is less likely to reject you doesn't mean you're smart at playing the game, it means you are scared of playing the game. What kind of white women would you say generally fit into the mold of just not being open to going for a guy from a minority group even if he is of a higher SMV? The ones who aren't interested in t…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:20 AM
2

head on over to /r/marriedredpill Read the sidebar; post this there once you're done reading and if you still don't have answers.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:10 AM
2

Then it's a good thing that top tier athletes such as yourself are able to attract other top tier athletes that don't have a history of abuse. You were fine before her, you'll be fine after her.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:57 AM
1

Whole post is unnecessary. You could have just said "I fucked up on a date, should I try for another" To which the answer is always "If you want to". It doesn't matter whether we think she will or won't decline your next date. She either will, or she won't. Regardless of outcome, your life will continue. You were fine before her, you'll be fine after. Live and learn Learn to care less about this 1 opportunity. You could have approached a hot woman at the grocery last week and you didn't. That wo…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:53 AM
1

She could be. This is a red flag. Lying is always a red flag. Abuse is also a red flag. Evaluate her on a risk/reward basis and decide if you want to keep her. Hint: If you had abundance, the reward doesn't exist (pussy is not a prize). You are the prize...
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:46 AM
2

Don't stick your dick in crazy. She's hiding her crazy from you, she's crazy. Stick your dick elsewhere. The strategy is "lie out my ass to get what I want", it's pretty standard so far as female sexual strategy goes. Edit: She doesn't want to "scare you off". Scared (read: alert and prepared for the worst) is precisely what you should be.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:25 AM
1

22% of women admit to having cheated in relationships. The way I see it, if my gut says she cheated but I have no evidence, I tell myself there was a 1 in 4 chance it happened. After 4 such instances, you'd better believe your gut is onto something.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:14 AM
1

Can you fight? Do you have control of your emotions? Bleeding out on the floor of a dark bar is not alpha. Not letting a fight start is the fastest way to finish it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:04 AM
1

Depends what you want and how much she's willing to work for you. If she's close enough and wants you enough, she'll see you mid-semester. A woman will climb a mountain and fight a bear for the right man. I'm just wondering how to act for the week that we are together before she leaves? Who's frame is that? Do you feel outcome independent after asking this question? If she wants you around after college starts, she'll figure out a way to do it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:03 AM
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1) Find out her college semester dates. 2) Message her 1 day after semester ends. 3) ??? 4) Profit. 1 minute google, 1 minute to make a note in calendar, 1 minute to send a txt.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 11:31 PM
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I made a point that your accent may have something to do with the difficulties you are having with attractive, white women (AWW). Instead of discussing the point, you complained about an entirely unrelated point that we all already know: AWW are harder to get if you're not white. I dissected everything you said and found nothing of value, except for the fact that you are still hung up on race. How do I know that? Because you started a thread that says "no race complaining" then the second thing …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:05 AM
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Yeh, "cheeky bitch" would be my go-to. She's acting like a bitch, call her out on it. Patrice O'Neil has some great ideas on this concept.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 05:35 AM
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If you're quick, try to put your hand in her open mouth.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 05:31 AM
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I don't notice younger women in the USA (speaking white girls here) being as open to going interracial as their older counterparts. Post wall women lock down BBs. She doesn't need to be physically attracted to her BF. Define your ages as 18-22 (before peak) and 23-32 (pre wall) then see how this thought stacks up. What I have found is that good looking white girls in college are by far the most picky about race and tend to almost exclusively chase the Chads, especially if we're talking sorority …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 05:20 AM
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Start reading about meditation FIRST. Meditation helped me know myself. Everything else will build upon this.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:38 AM
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This is mostly speculation, curious to see who agrees. FYI, I'm white. Live in NZ. Loads of Chinese and Koreans here. The non-whites that do best with the white women were born in NZ and have NZ accents. That's pretty much the only common denominator. The only piece of advice I give different to men who are foreign is: train yourself to not have an 'ugly' accent. (Same advice I'd give anyone with a speech impediment) 'Ugly' accents typically come from languages that don't share a root language w…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:28 AM
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Essentially. Don't change your personality to suit the woman, find a woman to suit your personality. Not all women will like your personality, those are women you have 'polarized', and you can next them immediately. A quick google search found me this from a god-damn simple pickup forum. I really shouldn't post it, you could have googled it yourself. WHAT is polarizing? Polarizing is a simple concept. It means getting a neutral girl to either be unreceptive or receptive to you. Your actions will…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:18 AM
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Regular dude here. Does anybody know how to consolidate a conservative sexual-social view like TRP with a liberal sexual-social view like the acceptance of transgender people? I'm fucking a Poly girl with huge left tendencies. She's extremely smart (163 IQ she says). She can't deny the biotruths that I spout at her and she hates it. There is some evidence that transgender people have brains similar to the gender they claim to be, but what is that really worth considering all of the TRP-affirming…
/r/altTRP02/09/15 04:14 AM
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There are a million reasons why a specific woman is not interested. This is why we don't bother with the exceptions, we look at the rules. Dating is a numbers game. You polarize yourself to women to quickly screen out ones that aren't interested in you. When is it time to move on? When you have nothing left to gain from the interaction.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:04 AM
1

That's the thing. The idea is to BE polarizing, so you can quickly screen out women who aren't interested. If they are interested but things are difficult, you need to make small adjustments to make the interaction easier. Practice is the only way to get good at this. Make an adjustment, gauge response. Make adjustment, gauge. Adjust, gauge. Does she lighten up when you sit slightly further away? Did she uncross her arms and contribute to the conversation when I talked about dogs? So far as I kn…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:00 AM
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Disagree and amplify (to absurdity)
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:52 AM
1

You've given us very little to go on. Need some examples. I'd venture a guess that your txt game is shit. Got some transcripts?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:49 AM
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Yep, on track here too. Boredom is poison for relationships.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:48 AM
1

By all means. If 'the guy' is also a very good friend, you need to tell him this first (adjust to your situation): "If he's truly our friend, he'll listen to us. If he doesn't, I can't help but question how good of a friend he really is; how can he question my word with a 10 year history behind, over her 5 month history? My word is good. People getting news like this have a tendency to 'shoot the messenger'. I need you as backup, and also because it makes us more convincing, but most importantly…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:44 AM
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Shy girls find me too serious when I'm running on auto-pilot. I have to zone in on acting more goofy and really lighten up. Boyish charm style. Have you read The Art of Seduction? Everyone has a style that works best for them, as well as a style that works best on them. Practice what works best for you, and some backups for when your best is too polarizing. Oh, and abundance mentality. You care too much about this, it's unlikely to happen again for at least a year.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:41 AM
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You moved for her to go to school. she knew you had no direction if you gave up your place to move for her. Yep. OP got whipped. OP: "I want a house" GF: "I want an education that doesn't involve cock sucking" OP: "Okay, go to university, my dreams aren't important" GF: "Thanks babe, PS. look how good I'm getting at cock sucking"
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:35 AM
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The time bridging technique you mentioned sounds good, but I don't know if I should use it here. You could have, but she may have beaten you to it anyway. Another reason time bridging is good is that it is an excuse to get her number. "You're funny, sometimes. Get a drink with me later in the week. Put your number in my phone." She mentioned a tailgate before the next school football game. Is it better to make the first encounter with her private, or would it be a good idea to go to the tailgate…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:28 AM
2

Share his personal problems with other people? Does that sound like a good idea to you?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:46 AM
2

she hesitates with a blank stare for a second before giving the number? Probably just surprised her. Without more context, that means little to us. Could be you seemed beta and surprised her with an alpha act. Could be she just wasn't ready for it. Hard to say. She was either surprised it was coming from you, or surprised it was directed at her. Was she 7+/10? In my case, she did this then after putting her number in my phone, she mentioned something we could do together, but she did not sound v…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:43 AM
1

Read The Charisma Myth
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:37 AM
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Couldn't give a couple of your own examples and we can pick/critique the best one? Sigh, OPs are so lazy in asktrp. A&A - Yes, all I want is mindless sex with 365 women per year. D&A - No, I never want sex ever in my life, I'd rather die than have a hookup. Best option: move on, she's not interested.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:36 AM
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If he's truly your best friend, he'll listen to you. If he doesn't, I'd question how good of a friend he really is. Sometimes you have to let go of your BP friends... The default action is for your friend to shoot the messenger. You need to be prepared to get shot if you bring him this info.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:33 AM
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Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others. So what if the girls are getting indoctrinated? They still put out. You aren't getting indoctrinated. Where's the beef?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:18 AM
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You need to talk to your best friends in that group. Tell them you're cutting her out of your life and if they aren't going to help you towards that goal, you'll cut them too. Your good friends will support you in this and should get the remainder on your side. Bros before hoes remember. If nobody is willing to drop her, you drop them all.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:17 AM
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Nice work dodging the question. How well did you know each other?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:13 AM
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Completely disagree. Are you trying to be beta? Tell me, when do most beta's kiss their dates? At the end! When do alpha's kiss their dates, whenever the fuck they want. Edit So you did it in the middle of the date and she rejected it. At that point you know she is not into you. She is not attracted to you or else she would have accepted the kiss attempt. There is no reason to do anything else. Everything after her kiss rejection is wasted time and effort. There isn't any recovery from that and …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:00 AM
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Agreed. Last thing you need is drama, then you share a group project... Plenty more pussy than the girls in your classes. Use them to meet their friends. This is one of the few times you might want to get friendzoned.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:57 AM
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How can you know a girl since grade school, not have fucked her yet, and not be in the friendzone? Just how well did you know each other?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:52 AM
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Do you meditate? If no, look into it. You will have more control of your emotions; specifically, you will be able to feel the love for her, then let it go. Read: Waking Up: A guide to spirituality without religion - Sam Harris Also, lots of good material on TRP about meditation.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:46 AM
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I think you should read the sidebar, How to Win Friends and Influence People, 48 Laws of Power and The Charisma Myth.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:44 AM
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What Every Body is Saying - Joe Navarro The Definitive Book of Body Language - Barbara and Alan Pease
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:39 AM
1

Virgins have a greater tendency to become alpha windows when plated. This is the whole "remember your first" effect, amplified further if you are Chad.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:38 AM
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Exactly as /u/f0ster5 says. Every time I feel 'love', 'oneitis' or whatever you decide to call it, I remind myself I felt exactly the same with at least 50% of my plates. After repeated exposure to this feel, it is numbed.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:36 AM
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Card magic always seemed too 'prepared' for pickup purposes. Check out Scam School on youtube. Great bar-focused magic/scams/tricks that can be naturally incorporated into an interaction. eg. You buy 2 shots, I'll buy two beers. First person to finish both of their drinks wins. I'll need a head start, you can't touch your shot glasses until I put my first beer down. Oh, and in the spirit of fairness, neither of us is allowed to touch the other person or their glasses until the race ends. Proceed…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:31 AM
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Women liking betas seems to me a result of nurture (as opposed to nayure). Societal conditions etc. Men liking boobs is now scientifically theorized to be a trait to increase reproductive success. Specifically, women's brains get hit with oxytocin (the love drug) when their boobs or nipples are touched (by their man or child). As such, women are more likely to pair bond and therefore reproduce with 'boob men'. Not that it changes the analogy much, just something to ponder.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:32 AM
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All people can rationalize things without logical reasoning. Men do it too. Therefore, old women do too. I'd say probably to a greater extent than men (men have logical brains), and to a lesser extent than younger women (menopause sucks the hormones out of her hamster).
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:01 AM
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Not everything has to be red pill Bro. I'm not a comedian, or a marketer, but: If you're a comedian, you need a funny Instagram. Not fucking stoic. Stoic isn't funny.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:30 AM
1

That doesn't look like logistics. Why are you texting if it's not for logistics? It's not necessarily a bad txt but it's probably unnecessary...
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:16 AM
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Make a spreadsheet. Track all txt for a month. Next month, do everything 5—10% less. Repeat. Head over to /r/marriedredpill for some LTR relevant reading. Compulsory "this wouldn't be a problem if you had plates instead."
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:11 AM
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Don't dwell on it. Bitches be goofy. Could be friend zone remnants, perhaps she got thrown by the strangeness of being the driver. Hard to say. Stay radio silent. Find new women. She may yet come back. Edit: don't forget to give your address next time, or txt it her afterwards. If you leave it to her to ask you aren't leading. It could make your whole phone convo seem like you were nervous, forgetting such an important detail
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:12 AM
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Don't ask her if she's going out;ask her out. Then her response actually tells you if she's interested. I would love to work on my text game. If you can fit it into 3 logistics-focused texts, it's game. If not, it's generally mindless waffle. I always feel guilty... Read No More Mr Nice Guy. The shaming is getting to you.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:08 AM
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You've got it mixed up. I suppose it's worth the sacrifice. You sacrificed your sexuality for porn and masturbation.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:44 PM
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At the very least quit porn. Yourbrainonporn.com
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:13 PM
1

Read up on stoicism and what reactions a stoic should have.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 11:39 PM
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There's a thread about frame on TRP right now. Front page. Delete this post. Go read it. Come back if you are still lost. It's a great post.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:05 AM
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House of Cards is just getting unrealistic... "ah so you're about to be president, but I'm divorcing you. Maybe I'll run against you, haha." More like, 'used to be president'. We all know what happens when women see their man slip. Briffault's Law, hypergamy. Divorcing Frank also makes her a 'strong, independent woman'. Not to mention, she's practically already running in his place. Season 3, their relationship has been as blue as possible. Still, plenty of red to go around. Great show to watch …
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:03 AM
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Your title says a lot. You can't be disappointed in an outcome when you are outcome independent. I assume you already know what 'outcome independence' is, and that you don't have it. Understand outcome independence took a long time for me. I finally found a trick to fake-it with that actually worked. (Everyone should read the Book of Pook, it's a bit purple but the writing is spectacular. Everyone should also re-read things, I didn't take in this gem until round 2) I changed the outcome, from a …
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:54 AM
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/u/abdada spits gold again. I don't think it would be a good idea to tell them I suffered from mental illness. It's almost never worth admitting weakness or failure (past, present or future), or apologizing.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:47 AM
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petite asian who will actually 'rike' my dick FTFY
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:44 AM
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I know plenty of girls who will never be 9's and 10's. Ever. What advice should a guy take if he could never objectively be a 9 or 10? Women and men are not the same. Men judge women visually. Up to 90% of our attraction to women is based on visual cues (roughly 90% genetics). Women judge men on the whole package (maybe 20% genetics). Men have a much easier time than women going from zero to hero, even if they don't have the genetics for it, because genetics matter so much less.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:41 AM
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'Creepy' is a word women use to describe men when the woman can feel your sexual energy when they don't want to (because you aren't attractive). it seems that generic small talk causes me to be labelled as "a creeper"... I'd like to preface that I'm in an LTR. I'm not on the hunt for pussy. Danger Will Robinson, Danger! You're a NICE GUY! You're sexually attracted to these girls and it shows, but you don't act on it, so you're a NICE GUY. YOU NEED TO FLIRT WITH ALL WOMEN, EVEN WHEN IN AN LTR. Al…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:50 AM
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Standard practice is to never schedule a date more than 72hrs in advance. If you are more than 3 days out from the date, you have two options. Txt game Radio silence As /u/feminazis_stalk_me explained, most guys have shit txt game. Remember this (unless you are a txt game guru), you aren't going to txt your way into her pants, you're already there. Every txt you send risks taking you out of her pants. That's why I opt for radio silence, my txt game isn't at a level of mastery to achieve my goals…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:40 AM
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You plate her if she's worthy. You next her if she's not. Same with all girls. If you don't already have plates, you shouldn't plate your ex, you'd just be walking into a oneitis trap.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:32 AM
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The instant you saw her getting physical with him, you leave.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:31 AM
1

What do you want us to do? Organise your fucking calendar?
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:24 AM
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How often do you see her? Generally, the answer is no. If you aren't face to face, the only thing you should be talking about is being face to face.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:22 AM
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The Book of Pook has some great anecdotes and quotes to help your blue pill friends stop acting like bitches. My favorite for guys who don't want to leave their girls: "Success cannot be getting a girl because that means failure is being alone. No. Failure is being in an unhappy marriage or a relationship where she has no true interest in you." From lesson 11 of the Book of Pook My favorite line for dudes who suck with chicks: To attract the feminine, you must be masculine.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:13 AM
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Body weight is stated in the OP. (5'11) My bad. My plan is to follow SL. 3 gym days a week, adding 5 lbs per session on squats, if I fail, I eat more, refine my form and try again next sessions. until I reach 200. Now that is a goal! Cut out some of the bloat words and write it somewhere you will see it every day. "I will reach 200lbs as quickly as possible following the SL program and eating 500 cal excess daily before cutting." Write a second goal for weight loss when the time comes. "I will c…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:57 AM
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Woops, I made the mistake of reading passed the first paragraph. As I suspected, everything I needed to know was already known. first REAL plate in my life Well there you have it folks. OP doesn't have abundance, or an abundance mentality. Fix that. "How?" you ask? Fuck 10 new women.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:28 AM
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My plan was always to be able to 5x5 my body weight then start cutting like crazy to "show" the muscles more. So my question is - is this a fair goal? Lets get this clear, this is NOT a goal, it's hardly even a plan. It's just a "that would be nice" thought. You need a measurable, time-restricted, achievable goal. Examples: *I will get to 15% BF before Christmas Day. *I will be strong enough to lift 1000lbs across the big 3 lifts before 2017. *I will be fit enough to run X miles in X minutes bef…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:10 AM
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What RP books have you read? 48 Laws of Power Art of seduction how to win friends and influence people the charisma myth no more mr nice guy these books should all help.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:57 AM
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No, specifically the rule/guideline is 'when you are controlling the interaction and she is hesitant; focus attention away from her' that includes all the other LMR techniques (ie. Getting a glass of water, climbing off her and looking away, etc) Taking control of the interaction is implied. Leading is a core alpha trait.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:55 PM
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Why the hostility? Look at OP's post history. Specifically, we can be hostile to this guy. Personally, I think hes a fuck because he insists that his race is an issue even though everyone says otherwise. Which wouldn't bother me (seriously, he can go fuck himself), but every time a new Indian TRPer comes along and reads this idiots victim puke, he risks being infected by this idiots negative thought patterns. I'd hate for users to come here and get MORE insecure... Law 10: Avoid infection from t…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:09 AM
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Holy fuck you are infuriatingly vague. She gets into it, then I get into it and she's starfish, then she just passively enjoys it nothing crazy. Then she wants to cuddle etc. Is she starfishing foreplay, sex or both?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 05:56 AM
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I scored a bombshell blonde with giant tits somehow in when I was 13-14 Bro, you didn't used to be insecure (or you weren't aware of it). It's new to you. The world used to tell you that a woman would come along to love you for who you are, now you know it's not quite like that. You used to feel secure, knowing that everything was going to work out in the end. Now you know that you have to work to make it work. Face your fears. Go do all the monk-mode challenges then see how you feel about yours…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:10 AM
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My thought exactly. Does OP want to lie to his plates or be monogamous with them? because he shouldn't be doing either...
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:00 AM
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Only signs of life appear once I'm having sex. So, you mean before sex even starts, she starfishes? Once the sex starts, she gets into it? I've seen this a lot in Asian girls. I put it down to lack of experience, shyness and submissiveness. I don't really care, if she lets me escalate, she's interested.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 03:55 AM
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does being taken even matter nowadays? Yes, some women have self control. it was religious meeting she didn't want to seem like a slut? So if it wasn't a religious meeting she would have fucked you on the table? Dude, she wouldn't even make polite conversation. How's polite conversation going to make people perceive her as a slut? Also, it's a goddamn religious leaders meeting? You didn't think that would be relevant to the opening post? Holy shit bro, haven't you been reading. Society [read: re…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 03:32 AM
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Maybe 3 times I broke her talking to initate heavy kissing etc, and right when it's at the point where she's about to get nude, she stops. She then says she wants to wait, bla bla. Taking her shirt of, touching her breasts and her pussy, these all focus around her and make her more nervous. Instead, take your shirt off first. Put her hand on your cock outside your pants. Put her hand on your bare chest, stomach, cock, etc. Typically once they've felt how hard I am for them, the LMR goes. Getting…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 02:41 AM
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If she's attracted, as you say she is, then she's either extremely shy, conservative or taken. She wants you but she is physically distancing herself. She's trying to control her urges. Why is she controlling her urges? She has a BF or her parents don't like her dating. She seems disinterested. This concerned me. Was she interested when she was paying attention to you, but didn't pay you a lot of attention? That would fit my narrative.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:33 AM
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Depends on the guy. Degrading each other is a standard part of male camaraderie. If he's dishing it out, dish it right back. Never degrade a guy in front of a woman he's trying to get with unless you know that he's going to hit you back harder. Ie. intentionally getting yourself AMOGd. (Or if you intend on stealing his woman) With guys who don't dish it back, I agree, it makes you look weak. I don't think it matters if he is beta or alpha, regardless you sacrifice the high ground when you try to…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:21 AM
1

This sounds like one of those "hobbies/passions that could become a job if you are good at it". Write the stories for fun, see if people like them, publish if there is a business case for it.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:15 AM
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I saw her a few more times after that and we'd keep making out on her bed, but she'd stop before the clothes came off. If you think LMR is going to happen, or it is happening, take your clothes off first. If you aren't wearing a shirt, she will feel more comfortable taking hers off. Instead of reaching for her pussy, put her hand on your cock.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:43 AM
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I started dating this girl, and dated her for 5 months, took her virginity and had a good time with her while it lasted. Irrelevant: Briffault's Law. we were fighting a lot over stupid stuff and i decided not to talk to her for a week, take some time to think about it, after that week was over i decided i was going to break up with her. Cutting drama out of your life: alpha I then the next day realized i wanted her back, tried and did everything i could, i clearly hurt her and she didn't want to…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 12:40 AM
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This isn't PUA dude. how do I show her DHV and imply interest without investing too much and running the risk of receiving IOD's Wrong mindset bro. You're already worried about the negative outcome. Here's how you DHV, show interest and reduce the likely hood of getting rejected: YOU ASK HER ON A DATE DHV? Confidence to ask out whoever you like, whenever you like.?Check. IoI? Well shit, you asked her out, cant get any more interested than that. Check Risk reduction? Acting manly and not giving a…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 12:26 AM
1

Tell us why your parents house is toxic. You are in the anger phase. Don't do anything stupid. Don't be the kid who comes back in a few weeks because he's done something he regrets.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 12:21 AM
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Do they study in a public space? If so, approach the whole group during a study session and game them. Stay with them and work for a bit, leave early, "I should join you guys next week, same time, same place?". Extra credit: don't correct them if/when they are wrong, instead tell them what answer you got and work together to decide who is correct.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 12:08 AM
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If she's still fucking you, do you care that she's fucking someone else? She's not yours it's just your turn. Do you want another turn? If you want to, have a talk about not being exclusive and using condoms etc. Edit: I encourage my plates to date other people if it ever comes up. Catch and release. They come back.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:56 AM
1

DYEL?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:45 AM
1

PUA literature pretty much convincingly says one of the women needs to lead. My experience has been more dom/sub in nature, that's about as far from casual escalation as you get. I was leading, very strongly. Someone else can make suggestions on 'casual'.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:38 AM
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You can't bend the spoon there is no spoon. The spoon is already bent or bends itself. Read "how to win friends and Influence on" by Dale Carnegie.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:02 AM
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The same technique that works for you any time you feel nervous. What do you do for public speaking or your virginity? Also, practice makes perfect. Your first threesome will be more awkward than your 10th, naturally. And finally, embrace awkward. There are worse things that can happen than awkward.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:00 AM
1

Tell him to bring her to the tournament Fuck her in the bathroom Take pictures ??? Profit
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:56 AM
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Looking way too deep into this bro. If you want her to get a drink with you tell her, if not, move on. PS. Almost any conscious action by a woman on the clock can be assumed to be part of her job. Sex sells and they know it. They use sex to get what they want. Try focusing on the subconscious actions, that will tell you what you want to know.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:52 AM
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You've got two different complaints here. One is physical. Her pussy is too loose and she's too tall for comfortable sex. There's not a lot I can do to make her shorter or have a better pussy. Use pillows during sex when you need to add inches here or there for comfort and 'angles'. Her pussy isn't going to get tighter in a hurry... Second is her actions. She's not vocal enough. For me this was solved with 'leading by example'. I wasn't happy with her vocality meanwhile I was just grunting and s…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:59 AM
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Always said to me that sex is just that - sex - a need like any other. But lately she's starting to show signs of falling in love and kinda pointing towards a LTR. This is what happens when feminism meets biology. Her body says "I'm a woman, I need a man" and feminism says "you don't need no man". How to deal with it? Should I simply next her? What's the downside of keeping her as a plate? Read about 'plate theory' from TRP, Rational Male and Chateau Hartiste What the fuck was she thinking befor…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:44 AM
2

Approach it almost exactly the same way but when it comes time to fuck, I'll put my dick in just a wee bit slower. Treating her different because she's a virgin is just another way to pedestalize the pussy. Remember, AWALT.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:37 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3dajcf/the_rp_comprehensive_guide_to_dating_sites/ /u/OmLaLa covers txt game in this thread. I call this method “baking”. Baking is letting a message sit unanswered and unopened long enough to where a woman may feel like they’re being ignored. Women both love and hate this (especially attractive ones) and it contrasts well against the many others who’ve received their number and then sporadically sent out texts every 10 minutes. This will establish yo…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:34 AM
2

I hope you're not serious. All she has to do is play the victim and the judge will hand her a pussy pass. Here's a fictional example of exactly how this crumbles around you. Meet girl, date 1 years, she moves in, 1 year later, she goes to college and you support her. 2 years later, half her degree complete, 4 years into your relationship, she cheats on you with Chad. Chad never takes her, just fucks her. She has nothing. She takes you to court, de-facto. "He supported me for 2 years, I expected …
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:22 AM
1

Impersonal is good. The less interested you seem the better (in general).
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:03 AM
2

Read WISNIFG. When I Say No I Feel Guilty
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:10 AM
0

I don't expect him to be able to answer without revealing his blue (to himself).
/r/askTRP24/08/15 08:06 AM
0

Why?
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:18 AM
4

Then your question is pointless. We haven't got enough information and with what info we do have we can only hypothesize. If you want answers (a conclusion), you need a method and a result. The method is, hitting on her, the result is getting laid, rejected or somewhere in between. Since you aren't willing to do steps 2 or 3, there's no point doing step 1.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:58 AM
12

This is such a broad question. I'll answer broadly. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:46 AM
6

You met with a plate and didn't escalate to sex. Nothing else seems to wrong. She basically said "you're so alpha I don't care you're uglier than my usually" and all you had to do was say "I'm a beast" then ravage her.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:44 AM
3

This is one woman. You spent 5 minutes writing this message. You could have spent that time finding another woman, and then you would have 2 women, and you would be half as worried about the first one. Do whatever you like with the PT if you aren't worried about losing a gym membership or finding a new PT. Don't worry about her intentions, worry about yours. Definitely find more women.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:40 AM
4

"Join me for a drink Wednesday at 8pm" Courtesy don't shit where you eat. If you end up helping her find a job: 1) it's not where you work 2) your refer her to the hiring manager, do not recommend her, if she performs badly your ass is covered, if she performs well you still look good 3) it's not for a position you are applying for yourself
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:32 AM
0

I'd venture to say that it's possible and is happening in extreme circumstances. I'd say mostly because of morality. The red pill as a praexology is immoral, however the people who practice red pill have morals. I can imagine a situation where someone would think they had abandoned all morals causing a reverse-anger phase. Eg. Jenny cheats on 3 year relationship with Bob, with her ex Chad. Bob finds TRP and 3 years later has 7 plates. Bob becomes Chad for Sarah and fucks her on the eve of her we…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:23 AM
1

Meditate. Be aware of distractions. Achieve your goals. Don't let your dreams be dreams.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 09:44 AM
1

That money is better spent elsewhere at your age and price bracket. Go monk mode or go out and pick up. Sure it'll be harder if you aren't buff, Sounds like a good time to learn game so that you've got your training wheels off when the abs arrive.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:10 AM
1

Did you miss the part where he said "logistics only"? If the purpose of your txt isn't to arrange a face to face meeting, it's almost certainly not worth sending.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:03 AM
2

Programming is a better option than IT. If you really can't be persuaded away from IT (please, seriously, do programming) then consider mixing it with sales. If you just want to do IT tech jobs, get certified. Microsoft, Oracle, juniper, Cisco, a+, network+. Learn Linux. Don't go into debt at college just for an it job that you can get certified for online using pdfs in under a month.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:50 AM
2

Not sure why you're getting down voted. This is exactly same as "enjoy the decline". OPs only concern here should be hypergamy. He's going to have to step up his alpha on other fronts or she's going to branch swing to a guy that's not jobless.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:38 AM
2

Yeah good plan. Move to NYC because there are more 6s... How about, hit on 8s?
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:30 AM
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Basically. It's an excuse that uses the pussy pass system. It wouldn't have worked if Bill Clinton had said "I'm a terrible person" after the Lewinsky affair. But she has a pussy, and thus is entitled to your forgiveness. scoffs Edit: in your second example it's more like bait for validation. She wants you to say "No you're a lovely person". Obviously the correct response is "bitch you make Hitler look like a preschool teacher"
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:20 AM
1

My idea is good because it might help people realize where the "border area" is. How is looking at 100 pictures of physical male 7's, 8's and 9's going to make you more alpha? Once you've decided exactly which pictures make the cut for alpha and which ones are beta, will you be more attractive yourself? It's a waste of time. If you knew where the border area was, how would it help? If I showed you the picture of the exact guy who is the 20.000001% alpha, what would you do? Strive to be like him?…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 06:22 AM
2

So you want to get married so you can raise kids? You know 50% of marriages end in divorce right? Getting married is like tossing a coin to see if you will get to see your kids every day or only on weekends. Instead, have a baby, minus the marriage, write a contract guaranteeing you both 50/50 custody provided 'no fault', still have a great relationship with the mother, see the kids every day. If something goes wrong, you still pay child support, but no alimony. You still have custody, AND THE H…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:46 AM
2

Okay, did you discover the pill because a woman shat on your life or because you stumbled upon this subreddit? If the latter, wait those 10 years living a red pill life and then see how you feel about marriage. If the former, are you masochistic?
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:53 AM
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The best option is to not get married. Anyway, where do I find marriage-quality women? Especially if I am not religious, and do not intend to raise children that way. From my understanding, the few true good women that exist, usually belong to devout religious circles...I might be wrong though. Is overseas the best option? Do I just keep dating until one day I find one that is worthy? Sounds an awful lot like you are trying to change your life to find a woman... You aren't ready to even think ab…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:17 AM
2

Dread is the #1 way to get women to do what you want in a relationship. IanIronwood of /r/marriedredpill posted this to a guy who's wife cut her hair far shorter than he desired. Adjust for your situation. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/06/curse-of-mommy-bob.html Passive Dread, AM, and AA. Start introducing her to people as "My first wife." Refer to the style as "matronly" and "unfeminine". When she asks "How do you think that made me feel?" counter with "How do you think it makes me fe…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:02 AM
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Then you are wasting our time. Look at the top comment. /u/abdada is an RP genius and his word is law. Lift body weight: Top 10% Earn $92,000 or more household income a year: Top 20% Net worth over $1.2 million: Top 20% Male height over 5'11": Top 20% Erectile penis length over 5.6": Top 20% Ability to run a mile: Top 20% Facial aesthetics don't matter. Your body matters. Can your body lift its own weight? Can your body run itself a mile? Can your body sustain a 5.6" boner? Is your body 5'11" or…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:48 AM
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Nice one dumbass. Your sister posted a similar comment on the subreddit relationships. She thinks you're sexist and she isn't happy about your views. She also wants to get your parents involved. Smart move, dumbass. Say goodbye to the pussy train that younger sisters bring, say hello to awkward dinner conversation and full Metal hamsters. Next time you want to say something stupid, think first.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:19 AM
3

I'll never compromise any carreer opportunity for any girls Then why are you telling us about the girl? Obviously she is affecting the outcome of your decision. First thing you need to do is completely remove this girl from your equations. Once you've done that, you can make an objective, career based decision. Answer the question: what do I think will make me most happy in the long run?
/r/askTRP12/08/15 04:29 AM
3

Way to go dumbass. Leave out the most important detail. Anything said over txt is worth jack shit. Stop texting. That's the sort of text you ignore.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 12:28 PM
1

Mentors from theredpill? Never going to happen in person, too much risk of doxxing. Mentors in your life? Yep, go find the manliest man you can find, suck up to that motherfucker and make a friend and mentor for life.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 07:27 AM
3

Have you read blackdragon? I'd suggest giving his blog a read for some reddish pill polygamy
/r/askTRP11/08/15 07:22 AM
2

That I know of, nobody has made a list. I've seen it asked before. The way I look at it is to see how it would affect a child or if I would force it on a child, if no, it's a red flag. Drugs for example , would you force weed, coke or meth on a child? No? Red flag. Would you want your kids to have daddy issues? Would you want your kids to have divorced parents? Would your kids having tattoos be good?
/r/askTRP11/08/15 07:19 AM
2

This is a comfort test. Not a shit test. Biggest tell is that she says "will we still be together" instead of "will you still want me". If she's talking about 'we', not 'you' or 'I', it's probably a comfort test. Hug her, kiss her fatherly on the forehead and say yes. No need for drama or nonsense. Just solid reassurance. Smack her ass as she leaves the hug for good measure.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:53 AM
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Think of relationships like gamblers. She gambled and failed so miserably that she filed for bankruptcy [read:restraining order] twice. You tell me, is she the type of girl you want to put your chips in with?
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:35 AM
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You're wondering why your broken record doesn't sound like the others? Probably because it's broken. Arguably his SMV is higher than hers because her mental state is so twisted. Alternately, she's just lining up a nice beta bucks. Regardless, Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:31 AM
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This is pretty much carte blanche to escalate physically extremely fast. Kind of like gay chicken, except, you aren't gay so you aren't going to chicken. Just get right up in her face, smell her hair, whisper sweet nothings in her ear, push your chest into hers, rub your clothed crotch on her, trap her against a wall full caveman style. Get her all hot and horny then break rapport with "yep, I must be gay" and leave. Come back shortly to seal the deal.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 02:38 AM
1

Hopefully you'll get another few good years then. You get over it. The sooner, the better.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 10:40 PM
2

Does it matter? Did you get what you want?
/r/askTRP09/08/15 10:33 PM
1

Do you smoke? Stop. Speak to your Barber, get a recommendation for your skin/hair of an anti hairloss shampoo you can buy online. Look at styling your hair differently. Again, be honest with the Barber and tell him you're trying to hide the balding.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 10:32 PM
2

If you haven't been lifting consistently for 6months plus, I'd say go to the gym at least 3 times on vacation. It's not about the fitness, it's about the discipline. Otherwise it really won't make a huge difference.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 06:43 PM
2

Any girl who likes Indian dudes will think you're a fucking hard 9. Any girl who doesn't like Indian dudes doesn't matter and has am irrelevant opinion. Don't ask the lactose intolerant to judge cheese contests, they aren't going to.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 06:29 AM
1

Okay I'll expand. Firstly go read the 2 articles on shit tests in the sidebar. Then reread both. Then go on chateau Heartiste and read the article on shit tests, twice. Now read this. Treat shit tests from men no different to shit tests from women. Be aware that if a man feels that his alpha status is questioned, he may become violent. That's it, that's the only difference.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 06:25 AM
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I'm not here to Google things for you.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 06:16 AM
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Same way you deal with all shit tests. Agree and amplify. Amused mastery. Ignore. Gaslight. Pressure flip. Plenty of material on all these, do some searching. Or you can go the PUA route, in which case search for AMOG and cock blocking. PS. As a quiet guy, ignoring won't work for you, it makes you seem timid. Ignoring works best to maintain alpha status, not build it. (because you treat the person being ignored like they or their comment is beneath you, ergo it needs to actually be beneath you)
/r/askTRP06/08/15 06:13 AM
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Oh if only. My company HR department is a 24 year old single mother HB8. Every day is a test of willpower to not shit where I eat.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:43 AM
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"say please" If she does, take the bag. If she doesn't, she can take the bag herself. Being courteous isn't being beta. Being courteous to people who aren't courteous to you, typically beta.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 10:33 PM
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I wonder what she was hiding in her bag. Impeding a police investigation and possession.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 11:40 PM
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No problem. And Jessie_James is right, as soon as you 'take a break' or 'get back together' you can consider your relationship on a timer set to self destruct.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:42 AM
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Common sense says: when doing something bad, don't get caught. You just admitted that she's almost certainly going to catch you. Don't fucking do it. Better plan: install a keylogger on her computer and get the new password instead. 'Borrow' her phone when she's pre-occupied.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:22 AM
1

Wait did she actually cheat on you? If so, "GOOD FUCKING RIDDANCE SLUT. Get out of my life and stay out." This isn't really hypergamy or AWALT, this is worse. You're so beta she chose a job over you! You have a long way to go. Lift, plate, meditate.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:19 AM
4

Yes, you should stop using Tinder. No black, brown or yellow man has ever gotten laid by using Tinder. Only white men get laid on Tinder, ever.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:11 AM
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Oh and they are professionals, so she's going to do it better. And, you're paying her, which is a punishment in and of itself you naughty little man.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 06:49 AM
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After all you've read about the way women can act, do you think one who gets sexual pleasure from hurting you is going to be worth the risk? Or, perhaps, maybe you could just pay someone what their worth and have no risk.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 06:47 AM
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I'll weigh in on a couple of these. Male bisexuality : the prostate feels fucking amazing when massaged. The Greeks had anal sex named after them. If you want to fuck men, fuck men. Don't broadcast it to the world unless you want to jeopardise your career, not everyone is open minded. BDSM and related fetishes: if you want to be a male submissive, pay a professional to dominate you, female dominants are trouble at best and crazy at worst. If you want to dominate women, go nuts, TRP theory suppor…
/r/askTRP26/07/15 05:49 AM
2

Looking good only ever gets your foot in the door. The better you look the more doors are open. Some people close the door because you are short or fat or Indian. Others don't. There are millions of women on this planet, that's a lot of doors, even for a fat old Indian fuck. It's your job to find people with open doors and show them why they should let you in. Ignore the closed doors, they're saving you time anyway.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 05:16 AM
2

Yes to both your questions. But Remy is correct, there is no substitute for lifting.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:42 AM
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So really this is all a money grab and actually finding the truth doesn't matter? That explains why it doesn't just say "dear University, assist the police in their investigation"... Fucking stupid.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 07:05 AM
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Can anyone explain to me why Universities have this kind of system anyway? If a student died, would anyone expect the University to take action in the finding and discipline of the criminal? Why is it any different for sex crimes? Fucking retarded...
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:30 AM
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Because it's less likely... Same reason I'm presently not scared of lions or aliens. Go to prison, tell me how much rape scares you then.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 10:25 PM
3

Don't say anything. Let the hamster spin.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 10:08 PM
1

They're slut shaming you because by extension some woman had to be slutty so that you could be. They're jealous, they can't / haven't got laid like you do so they're mad and trying to pull you down.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:50 AM
1

Consider that learning English (or perfecting it) is part of your journey to becoming alpha. Being that English is the international language of business, I'd say it's one of the most important life skills to have. Two words I see repeatedly misspelled on this sub are 'definately' (definitely) and 'alot' (a lot). You only get one chance at a first impression; don't let spelling, grammar or a language barrier get in your way.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 04:37 AM
3

Your hair should match your face. There is no hairstyle for short people unless you go to the Barber and ask for an 'insecure'.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:05 PM
1

Friendship is a time commitment. The more time you spend on and with your friends, the better friends you become. Weekly training plus a game on weekends is why a sports league is good. Pickup volleyball (correct me if I'm wrong) has too many different faces and not enough consistency to form friendships with unless you are meeting them outside the volleyball sphere
/r/askTRP03/07/15 04:07 AM
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Sales - just gotta be selling the right thing to the right people for the right people Languages + another skill - English is the international language of business. You don't need to speak the native language well provided your English is perfect.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 03:00 AM
2

Read "when I say no I feel guilty". Standard RP literature.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:49 AM
2

To each their own but running swimming dancing and climbing are not RP fitness activities. They are hobbies. Lifting is RP fitness. Also, where's the male bonding? Where are your buddies that call you fatass even though you're 10 percent body fat? You need man friends. Edit: to be more specific on the man friends front, get involved in a men's only team sport league. Also remember that friendship is reciprocal. If you don't invite him out for a beer first, why would you expect him to reciprocate…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:41 AM
8

You think before you act. Always. Be stoic. Control your emotions.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:33 AM
1

I concur. De-stress was a euphemism for sex that even BP Jeff recognized.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:41 AM
0

"you cannot negotiate desire." Persuasion is a subset of negotiation. To persuade is to "induce (someone) to do something through reasoning or argument." Does that sound like the way an RP man gets sex? I'd love to see a FR explain how logic and reasoning work on a woman's hamster. This is why covert contracts are bad. Avoid like the plague. Prostitution is only the explicitly stated exchange of goods for sexual services. No it isn't. "Prostitution is the business or practice of engaging in sexu…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:58 AM
4

Then your pictures suck or you suck. Pick one. Also, wear shoes with a 1inch heel and an insert to raise you up at the heel. Chelsea boots work really well for this. Bitches wear makeup and high heels, you can do the same if you don't get caught. Check out Robert Downey Jr's shoes.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 03:46 AM
0

If you're getting sex by making an overt contract (I'll wash the dishes if you give me a blowjob tonight), it's prostitution. Trading sex for resources. If you are getting sex through a covert contract (I did the dishes, she should give me a blowjob tonight), it's prostitution. Trading sex for resources. If you are getting sex because you are two mutually attracted adults, it's sex. Note: if you have a covert contract, you almost certainly won't be getting that blowjob... Edit: I don't believe t…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 02:48 AM
1

This is correct. You can also anchor someone else's mental state. Brush her hair when she's happy. Repeat. Make her happy by brushing her hair. This all comes under the neurolinguistic programming subject. A very usefull and red pill tool. Use google. Chateau Hartiste has material on this, as do many other sidebar resources.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 12:33 PM
5

The Japanese have a word Kenjataimu which might be similar to what you are experiencing. If you feel that your emotional state post-orgasm is very powerful for you, use psychology to take advantage. Specifically anchoring, state shifting and meditation will get you there.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:24 AM
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Blood. My brother needs the red pill more than he knows. I don't want him to suffer a terrible marriage or divorce that I see as almost inevitable. I don't try to force the pill on him. I'd rather be there to help him pick up the pieces than get myself exiled for trying to fix something that isn't broken yet (in his eyes).
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:58 AM
1

Don't live in a small town. Cold approach. Abundance is easy if you do these.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:09 AM
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This girl will never be suitable for more than sex. You clearly haven't been around TRP long enough, you haven't read the sidebar. As such I'm not going to explain myself. She should never be more than a Fuck toy from now on. And even then, many will say she's not even worth that.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:08 AM
5

I don't intend on being monogamous. Anyone who doesn't like it, doesn't matter to me. I'm the prize. Rulers of old had marriages for land, titles, power and peace. They had mistresses and whores for pussy. If you are the king (read: high enough SMV) you can do whatever you want. Edit: Moderately famous PuA/lifecoach Adam Lyons is a real-life example. So are cults and regligions (ie. Mormonism). In both cases, what matters is that the man in question has a super high SMV.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 04:18 AM
5

Oneitis cannot be good. It is the mentality that there is only one woman for you. There is clearly more than one woman on this planet worthy of your affection. Oneitis is therefore idiotic at best. Definitely not good.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 02:28 AM
1

Any fashion event.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 01:12 AM
8

This gets down voted because it's not true. OPs ex will find a beta once she's done with the CC. She will hamster away all the problems. Nothing new to see. Move along.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 07:09 AM
2

Not a chance. Her blow jobs are a religious experience. As such, I'll keep her spinning if she keeps worshiping at my altar every Sunday night.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:13 AM
1

I have now read your definition of shit test. It's not consistent with the two I have posted that are straight out of the sidebar. I totally agree that almost all times a girl uses the logical fallacy 'begging the question' that it's a shit test. These are ridiculously easy for me to spot. Wrapping a false statement in a question isn't going to sneak by on my watch.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:38 PM
1

I don't see how these aren't shit tests. I'd appreciate if you could expand on your thinking behind it. The booty call being a shit test itself is something I hadn't considered. Had I been awake, I'd have sent "you know where to find me". The end goal for me with this specific plate is sex. Easy sex. As in, don't bother with the wine or the movie, bring more than two condoms. She will never get an upgrade, she knows this. I only give her 10 minutes attention tops between meetings. If I'm still g…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:20 PM
1

You're forgetting AWALT, specifically hypergamy. She went to a club, betas validated her, alphas hit on her, and none of them were good enough branches to swing to compared to me. Seeking a better mate is in her nature. If she didn't find a better mate, I'm the best.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:47 PM
1

You're forgetting AWALT, specifically hypergamy. She went to a club, betas validated her, alphas hit on her, and none of them were good enough branches to swing to compared to me. Seeking a better mate is in her nature. If she didn't find a better mate, I'm the best.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:44 PM
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I agree with your analysis of the mistakes. Thankfully we're here to discuss shit tests, not text game, being asertive or outcome independence. I agree that what she said is "I do not want to fuck you atm". Obviously my goal was to change that. Lack of outcome independence clearly shows through here. I disagree with your interpretation that the 'zero sex drive atm lol' comment isn't a shit test. From Illimitable men "when somebody "gives you shit" and fucks around with your head to see how you w…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:12 AM
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Great assumption. Truth is, I slept like a baby and woke up to this on my phone.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:50 AM
2

A fair analysis. I agree in regard to the first test. I wasn't outcome independent and my response could have been better. Borderline pass/fail. I've got a bad habit of being too blunt via text, this is why I keep it logistics only whenever possible. Your response suggestion also adds an element of rollplay/imagination for her to visualise/sesationalise the text into something more visceral. I need to work on that.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:48 AM
7

Her being drunk isn't new. Her begging for sex has NEVER happened before. I'm undecided on the first test, the second is a definite pass.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:21 AM
1

Money in IT, as I said, is about specialization on the technical side. If you want to stay technical, you need to get more specific qualifications. If you want to make real money, you need to make real decisions (aka, management or self employment) . Find the area you specialise in and try to find sales jobs around it. Been using a specific PBX? Find all the companies in your area who sell it and send them your resume. There are better resources than myself for advice on how to sell shit. If you…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 09:04 PM
1

The IT industry has its own qualifications that they don't teach in university; you'd want a technical Institute to teach you this. Cisco, Microsoft, Juniper, Oracle etc. These big name companies all offer certification in how to specifically use their products to the maximum potential. Being specific pays way more than being general. Your earning power starts at about $75k as entry level. This is about 1 year of study if you self teach, or 2 years if you go at the pace of an institution (who ar…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 03:14 AM
1

I love the first Twitter response is a personal attack about how he must have got his ass getting kicked by female colleague. Either feminists are once again advocating female on male violence or she's trying to make a point that The 2001 Nobel Laureate was out performed (it must be pretty easy to win if you don't even have to be the best) . What a joke.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 09:33 PM
8

If you haven't already, read Sex God Method. 100% required reading for most recovering betas
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 07:15 AM
5

"She had her first kid (by a Chad) at the tinder age of 22" Dammit OmLaLa stop being so funny.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 12:09 AM
1

If I wanted to provide proof, an overlooked conversation on someone else's phone is not how I would go about doing it. This is just, as the title suggests, a reminder that girls may not be as special as you think/feel they are. There's a pedestal in the middle of my living room and I keep the pussy there. Every day I try to chip away at the legs of the stool until one day there is no more pussy and no more pedestal. Then I can walk out of my living room and discover that the pussy was outside al…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 10:06 PM
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Of course men do. But I'm not trying to help you know if your husband is slicing someone else's turkey. I'm helping myself open my eyes to the shit that goes on in society; while I sit back and grow.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 12:06 PM
5

Fair point, but I was reading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. It's good.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:18 AM
1

I've newly found TRP and this was a good reminder that AWALT. I considered saying something to her BF but instead I laughed and just thought....AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 08:32 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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